A woman asked me out

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

So, I was getting gas today, and went inside to get something to drink. Then, this group of girls walk in, your usual flock of females, and I heard them whispering and all that. I’m a pretty normal looking guy, but I think most guys have never ever been approached by women, that’s usually our job to go up. But one woman walked up to me and started flirting, and asked if maybe I wanted to go out sometime and if she could have my number. She wasn’t bad looking, but I don’t want any concrete relationship with a woman. I said no, that I wasn’t interested. I was polite, just as I am with most people in public. I don’t know if they all came in there with the intention of f~~~ing with me or what they expected to happen. Then she started getting pouty, and started asking s~~~ like:\

“What, do you have a girlfriend or something?” No.

“What are you, gay?” No.

“Oh, so you’re afraid to get in a relationship” No.

And then her flock started crowing, and saying oh, typical guy blah blah blah. And then, in her infinite wisdom, she decided I must be a gay virgin who’s a real bible thumper. Women always go on and on about how men can’t handle rejection, and how we need to go up and make the first move, and put our pride on the line and the women get to pick and choose and all that. And then they get horrendously indignant when you say NO. Guess what bitch? No means NO!!! Sorry your delicate little ego can’t f~~~ing handle rejection, bitch! Yeah, I must be gay if I don’t want to date you. What a narcissistic little c~~~. Yep, that’s right bitch. You’re the pinnacle of creation, how dare I say no? Because f~~~ you bitch. And all mad that she has no control over me, and I think that’s what really p~~~ed her off. Rant over, lol. But it seems that when I’m not looking for a woman, then they all start coming into my life. Seriously, all that feminist bulls~~~ no means no, and they can’t follow their own f~~~ing advice, what a bunch of hypocrites.

Anyway, has anyone else had these people come up to them? I try to avoid relationships, and I’ve been lucky because women usually don’t have the f~~~ing nerve to ask out a man, and that makes my life easier, usually they leave me alone, and society has labelled it my job to go up to them, and that has made it easy to avoid them, but jeez. She had to go act like a little child because someone told her no 🙁 cry me a river bitch 😀

 

[Anonymous 12]

Yep, women just can’t get it. They think their pussy is such a gift that if we don’t want it than we have to be gay, it’s the only thing that makes them feel better and makes sense to them. If you reacted like that after being rejected she would call the cops on you and her friends would beat you until they turned up.

[Anonymous 9]

You passed up on a guarantee lay, and she would have probably paid for everything.

No coming out of your own pocket on this one.

I understand the fear, but by going your own way doesn’t mean you have to pass on some easy tail.

That rarely happens in the states, and if you are in living in the states then you just met a rare breed my friend.

I would have added her to my roster. It’s not like I have a huge number of mates, but anytime a chick asks for my number I know she’s game.

[Anonymous 18]

I have had a friend of the girl convey the message to me that her friend likes me. Happened twice in my life so far. Both times I turned it down.  On one occasion I had heard the stories of the girl being a favorite go-to for BJ type for the jocks. Second was a self-proclaimed feminist but it was in my early 20s I didn’t know what feminist was. If anything I was the ‘you go girl” type #white-knight.

Unused testicles (by choice) I believe create an aura about a man. Lack of a woman to leech off of him and produce negative thoughts = I got my life under control, move over bitch attitude. They seem to get the aura but not the message.

Either way, good call man. You can laugh at her damaged self-esteem. It will take a few BJs or random back-seat of a Pontiac f~~~ery to get her confidence back up.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Look you were true to yourself and answered the way you wanted to and that’s all that mattered. I may have handled it differently but you handled it your own way and I give you props for shutting her down. After I divorce I may run out to get a piece just to help out but as of right now after that, I could care less if I see another woman for a long time.

 

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Anonymous wrote:

You passed up on a guarantee lay, and she would have probably paid for everything. No coming out of your own pocket on this one. I understand the fear, but by going your own way doesn’t mean you have to pass on some easy tail. That rarely happens in the states, and if you are in living in the states then you just met a rare breed my friend. I would have added her to my roster. It’s not like I have a huge number of mates, but anytime a chick asks for my number I know she’s game.

Not really, they like to f~~~ with your head. If Silverstone wasn’t interested, he wasn’t interested.  Good for him.

