Are any of you married or in a relationship? (Man or woman)

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  • #5911
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    This is a great example of how you can’t – REPEAT, CAN’T – teach a man s~~~ he doesn’t want to learn.
    MGTOW is a calling and not any form of convincing. Gentlemen leave this man alone. Do not answer him.

    NCook. I wish you well on your quest. If you get into a relationship or marriage and get f~~~ing destroyed in the process. I don’t give a s~~~. My efforts go to men like Ray above. He deserves it. He accepts personal responsibility even for a WOMAN”S mistakes. His wife flattend him after 12 years and he is dedicating the rest of his life to helping young guys avoid the same mistakes. He blames HIMSELF when he should NOT.

    But you will witness that , look him in the eye and tell him he “shouldn’t blame the woman”.
    Blame society. Blame marriage. Blame the whales. Blame the snails.

    When you’re this guy who got F~~~ED because he took his wife’s word for it, because she said she was “not like that”…

    /audio/awalt-all-women-are-like-that/

    .. don’t be surprised if nobody listens to you. I’m done here. Tread carefully. One wrong word to one of our members who actually WANT To know the truth and you will be canned.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #5912
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    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
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    4215

    At the same time, I just don’t think that women are totally to blame, I think it is the culture’s fault. We have a culture that is not conducive and/or beneficial to healthy relationships between people (really of any sexuality, whether they are heterosexual or homosexual)

    Women hold the upper hand. Don’t believe me? Look at slutwalk started in Toronto due to a police officer telling female students not to dress like a slut to reduce the chance of being raped. Of course it’s the culture and media behind but it’s the power of the women that does it. Without women doing the things they do then feminism would have failed.

    Many women have told me I hate women, allergic to pussy and I can’t get laid when I don’t agree. It’s the typical shaming tactic to men. I’m been going my own way technically since 1986 and I can tell you that I’ve seen a lot of bat s~~~ crazy things since I worked with the public. The men I saw were treated was mind blowing and it’s many women. It’s got worse recent than ever before. Most of these women are nothing but whores and yes many women are whores because I’ve been hit on enough times to know.

    It’s time to wake up buddy and smell the coffee.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5913
    +5
    Rock St.Eddie
    Rock St.Eddie
    Participant
    129

    GOD DAMN! I love how you don’t f~~~ around.

    #5915
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    RayBandaku
    RayBandaku
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    888

    you mentioned that you are not married. What type of bad experience you had with women ncook? You say women are not to blamed, that might be based on your limited experience(not being married). Respectfully, I have had terrible experience with women. I am man enough to say that I take responsibility for my share for marring the worst kind of women. I thought she was an angel before I married her. I spent 12 years in marriage with her treated her like a princess. I can only speak from my direct experience about women, that might give me the right to blame women for my pain a suffering, even if you disagree with me. My ex wife had no humanity. Here is some of my story, read and tell me if I should lot blame my ex wife for her actions. Be honest and tell me if I should change my opinion. I am not saying all women, but most women are like this in my view.

