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[DkaiksterParticipant 90]

I am sorry for being this rude, but I can’t help but posting this:

Pity the Fool

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

Hey dude.

So try to net your feelings interfere.
They use that against you.
Remember when you were told women are sensitive and men are not ?
Well they’re cold as the terminator.
They don’t give a S**** about how you feel.

Which means you should do what i did.
Phase her out.
Don’t say anything. Don’t argue. Just do your thing and ignore her.
She will never disappear completely, it’s like in the movie “a beautiful mind ” !!!.
And you need to accept that she will hate you and try to make you feel bad.
Relationships don’t end well.
When you think they do, it means it’s not really over.

It will take time to sink in.
But eventually you’ll realise that this went too far for any hopes of making it work.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

They don’t give a S**** about how you feel.

…. which is also kinda funny, coming from the sex that tells us we have no feelings.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

@Cellsworth, you need to fight these urges to create excuses for her, this is what is holding you back.
I applaud you for fighting this a bit, but the first bit of your post shows that you are clearly still in mangina mode.

In order to increase your chances of success, you need to get out of this mode, and stop making up excuses for her, COLD TURKEY!
Else every time you try to get yourself to actually kick her out, you’ll just immediately think of one of your illogical excuses instead.

Here is a quick break down of what i’m reading your post.

“She told me she’s completely fine with not having anything in her name, & she completely understands why I put in for an annulment right away”
She wouldn’t have brought this up as a subject if she weren’t a gold digger.

“She (of course) cried when I really laid it on thick,”
and then you followed with some bulls~~~ excuse; There is no excuse, she cried because she wants you to feel bad for her. She wants to keep mooching off of you / your family.

“She was completely cool with the prenup even! By all accounts, she did her best to not be a mooch/parasite like most women are.”
How do you know this?
Did you see this, are you just trying to come up with more mangina excuses OR did she just tell you this and your just taking her word on it? The woman whom you caught cheating 1 month after marriage; you don’t even know if she was cheating before you got married.

Then you start to shine and show your fighting spirit again, till you recede back into your, mangina mode,
“I’m going to write her brother & let him know that she’s not going to be living with me for much longer.”
Key words, “much longer”
You might as well be saying to her brother, “I’m going to be kicking your sister out of my place… some day, could be tomorrow or it could be in 10 years”
Why would you even say this? Well, because you are looking for MORE EXCUSES, you are expecting her brother to defend her as a person, to justify her staying.

The rest is just you in denial, trying to justify being a mangina,
“OH, this guy is much more of a mangina than i am”

And lastly, you need to realize, that family is family. She is obviously in good terms with her family, so you don’t even need to bother with all of this stalling. she has her own parents, and apparently a brother as well, that’s two sources of free housing.

She has a Job, Does she make less than $500 a month? NO! Then she can go out and get her own place. I personally spend $400 a month on my living expenses, i have a room-mate that pays $750/month ( 50% of market rental rate ), which covers my mortgage interest and condo fees. $400/mo, $200/mo is on my car, $200/mo is my spending budget.
And i live in CALGARY, one of the worlds most EXPENSIVE CITIES TO LIVE IN!
She can probably find a place for $300/mo and have $200 for food, EASILY.
HELL! SHE IS A CHICK! Worst case, she can go to a bar and suck some guys dick, and that mangina will provide her with a place to stay.
Heck, there are so many manginas out there, that you can go onto kijiji / craigslist / whatever, and pull out 10 ads from desperate men just wanting to have a female room-mate, and offering FREE HOUSING!

I know what i’ve said in this post is quite harsh, but you need to see what you look like from a 3rd party’s perspective.

End it now, not later, not in an hour, not tomorrow. End it right now at this exact moment.
There are no excuses.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

Dude you need to think about yourself.

She will never be on the streets.
You could.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

Hang on a sec, you are living at your parents’ place, and they know about the cheating?  And they let her stay?

