34 vs 68 – how to bang a GILF

Definitions First – courtesy of the Urban dictionary…

Control, Control, Control.
Hover the Sword of Damocles over her head, and be ready to resume life without her at a whim.

Hi Guys.
Time to let one rip and get some proper ridicule from the local MGTOW Crowd.
Special shoutout to Old Sage and Meister for their little provocation in

this thread

Let me share the story on how i make my “Thing” work.
I say this without pride or shame, just a description of what works for me.

So first off, the woman:
– 68 year old, thin, mentally and physically fit woman of 6ft8in;130 pounds
– does not smoke, does not drink, does yoga and fitness.
– Her History includes 4 Kids (oldest 43, youngest 35).
– Two of these are not her husbands, as he found out 3 years ago (he was 76 then, heads towards 79)
– Their marriage is founded on “i need a man to take care of me and the kids” but the relationshiphas been dead for a decade at least.
– Has worked 20 Years out of the necessary 40 to get a proper pension. Beta Bux brought home the money, she took care of the Geese, Horses kids and Dogs

Development:

Met her in Spring 2011 when i got my dog, bumped into her during my walks.
Exchange of numbers, messages, and we met up frequently to walk the dogs and enjoy each other´s company.
I was a friend and an emotional tampon. Husband controlled the money. Jealous because she has a history of cheating that he is aware of.
We spend time together walking the Dogs at least an hour a day.

December 2011
tension grows, we hold hands and 29 year old horny me is in heaven.
Soon we bang like rabbits, and its actually damn good action.
Initial trouble to get in is an indicator that she is indeed sexually inactive.

Summer 2012
A fallout between her and her husband “i want a divorce” but guilt makes her abandon her plans.
Truth about half the kids not being his. nasty.
I fuel the discussion and the fights because i want him gone and move in with her, and lease my own apartment, thereby making extra cash.
I also want to bend her over every piece of furniture she has, anytime i want, call her any time i want and stop being the Toy-boy.
She officially retires on a less than minimal wage pension.

Fall 2012
Frustrated by the never ending nagging about money being tight, i push her on the job market as a nanny.
I also become more aware of the red Pills she feeds me.
She accepts a half time(for tax purposes) position caring for 4 babies but really works 75% + weekends/late evenings when her Employer wants to go out with his wife.

Winter 2012
The divorce negotiations crash. no divorce, she chickens out.
Somewhat taken aback, i “accept my position” and repeatedly make clear that my involvement in her life will be limited. We go on short Trips out into the woods, visit cities around Europe and ruin hotel bedding.
Damn… she is a good f~~~… chemistry is awesome, and we share opinions, common points and dark humor.
I am ALWAYS her guest, she gives me the CC or the cash to pay the bills , so it does not look like i am a Callboy.

2013-2015
Steady going, she actually supports me and fixes two financial screw-ups i made out of her own pocket.
Is supportive and present in times of unemployment and fear. Brings food and teaches me the basics of gardening.
She is, and i am not ashamed of saying this, the first woman ever who actually tries to make my life better, no questions asked.
I continue to press for a separation at least, if a divorce is not an option.

All is well, Except she is a cheat and a liar, and i never forget who she is and who i am to her.

2016
Red Pill strikes hard.
-Video taping my Apartment, every encounter. Multiple backups to NAS, Cloud and Tape, weekly rotations.
-Notary informed about these proceedings, in case “something happens”
-Lessons in local law, discussing recent court cases on the subject of divorce, Cheating men and women with a family lawyer
-Backing up text messages and e-mails, love letters…
-Knowing where her kids live and work
-Knowing where her Husband has his shop. (that he refuses to give up even though it would be wiser to)
-Regular mandatory STD tests. The first one had me sweating.
-Insisting i have a key to her house.
-And telling her about the basics of MGTOW.
-Running sessions and some lifting to get rid of some blubber and ease physical dominance.
and for the dopamine rush 😛

2017 Unc~~~?
At this stage she is still pleasant in her words and her actions.
Pleasant company, Weekly sweaty sex sessions (or not – when i am not in the mood for a reason or another) and i only need to snap my fingers to have her in a support position.
She is getting a bit whiny though, about age, being taken care of etc… I enjoy giving her a broadside of Red pill arguments and watch her arguments crumble under the weight of the red pill delivered by MGTOW

Services she provides:
– Grocery shopping
– Taxi services (have no car nor licence, always managed to get by without)
– Paying the Dog´s vet bills & Food
– Taking me on trips around Europe
– Cuts my hair
– Shows red flags for me to detect and keep me on the edge
– Keeps my b~~~~ drained and reduces the risk of chasing other girls to Zero.

Services i provide
– Listening and advising (emotional Tampon, providing alternative opinions, calling her out on femals BS)
– keeping her motivated to stay in the workforce (so her Hubby does not need to pay for her scrawny ass)
– first line tech support on IT and mechanical/Car matters (i actually like that s~~~, and share an interest of her car being in tiptop shape when she drives me around the country)

Services we render to each other
– cuddling and kissing
– exhausting sex sessions

Additional measures i took to keep her at an Arms length

– She has no way into my apartment building, no key.
– Has no financial powers, not even information about how much i make. Nada. Zilch. Njet.
– Is emotionally dependent on me, as my male advice is often spot-on in verious situations, unlike female advice she once seeked from her girlfriends.
– I lock all rooms except Hallway, Bedroom and small bathroom
– Never leave her unattended for more than a few seconds
– Before each visit, tour the Apartment and accessible areas. Remove what could be Objects quickly turned into weapons. No Biggie, as i have the neat lifestyle of a bachelor.
– No more sharing of food. I got so good at cooking, i prefer mine over hers. although i regret her baking skills. Nothing like Grandma´s cookies.
– Inform her that i am set up to leak her affair back to her family.

So my advice for Men in a relationship is based on my experience:

1) retain autonomy, remain independent of her. Own your life, be sovereign. no cohabitation and all that
2) Set limits, define what is a go, what is a nogo
3) Be in charge – express your demands and conditions
4) Enforce those limits through pressure, no-contact time, sending her home if she is unpleasant.
5) Be ready to nuke her world from Orbit

Summa Summum:
We bang each other silly, and through control, pressure, dependency and a big red button I keep her around, yet at an arms length.

Over to you.