A woman asked me out

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Its all in the body language gents, where ya rest your eyes and how your body is faced. Keep it closed, keep ya face neutral and most of em wont bother. I have a ‘resting asshole face’ so even when I’m fine and neutral feeling, people think I’m grumpy. Its brilliant. NOBODY approaches me and thats the way I like it.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[AttonParticipant]

Applejack wrote:

@STEALTHY MGTOW: Exactly. The risk of pregnancy and STD’s is VERY real. That’s why I don’t have sex. It’s not worth living with an STD for the rest of your life or (arguably) worse, getting roped in to 18+ years of slavery. All for what? A moment of pleasure?

Sex isn’t even worth all the BS of trying to court a woman. Let alone accidental pregnancy and STD’s. Birth control is 99% effective. I call BS on that. More like 75%. Now remember, you can beat the odds. That’s all you’re doing when you f~~~ 4 chicks and none of them get pregnant. I know so many people that accidentally knocked up their wives/girlfriends/flings. Beating the odds. No thanks.

Birth control when use correctly is at least 99% effective, two or more protections are a decent idea. Either way birth control does not stop the spread of stds only condoms do that and they sometimes fail.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

Abstinence works 100%

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

For the younger guys out there here’s my diatribe of my experience being very sexually active during the beginning of the sexual revolution.

As a person who had my fair share of sexual partners when I was young (a lot, OK, two somes, threesomes, moresomes, the Hollywood lifestyle), always used condoms (got sexually active just as AIDS was coming out) had genital warts I got from my ex first wife, no condoms (the high risk for cancer type, had to have multiple treatments to clear the ones you can see, still don’t know if I have ones that are flat).  I have herpes which I got from my ex 2nd wife, no condoms (I only ever had two outbreaks),  never had chlamydia, gonorrhea or syphilis.</span>

Never spread the herpes or warts to my knowledge.

The third girl I lived with I got a vasectomy immediately upon her moving in, I was 45 and she was 17 years younger than me and an ex-stripper.

I never got a girl pregnant that I wasn’t planning to, I had two wives both of whom became pregnant on the first night we tried (I’m a doctor, I knew when they were ovulating).  One had a miscarriage which 4 months later caused the end of my first marriage, the other lead within 9 months to the end of my second marriage.  He’s 18, emotionally cold, just like his mom, so I’m still paying for in terms of emotional pain, there is no upside.  I spent $300,000.00 getting shared custody of him and now he returns a phone call every 12 weeks.

So that’s my personal experience of being very sexually active for a long period of time during the sexual revolution.

 

PS: Just to ruin the post, since you guys made changes to the block quotes I keep getting these “span” html errors fyi. (An aquired html disease from frequent unprotected posting? lol)

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

Haha, I heard that “Is he gay?” too! Said by a friend of my sister after me just being polite but not hooked when she flirted. She seemed nice but had kids and was through The Wall like ten years ago. Seemed like a bad choice even before MGTOW…

[AntaresParticipant 208]

I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve clearly defined what I want to do and what I want life to be. Everything else is in my way. This includes women. I don’t mean that in self righteous way, I’m just over the whole song and dance ritual for what I consider such a lousy payoff. Because I don’t pay any attention to women, this means they have to initiate contact. I’ve gotten so good at killing conversation with them that flirting dies hard and fast. Don’t get me wrong, I love a good flirt but it requires a certain kind of wit 99% of women don’t actually have. When a woman thinks she’s a good flirt, it’s probably because she’s got huge t~~~ and guys go along with whatever stupid s~~~ she says.

I know women don’t take the rejection well, but I’m just not a good fit for them so I wish they wouldn’t. They want a mangina to pay shower them with affection and attention, and I’m just not going to do that. Asking if I’d want to get a coffee only conjures images of the completely brain dead boring conversation I’ll have, before she’ll probably flake out anyway. I can count substantial conversations I’ve enjoyed with a woman in the last few years on one hand.

If they ask if I’m gay, I just say “sure” and move on.
If they ask if I’m married, I just say “yes” and move on.
If they ask where the ring is, I say “I forgot it ” and move on.
If they ask who I’m married to, I say “freedom” and move on.

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

You did the right thing Bud!,

Bitches be crazy on all types of levels. Take Keymaster’s advice on answering them back. It throws them off to a degree they’ve never known. Then the Females know, not to f~~~ with you. And that my friend, is worth a lot!. In all honestly, Females that do approach guys most often times want to either f~~~ around with His emotions, or were dared to ask Him out from their other stupid friends.

The classic “Are you Gay”, gets me every time. The shock of Rejection to a Woman is like punching a shark in the nose. They don’t know how to react or to say anything intelligent, or quick because their main censor “I’m Pretty and He will say Yes” was just punched and kicked to the ground. That’s when Damage control locks in, and they start spewing out s~~~ words like C-3po going into a asteroid field.

PRESS THE OFF SWITCH!.

The Female mind can’t handle rejection the way You and I can. It stung at an early age, but now we’re f~~~ing immune to it like a mongoose to venom. In their entitled mind, they feel it’s some Holy Honor if a “Woman Asks you out”, and if They get rejected, you’re either “Gay” “in a relations~~~” or “Married”. They need to justify in their little minds that there has to be a reason behind the rejection.

The reality is, the Red Pills flows through your veins quite well, keep it up!.

