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Your suffering is real. You have more than earned the right to complain about it.
You can’t control your circumstances. The only thing you can control is how you respond to them. You still have a capacity to act, so, you can still create some good in your life and the lives of those around you. These are worthy goals, and they are still within your reach.
Hang in there. Your story isn’t over yet. There is more good in your future, if you continue to build it.
It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.
You lit a fire in me with that question eh….
I would take all the money leftover (after my dogs and me were taken care of for our lives of course) and do these things——
1. Build a home to house homeless vets and a counseling center that provided green medicine to PTSD patients.
2. Build a center to take my new dogs and train them to help disabled vets and other disabled men only.
3. Take all leftover money and figure out a way to get as many disabled men or divorced men that have alimony / child support problems that have made them homeless or near it, and get them as much money each as I could, of course cutting into monthly installments so it was not ill spent…you are my mgtow super hero my friend.got told by a few people green is good for ptsd.I have woken nieghbors recently with waking up screaming in my sleep.This thread to me is about you not our problems and i love mgtow for that.I lurked a long time before I joined and my brother i have told your story to many.I remember a post from keymaster about you.You have many people that think of you.Our kids first f~~~ money comes and goes. You a good man and beleave that in your self.You have made a difference half way around the globe.Be proud.
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
A joke i forgot to add.If you locked a woman and a dog in the boot for a day who would greet you the best.
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
The dog OF COURSE…lol..Always the dog, never the woman…so true too sir…Dogs have such a greater capacity for love than women, it isn’t even close…Thank you for such kind words brother, sure do appreciate it…Well, all I know is, if I have done anything to help anyone, that alone brings me up a lot…
As far as your PTSD, I hear you brother, I have severe PTSD, and all I can tell you is this…I have tried a couple of “their” pill selections…I even gave it some decent time in order for them to build and work…Nothing…Nothing, but freaking nasty symptoms…ugh…So I had heard that green earth medicine helped…Tried it…NEVER LOOKED BACK EVER AGAIN…No need to wait and wait and wait…INSTANT RELIEF…I am not kidding either brother…Sleep, no nightmares…NO more anxiety attacks around large crowds, or other people screaming…That was a biggie too, when I heard someone yelling, ugh, really sends me somewhere bad…Give it a try brother, I would be more than happy to guide you though a semi confusing world of green medicine…
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
I’ve been very unlucky with women. Now…I don’t date. Instead I focus on myself doing things I like doing, paying down my house, saving for retirement, buying a few toys every once in a while. Always living below my means.
No Alimony, no Child Support (I dodged that bullet). Asian women are the same as white women, just more petite.
After my divorce I bought into a business and it took off…it took a long time before I recovered financially from the divorce; but I can honestly say that I am now far better off financially than I would have been if I had stayed married. (although my portfolio is structured very differently…it is far more diverse than it had been while married). And I am less vulnerable to being financially destroyed.
OP – do this
Be nice to yourself
Live well – eat healthy, work out
Start some hobbies
Maybe buy a motorcycle or something…something not too expensive but fun.
Go MGTOW. Don’t repeat the mistakes of many men by chasing after women…you’ll only end up getting screwed over a second time.Don’t repeat the mistakes of many men by chasing after women…you’ll only end up getting screwed over a second time.
Gets my vote for Sunday Wisdom.
I chickened out, because what if my idea sucked and flopped,
Remember George McFly in Back to the Future? That’s what he used to tell himself.
“Fear of success” is as real as fear of failure.
Why have I not got ONE F~~~ING BREAK???????
In this life, NOBODY gives it to you.
You have to take it.
– Jack NicholsonI don’t totally agree with that, because I have witnessed things come too easily to the undeserving, and It applies to men more than women….. but I still like the quote, and when I find things are just not going my way, I repeat that quote to myself.
It’s true that “life’s not fair”. But with a little creativity, I have (on the rare occasion) been able to flip unfairness to work in my favor. So in a way, “life’s not fair” is a good thing.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Remember at the end of the day you and you alone are responsible for your own happiness.
Happiness isn’t some magical place you get to but rather comes and goes in spurts throughout life.
because I have witnessed things come too easily to the undeserving,
So f~~~ing many times I have seen this…SO F~~~ING MANY TIMES…And the thing that really f~~~ing kills me is HOW MUCH smarter I am than some of these F~~~ING BAZILLIONAIRE douchef~~~s….I can do mental laps around them, I S~~~ YOU NOT….I was engaged until May 2015…Her brother in law owns a pool company…He was given this company from his step-dad….NOW HE IS F~~~ING UBER RICH…And I have spent THOUSANDS of hours with this man, and cannot believe how much smarter I am, and it burns me so bad inside, because I have met his crowd and hung with them, And learned in doing so, how smart I really am, and it just doesn’t matter….They get to go on being dumb as f~~~, (well, you know what I mean, you cannot be totally stupid and stay a CEO successfully, well unless your in the BUSH family) and I go being much smarter and struggling for every god damned pea……………………..