    “Here is my personal story as an clear example so you know why you should not get married. I have personally been though hell living with my ex wife for 12 years. I lost almost every thing that was dear to me in my divorce. It’s my bad luck that I choose the wrong women to marry. I lost most of my freedom during my 12 years with my ex wife. While I was married I could not ever play tennis with my own brother because my ex wife thought I am having too much fun without her, she was way to needy. I could not play tag football with by guy friends like I use to before marriage. I can not talk openly at parities to any one I want. She was too needy, joules and controlling. I gave her the power by wanting her pussy, I could not help it as a man at that time. I am to blame for giving her that pussy power. It’s my fault I was too pussy whipped. It took me 12 years of marriage prison sentence and loss of all my freedom to discover that I give her the pussy power. These are some of the examples in the beginning of my marriage. It gets worst as my marriage continued.
    I was sole income earner while she does what ever she wanted, because I am that typical dumb nice guy who treat’s her like a princess. Some times I think Disney movies have a lot to do with guys wanting to treat women like a princess and women take advantage of this fact. Disney movies are another topic I will talk about in my next article. Disney movies brain wash children to grow up dreaming about the false dreams that never can come true.
    Don’t make the same mistake I made. Don’t get married or live with a women, that’s how you give women the power to control and take men’s freedom and money away.
    Read on, my marriage horror story continues. I was going though hell during my marriage. Finally I said I had enough when my ex wife took a big knife and try to kill her self if I did not do what she want me to do. I know not every women would do this, I just chose the wrong women blinded false love, hot body and sex. She did a similar thing three years earlier when she went on a rampage stabbing a laptop bag and a birthday balloon 11 times. She try to throw a big suitcase from top of the stairs on to my head, luckily I ducked. She threw all the dishes in the kitchen cabinets on to the floor and broke them all in to species. I had to clean up the mess.
    I finally decided get divorced then her love turned in to pure hate just like that. Keep reading; here is the perfect reason why men should never get married. So I went to visit my parents to tell them about my divorce. When I came back after a few days, my brother gave me a letter in my hand when he picked me up from the Airport. The letter is from my ex wife, it said “don’t come home I changed the locks, find another place to live”. Just like that with out any warning. I was absolutely furious. I was thinking in my head “I f*cking pay all the bills. I make $20,000 a month in my own business; I spend $12,000 in expenses to keep her happy in a nice big house. I give her all the luxuries that she ever wanted. I own the house with her. This is how she treats me after 12 years by making me homeless over night on a cold winter New Jersey night. I immediately want to the local police station and explained the whole thing. I must say, law was never ever was on my side. The copes gave me run around like they don’t give a shut that I am homeless over night. I stayed in my younger brothers house during this horrific time. What if I had no family or friends around what would have happened? I was very angry by the f*cked up laws of our own American Government which says “All Men Are Created Equal” It’s a bunch of bull when it comes to family law. Legal system treated me like I am a bug on a wall. They do not give a crap about what I am going though. They 100% supported my ex wife all the way thought.
    I pay lot of taxes and I don’t get any protection under the current unjust family law system, it is unbelievable and all men continue to let this happen even today.
    My horror story continues. So the cops come with me two days later after I go homeless, I get my friend with me in a U-haul truck to move my stuff out of my own house. Two cops knock on the front door and my ex wife opens the door. She couldn’t even look at my face; she knows I am f*cking mad at the way she has been treating me like a bug. Cops talk to my ex and ask her, if I can take my stuff. Here answer blow my mind when my ex wife said “No I don’t want him to take any thing”. The cops said to my ex “Ray need’s his things”. My ex said “No I don’t want him to take any things, I want him to leave”. What made me really mad is that both cops turned around to me and said “She does not want me to take any thing and we can not let you take any thing according to law”. I was fuming but tried to stay calm I said “What the hell are you saying, this is my house and I paid for every thing in this house, why can’t I take what belongs to me. At the least let me take my clothes and my work computers, so can do work”. The cops came up with some bull shut law that does not exist. The cops said “She is inside the house when you came back from your trip and you were outside so we have to take your wife’s side on this”. I was mad as hell, I said to the cops that this not fare and it’s illegal and a crime. I said to the cops “How could the law take her side, is this not illegal, unfair and injustice to men?” Cops were very cold to me, they did not give a crap about me, keep in mind they are sellout men who are getting paid by the government that I paid taxes to. The cops said you have to go to the family court to figure it out. I said so “I am homeless until I talk to the judge” Cops said “Yes, you have to deal with the judge on this”. Keep this in mind that all my cloths, professional video cameras, computers, bank checks, every thing I own is in this big house and I cannot have any of it. I can’t work on my business during this whole time. I could not ever take my cloths and shoes during this cold January winter season in New Jersey.
    What I am suggesting to all my fellow men is, this stuff I suffered though is very real, not a movie. This is not a joke, how messed up and broken American marriage legal system is, when it comes to Man’s freedom and justice. Don’t ever forget after 12 year of hard work, just like that you can loose every thing you ever owned over night. She got you by the b~~~~ and you can not do any thing about it. It felt like I was innocent Jew in Hitler’s Nazi Germany left homeless on the streets. I have been though real horror and shock during my divorce.
    The depression my divorce caused me almost killed me. I don’t want you to go through this horror that’s why I am speaking out to all single men so you don’t ever get married, unless laws change. I am not against women in general but I am against marriages and unfair laws that 100% benefit women who get married and 0% benefits to men. I am asking for equal justice for both men and women but men get 0, non for men from our current marriage laws. Law only favors women 100% of the time.”

