A Tale of Two Small Businesses

[Anonymous 11]

This is the story of a female relative of mine versus me. We both lost our jobs in 2010 and started our small businesses.

She mocked me at first saying that “only the dead wood gets cut” sounding just like her sack of s~~~ narcissistic father(He hates me too!) whose grave shall one day be p~~~ed on by yours truly. Two months later she joined me. My employer could not pay bankruptcy payments so I was redundant to the buyer upon the court ordered sale.

My Sister was recently bragging about how successful my post wall 40 something niece’s business is. We gross the same amount of money. I, however, do not have parents and in-laws who pay my $1,800 a month mortgage, car insurance for my three vehicles plus trucks, three annual trips to the North Carolina mountains, New York City, and an annual European destination. Prague is on the agenda for this Summer.

I also don’t have in-laws and parents who pay for three horses, vet bills, farriers, and training for her fat, clumsy ass to try to learn to ride a never ending saga. A yearly brand new car is delivered to her free and clear. They pay for her family health insurance and property taxes. Hell, I even forgot the annual week long cruise in the Caribbean. Her husband is a layabout lazy musician piece of s~~~ enabled by both her and his family. She is a lady of parasitical leisure.

I live in the real World where every cent I make goes to bills. Within two weeks, once two critical things pass, I am ghosting my entire family with extreme prejudice. I received more help during Hurricane Matthew from MGTOW members and friends. My family pilloried me for it. Even being twelve feet from having a pine top impale me did not stop them from attacking me.

I still can’t accept how they treated me after Hurricane Matthew so I’m a ghost.

Dear Family, go f~~~ yourselves. I’m done. Sorry dear Sister, c~~~, there is a difference between me and your daughter. I am not a parasite.

[AwakenedParticipant 35223]

Life is LIVEABLE without Toxic People regardless if you share a lil DNA.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 11]

I’m stuck between ghosting or letting them have it. Being they are such drama queens, ghosting will be worse for them.

[Anonymous 43]

ghost. do not give them the satisfaction of a confrontation

[AwakenedParticipant 35223]

Anonymous wrote:

ghosting will be worse for them.

GHOSTING WILL BE BEST FOR YOU !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

As I told you before. It is f~~~ed up that MGTOW members will help you more than family. Ghost them out brother. We all have your back.

[joetechParticipant]

I’ve always heard that family is the worst. Over the decades, I’ve seen it first hand and not just in my own family. Choose your friends wisely and make them your family. It will drive the others batty!

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

I live in the real World where every cent I make goes to bills. Within two weeks, once two critical things pass, I am ghosting my entire family with extreme prejudice.. I received more help during Hurricane Matthew from MGTOW members and friends. My family pilloried me for it. Even twelve feet from having a pine top impale me did not stop them.

I still can’t accept how the treated my after Hurricane Matthew.

Dear Family, go f~~~ yourselves. I’m done.

But how’s it feel to be the stronger? How much is that worth? I see MGTOW steel being forged in the furnaces of your soul! Give it time my beloved brother! You will become mentally invincible!

I’ve known you for 3+ years now, You’re only micro steps behind me, or passing me by micro steps!

The s~~~ keeps on coming, the knives of life keep on flying, but the basket of NFG can HOLD EVERYTHING!

So much used to eat me up inside life was totally f~~~ing miserable! But like you, it’s wasn’t me, this s~~~ is getting biblical! End times where the hearts of men will wax cold!

I just got a humbling stab from an old friend I hadn’t seen for a decade, his c~~~y bulls~~~ just got tossed in the lake of fire as far as my concern! I don’t want selfish citizens in my life!

I have few but GREAT FRIENDS! I raised the standards and moved the steaks! Birds of a feather flock together, wealth is transcendent in nature, it comes and goes, but a man’s word is forever, be it a lie or be it the truth, it’s eternal.

Why bother walking this earth with those that aren’t genuinely concerned about your well being?

I don’t get that sinking feeling in my gut anymore when I discover the truth about their friendship betrayal, be it by theft, a lie, deception, or greed. I refuse to give it a place in my mind, soul, well being, or life!

C-Pig, it’s not you! It really isn’t! Some relatives are constantly in the ring looking to battle things out that are so trivial while missing the entire picture! Like feminists with a chip on their shoulders, always looking to pick a fight and plow others under!

Bro, I’ve blown off family for the same exact reason! I’ve become hypersensitive to selfishness and narcissism and denigration of my psychological well being.

Trust me brother, I know the burn you must be feeling! As far a I’m concerned about the narcissists in any family, the shirt stays on your back!

I eat disappointment like it’s butterscotch pudding!

NFG helps me sleep like baby!

[MonkParticipant 17069]

Anonymous wrote:

Within two weeks, once two critical things pass, I am ghosting my entire family with extreme prejudice.

Do it.

You owe them nothing.

