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I need to vent to guys who are in the know.
I’ve been under a lot of pressure/stress from work recently, and in general I’m a pretty intense person. I had a male co-worker and a female friend (on separate occasions) tell me – “you need to get laid”. This is such a petty comment, but thats precisely why it p~~~es me off. As though the solution to every, single God damned problem is a girl.
Let’s turn the tables. Can you imagine stating the inverse?…Sitting with a female, and if she’s p~~~ed off you smugly state – ‘You need some C~~~!’. Actually, that is EXACTLY what I told my female friend and she retorted – “I get it every night from my fiance”.
Give me a f~~~ing break. I’m not some teenager raging with hormones. I’m in my late 30’s and at this point I’ve realized the juice ain’t worth the squeeze. We men are visually stimulated. I get turned on by the physical appearance of an attractive girl, but the satisfaction of physically being with them is a mere fraction of the stimulation/lust from the arousal of attraction. It. Just. Simply. Isn’t. There…
One of my co-workers is younger, and a complete white knight. The kind of douche bag who goes to a bar and gets all goo-ga’ga’ eyed over the bartender because she remembers his name and gives him a hug. The kid doesn’t even know the score, let alone that he’s the game. I told him he’s a white-knight, and he just laughs and looks at our colleague and says – “I don’t even know what that means”. F~~~ing amateurs.
The people I like to surround myself with/hang out with are more geared to my personality, but they still do s~~~ I simply don’t get. I have a friend who loves to get f~~~ed up and is a total player. He’s a TON of fun to hang out with and he just likes pussy; not looking for a relationship. But the s~~~ he does, and the actual results it gets him some time is kind of sickening to me. I say sickening because I’m a very direct/blunt person and I’m not willing to play games and kiss ass to get pussy.
We’ll be out and he’ll look a girl deep in the eyes and say with his Latin accent – “you have nice lips” and kiss them on the cheeks. Of course, it doesn’t always work, but the fact that it does even a fraction of the time is so silly to me. He will always say – “this is how you pick up girls”, followed by all of these compliments to women ad-infinitum.
I simply don’t have the patience or energy to put up with so much of the s~~~ anymore. I was out with a friend and he was trying to pick up on these two chicks. I realized I didn’t want to spend my energy doing this, so I went out for a smoke and texted him: “these girls aren’t even that cute man. Lets go”. But he was transfixed.
So, one of the girls is sitting next to me and she makes some negative comment asking why I’ve never been married or some s~~~. She was 25 and divorced. I quickly stated – “because I don’t want to end up like you – divorced with baggage!” She jumped up and changed seats by her friend. My friend laughed loud, awkwardly trying to diffuse the situation. I looked at her and said – “I don’t give a s~~~ that your a girl, your not gonna get DICK from me”. Not meaning sexually, but stating she isn’t getting away with s~~~/anything.
I closed out my tab, thanked the bartender and left.
Resident cynic.
“you need to get laid”. This is such a petty comment, but that’s precisely why it p~~~es me off.
If they insist on going there, shut them down on the spot:
“You need to get laid!”.
“When I want your opinion, I’ll rattle my zipper.”
Then point and laugh.
Anytime someone tries to tell you “what you need”, use that line, and enjoy.
Twice as hilarious if it’s a dude.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Excellent work–well done. I’ve used this line before when someone says to me: You need to get laid.
Thanks for the offer but I’m not really interested in you that way. Works for men and/or women.
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OK what does your daughter look like? Is she hot? Is she even old enough to date?I need to vent to guys who are in the know.
I’ve been under a lot of pressure/stress from work recently, and in general I’m a pretty intense person. I had a male co-worker and a female friend (on separate occasions) tell me – “you need to get laid”. This is such a petty comment, but thats precisely why it p~~~es me off. As though the solution to every, single God damned problem is a girl.
From one former intense person to one who currently is. You need zen bro. Learn to meditate and be in a state of chill. Being intense and focused is too easy for you which is why you do it and run to it.
The reason they may say you need a girl, is because they think you need to get your mind distracted from all the stress. Chicks tend to make your focus all about them. A bad thing frankly. What you need is to be in a state of chill and zen and “turn on” your intensity when you need it.
Let me ask you something, in those movies where there is some wise master who knows his s~~~, does he ever come off intense? No, because they don’t seem in control.
A good quote from Westworld: “The urgency doesn’t quite fit the character, it betrays a certain anxiety.”
Anonymous42(on separate occasions) tell me – “you need to get laid”.
I hate that advice too, it’s like saying you need to join team Caligula! F~~~, while you’re over there go extreme and have a pizza party! I draw lines and that’s over the line and on the other side of scrimmage.
I told him he’s a white-knight, and he just laughs and looks at our colleague and says – “I don’t even know what that means”. F~~~ing amateurs.
He’s a fool and his sovereignty will soon part if he’s not bound in misery already.
The people I like to surround myself with/hang out with are more geared to my personality, but they still do s~~~ I simply don’t get. I have a friend who loves to get f~~~ed up and is a total player. He’s a TON of fun to hang out with and he just likes pussy; not looking for a relationship. But the s~~~ he does, and the actual results it gets him some time is kind of sickening to me. I say sickening because I’m a very direct/blunt person and I’m not willing to play games and kiss ass to get pussy.
