34 vs 68 – how to bang a GILF

Hi guys!
(interesting activity shift due to time zones)

Anonymous wrote:

If it isn’t easy and honest and real it’s just not worth it.
I would rather be alone.

No relationship with a woman is truly honest. Hence many Men just say “NO”.
That being said, every relationship is based on exchange. This one certainly is – i am just making sure i get my share.
Every exchange with another human bears risks, they are higher with women. To minimize/mitigate Risk, i adapt my life structure and behavior accordingly.

PistolPete wrote:

I go for insane as an option. OR the entire story is faked.

Insanity is the repetition of same activity under same circumstances and expecting a different outcome.
– Activity is same or similar
– Circumstances are, as you surely admit WAY WAY OUT THERE IN LALA LAND, and besides many social norms.
– The outcome aimed for as well as the result achieved is not what i experienced in many other Relationships before. Not aiming for anything besides good times.

Keymaster wrote:

Frankly I don’t know how you can “bang” a GILF. 68 is dusty cooch.

Personally, married women are out – at any age – or no other reason than respect for her husband. Too many single/horny women in the world to bang another man’s wife.

Exactly that is the… shall we say “appeal” of this particular woman.
– Way past Kids age. no risk. no drama.
– Better Sex: Now this one WILL be hard to believe. I get that. But the Sex is better than the Starfish kind i saw in my twenties. Not dusty cooch at all. [and i estimate the Sex and intimacy part to be at least half the content of this relationship]
– her behavior is legally wrong, while i am breaking no laws. Position of Power.
– Important: as long as she is in the “GF/Lover” position, i am assured i won´t put a younger, hotter, more dangerous woman in that Seat. Fleshlight and Mangas… not my kind of thing just yet.

Keymaster wrote:

I won’t even speak to married EX on the phone, or meet her “for lunch for old times sake” , and emails are just “looks like rain”.

In general me neither. One chance per chick per lifetime as they say.

Keymaster wrote:

I did it once. I met a married ( and pregnant! ) EX for lunch once and I won’t do it again. She wanted to get together “to get away from” her first kid for an afternoon while her husband was at work, and when she put it to me like that, I told her to go be a mother an a wife. Bed. Made. Lie.

Never had an Ex with a Kid, but one of my Exes came back for a night shortly after breakup time: “Its been too long since i had your dick in my mouth”.
Still makes me shake my head today.
The dumb Stuff i did…

Keymaster wrote:

Where is the appeal in being the stunt double? He takes care of her and the kids? Then she should be sleeping with HIM. She doesn’t want to? She’s “unfulfilled”? Too f~~~in’ bad. I’m not married for a REASON.

when they were young some 30 years ago, He took care of the money part, she looked after animals and Kids. Now at near 80, he runs a shop that costs him money and burns his lifes´savings . He does not know anything else.
Dude lives in the past.

She is married because she cannot make up her mind on what she wants, plus if she could, at age 68, after 40 years of being married, she is too weak in will to start a new life.

She exposed to the old Social pressures, vulnerable to other people´s opinions, vulnerable to the opinions of her kids who are now between 35 and 45, Friends, her on parents who are now 90+, and very much aware of what kind of a C~~~ life she has lived.

She knows if she divorces, there is no monkey-branch to branch out to. Certainly not me…
She knows if she divorces, she might just take a long walk off a short pier – because litterally EVERYONE will just abandon her.

If she divorces, she must at the same time become selfsufficient, develop a NFG attitude and be willing to live alone for the rest of her life.

There is one important point you make, and i would like to pick it up:
where is the respect for her husband?
There is none.
– cheated on during their youth, 50% of the kids not his.
– 25 years ago abandoned his friends and family in order to stay married to his cheating Wife, while everybody said “dump the bitch”

He does not have any respect for himself, never had.
So he is not even on my mind more than necessary.

And yes, i accept the Artillery shells that head my way…
Shaming and insults do very little for me.

Jackinov wrote:

While of course you can post anything you want, this isn’t a PUA website were you go to brag about you latest hookup. I’m sure you understand that.

I would insist you read the OP.
5 years.
Mechanisms of control.
How is that “hook up culture” ?
If anything, it is relationship culture, Thinking ahead and creating the conditions to stay atop of a relationship. Atop of life.
Plus i specifically sai this is not Brgging…

I say this without pride or shame, just a description of what works for me.

The point is: Control the Circumstances, Set Limits, Enforce the limits, be ready to End the deal/relationship at a moments notice with a favorable outcome.

how else can i describe it…
“My way or the high way”

That is the only way i see to have any woman in my life. Gun in her face, virtually.

I absolutely am.

What about it can not be serious?
What am i doing badly?
go on, tell me, i´ll listen.

Point taken that the Title is poorly chosen. nothing i can do now.

Would HE be better off? I have my doubts from what i hear as well as observe.
Would SHE be better off? From her acts, she seems to disagree, and who else is better placed to give the answer than herself…?

BUT… in the great spirit of not caring about others, caring for my own base needs and wishes…
Their Life together is none of my concern.

I get what i want, and make sure it happens in a manner that is acceptable.
To me.

Nothing justifies my actions.

There is no need for justification or explanation.
To whom?

Once more, and that is the piece of advice i extract from this “mess” and offer as “take it or leave it”
I get what i want, and make sure it happens in a manner that is acceptable.
To me.

It is interesting that this does not ring home with some of you.
Its all about age difference and cheating, morals and ethics and whatnot.
How come?

Nothing is right, unless it is right for ME.

Housing:
make sure I get my money´s worth and read the contract twice before I sign.
Work:
Make sure I get my effort´s and time´s worth, and make sure the agreements are legal.
Relation”s~~~”:
[Just because she is a Cheat, i am a bad guy, even though] i apply the same principle of getting my efforts worth and making sure i cover my ass.

Same principle.

How is that different to all other women… they are all cheats and whores on a level or another.
It is being said and repeated so often.
How come, can you tell me what Irks some of yall?

I accept that she is a whore. They all are. It is true. At least this one is honest about it to me.
Her man knew 25 years ago, he knows now. His choice to kick her to the curb, or apparently… not.

Criticism can be understood and must be accepted from those men who have been cheated on.
Those who never saw it coming Those that did and ignored the signs.
Those who cohabitate(d), marrie(d) and ignored the signs.
They might have a swing at me banging a married woman based on how they feel towards the subject.

But here i am not breaking anything.
She is not kicking him out of HER house. Nothing changes for him. He knows who she is.
Kids are our of the picture and have been for 5 years. Nothing changes. Except two years ago she confessed to him. her Choice.

Which leads me to the last point for today:
One can despise me for what i do, because i actively take advantage of a situation, and am, in certain ways, reversing the paradigm.

women are despicable because they are whores and cheats
g-mow is despicable because he takes advantage of that?

True!
but: G-mow has been going his own way for a decade now, and has, in certain areas of his life, learned to apply NFG.
That asshole has no morals, no ethics, no honor and no spine. (bring on the insults…)

over to you.