[Anonymous 11]

Tower, I will always burn over that. It’s better to ghost.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

My Sister was recently bragging about how successful my niece’s business is. We gross the same amount of money. I, however, do not have parents and in-laws who pay my $1,800 a month mortgage, car insurance for my three vehicles, three annual trips to the North Carolina mountains, New York City, and an annual European destination. Prague is on the agenda for this Summer.

My sister joined the Navy. She was given about $20k for her initial sign-on and they repeatedly lowered fitness standards to get her fat ass in as a diversity hire. She barely made it through A school and was put on a nuclear sub watching nuclear things somewhere off the coast of Bahrain (details are obviously classified). She gets back on shore and my parents buy her a new (used, but only 4-5 years old) car and drive across the country with a flatbed to deliver it to her. She snubs her nose at the gift, sells it, buys a new car, signs reenlistment papers, and burns through the 200k reup bonus like it’s nothing.

Fast forward 3 years (out of the 6 she signed on for). “Honorable” discharge (permanently barred from future reenlistment because of shenanigans she pulled when she decided she didn’t want to be in the Navy anymore).

She briefly owned 2 houses, outright. She was making serious military dosh and all her expenses were paid for. She now rents a rundown townhouse that she lives in with her 5 kids and layabout ex-Navy husband. She’s not using any of her military training–she was briefly working in animal husbandry and then decided she didn’t like it. She now works third shift monitoring factory machinery.

Everybody threw money and opportunity at her. She could have lived anywhere in the country, had almost any job she could have wanted.

Compare to me. I paid my way through college by working multiple jobs while maintaining a 17 credit hour course load. I graduated during the recession and had to work several part-time jobs because all the skilled labor in my field was getting laid off and applying down to fill the entry positions I was competing for. After 10 years in retail, I finally get a normal job where I get to actually use my degree. I get married, buy a house, buy my own car, a motorcycle, and then get divorced and lose most everything I had.

I rented a spare room from my parents. No free rides, even when I’m down on my luck. I sell the bike because I need to keep up with daycare. The car I owned outright breaks down. My parents give me a break, stop asking for rent, help me buy groceries. It’s moderately humiliating, but it’s what I have to do.

Fast forward 5 years. My student loans (about 21k) are paid off 4 years early, I have money finally in the bank, the kid is no longer in daycare. I don’t have a lazy spouse to support. I work a normal day job. I get weekends off. I don’t bring work home with me. I have an hour outside at lunch every day.

My sister is an absolute c~~~. I haven’t spoken to her in almost 15 years since she threatened to kill everyone in the house in their sleep. F~~~ sisters.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Tower, I will always burn over that. It’s better to ghost.

That’s only because it’s fresh! When it stops smoldering the ashes will be blown away! I’t like a force-field of a higher power in nature! And it’s not resentment! It’s a dash of pity for their losses! That being YOU!

What people value shows where their hearts are! It’s a clear window into the hearts of other human beings!

Judging people becomes as easy as looking through a window.

[Anonymous 11]

The healing begins with Ghosting. I’ve also had to play nice due to some soon to end legal matters which as soon as that notary stamp goes on, and my attorney gets it. I’m taking off the mask.

I should let you hear about ten minutes I recorded of my brother in law threatening me. I have a database of all the s~~~ he told me. It shut him f~~~ing down cold when he tried to extort me. He is vastly wealthier than I so he could lawyer me into bankruptcy and threatened it too. Little does he know what my thug friends will do to him which is much worse than his lawyers could ever do to me.

He is not an honorable man.

[Anonymous 12]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m stuck between ghosting or letting them have it. Being they are such drama queens, ghosting will be worse for them.

let me slap you with a trout

It is not what hurts them most.
it is what benefits YOU the most.

Not about them.
About YOU.

Fool 😉

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

It is not what hurts them most.
it is what benefits YOU the most.

Not about them.
About YOU.

Fool 😉

Thanks, I needed that.

[AwakenedParticipant 35223]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s only because it’s fresh! When it stops smoldering the ashes will be blown away!

After some TIME and DISTANCE, THEY and THEIR S~~~ will all be a distant memory from a previous almost forgotten about chapter of your life.

Moving On is YOUR BEST MEDICINE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m stuck between ghosting or letting them have it.

Ghost 100%. They will tear themselves apart from the DRAMA they CREATE.

Thus is the nature of women.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Anonymous 11]

My niece hasn’t even spoken to my Sister in three months yet the checks still flow to her.

Y’all are right they have been creating drama for 50 years amongst themselves or anyone else in their cross-hairs. The c~~~s in all our families really do not get enough air time here.

C~~~s gonna c~~~.

Thanks men, wise words from all of you.

@Tower: I learned I can fix nearly anything on my house.

[Anonymous 12]

Anytime, Pig.
Anytime.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

My niece hasn’t even spoken to my Sister in three months yet the checks still flow to her.

Y’all are right they have been creating drama for 50 years amongst themselves or anyone else in their cross-hairs. The c~~~s in all our families really do not get enough air time here.

C~~~s gonna c~~~.

Follow the cardinal rule: walk away or that yawning chasm will draw you into the event horizon and your entire world goes to s~~~.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

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