    #5918
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    At the same time, I just don’t think that women are totally to blame

    Of course they are not to blame. I don’t even want to use that word, I want it stricken from the lexicon. I expect women to hold themselves PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE. F~~~ “blame”. Right in the ass. Dry.

    Women hold the upper hand. Don’t believe me? Look at slutwalk started in Toronto due to a police officer telling female students not to dress like a slut to reduce the chance of being raped.

    That’s not called the upper hand. They are holding a bulls~~~ hand.
    Betting like they got a full house, but they are really only holding a pair of 3s.

    Busted.

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    Pretend you see a Lion cage over there. Just imagine it. There are a group of women looking at it from across the street. You decide you want to grab a piece of steak and go dancing in front of the cage. You went to EVERY store to buy the BEST piece of meat you could. You KNOW the lion can kill you. But your flirting around, and la la la waving that big and juicy steak in the air….. and the lion MAULS you.

    Now I ask you. Who’s fault would those three WOMEN say that was???

    Who would THEY say should be “blamed”?

    Would the women the blame the lion?

    Is it the lion trainers fault for not teaching it not to kill?

    Who shovel be “blamed”?

    That’s right……. YOU.

    YOU did it. YOU were stupid. YOU are an idiot. YOU did. And they would be right. Except, they don’t think a police officer of the law is right when he tells them the same f~~~ing story. The difference between a woman and a man is his ability to say “that was my f~~~ing fault. I accept personal responsibility”. When it was …… and even when it was NOT. A woman still expects a man to pay for HER mistakes. “Blame”? Who f~~~ing cares about blame.

    Blame is a woman’s game.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #5919
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    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
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    4215

    While the laws are favorable for women it’s women who are the ones who chooses to destroy men’s lives. Without women this wouldn’t happen unless she was collecting benefits from the government like welfare. These stories aren’t rare and still will continue to go on. And fighting state is useless because it’s not the state is the problem. The problem is the bankers who caused this. The politicians were bribed with money. The state in fact was to protect from all this s~~~ happening from the first place. This is why MRA are a waste of time because they try to fight feminism.

    If you want to stop these bankers stop dealing with banks, deal with credit unions and trade with precious medals.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5922
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    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
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    4215

    Sure they are bulls~~~ting but you can’t deny they have the upper hand since even since then college rape bs and Yesmeansyes bs have come about. Sure we MGTOW can see the bulls~~~ but that is not the majority of the people who sees this. Just like a poker player can bluff to win the game, a feminist can too at least in the short term. The only question is when majority of men will see the bulls~~~ with slut walk.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5924
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    While the laws are favorable for women it’s women who are the ones who chooses to destroy men’s lives

    Everyone knows that and it’s easily proven.

    EVERY divorced c~~~ collecting alimony ACTUALLY ACCEPTS the absolute maximum she could get.
    $100 million, $250 million it doesn’t f~~~ing matter.

    They will take this check until the man is DEAD.
    $7,000 in a month for chid support. $40,000 a month for alimony.

    And not one of these trash say “Homey I’m sorry it didn’t work out, but I really don’t need $7000 a month for the kid and $40,000 for myself. Here’s $10,000 back. $33,000 is plenty and more than I need this month thank you so much. And merry Christmas.”

    That would show a MINIMUM of humanity. But guess what.
    She will take ALL $256,700,642.. and 12 cents. And feel GOOD about it.

    Wanna see the laws change?

    Have one woman tell the divorce court judge: “Thank you your honor. for the $100,000,000 alimony settlement. But I don’t care what you award me, I am going be giving him $70 MILLION BACK. I will directly disobey your order And there is not a goddam thing you can do about it.”

    This would set a precedent and STRIP the state of it’s power on the spot. You can’t force her to accept the money. The whole system exists as it does because of extreme female greed and selfishness. The courts, laws, lawyers are all exploiting female nature and know that she will take every last f~~~ing crumb from the man she pretended to “love”. Women could shake and break the system. But they won’t because they are women.

