“You Don’t Know What Your Missing”

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

I have a friend who has been in a relationship for about 2 or 3 years. The women has emotional problems, depression I think and he literally spends ALL his free time with her. Never have I received any phone calls from him to hang out anymore like we did when we were in high school. 4-6 years ago.

He tells me that I “don’t know what I’m missing” by having never been in a relationship or having intimacy with a woman.

From the sounds of it, their relationship can’t be as good as he makes it out to be. Yet he’d want to make my life more miserable? Great friend.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

MINDustry wrote:

Yet he’d want to make my life more miserable?

“Misery loves company,” is a cliché for a reason.

And just because it’s a cliché doesn’t mean it’s not true. Quite the opposite.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MINDustry wrote:

“don’t know what I’m missing”

That’s a very interesting statement isn’t it.
Notice he didn’t tell you that you’re missing something AWESOME — did he.

“You don’t know what you’re missing” doesn’t even say anything.

That’s when you can respond: “Why don’t you tell me how GREAT it is. I would LOVE to hear it. Tell me about all the wonderful things about having a nagging anchor around your neck, who audits your texts, berates you when you “like” another girls photo on facebook, who expects you to act like a docile & controlled house pet, not bang other chicks and pay for everything. That would be music to my ears. “

If you never drank Crystal (champagne) I could tell you “you don’t know what you’re missing” too. But if don’t have a taste for it, it tastes like f~~~ing mouthwash.

You don’t know what you’re missing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

pal, don’t worry about him. He is using a classic shaming tactic. In the long term, being mgtow is the path to both freedom and happiness. Relationships sometimes bring happiness in the short term.

Therefore, some mgtows can partake in relationships as long as they keep it short term.

be patient. In 20 years, you’ll look at this so called “friend” and laugh at how he lost 60% of his assets. All his hard work over the years flushed down the toilet.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Dragging people down from the ladder, is easier than trying to climb it themselves, and to them misery is worth it, when in company.

Marxism, in a nutshell, pretty much.

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

Blue Skies wrote:

pal, don’t worry about him. He is using a classic shaming tactic. In the long term, being mgtow is the path to both freedom and happiness. Relationships sometimes bring happiness in the short term.

Therefore, some mgtows can partake in relationships as long as they keep it short term.

be patient. In 20 years, you’ll look at this so called “friend” and laugh at how he lost 60% of his assets. All his hard work over the years flushed down the toilet.

Blue Skies wrote:

pal, don’t worry about him. He is using a classic shaming tactic. In the long term, being mgtow is the path to both freedom and happiness. Relationships sometimes bring happiness in the short term.

Therefore, some mgtows can partake in relationships as long as they keep it short term.

be patient. In 20 years, you’ll look at this so called “friend” and laugh at how he lost 60% of his assets. All his hard work over the years flushed down the toilet.

Hah!. What a pussy. That bitch would’ve gotten a beating if that was me.

Young relationships are often immature and don’t workout.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

MINDustry wrote:

Never have I received any phone calls from him to hang out anymore like we did when we were in high school. 4-6 years ago.

I can’t count how many friends I have lost contact with after they “settled down” with some crazy harpies. One of them called me two years after we last spoke to each other and told me that his gf was living with a guy in his apartment while he was on a business trip. I said: told you! But we never went out again as I no longer see him as a friend.

Maybe you don’t know what you are missing out, but you sure know what he’s missing out. FREEDOM!

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

MINDustry wrote:

He tells me that I “don’t know what I’m missing” by having never been in a relationship or having intimacy with a woman.

Keep a couch empty. He’ll need it one day.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

You see this all the time, especially among married guys. They realize they’re f~~~ed, and their life is miserable, so they resent you for your freedom. They’ll try to shame you or throw remarks at you to make you feel bad. Enjoy your freedom, f~~~ that s~~~.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Was he trying to convince you or convince himself?

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Answer: I’m missing unnecessary drama and financial turmoil.

[Anonymous 11]

I think we all know what we’re missing.

I’ve lost a few friends that way over the years. Unless they go fully red pill, they are of no use to me once they inevitably break it off with the wench. Most continue being the same pathetic little blue pillers they’ve always been.

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

I can’t wait to have fun and stay young in my later decades by avoiding the traditional layout of marriage kids mortgage loans death.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

Answer: I’m missing unnecessary drama and financial turmoil.

Amen. Answer “oh yeah I do” next time.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

No, the problem is that you DO know what you’re missing, and it makes your butt hurt.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

MINDustry wrote:

I can’t wait to have fun and stay young in my later decades by avoiding the traditional layout of marriage kids mortgage loans death.

the best part of being mgtow is you don’t have to wait. whether you’re young or old, you can enjoy life, be free, happy……….etc.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 29]

MINDustry wrote:

That bitch would’ve gotten a beating if that was me.

Well let’s not take that path shall we ? Kinda messy and unproductive.

On another note, your friend seems like a classic example of a female isolating him from friends and family.
He is trapped inside her pussy sphere of influence and without doubt he also is suffering from emotional
problems thanks to her. He is merely a sponge, a tempon for her insecurities but he will suffer most at the end.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

Anonymous wrote:

On another note, your friend seems like a classic example of a female isolating him from friends and family.
He is trapped inside her pussy sphere of influence and without doubt he also is suffering from emotional
problems thanks to her. He is merely a sponge, a tempon for her insecurities but he will suffer most at the end.

In real life, I have seen this story play out a dozen different times to different men. Not to me. I saw the writing on the wall a long time ago. But, I have never once seen this story play out in fiction. Because no one has the courage to state the truth about what relationships have become in this society.

And this story always leads to the same end.

The most pathetic part is the woman. She has been taught to be such a control freak that she lacks the foresight to see the gains from having her boyfriend/husband’s family in her corner.

I know of cases where mothers of son sometimes prefer to support the son in marrying a woman, to have the wife as a surrogate daughter.

Yea. The entire situation, and society, is messed up. But, this is what I have seen first hand.

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

It’s a jungle out there. Stay safe boys.

I’d imagine that Marriage and Kids are how the “mid life crisis” term came into existence in the first place.

You thought you were buying into some illusory “American Dream” but by the time you hit 40 or 50, find out it was all just one big lie. A way for the government and women to manipulate and control you.

Don’t have a mid-life crisis. Pursue your passions at any age and avoid women.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

I’m very glad I don’t know what I’m missing.

I suspect I’m missing a controlling, manipulating, nagging, unhappy person who is trying to separate me from my money and free time.

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