I’d either get my parents to kick her out, or move out myself, then she’s f~~~ed, your parent’s can’t possibly let her stay.

You are going through a lot, building a new house, living with your cheating ex, (you gotta call her your ex, don’t refer to her as “she”), just living with my parents would be hell.

But your new house will be finished soon, I think you are waiting for this, perhaps subconsciously, then you can:

1 Move out of your parents place,

2 Dump the ex

3 Be free to live your own way 🙂

Don’t let her move with you, that is just unacceptable.  She figured out how to f~~~ things up, now let her figure out how to live with it.

Otherwise you’re f~~~ing it up for yourself, and you’ll be the one figuring out how to live with that, guaranteed.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[BeardedOneParticipant 57]

I did it — finally. And holy s~~~ has she pulled out the guilt. Crying, pleading, & even offering to pay rent at the new place. I called her out on all of it. *My ex* makes just under $1,100/mo, & she could obviously do better if she’d look around a bit. She just called from work & tried to guilt me more! This is going to be tough, but I’m not giving in. Luckily, I’m currently working nights so I’m able to sleep & avoid her for most of the day.

I’ll be moving out pretty soon. The builder just has to get the certificate of occupancy to me & my mortgage guy can close in a couple days. I’m thinking I’m probably going to have to leave my parent’s to get away from her. If I stay, she’ll stay, & she’ll know when I’m starting to move & raise holy hell. Then she’ll figure out where to go herself. I’ve just become so used to figuring everything out for both of us. She’ll survive.

 

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Good on you, man. And here I was beginning to think you were just trolling to upset us! You’ve taken your first step into a larger and better world. Now when she whines and begs and pleads, you’ll be hearing what she’s really saying… not that she’s desperate to get YOU back, but rather that she’s desperate to get you to keep carrying her on your back.

Be strong and let her words and actions sink in and harden your heart against the grasping and manipulation.

[ShadowerParticipant 16]

Bravo my man. Lesson learned here. Girl cheats on you, drop said girl like a rock. INSTANTLY.

Give women an inch, and they will bulldoze through a mile.

 

[BeardedOneParticipant 57]

Thanks a lot, guys. I’ll be back to give an update. I seriously never talk to anyone about anything, so this feels pretty good. I really appreciate it — even the the brutal bluntness of you assholes haha.

 

-C

[BeardedOneParticipant 57]

She’s hanging with convict again. Can’t lie, it stings — a lot. I just found out that he’s selling pills & making counterfeit money! Lmao, I am not making this s~~~ up. It’s going to take some time, but I’m thinking I can get full custody with how stupid she’s being.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Just a thought: if she is in prison, they probably will award you custody of the children.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BeardedOneParticipant 57]

I went ahead & made a tip to the FBI. We’ll see where it goes (probably no where). I doubt she would risk implicating herself. This guy comes from a family of criminals. It’s truly staggering how scummy these people are. It’s like out of a movie. Actually, before all of this happened, his mother was staying at my ex’s mother’s house. I would go over sometimes & she would basically eye f~~~ me. She used to “poke” me on facebook as a kind of hint, but I always ignored it because I was a loyal moron. Now that I think about it, I’m thinking f~~~ing this bitch’s brains out could the rush I need to push me past all of this. What a way to say f~~~ you. I might even be able to f~~~ my ex’s mother! Lmfao. She’s a complete slut, too! At the same time, I don’t want to bring my ex’s wrath in the form of child support on me. For now, she’s claiming she has no intentions & wants to work custody out between us (yeah, we’ll see). That definitely won’t be the case if she keep bringing my kid around trash.

Man, I wish I had a fellow MGTOW to roll with in my area. For whatever reason, I get the feeling most of you are either in Canada, or just somewhere else. It’s understandably a rule to not give away contact info, but I’m pretty sure saying that I live in SW Florida wouldn’t be? Anyways, pretty much the only real friend that’s survived the length of my relationship with this whore just jumped into another relationship after he was also cheated on! I guess my current plan is to just get moved & start getting in better shape. I need to get out there & rail bitches. My employer provides me with a gym membership, so I guess it’s time to start using it.