    You can count on a woman’s greed and selfishness like you can be sure the sun will rise tomorrow.
    It will be as HIGH as she can dial it up. They don’t care.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #5926
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    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
    Member
    4215

    Well, I just asked because there seems to be a lot of hostility towards women here.

    WTF Do you expect?! Many men were homeless, in jail for false domestic abuse, etc. This isn’t even a rare thing it’s more common than people think. I was attack from white knights because I simply wish no longer to communicate with someone. I didn’t do anything wrong with her. She was angry c~~~ that didn’t like it when s~~~ didn’t go her own way. You know many years I was told I hated women, allergic to pussy and I couldn’t and never get laid for a long time.

    Damn right MGTOW men are hostile towards women.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5928
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    RayBandaku
    RayBandaku
    Participant
    888

    “Journey of a 1000 miles starts with the first step” All great achievements have small beginnings. MGTOW might be small now but with all our passion behind our cause we will achieve the impossible. I have just finished making 1 million dollar feature film showing how crazy women can be in stopping a man from following his own dreams based on my own personal life story. Movie is releasing world wide next year. You can see it on this link http://mgtow.link/c9vw What I am even more excited about is my next film. I am writing my next screenplay all about “Why Men Are Going Their Won Way?” It will have the most powerful stories ever seen that go against women. I don’t give a crap if the whole female world will be against me for making such a film. I am passionate about making MGTOW become a house hold name by the time I am done releasing my next film. I have not yet figured out the main title of my next film. I am so excited about expressing my personal feeling through my movies I make, I will die trying.

    #5929
    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
    Member
    4215

    This bitch wanted 6 billion in divorce settlement but she ended up getting $4.5 billion.

    That assumption, however, was inaccurate. And Elena was soon dropping litigious bombs in her petitions. She obtained a court order freezing his assets “to satisfy the monetary award that will be issued in her favor.” She wanted $6 billion — about half of his fortune at the time. Then she described her husband’s “young conquests with his friends, and other oligarchs. What followed: years of divorce wranglings that culminated this week in a $4.5 billion settlement that one lawyer calls the “most expensive divorce in history.” (Who knows if this is true? Some billionaires, if they get divorced, seal the documents. But Rupert Murdoch didn’t. His divorce cost him $1.7 billion.)

    http://mgtow.link/ddjf

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5931
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    Eric Lauder
    Eric Lauder
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    Personally, I couldn’t care less about statistics: I have my personal experiences, and I consider  direct and real experiences immensely more realiable than statistics.

    I consider a powerful MAN’s body more interesting than a female’s good body, also and above all because an handsome MAN’s body is the result of efforts in gyms when instead a female’s good body doesn’t require great efforts. A powerful MAN’s body is the masterpiece of HIS creator, a females good body is simply a gift of nature. Very different value.

    I’m not sexually attracted by handsome MAN’s bodies, I look to them as masterpieces like I can look to a great paint or sculpture by a master. I’m sexually attracted by females’ bodies just only due my biological instincts, but I’m aware that there’s not a great pleasure in f~~~ing them, and also females requires a lot of efforts in order to take a little pleasure: not a good deal.

     

    #5937
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Damn right MGTOW men are hostile towards women.

    I dunno man. Take Ray for example.The dude was financially flattened and left for DEAD. If MGTOW were “hostile” we would all be doing the same s~~~ (and worse) to women.

    MGTOW are too kind. Much too kind.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #5940
    RayBandaku
    RayBandaku
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    888