May I say it’s sickening to watch someone be a fake just to sip in and tag some moron chick’s ass. Perhaps you’re seeing things with a mature mind and kids playing plastic games with one another is too agonizing to watch.
So, one of the girls is sitting next to me and she makes some negative comment asking why I’ve never been married or some s~~~. She was 25 and divorced. I quickly stated – “because I don’t want to end up like you – divorced with baggage!” She jumped up and changed seats by her friend. My friend laughed loud, awkwardly trying to diffuse the situation. I looked at her and said – “I don’t give a s~~~ that your a girl, your not gonna get DICK from me”. Not meaning sexually, but stating she isn’t getting away with s~~~/anything.
I closed out my tab, thanked the bartender and left.
Ancientwisdom, brother, I read just about every one of your posts because I think our logic runs at the same wavelength! You’re my go-to-guy when I want to see another dude like me making sense of things!
Closing tabs and thanking bartenders means you’re too late, I don’t even walk in! Those days are light years behind me, I can’t stand the gutter trash that think they’re queens! They’re all bar trolls to me!
I’ve been under a lot of pressure/stress from work recently, and in general I’m a pretty intense person. I had a male co-worker and a female friend (on separate occasions) tell me – “you need to get laid”. This is such a petty comment
It is indeed and realizing this on your part takes you almost half way to overcome red pill rage, dude.
Therefore my advice: Next time, if anything just pity them (back) not necessarily even verbally, but just through your state of mind, put a cheeky smirk/grin on yer face (think about mgtow if it might help you doing that) and (only if you deem it absolutely necessary!!!) just go like: “As if you even had the faintest clue about anything, imbecile/moron….”
That’s it, turn around and walk away.
I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC
“You need to get laid” is a cheap statement. It’s said when nothing better comes to mind, it’s a waste of hot air, like a brain fart. As if they’re in the loop as to your sex life. It’s moronic and insulting.
One whore told me that once because I’d snapped at another whore next to her.
“You need to get laid.”
“As if you had any clue as to what I need!”That’s what these hoes do. Their lack of humanity doesn’t surprise me anymore, I expect it in fact. That’s why my respect meter for weemins has gone from 90 to 5 and that 5 belongs to the elderly.
You need to UNc~~~ your life.
Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!
Anonymous43how is dragging yer self through the bar looking for the one desperate woman with questionable tastes in fashion, sex partners and tattoos getting naked with this woman at best at her place, at worst in the alley behind the bar up against a light post or the s~~~ter and shoving your parts into her parts trading body fluids going to get you to calm down at work? Great you got all sweaty with whats her name again? Stacy? Tracy? Lacy? Maria?
The only place to get sweaty with woman is at the gym, you at the weight rack, and women upstairs in the dance and prance to techno studio.
You know what would calm me down at work if I was in your place? If your co workers did their f~~~ing jobs, and left me alone to do mine. Some chick at the bar looking for a quick f~~~ is the last thing you need…disease, pregnancy, false rape accusation, jealous boyfriend with a gun, any or all of these would pretty much wreck your program. Hell you coulda been the third dude she f~~~ed that night. imagine yer spermies duking it out with two other dudes spooge looking for the golden egg cell. First one through loses.
S~~~, you did right by yourself by getting out of there. Do not go back there again. There is nothing for you there. Let some other asshole knock the women up and get stuck for 18 years.
I need to vent to guys who are in the know.
I’ve been under a lot of pressure/stress from work recently, and in general I’m a pretty intense person. I had a male co-worker and a female friend (on separate occasions) tell me – “you need to get laid”. This is such a petty comment, but thats precisely why it p~~~es me off. As though the solution to every, single God damned problem is a girl.
From one former intense person to one who currently is. You need zen bro. Learn to meditate and be in a state of chill. Being intense and focused is too easy for you which is why you do it and run to it.
The reason they may say you need a girl, is because they think you need to get your mind distracted from all the stress. Chicks tend to make your focus all about them. A bad thing frankly. What you need is to be in a state of chill and zen and “turn on” your intensity when you need it.
Let me ask you something, in those movies where there is some wise master who knows his s~~~, does he ever come off intense? No, because they don’t seem in control.
A good quote from Westworld: “The urgency doesn’t quite fit the character, it betrays a certain anxiety.”
Astute observations. Excellent! I have to assign a certain amount of gravitas to your negative perception of intensity, but I also disagree that it’s entirely a negative trait. People lack passion. I do not.
Barring intensity, Picasso’s works would never had been completed. The Wright brothers would have never taken flight. Neil Armstrong would have never drove the spike of the American flag into the dust of the moon, while looking down on the Earth. Steve Job’s wouldn’t have changed the face of the world and affect every facet of society with a device that fits in your pocket.
I want to live with moxie and passion, not conventional propriety.
Resident cynic.
Brother, every place is a potential prison. The statement that sex is some magic bullet that cures all ills is insane.
A lot of people actually believe that to be true. When those people are in close proximity to you. You’ve entered a cultish controlling atmosphere. It’s infuriating in the moment.
