“You Don’t Know What Your Missing”

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

I’m not going to think anymore of this comment and just dismiss it. It doesn’t hold much value. He probably did this because it is what society EXPECTS of males. Which is to be SERVANTS to females. All their emotional needs, well being, financial needs, etc.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

The most pathetic part is the woman. She has been taught to be such a control freak that she lacks the foresight to see the gains from having her boyfriend/husband’s family in her corner.

I know of cases where mothers of son sometimes prefer to support the son in marrying a woman, to have the wife as a surrogate daughter.

This is scary as s~~~. I had a girl try to pull this game on me and had to break it off with her. Funny thing is six years later my mom mentions that the girls having a baby. They’re still facebook friends lol. My mom says “I liked that girl.” I replied “I didn’t.” She asked “Why not?” The look on her face was priceless when I said she was too far up your ass and I didn’t want to date someone that had more of a relationship with my mother than me.

Obviously I don’t care if a girlfriend meets my family and gets along with them…that’s fine…but my mom is one of the most manipulative women I know, and her and this chick were just double teaming me. It was just totally awkward and disrespectful to have a girl in that situation calling your mom ranting about you all the time trying to get mommy to pressure you into giving her her way. As my mom started to say something as a rebuttal to my prior response, I just said “I still can’t believe the last face to face talk I had with the ex, she told me “Even your own mother says your a jerk.”” That shut my mom down pretty fast…no more comments after that lol. Its like she is so stupid she stupid she honestly thought I messed up my shot with little miss perfect…only years later when I finally threw that back at her for no reason other than I didn’t want to get the “when am I having a grandkid” rant again did she realize what a s~~~ty position she contributed to putting me in, and had she not done that maybe she’d have a grand baby right now lol.

Oh well…in grand scheme of things that just solidified my red pill status…so in a demented way two manipulative women shot themselves in the foot and neither got their way, and I got my freedom!

[HitmanParticipant]

dude , your’e missing a BALL and CHAIN ...i was gonna put a janis joplin video up of her singing that song , but just could’nt do it to my fellow MGTOW…..not every one’s cup of tea ..
the messege is clear though ..love , is a ball and chain. f~~~ that !

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

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I disagree
i know exactly what i’m missing

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I know what I’m missing. Drama, nagging, emotional pain, constantly being told I’m not as good as her friends husband, the risk that the child isn’t mine, did I mention pain. She wakes up one day and isnt happy, so I lose more than 50% of my entire life’s savings.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

MINDustry wrote:

I have a friend who has been in a relationship for about 2 or 3 years. The women has emotional problems, depression I think and he literally spends ALL his free time with her. Never have I received any phone calls from him to hang out anymore like we did when we were in high school. 4-6 years ago.

He tells me that I “don’t know what I’m missing” by having never been in a relationship or having intimacy with a woman.

From the sounds of it, their relationship can’t be as good as he makes it out to be. Yet he’d want to make my life more miserable? Great friend.

Your friend has Stockholm Syndrome.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

Ladies – you don’t know what you’re missing by placing your hand on a red-hot range element of a stove. Don’t you believe in love?

[guiParticipant 825]

I know how you feel. My best friend is doomed and he just can’t see it. It all began when he moved to apartment to live with a friend he met in college. His friend has a sister, a woman in her mid 30s. She laid eyes in my friend and started flirting with him besides he initially having no interest in her.
He told me she was all over him and I asked what he thought of her then and he answered she was ugly and I agreed with him because in my opinion she was indeed ugly and older than us enough that she has clearly hit the wall (we are both 21 years old).
She began her plan to trap my best friend by befriending his mom so she could help to put pressure on her son. My friends mom is just a gold digger that values people by their money so she treated his friend and his sister like gods because they were always bragging about having money. So my friend was so thirst for pussy that he ended up screwing the girl and after some time his friend went back to the state he came from (far up in Brazils north. We live in the south) and my best friend was kicked from the apartment and is now back to his parents house and the ugly girl is also living at his parents house.
She reads his messages at his cellphone and is constantly pressuring him to give her a child and marry her because she has lupus and can became infertile at any time. She and his mother double team on him all the time. So my friend is on his way to get really f~~~ed. He still a good friend to me but he’s going to destroy himself because he didn’t listen to my warnings.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

MINDustry wrote:

I have a friend who has been in a relationship for about 2 or 3 years. The women has emotional problems, depression I think and he literally spends ALL his free time with her. Never have I received any phone calls from him to hang out anymore like we did when we were in high school. 4-6 years ago.

He tells me that I “don’t know what I’m missing” by having never been in a relationship or having intimacy with a woman.

From the sounds of it, their relationship can’t be as good as he makes it out to be. Yet he’d want to make my life more miserable? Great friend.

I don’t know what it is like to step on a landmine either. Because you don’t know what you are missing somewhere, doesn’t mean your life is incomplete. There are tradeoffs with anything. Work on what you can control. That whole “You don’t know what you are missing” is a pile of FOMA:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fear_of_missing_out

It is a sure recipe for not having content in life and being miserable. And there is no guarantee you will end up finding what you seek with a woman anyhow.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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