    I Agree with your words KeyMaster “MGTOW are too kind. Much too kind.”  In my view men are much nice to women, compare to women are to men and women are to other women.  Men are protector’s that in our DNA for past seven million years of man’s evolution.  We MGTOW men by nature want to protect other men/boy’s from controlling, self centered, selfish, narcissistic, bi polar, crazy, confused, ignorant, spoiled and childish women.  Men are much better at understanding, in showing compassionate, kindness, tolerance, sympathy, empathy because of this women take advantage of men, that’s what happen with my ex wife, she took advantage of my personality.  Men are not hostile towards women, we don’t care enough about women to be hostile towards them.  To MGTOW men women don’t even exist, women are irrelevant, useless, distracting, drama queens.  MGTOW men are too smart to play the game because we know game is already rigged, if we play we are guarantee to lose.  We win because we won’t wast our time, money, breath other dealing with women and their rigged game.  Women hate that MGTOW men won’t ever acknowledge their existence.  It’s irrelevant statement “Damn right MGTOW men are hostile towards women”  It’s a wast of our energy to even be hostile towards women, we spend our energy making great websites, in my case feature films/Books to support fellow men from staying away from women.  This is the only way to win the war by not going to the war.  We don’t count women in our world, women are nobody to us MGTOW, women have absolutely no value for us.  We live in a MGTOW world to help all men see the light.

    #5942
    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
    Member
    4215

    Men can be hostile but still not to go to their level. Anyways I feel MRA are way more hostile.  I think OP should try looking at AFVM.  That’s my personal experience anyways.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5950
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    Eric Lauder
    Eric Lauder
    Participant
    84

    Who is hostile towards females??? I’m not hostile towards females!!!

    I compare them to tigers:

    Do you like tigers? YES

    Do you want f~~~ tigers? NO

    Are you aware a tiger can be dangerous for you in some situations? YES

    Do you consider yourself inferior to tigers? NO

    Do you consider yourself superior to tigers? YES

    Do you think we must be human and gentle with tigers? YES

    Do you think a tiger can be your realization in life? NO

    You can replace the word “tigers” with “females” – my answers are the same.

     

    #5952
    RayBandaku
    RayBandaku
    Participant
    888

    Wow, Eric amazing analogy.  I will remember this forever.  Great way to stay way from Women by thinking about them like tigers.  Thank you for the inspiration.  I learned a new way to stay away from women forever.

    If you don’t mind I put both words together for you to see how it sounds.

    Do you like tigers/women? YES

    Do you want f~~~ tigers/women? NO

    Are you aware a tiger/women can be dangerous for you in some situations? YES

    Do you consider yourself inferior to tigers/women? NO

    Do you consider yourself superior to tigers/women? YES

    Do you think we must be human and gentle with tigers/women? YES

    Do you think a tiger/women can be your realization in life? NO

    You can replace the word “tigers” with “females” – my answers are the same.

    #5956
    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
    Member
    4215

    Well I was going to bring this up. We MGTOW talk about women way too much. If we MGTOW were truly going your own way we wouldn’t be talking about women that much other than for introduction, advice, etc. There is some hostility in MGTOW, that’s the way I see it. I rarely talk to women, I in fact haven’t spoken with any women at least in the last 3 months. No need these days since I don’t have to deal with bank tellers.

    For example not helping women when she needed help. Several men have stated that helping women isn’t a good thing. That to me is hostility. Maybe not in the extreme form. I mean what if that person was one of my family members that needed help. I once used to think the same way. But I have to honest I was hostile towards women not in the extreme. I’m not talking about working for free. I’m talking about when someone have some free time and doesn’t take too long to help out. I surely don’t see that as kindness.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5957
    Crazy Canuck
    Crazy Canuck
    Member
    4215

    Who is hostile towards females??? I’m not hostile towards females!!!

    I compare them to tigers:

    Do you like tigers? YES

    Do you want f~~~ tigers? NO

    Are you aware a tiger can be dangerous for you in some situations? YES

    Do you consider yourself inferior to tigers? NO

    Do you consider yourself superior to tigers? YES

    Do you think we must be human and gentle with tigers? YES

    Do you think a tiger can be your realization in life? NO

    You can replace the word “tigers” with “females” – my answers are the same.

    We don’t talk about tigers on a frequent basis.

    "If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

    #5958
    +1
    Zoby Two
    Zoby Two
    Participant
    83

    I am married for 8 years. I was 30.

    And believe me it was the biggest mistake I’ve ever made in all my life. I have 2 childrens.

    Fortunately, I rent my house. My wife wanted to buy our place but I refused. Mariage and kids are enough for one man.

     

    If I leave her, I will pay for both kids and she will take half of my money. I’m trapped man.

     

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