When I’m dealing with similar looneyness. I immediately start itemizing my resources. If I can live for 3 months whether I have the job or not. F~~~ it, I’ll keep showing up for work. I’ll disconnect and be looking for other work.
A year after I’ve left that place. I can’t even remember those guys names when I see them again. That’s how irrelevant they become.
Maintain your passion brother. It’s one of the sparks in this dark world. With passion you never know exactly where you’ll be. At least you’ll be mentally on another mental continent that you’d never expect.
The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu
It mean that you’re doing something wrong at being stealth, or you aren’t stealth.
My coworkers never told me “you need to get laid”: they think that I get laid much more than them all.
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Anonymous54Fellow intense person here. Sometimes people say it meaning that you should be less intense.Some times people say it cause theyer just f~~~ing idiits who ought to be taken OUT AND FLOGGED AND SET ON FIRE AND BEATEN AND…..See what I mean….
I dont hang out much. People bore me.
Anonymous11Great to see you back AW!
I hate being told that as I am as intense as once can be too. Often, getting laid can lead to even more problems than we had before. As that woman told you, she gets drilled every night. So what does that really even matter? It’s typical c~~~ behavior. Of course in our hyper-sexualized culture, many people think that way.
Great to see you back AW!
Roger that!
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Meh
My response to “You Need to Get Laid” for the last 10 years has been able to shut down every person who has said that to me.
/ “You Need to Get Laid”
Do you, perchance, know a woman who is single, unattached, not in the process of a divorce, employed, reasonably attractive, reasonably educated, reasonably fit, reasonably articulate, self sufficient, without children or wanting one, who is not a bitchy emotionally unstable psycho? A woman who is not looking for a serious relationship that also has a huge list of unreasonable demands that any/every man has to comply with, that is willing to take one for the team?
I thought not, I’ll lake a coffee thank you very much.There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it
Anonymous54As Alabama Coach Nick Saban once said..Averge people dont like high achievers, and high acheivers dont like average people.
At first I didnt like his statement.But then realized its true.Alot of times people just cant handle much intensity. Direct it to a worthy goal.
Im fine with average people, but am constantly attacted with theyer snide little remarks.
If woman says it, I ask if they are volunteering.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
You need some C~~~!’. Actually, that is EXACTLY what I told my female friend and she retorted – “I get it every night from my fiance”.
: “I feel sorry for him already.”
“You need to get laid.”
“Bend over”"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt
Brother, every place is a potential prison. The statement that sex is some magic bullet that cures all ills is insane.
A lot of people actually believe that to be true. When those people are in close proximity to you. You’ve entered a cultish controlling atmosphere. It’s infuriating in the moment.
I was looking at some porn files today that, years ago (not that many years ago) drove me to distraction. I look at them now and I see women exhibiting courting behavior . . . which is nothing like their normal behavior. They’re in heat, or out of heat trying to attract a mate. It means nothing. I do this odd thing nowadays. I am attracted to women briefly, and then disgusted by their actual behavior. It’s inadvertent PUA in a nutshell. I’m attracted, then utterly reject them. They glom right onto me. And I want none of it, because the repulsion is quite real. My society, family, and schools tried to teach me that soulmates were something other than a hormonal rush, and that romantic love was the ultimate meaning of a society.
It’s all lies. Early relationships are so idyllic because all the realities of a particular woman – that she’s a train wreck held together by lies and need – haven’t been discovered yet.
For those that have any – just any – question regarding that – please read about Henry VIII. He came close to completely destroying his kingdom for “love”. He walked away from the potential for conquest his father left him, the potential for colonies and to play the decider in Europe for pussy and more pussy. He died wrecked and a figure of fear and fun.
Bereft of all other beliefs, much of society has decided that love is the most important thing in the world. They’ve apparently never read a book, but have seen lots of bad movies.
A year after I’ve left that place. I can’t even remember those guys names when I see them again. That’s how irrelevant they become.
I’m trying not to live in the past any more. It’s really, really hard sometimes. I’m trying to do enough new things that I redefine my daily reality and thus my life. I lived in this odd melancholy for years that was related to my quest for a soulmate and the fear that a soulmate was in my past and I had missed her, or that one of my failed relationships was my unicorn. That way lies madness. I’m currently redefining who I am, and it’s scary work. I tip my hat to your ability to close the door on the past like that.
Maintain your passion brother. It’s one of the sparks in this dark world. With passion you never know exactly where you’ll be. At least you’ll be mentally on another mental continent that you’d never expect.
Fellow intense person here. Sometimes people say it meaning that you should be less intense.Some times people say it cause theyer just f~~~ing idiits who ought to be taken OUT AND FLOGGED AND SET ON FIRE AND BEATEN AND…..See what I mean….
I dont hang out much. People bore me.
Since MGTOW saved my sanity and my soul, I’ve come to realize that listening to the normies and pinks leads only to mediocrity and failure. They just want to drag people down to their level. I am intense because I am passionate about my work and the things I care about. Most people don’t care about anything, and they’re jealous. I frighten them. Well, f~~~ them. They bore me.
"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."
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