 

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 9]

bigboy83 wrote:

gllahone84 wrote:

You passed up on a guarantee lay, and she would have probably paid for everything. No coming out of your own pocket on this one. I understand the fear, but by going your own way doesn’t mean you have to pass on some easy tail. That rarely happens in the states, and if you are in living in the states then you just met a rare breed my friend. I would have added her to my roster. It’s not like I have a huge number of mates, but anytime a chick asks for my number I know she’s game.

Not really, they like to f~~~ with your head. If Silverstone wasn’t interested, he wasn’t interested. Good for him.

Just offering a different opinion.

Hey, I still like to f~~~ chicks, and I have no qualms about it.

Relationships and f~~~ing are completely different.

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

hey hey, I still like to get the occasional f~~~, but recently I’ve been trying to adhere to my higher self, and avoid my primal instincts if for no other reason than principle alone. I treat women how women treat me, actually to be fair, if I was being equal, I would have treated her worse than I did. But I try to look at it like I’m the woman who has all the cards, and also laugh at how distraught women become when I treat them like they treat us. Not to mention, I keep sex very casual, and don’t do that dating or marriage bulls~~~.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Gillahone84: That’s fine, sure, we all want occasional f~~~ here and there. My motto, don’t trust women until proven innocent.

Any last words? then will move on from there.

I don’t mine debates from time to time with our fellow members, good way to get to know them.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

This has happened to me on many occasions.  The bitches always flip out.  Even had the cops called on a bitch that went ape s~~~ when I told her to leave me the f~~~ alone.  She worked there at the store I was shopping at and the store manager called the cops on HER and fired her.  I’m sure he was just waiting for an excuse to fire her ass.  But I know if the manager had been a woman, she probably would have called the cops on ME.  How DARE I reject the all powerful gift of the pussy?  News flash, bitch.  I don’t want it.  Never have, never will.  It’s not worth the risk of pregnancy and STD’s.

This has become such a problem (women asking me out) that I changed the way I dress.  I used to get one woman a month or two asking me out (I don’t go to bars or anything).  Now it’s been two years and nadda.  I dress like a poor dirtbag when not at work.  It’s worth it so I don’t have to deal with their BS.  I bet one day when I reject a woman, she’ll accuse me of “rape.”  F~~~ing crazy bitches.  I want nothing to do with them.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

Few times, and unsurprisingly they all had the exact same thoughts as in your situation… pretty much in that order as well.

So much for NAWLT 😛

I haven’t gotten any good chance to do it yet… but i would like to try just replying with,
“i’m Mgtow”

Hard to find the situation to use it as random chicks don’t ask you out very often 😛

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Here is what you tell the bitch next time.

“You’re talking to me? I have to assume:
1. You’re lying
2. You want something.”

Or:

“Does this involve us getting horizontal in the next few hours? No? F~~~ off.”

Edit: I get approached from time to time. I politely refused once and 10 minutes later my buddy comes over saying “What the hell happened? You made that girl cry.” Her short, troll of a friend came over a flapped her gums trying to get an apology and I’ll let you guess how that ended.

I’m 43 and women my own age still act like retarded school girls.
T~~~: My friend likes you.
CAP: Well tell your friend to come over and talk to me. Is this a f~~~ing junior high dance?

I was talking to a girl once who DID NOT have a ring on her finger. After awhile,
T~~~: “I have to call my husband and tell him I’m having a few more drinks.”
CAP: Whoa. This is over. Totally disrespectful to your husband.
T~~~: Well f~~~ you.

On 3 occasions in the past 6 months I have turned down shots from married women who are completely shocked when I do.

You don’t worship their vag, the few gears they do have in their head grind to a halt.

Fuck this planet.

[Since2008Participant 48]

This happens to me from time to time.  Everytime it got thrown in my face, “how dare you reject me”.  Makes me really uncomfortable.  But the simple fact that all I wanted to do was walk around or enjoy the day and I get this guilt trip/anger upsets me.  “I’m going to show anger towards you because you want to enjoy your day”.  It doesn’t happen much, but if I see anything like that starting I’m quick to leave.

Imagine a store that starts yelling at it’s customers when they don’t buy anything…

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Thats very rare for woman , i get thoses kind women.but usually they are young  ones.early 18 19 20 full grow women its very rare unless they think your load

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

This almost never happens to me.  I’m pretty average looking but I’m just starting a rock band so decided to grow my hair really long.  I’m 55 and got grey early so here I am with long grey hair.  So 3 nights ago, I’m at a Lynyrd Skynyrd concert and waiting on line for a beer and this “girl” in front of me starts giving me the eye, she’s pretty cute.  Blonde, nice face perky t~~~.