-C

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

Congratulations you did the right thing.

Now GATHER EVIDENCE

Pictures, sreenshots, messages, phone calls, record conversastions where she admits she had an affair,
have a private investigator follow her and take pictures or evidence especially if drugs are involved.

Ask for an anulment, restraining order from the ex-con, divorce and custody.
Don’t wait. The faster you do it, the least prepared her family will be.
Also, the more you wait the more you’ll look like the home wrecker.
If you leave now, it’s clear that it’s for a very good reason.

Don’t talk to anyone you know about it except your lawyer.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Don’t bother with the ex’s mother… this kind of revenge will just infuriate her and provoke to attack. What you want is for her to feel like she’s already got you so she’ll let down her guard and continue to do stupid things that you can pin her to the wall for in court.

From this point forward you’ve got to keep your ass clean and be a model citizen… and f~~~ing someone’s mom doesn’t fit that bill. Sure, it might be fun and get her goat in the short term, but you’re thinking long term now.

[DkaiksterParticipant 90]

I pity the FOOL…. the one who tried to f~~~ with cellsworth! MGTOW ftw.

[liventhedreamParticipant 42]

Wow, dude they sound like straight up trailer trash (and I lived in a park or to). You are much better off.

It is crazy though, think about this. She listed all the things she could start doing for you once you dropped the gauntlet.  This is how you know without a doubt she was a scumbag just using you because if a person really loved you they would have wanted to keep all that s~~~ as far away from you as possible. I would think if the person loved you that much they would simply leave themselves of pure sentiment and human kindness.

Seriously, think of that anytime you have doubts (which you probably will knowing how life works). Stay strong , seriously you are better off alone. I know that sounds cold, but that’s the truth. And you will thank yourself 1 year latter, guaranteed. You have made the right move!

 

[BeardedOneParticipant 57]

Ok, I could get plenty of proof. I just don’t know if it’s usable in court. I know how to get into smart phones & pull recordings, texts, pictures ect. I’m pretty sure that’s illegal though (unless you’re the NSA of course). I wonder how expensive a private investigator is? It sucks, because I’m currently throwing everything I have to make a 20% down payment on this house. I won’t really be able to do anything for almost a month. It might be smart to let them get comfortable & let them get in the habit of making bad choices. *Unfortunately, I did tell her that if she brings my kid into it, I will go after custody.* Looking back, that was very stupid to say. Still, they’re both pretty idiotic, so they’ll most likely be f~~~ing up left & right soon. I’m really worried though, because she didn’t even bother going into work today. She just went to hang out with her trashy criminal. So, now she doesn’t have a job. Is that a positive thing for me, or a negative since she could probably go after child support? I’m sure her boss will tell them she just didn’t even bother to show up.

Meanwhile, I’m on a f~~~ing roll with my diet/exercise. I ate minimally & healthy, & biked 7 miles in 40 minutes. In the morning I’m hitting the gym & throughout the week. I currently weigh 250lbs & I’m looking to get down to 200 with a bit more muscle, too. I realized if I’m going to get through this as calmly as possible (emotionally), I have to fight it — basically with brute force. Staying busy will also help me stay calm & get into evidence collection mode. I could really use some advice with traversing through all of this. I needz muh bros.

-C

[BeardedOneParticipant 57]

By the way, I did put in for an annulment, & she hasn’t even bothered to respond to the petition she was served with by an officer. Her 20 days to respond are up tomorrow I believe. I’m pretty sure this means she instantly loses the case? We’ll still have to go to court before a judge, so who knows — she may try denying my allegations of cheating & sluttery. Hopefully her failure to respond will just instantly make my case.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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