"You're nice"/"You seem nice"

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

You seem nice really means your boring.

You are nice, a future reference to the ever laughable “Let’s just Be Friends.”

 

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

After I split from my wife I started to use POF while I was still blue pill and used to get this a lot.  They obviously saw me as a Beta orbiter while they were looking for the rich, Brad Pitt lookalike they all thought they deserved while bringing nothing to the table.

Funny thing is, a year or so later and every now and again I get a Facebook friends request from one of them.  I guess they have realised the Rich, Brad Pitt lookalike isn’t going to turn up so are now going through the list of previous guys in the hope they can find a provider.  Now that I am Red Pill I realise the last thing you want to be is friends with a woman you are not f~~~ing so I just delete them all.

Once I had turned Red Pill and really stopped giving a s~~~ about any of the women I met on POF I never heard those words again and I could not get rid of them.  Virtually every single one would sleep with me on a first date, whereas before I would get the “You seem nice” bulls~~~.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Nothing says classy like the public bathroom selfie. Meanwhile, you better not be watching reruns of Beavis and Butthead. That is not classy.

Fuck this planet.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

“You’re nice.” = “You’re a complete loser.  I’ll keep you in reserve in case I run out of bad boys to ride the carousel with and the batteries in my sex toys are dead.”

 

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

– Deleted on Request – wrote:

“You’re nice.” = “You’re a complete loser.  I’ll keep you in reserve in case I run out of bad boys to ride the carousel with and the batteries in my sex toys are dead.”

That.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nice

Something you say to the guy you DON’T wanna f~~~

Hey, you’re a nice guy…. but….

Here is another one (wow – someone’s butt-hurt – I’ve never seen a longer urbandictionary entry yet!)

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nice+guy

A young male who will give up countless hours of his time listening to the problems of his very attractive female friends because they need someone to talk to about their apathetic, Baywatch jock of a boyfriend because no one else will listen or genuinely care. Although always surrounded by beautiful girls the nice guy can’t get a girlfriend or even facilitate the alleviation of certain “drives” because his “ordinary” physical appearance will forever be compared to the Baywatch beach bum’s. The nice guy would never capitalize on a vulnerable girl, objectify or cheat on a girl, he will go out of his way and bend over backwards to help his “friends” and will never ask for anything in return but no matter how intelligent, understanding, humorous, compassionate, trusting or loyal the nice guy is the female cohort will always pass him up and endure any length of abuse, objectification, apathy and cold-heartedness from a man if he has physical attractiveness, fashion, big muscles and chiseled facial features.The nice guy will eventually realize that his dependability and empathy will never be appreciated and all his friendships with females are all one-sided. This coupled with years of watching girls go for tanned, muscular jerk-offs with nice cars while he desperately hopes someone will realize that how viable he actually is will spawn and incubate the nice guy’s insecurities and he will eventually abandon his views, dumb-down his speech, take-up weight-lifting and switch majors from cancer research with a minor in theoretical physics to playground management so he can devote his time to emulating Baywatch characters and football players so that he will one day be viewed as more than a “nice guy.”

The nice guy will eventually work up the courage to ask out his attractive female friend but will invariably be turned down because she’s so self-centered that she’d never actually had a smidgeon of compassion for the nice guy’s feelings or even realized that he’s interested in girls. After rejecting the nice guy, the girl will downplay the supposed friendship to the point where they never speak again, which in turn will make the nice guy depressed (ironically, he won’t have anyone to talk to) because he’s devoted so much time and energy and has become so warped from being exposed to these kinds of people that he will either live the rest of his life alone in a tiny apartment, jerking off to old Saved by the Bell episodes or get drunk one night and impregnate a 300-pound, cross-eyed derelict who works at Wendy’s and spend the rest of his life being treated like s~~~.The whole ‘nice guy’ phenomenon really supports the idea that people primarily care about physical appearances and that shrewdness, selfishness and narcissism will always triumph over compassion, rapport and “inner beauty.”

“Jeez Patrick, I hope I can find a nice guy like you someday.”
“Well, if you need me I’ll be at home, crying myself to sleep while masturbating to the sound of my 70-year-old neighbors having sex…I might also play some ps2.”

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

: You seem nice.
: Shows what you know…

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Lol.  Do you have an app?

Haha, I wish I would 😀

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Cap285 wrote:

Look at this pretentious t~~~s idea of a first date: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=8124276%5B/quote%5D

Lmao, nearly sounds like you have to prepare a check-list to see if you meet her requirements.

Is this a date or a job interview? Really, lmao

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 12]

@Mango- Not allowing me to quote again so will do it this way.

God bless her trying oh so hard to still appear attractive and young especially as she is probably past 50 regardless of what her profile age says. The second photo sees  her with so much foundation on that she looks more like a robot.

Her idea of adventure is not ordering Chicken Teriyaki at a Japanese restaurant?

“You know when to swallow pride, grab me, and fight for it. An emotionally available man who does’nt acquiece because it’s easier than confrontation has a spot beside me.”

Female double talk alert! She also can’t spell acquiesce which is sad because neither can I but spell check fixed that. She goes on to say that holding her hand in public and kissing her is a “have to” because she likes passion. Clearly she doesn’t quite understand how passion works if she is laying down laws like this.

The serious red flag for me though was when she said a first date would include lots of alcohol and talking. I am only a very moderate drinker and I don’t like the idea of getting drunk around a woman I barely know or for that matter her getting drunk around me. False rape allegations happen that way.