Then she used her line, she negged me and said…”Why do you look so sad?”. I was not looking sad, I was just waiting on line.  So I responded, just because she was pretty cute.  Next thing you know she’s flirting, dancing around and ignoring her girlfriend.

Then we keep talking and she starts rubbing her t~~~ on me and what not.  Pretty aggressive.  When we get to the front of the line I decide to go for it and buy her a glass of wine and her girlfriend some water.

Next thing you know she’s dragging me up to the stage and wiggling all around on my dick.  Cheapest lap dance I’ve ever had.  Then she says she gives me her number by calling mine.  When I get home I see she never called me so I racked it up to a tease.

She pulls a PUA move and four days later calls me and texts me all night.  I find out she’s 5 months separated, has an 18 year old and a 17 year old and lives an hour away from me.  I have an 18 year old.

She says she’s looking for something exclusive but casual.  No problem here.  She’s cute, hasn’t hit the wall too hard and is a cheap date.  She wants to go to rock clubs instead of dinner so that’s a savings for me and at least I like rock clubs.

So I liked being asked out saved some cash and got some cheap rub a dub.  I just have to keep my head screwed on straight.  I know she’s good for a rock and roll in the hay and nothing more.

So it should be some no stings attached fun.

The only down side is now I have to talk to her.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

@STEALTHY MGTOW:  Exactly.  The risk of pregnancy and STD’s is VERY real.  That’s why I don’t have sex.  It’s not worth living with an STD for the rest of your life or (arguably) worse, getting roped in to 18+ years of slavery.  All for what?  A moment of pleasure?

Sex isn’t even worth all the BS of trying to court a woman.  Let alone accidental pregnancy and STD’s.  Birth control is 99% effective.  I call BS on that.  More like 75%.  Now remember, you can beat the odds.  That’s all you’re doing when you f~~~ 4 chicks and none of them get pregnant.  I know so many people that accidentally knocked up their wives/girlfriends/flings.  Beating the odds.  No thanks.

[Anonymous 3]

I think times have changed.

In my 20s, I was absolutely ripped. I enjoyed lifting weights and was trained by a pro lifter, who gave me routines and would talk to me every couple of weeks at least to improve my progress.

I was approached at times, girls would flirt with me, I even got catcalled, and women honked their car horns at me. Even once had a car of girls pull up to me, tell me they were tourists and pretty obviously wanted to have “fun” with me (4 girls, all pretty and young). Once I did have a guy approach me telling me the girl that was with him wanted to have sex with an American. If I’d eat at food courts at a mall, I could count on mothers in the vicinity telling their young sons to eat their vegetables to grow big and strong like that man (me). The boys would then gobble up their vegetables. A lot of this type of stuff. Sometimes I’d get free ice cream or food at fast food restaurants too.

But never once did a girl actually ask me out. Only throw me “signs” or giggle and all of that crap. Oh through college they’d also do my homework for me. Now this is from different races too, although mostly white girls. An occasional Asian.

Now of course the girls didn’t need to actually ask me out. Because there were so many other high quality guys that would.

But now? I think most of the high quality younger men are beginning to opt out, and even those that don’t want to are careful because of all this feminist rape hysteria. So women have ruined things for themselves, and now the more sexually frustrated ones are probably beginning to approach and ask men out. Probably only in a pack though, who knows if they do it solo.

I think I’m old enough that I’m safe from being asked out now. But I have zero interest in any American women or Western women at all now. I do like reading about the experiences you younger guys are having, and I will always try to give good advice. In my time things were already falling apart with older men refusing to help out younger men. I know nowadays it’s even worse.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I once had a female offer buy me drinks – this ruined the whole evening forever. She looked like a monster.
F~~s hit on me everywhere I go. WTF? I just gonna stay home now. F~~~ this s~~~

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

The only down side is now I have to talk to her.

Sometimes on the scale of life, this outweighs even the perkiest of t~~~.

I try to ask myself: Will I wish I was dead (or at the very least brain dead) the SECOND AFTER I blow my load on her face?

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[Anonymous 5]

I couldn’t care less if some t~~~ approached me in a public situation. However, the vast majority of men face the horror of some clever c~~~ targeting them as a beta provider in the workplace. As soon as one of these bitches decides she’s the one for you then there’s no escape from their lifelong hatred once they get the message you’re not interested.
“Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”,,,or one who thinks she’s been scorned.
There’s a thin line between love and hate. You’ll find this out when you won’t play their game.

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