I raise my beer to you!.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[HitmanParticipant]

use that girl then lose her ! next time maybe ? if not for sex then let her buy you some dinner !dont sweat it bro..plenty more hoes out there !

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I posted on here upthread that a woman asked me out. In talking to her on the phone twice I learned she has an out of control 17 year old throwing alcohol parties and charging $10.00 to get in, steals neighbors s~~~, she calls her ex OCD and bipolar and does not let the children spend even one night at her ex’s who lives two blocks away and who, after 5 months away from this psycho is already in a relationship.

I think I’m going to pass.

Score 1 for going my own way, 0 being a loser emotional tampon.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Well, good job sticking to your guns, man. Shame on her for not handling rejection. The same thing happened to me when I went to karaoke night. I go for the singing because I enjoy singing and I wasn’t about to pick up some used vagina, or rather a vagina that has already produced multiple children. I got asked numerous times if I was gay. I replied, “No, but what would make you think that?” I would get a reply, “Your song selection” (which, by the way was Teddy Pendergrass or Gerry Rafferty). Some women will try anything just to manipulate you or shame you into compliance.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Atton wrote:

Birth control when use correctly is at least 99% effective, two or more protections are a decent idea. Either way birth control does not stop the spread of stds only condoms do that and they sometimes fail.

I’m an example of the pill AND condom combined not working. I got an ex pregnant a couple of years ago (we had a few one night stands even after we parted). She miscarried soon after because she decided it was smart to go to a theme park with a friend of her’s and ride some rough roller coasters. She said she felt it happen on a ride and checked herself and had to leave immediately to return back home.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

@ Meagachris

Did you see her go into the bathroom with a new pregnancy test and come out with a positive one? Just asking.

…roller coaster in very early pregnancy (such as the early part of the first trimester) is probably not likely to cause a miscarriage. In early pregnancy, the placenta is at much earlier stages of development and is less likely to be affected by jarring movements. So if you are wondering whether riding a roller coaster before you knew you were pregnant may have caused your first trimester miscarriage, it probably didn’t.

http://miscarriage.about.com/od/lifestylefactors/f/rollercoaster.htm

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

So much Anger man!
Take a breath.
I like it when Girls ask me out (happens quite often now days).
I always accept and behave like I would if I was with a friend. I treat them well, but dont pay that extra attention they want.
My favorite part is when they are ready to go into bed (They usually think thats their strong suit, so no way he can cool it off then, right?).

Well guess what, I do that every time (sex for me is very overvalued when it comes to people who dont respect, care, love for…. Its only truly awesome if you do.

So, the day i meet a female who will not run for the hills when her EGO is crushed to the floor but actually finds it cool, is the day I will start to get interested in that relationship.

Here is why: Men have many times gotten EGO blows, but we have, for the most part, kept going. This is important as it shows resolve of character in continuing to follow your dreams, hopes and decisions even if not everything is perfect (thats a very important behavior in a relationship).

Also, Id like to be with someone who has NO EGO at all. Sounds impossible? Nah. Having no Ego simply means that you accept the reality of the situation, nothing more.

Ah, who am I kidding, I probably wont get into a relationship even then :D.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Awesome thread;

I can vouch for how women are absolutely unable to handle any form of rejection. A quick story.

Some months ago, while on vacation, I was being chased by this rather fat and unattractive “lady”. From the onset she made it obvious that she was willing to wax my bean – offered to go back to my room for a BJ 30 min after we first met. I was not interested, despite knowing that fat chicks always give great gummers.
So over the week, she decided that she would pursue me. Femanism at its finest. I let her. I figured, let’s see how being a chick feels. She must have bought me $500 worth of drinks and day trips in an attempt to wear me down. I strung her along – made her eat the hook, line and bait – but at the last second I would think of some way of denying her the goods.

Let me tell you, it was absolutely hilarious watching her devolve. The hamster spun so fast that the wheel broke. So sad what women have become post femanism..

To add icing to the cake, on the last night I slammed her way, way hotter, much younger sister. I am sure that caused some waves.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

Woman: “Mmmmm I can tell that you go to the gym – I love a guy who looks after himself…………..I’m a Size 20, would that be a problem?”

Me: “I don’t mean to offend, but I’m looking for somebody with a similar lifestyle to mine. I’ve been out with overweight women before and it didn’t work out for several reasons.”

Woman: “I’M NOT OVERWEIGHT – I’M CURVY!! YOU’RE SO SHALLOW, YOU CAN’T HANDLE A REAL WOMAN!!!!!” etc. etc. etc…………

[wanderingscribeParticipant 9]

A wheelchair makes it very unlikely something like this will ever happen to me. I am not good breeding stock, you see. Some men might consider this an affront to their masculine pride. For me it’s a badge of honour I’ll wear until the day I drop.

The first question I’d ask myself about anyone who’d approach me with stars in her eyes and miserably ever after on her mind is this. If she’s willing to put up with all my s~~~ (and there’s a lot), what must hers be like? At a rough guess I’d say unbearable.

A single life does not mean a solitary or a celibate one. I have many friends of both genders whose company I enjoy and, when I feel like doing the underpants Charleston, I have no shortage of professionals’ numbers in my phone. They do their jobs very well and their rates are very reasonable compared with the time, energy and will to live I’d lose if I tried to get laid for ‘free’.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

I probably would of said no also. This day and age maybe it was a play with her and her girlfriends.. You should of just said you’re MGTOW and go online and look it up to them. That’s what I’d do.

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