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
because I have witnessed things come too easily to the undeserving,
So f~~~ing many times I have seen this…SO F~~~ING MANY TIMES…And the thing that really f~~~ing kills me is HOW MUCH smarter I am than some of these F~~~ING BAZILLIONAIRE douchef~~~s….I can do mental laps around them, I S~~~ YOU NOT….I was engaged until May 2015…Her brother in law owns a pool company…He was given this company from his step-dad….NOW HE IS F~~~ING UBER RICH…And I have spent THOUSANDS of hours with this man, and cannot believe how much smarter I am, and it burns me so bad inside, because I have met his crowd and hung with them, And learned in doing so, how smart I really am, and it just doesn’t matter….They get to go on being dumb as f~~~, (well, you know what I mean, you cannot be totally stupid and stay a CEO successfully, well unless your in the BUSH family) and I go being much smarter and struggling for every god damned pea……………………..
Mate I experience this all the time. I’ve even had other people say to me “you’re very intelligent, why are you doing a s~~~ty security job?” And this was coming from a rich bank manager. And I thought, ironically, “well its obvious isn’t it??? Here you are asking me a question that you could simply answer yourself. It’s because of C~~~S like YOU. I’m also never good enough to get that f~~~ing job or that opportunity, and because I didnt go to Cambridge University or Havard I’ve got no chance. It always goes to some goody two shoes c~~~ sucker ‘candidate’ who is better suited than yourself or via nepotism. Why don’t you give me a f~~~ing job then asshole?
The actual answer I gave was something like “I just don’t give a f~~~ anymore. At least in this s~~~ job I can avoid c~~~s like you”.
He wasnt too impressed, and i gave no f~~~s what so ever.
DYD agreed brother…
You see people like Angelo R. Mozilo LITERALLY F~~~ING STEAL HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF DOLLARS FROM ALL OF US, and yet!!@#&*^&*($^@@&*()
They come after me and my f~~~ing s~~~ty MEASLY disability check for student loans less than $8,000 left, THAT I WAS PAYING WITHOUT A BEAT WHILE I WAS EMPLOYED MIND YOU!@@!!!!
AND THEY LET Angelo R. Mozilo OFF THE F~~~ING HOOK…….WHAT!??!?!?!?!?!??!?!??!?!??!
My f~~~ing measly disability and measly f~~~ing student loan is MORE IMPORTANT than the f~~~ing MILLIONS HE STOLE!!!!!!!!?????????????
UGHUGHGUGHUGHGUGHUGHGUGHMen are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
They always go after the little guy as we can’t do s~~~ about it. The big boys and big corporations have lawyers and a big foothold in the world, connections and power. So thats why they get away with paying no tax etc.
I’m in debt as well, had some f~~~~~ bailiff come looking for me, some old man lmao. What exactly is he gunna do? He calls my cell fone and i spoke with him, and agreed to meet up with him. I never showed up. Suck my dick. Most of this debt was accrued from living with my first ex landwhale. I was supporting a whole family on two f~~~ing jobs and eventually it all caved in on me. Did the bitch help me out and pay for anything? Nope. And its all in my name as well.
Now, i just don’t give a f~~~ing s~~~. Send the f~~~ing CIA after me, the military, they will get NOTHING.
I hear you…I am not saying I am the smartest guy in the room, so everyone relax…I know I am not…But I was told as child, work hard, be smart and you will go far…
bulls~~~…
it was all bulls~~~….
i worked my b~~~~ off, i gave everything including my health….
i never stop trying to be more intelligent, wiser….never…..i am still digging and and asking questions…
but it was all bulls~~~…
just takes the air right out of me ya know?Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
Life doesn’t care about you or anyone. How could it? That’s a good thing. That means life isn’t actively out to get you.
Your life is the summation of chance and decisions. Your decisions.
Who precisely is responsible for your life as it stands now?
I feel you Mr. JJ. I know it feels unfair to have worked so hard and still have much less than those who did not work for much.
“I’ve worked so hard, but I’m not getting back as much” Its just aggrieved entitlement in action.
The solution is to no give a f~~~.
Just to demonstrate, a few days ago, I lost ten bucks. I was in so much despair…. and it was my hard-earned money too.
But then I changed my mindset: who cares? Is just 10 bucks…. I’d just have spent that on a Sprite; let me go home and drink some water instead.
The more you stop giving a f~~~, the more peace you will have.
I do not know how you can achieve that NFG state; that’s a question every man has to answer for himself. Bu once you do, is full bliss mode on for the rest of your life.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
So f~~~ing many times I have seen this…SO F~~~ING MANY TIMES…And the thing that really f~~~ing kills me is HOW MUCH smarter I am than some of these F~~~ING BAZILLIONAIRE douchef~~~s….I can do mental laps around them, I S~~~ YOU NOT…
I know. I can name 3 complete idiots who made many millions, and often wondered how it was f~~~ing possible. Truly as dumb as rocks.
But you know what they had in common? They were sociopaths who treated people like objects with no feeling or empathy or moral code. They would sell their own mother to make a deal… and send her C.O.D.
