A Tale of Two Small Businesses

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

g-mow wrote:

It is not what hurts them most.
it is what benefits YOU the most.

Not about them.
About YOU.

Fool

Thanks, I needed that.

If you get in the pen with a pig, you get dirty and the pig is happy.

Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting it to kill the other person.

Ghost. Confrontation drains your energy. And it goes somewhere. It goes to them. It just drains you and makes them stronger. Put it behind you and enjoy your newfound energy. The energy they were sucking out of you.

Order the good wine

[narrow road travelerParticipant 1680]

Some people just don’t get it. The ‘it’ being basic human dignity. It seems at times the comeuppance will never come.

It does though, on this side of eternity. When you watch the decades go by. The fear in the eyes, constantly trying to be hidden.

Their bewilderment/anger at how every arrogant person in the family. Doesn’t care about them and does horrid things to them. The stubborn refusal to introspect. It’s everyone elses fault.

People who usually respect basic human dignity. Have respect, are respected by most, and have a generally peaceful disposition.

That’s the coldest, most satisfying, and just response to them. Your own general satisfaction in valuing what’s most important to earn here.

The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

C-Pig,

I’m sorry for the recent turmoil in your family – I haven’t seen you post in a while and was worried. I was concern that you had snuck back on the plantation. 😜

On a more serious note, always take care of yourself, and those that have been loyal to you. Family, are just people that have been thrust upon us due to fate and circumstance and are not chosen.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 11]

To quote my brother in law: “Do you know why I’m doing this, because I can!”

My thugs offered to leave him a cripple. I chose not too, because a wise man once told just because you can do something does not mean you should.

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

I live in the real World

And because you clearly see life and how it impacts you, you are more able to adjust and address life’s issues in the most positive way possible. You life will always be more fulfilling than any other member of your family because you a living and not allowing others to define what your life should be.

Anonymous wrote:

I’m stuck between ghosting or letting them have it

If you interact with them you will allow them back into your life and will be subjected to their input because you want to interact with them.

You have them out of your life, continue ghosting and keep them out of it. When the time is right and you have a clear reason for letting them back in that benefits you, then by all means do so.

Cost benefit analysis CPig… Ghosting seems more beneficial at the moment.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

To quote my brother in law: “Do you know why I’m doing this, because I can!”

A quote from GregBo, “It’s your life, so live it and leave me alone.”

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 11]

GregB0 wrote:

“It’s your life, so live it and leave me alone.”

LOL!!!

I spoke with my attorney to give her the status, and she wished me luck. She once made a comment how she’s never worked with anyone like them.

GregB0, they’ve done nothing for me other than harm me financially any chance they get. I’m better off ghosting. I don’t want money, I just want to be left unharmed.

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

I just want to be left unharmed.

Check CPig. There is no reason to have them be a part of your life at the moment, so why allow them to physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually harm you? As you know, the quick answer is that you shouldn’t.

Hang tough CPig.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[GrumpyParticipant]

Sooner or later, everyone gets their comeuppance.
Just ghost and be nowhere around or linked them when it happens.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[GregB0Participant]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

Family, are just people that have been thrust upon us due to fate and circumstance and are not chosen.

Check.
—————– Quote from Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird ————–
“You can choose your friends but you sho’ can’t choose your family, an’ they’re still kin to you no matter whether you acknowledge ’em or not, and it makes you look right silly when you don’t.”
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CPig, You have acknowledged that your interacting with your family is harmful so it would be very silly to do so.

Continue fostering beneficial relationships and let the s~~~ty ones drift down the sewers of life!

―

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

@Tower: I learned I can fix nearly anything on my house.

#METOO

Anonymous wrote:

My thugs offered to leave him a cripple. I chose not too, because a wise man once told just because you can do something does not mean you should.

I agree! It’s way more fun when you break their bones yourself! I would offer to drive them somewhere then ram a tree (with your belts on) and say it was a deer they didn’t see! But make sure it’s their car!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22548]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m stuck between ghosting or letting them have it. Being they are such drama queens, ghosting will be worse for them.

Ghost them. No unnecessary drama crap in our lives. Dont feed the vultures, let them eat themselves.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

To quote my brother in law: “Do you know why I’m doing this, because I can!”

That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Let me give you another quote: “Do you know why I chose not to do this? Because I can.”

Great. Tell him he can also jump off of a 100 story building to his death, and he should do it because he can.

What a moron. Nothing good can come from any contact with a person like that.

Order the good wine

[GregB0Participant]

TaxGuy wrote:

because he can

Bet he plays Russian Roulette with a Semi-Auto pistol!

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Just ghost Cpig, you don’t need the stress, you have more important things to worry about such as growing your business.

I could hook you up with contacts only trouble is they will all be UK or Europe based.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[experiencedParticipant]

You made the right decision.
It would’ve worked well(sarcasm),if you hadn’t thought.
You’re not supposed to connect the dots/have insights/think for yourself. You’re supposed to seek their meted out approval forever.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

amputate toxic relationships (including family) with the same determination that you would amputate a gangrenous foot (before it spreads and kills the rest of you). If you have any doubts, take 90 days of zero contact and see if you miss them. If you don’t miss them, take another 90 days and see if you miss them. I got people I’ve been zero contact with for decades now… 90 days at a time. I suppose if I ever miss them, I’ll have a decision to make. But until then, I just keep buying new calendars… 😛

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 1]

I always prefer ghosting as it sends it own very special message without having to lift a finger.

It also can’t be argued or reasoned with and it prevents you from the unlikely chance of being sucked back in to the narcassists den.

When I ghost I don’t even read anything that is sent my way by my little ghost victims.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

C-pig, anytime you need something just holler brother.

Peace brothers

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

One difference between your businesses is that yours is yours and you don’t depend on anyone for your success and happiness.

She’s still a parasite depending on support to make keep her life afloat.

Your a lucky man now don’t blow it by letting toxic people into your life.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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