[BloodyNineParticipant 87]

If it were real life and not online, that is keyword for getting friendzoned.

You need to alter your game as to not appear “nice” but witty/interesting/mysterious. She’ll be deep throating your junk like a fat girl with a popsicle.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

SHE: You seem nice.
HE: Shows what you know…

Good one.

Last night I got my hands on a “for your consideration” copy of Jurassic World. Just about doubled over laughing. There is a scene where one of the tech guys comes in to give his rather nerdy & awkward looking coworker a kiss…. and she blurts out the classic “I have a boyfriend”. They are f~~~ing writing “friend zoning” into movies now. And he’s just standing there with egg on his face not saying anything.

I wanted him so badly to say: “You do? You have a BOY-friend?? Gosh, that’s adorable. Let me know when you’re ready for a MAN.”

But of course they have to perpetuate this “You’re nice”/”You seem nice” friend-zone rejection s~~~ into movie scripts with the most pathetic “I have a boyfriend” line. Who writes that s~~~? She wasn’t even a SIX!!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

Victor wrote:

What the f~~~ does it mean…????

Everyone has said so many wise words on the brutal “You’re nice”/”You seem nice” brush off technique. I’m having trouble figuring out how even a hamster wheel can come up with that paradox.

To distill it:

“You’re nice”/”You seem nice” = “You’ve a snowball’s chance in Hell!”

You’d have a snowball’s chance in Hell even if she took a shining to you too. Either way we’re f~~~ed which are great reasons to MGTOW it considering the current environment . Need some t~~~ pay a hooker….

[Anonymous 42]

I’m not only seemingly nice; I AM NICE! And I’m keeping it that way! Hamsters be damned, dirty hands off, I’m reserved to a life of sanity, not gynocentric misery!

you’re nice, you seem nice…

…………………….

where are you going?

…………………….

Creep!

………………….. <thinking to himself> life’s been great since MGTOW! Now who’s the creep?

 

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Even if the women are decent looking, their choice of profile pics almost always turns me off:

Pic drunk and holding a drink at: Bar, Party, BBQ, Boat, Wine Tasting.

Pic where she is all dressed up, and the ex is cropped out of the picture.

Pic where all of her kids and her have all there faces squeezed together.

Pic of Bathroom Slefie

Pic of Car Selfie

etc…

^^All are warning signs.  If they are all the intellectual and classy people that they claim, why don’t they have better pics?  No money?  No intelligent friends?  Boozebags?  Seriously, how hard is it to get a few pics that don’t make you look like a vapid and perfunctory person?

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m not only seemingly nice; I AM NICE!

Me too Tower at least until someone crosses me then I’m f~~~ing ruthless.

I would love to have ever met an actual nice woman. I’d value it like gold. Out of hundreds, I can count the total number on one hand. Women know nice guys are better which is why those post Wall one’s finally come around only to hear chirping crickets or maybe find some Captain Save-A-Hoe beta if she’s lucky.

I think the cave woman genes are the cause of it.

@KTR: All of your points = Run to the hills!

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

Pic drunk and holding a drink at: Bar, Party, BBQ, Boat, Wine Tasting.

Ah f~~~, cmon man. It’s like, the first avatar I uploaded here was exactly that. Don’t be so harsh on the girlz, I can relate 😀

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[Anonymous 42]

@C-Pig, It’s been a long journey on this societies road of gynocentrism, it transformed me from “nice guy” to “ice guy”….

Now that femnuclear winter rages on and kills all the vegetation of romance and love throughout the West; I have a full glass of ice water to splash on the post wall shivering feminists.

“SPLASH”,,, enjoy…..

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Actually all the pictures of her, IMO, are fake as hell. This was a professional photo shoot done just for her POF profile. This is the best she is going to look, believe me. Note she says 47. Probably 49. Her profile and list of wants is total bulls~~~. She will jump at anything half decent. She has kids, doesn’t want any more kids, and get this, her longest relationship is 4 years (divorced). That ought to throw up a few red (rags) flags.

The 1st and 5th pictures are staged. Same location, same day, different dress, one with wine, one with a bottle of water.
In both she dresses too young and too cheap (very short skirt), big t~~~, heavy legs.

2rd, 3rd and 4th pictures all the same day, all staged. Heavily made up especially done for the photo shoot. Trying very hard.
She won’t look half this good on an average day. Deception.

6th picture is the one to look at the closest. Take a look at the cleavage and neck and you’ll see immediately how old she is. This is a big give away.
Her skin has a lot of age discoloration (blotchy), and wrinkles. There is also a lot of blotches on her face (but don’t show up well) and deep furrows under eyes. And with no bra those t~~~ will hit the floor.

7th picture makes her look a bit slutty. Again dressing like a teenager – far too young. An embarrassment if you took her out. Also looks to me that with two glasses of wine you would be in for a blow job the moment you got her home (despite her profile).

8th picture – weird. What she wearing on her shoulders or is that just skin and a strapless dress?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

I wanted him so badly to say: “You do? You have a BOY-friend?? Gosh, that’s adorable. Let me know when you’re ready for a MAN.”

I wanted him to say, “F~~~ it,” turn around to his computer and release ALL THE DINOSAURS. Then walk to the escape helicopter. Because at that point why the f~~~ not?

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