Did you ever see the film “Citizen Kane?”.
It’s often referred to as “the best movie ever made”.“There no trick to making a lot of money.
…. if all you want is to make a lot of money”.You will have to throw away all of your principals. And when you are at their level, you won’t even be aware that you don’t have any principals left. They are so far gone they don’t even see anything wrong with themselves – because they are successful. It’s like affirmation that they are “smarter” and must be doing something right.
In 2012 I actually had this conversation with one of them (my boss at the time) and he said “That’s right. I must be doing something right because I’m the millionaire and you’re not”.
…. and then I said “yes and crack dealers and murderers are millionaires too. Are you trying to tell me they are doing something right too?”
Not long after that conversation I told him never to contact me again and called him “an ungrateful piece of s~~~” after he tried to take advantage of my good nature. It never felt so good to flip someone off and it f~~~ed him up for weeks.
He would come in to work and say:
“What’s going on!! _______ ( insert problem here ) _______!!! We’re losing millions!”
I was smart enough to know he was completely full of s~~~ and I said “OK. If I fix it for you within an hour, will you pay me the millions that I saved you?” The f~~~ing retard just looked at me with a blank expression, because if he couldn’t manipulate someone, he was nothing.
Am I a magnet for s~~~???
…. so I understand where this question comes from, but the beauty of it is you don’t have to put up with it the moment you decide not to.
Remember when I said “life is unfair” is a GOOD thing?
Well fortunately, NOBODY is easier to manipulate — >> than a manipulator. They think they are in control of everything/everyone, and that’s their hubris.
The Clinton loss was a PERFECT example of this.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.They would sell their own mother to make a deal… and send her C.O.D.
I don’t know. Without knowing the mother, I’m going to reserve judgment on that one.
Keymaster hit the nail on the head.Empathy and compassion is something I have never lost and refuse to loose.You have that by just the way you speak of your dog.I have lost everything twice over in six year period and my bones are been polished clean.Even my reality has been rewritten of lets say a second part of my life.One of my least cares has been money.One of my friends had 2 mill and a big house and worked 16 hours a day.He know has nothing and his wife of 34 years i think threw her wedding ring at him when he had nothing left to give.He goes on about the money he lost but rarely mentioned his kids.I pionted that out to him and told him to focus on the success of his now adult kids.His adult kids don’t give a f~~~ about him and still want..purpose of what i wrote is having nothing is better because you will receive true fealings.I am glad i have nothing it shows you the true people in your life and you then are really free.
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
They were sociopaths who treated people like objects with no feeling or empathy or moral code. They would sell their own mother to make a deal
Wow Key, we must know some of the same circle brother…These men I speak of are so the same…
Did you ever see the film “Citizen Kane?”.
Oh yeah, I have seen it sir…
That’s right. I must be doing something right because I’m the millionaire and you’re not”.
Wow, the f~~~ing audacity…I heard nearly a same line from my “almost/nearly” brother in law, just a few years back on a quad trip to Kentucky…I literally turned shades of red without saying anything at all, he could see my burning, and tried to turn it into a joke, but damage was already done…He even had the b~~~~ and f~~~ing gall, to look at me and say, “You are an ungrateful p.o.s., I gave you a job and you did not even appreciate it, it tells me everything I need to know about you.”
Get this, I went to him one time, (I had just been laid off from B.of A. where I was making 6 figures for the first time in my life, of course, that was including the trillions of hours of OT I was putting in…) and asked him if I could build and run the small network he would need in his pool offices??? He had no one at the time…And instead of that, he hired me at $9 / hr to deliver thousands of pounds of pool chemicals to each store daily…And when I say thousands, let me indulge you for a moment, I MEAN TENS OF THOUSANDS OF POUNDS OF CHEMICALS EACH DELIVERY…The f~~~ing job was completely tearing my already hurting backs, knees, and hips into mush, daily….I did this job for him for 3 or 4 months, until the whole ENTIRE warehouse of chemicals had been delivered, and the job was finished…I was then forced to take on a 10$ tech job…This is the BIG opportunity he was speaking of…You wanna hear the f~~~ing kick in my teeth…He took ALL my recommendations for building the network I was going to build for him, and WHILE I AM DELIVERING HIS F~~~ING CHEMICALS, he hires a company to come in and implement the work, and keeps them on to run the network and handle tech/network support…This is the BIG opportunity I wasted..
Get this too….I happen to know for a fact this man regularly cheats on his wife…He is a f~~~ing pig without morals…But I never said anything to anyone about it, I mean it would just tear s~~~ up and no one in the family would EVER believe me over him, I mean, HE IS WEALTHY and I am just a f~~~ing pee on…UGH..just regurgitating this story takes me back to the moment he said all this s~~~ too me…ugh ugh ugh….
Anyway — I get you Key, always the best advice brother, well that and the NO F~~~S GIVEN advice as well Varun and others…
Thank you sirs — really does help…Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
We’ll always be here for you, Mr. JJ, when no one else will be.
Peace.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
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