Wrecked my bicycle. Reflections on MGTOW life

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

I wrecked my trek road bike on 7/20. Peleton accident, swerve, road rash, fracture of 1st metatarsal requiring externall fixation. No sympathy asked for or needed. Just bringing up Issues for MGTOW to consider.

Late 50’s, active, one son in college. I road home as had my son drive me to ER.

I have no family close by, parents are gone, closest relative 8 hours away. NFG for the last 10 years, solidly MGTOW independent and liking it

Now I can’t have treatment without family member present to transport after surgery. I have none. Uber, nope. I got my son to come and take me in for surgery, but what if he was not here?

Just reflecting on my single lifestyle and how it my be even harder as I get older. I guarantee that if I had a Vagina there would be support available at tax payer dollars to assist. I got nothing but blank stares when I said I had no family close by, was single and on my own.

What’s a MGTOW to do as s~~~ happens? I can’t get into anything but loose pants, packaging sucks and I am struggling to get by in the short term

Number 2 said she would not take care of me if I needed it. I booted the selfish c~~~ long before I ever needed her help. What’s a MGTOW to do? I never felt like my bachelorhood was anything but great, but the last few weeks have me asking questions that others should consider. MGTOW housing unit?

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

but what if he was not here?

They would have to treat you. They can not turn you away for medical services because you do not have any family members. There are MANY people in this world that for varied reasons do not have any family or even friends in their living area, or either don’t associate with them, or they are deceased, or WHATEVER.

They are probably “trained” to push for a family member as strongly as possible, but in the end you can always tell them that you don’t have any family or friends, but you are acquainted with one hell of a pit bull attorney that would LOVE the $ound of a hospital refusing to treat a $uffering patient because he didn’t have any family or friends.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

Do you have the cash to hire someone for the short term to help with chores until you’re running again? Maybe you could hire a housekeeper for a month. There are sometimes services, possibly a private nurse, that could help you with some things.
Possibly as a MGTOW we have to think about how we will take care of ourselves when we don’t have family, friends or a spouse. Your comments may be a good reminder for MGTOW to have some emergency plans when things go south. I personally can’t afford to even get sick for any length of time. All manageable with planning though. Disability insurance, back up health fund etc.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

The other option is to be a public servant. Then most things are covered (at least here in Canada).

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22567]

I hope you are okay.

As for the bike. It is just stuff. Like all stuff it exists to keep us busy doing something enjoyable instead of being bored. Stuff can be replaced.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Nothing, the day i cant take care of my self, i will just sit there and die.

Maybe with a s~~~ load of morphine.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

My avitar is a goast ship. My goal is to sail the hell away from this s~~~hole society and head straight into the most nasty weather event known to man, and scream till I’m dead about the Injustice in this place.

I just need a few more years… then Davey Jones can take me.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Ja[H]xParticipant 193]

One of the sad realizations I had to make when I decided to go my own way, was that I’m going to die alone.

My father is gone, my mother was forty one when she had me, so she’ll be gone as well. All the siblings are older (by 15-20 years), and I don’t keep in close contact with them, or my nieces/nephews.

Not having had, or ever having (vasectomy) children, I know that like many single men, when I grow old(er), I will only have my close male friends as emergency contacts. Already ran into a couple problems with that, although you can bluff it pretty well if you glare, act like an asshole, and use the word “partner” instead of a friend.

Despite the headaches and the occasional bout of loneliness (which is really more society induced self-flagellation than a real sense of being lonely), I’m still happier having gone my own way.

~Insert witty comment here~

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Ja(h)x, We all die alone. The old tale of being married so you don’t die alone is total bulls~~~. Mom dropped dead in the shower. Alone. Dad died In his sleep. Alone. You hear stories of family’s staying by the bedside while someone passes. F~~~ing fairytale, but it does happen.

Most of us just go, no one gives a s~~~ and the rest of the ants just keep marching.

You and I will at least be going out our own way…

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

That is why we plan for our life…Our life is our own responsibility…That is the one thing we can control, to decide every minute what and where to take direct our life…

We are not victims of chance, we are captains of our life…

Hope you are alright…Plus, you cant be denied care just because you are alone…Hire a private nurse or someone who will take care of you till you get back up…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 3]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

Now I can’t have treatment without family member present to transport after surgery.

WTF? Even here in Hungary, with this not so perfect healthcare, there is a transport service for sick (but stabilized) patients. They wait for a few patients and then transport them between hospitals or something. Drivers capable of first aid too. (All car drivers, since one cannot get driving licence here without education on first aid.)

And, one can call a taxi, or take public transport, at any part of the world.

Forcing for a family member is just f~~~in bulls~~~. There are less and less “families” in the world, in that meaning. People divorce, die, and move thousand kilometers away for better jobs. Many are not good enough to get the attention of the other sex. Or decide not to. Or have been stabbed in the back by them in some meaning.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

In Canada we have community care organizations that do all sort of things for those who are sick or elderly. You still have to pay for their services but it is worth it and they do a great job. When I got seriously ill and had to go to the hospital many times I had no one to drive me and they had drivers that would take me to the hospital for treatment. If you need surgery they would leave you at the hospital if you had to stay for any length of time and you can arrange it so they come pick you up after.

I tried to look up to see if there was anything like that in the U.S. and some cities have something like this while the majority don’t. Most of the workers in Canada do this on a voluntary basis so not sure how profitable it can be if someone was to start a for profit community care service in your area. Try to look into this and see if your area has something like this for you.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2146]

Perhaps the Rent-A-Friend industry in Japan will expand world-wide so us loners can have some one to depend upon if and when we truly need the help of another like being attended to at hospital or bailed out of jail.

Makes sense to me. I like the idea of paying up front for help in times of need with no strings attached.

Kind of like an insurance policy.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Firstly, unless on the rare occasion that your family is around you when you pass (as with my father), we all die alone. Sooner of later, everyone dies.

By definition, death occurs in the last moments of your life. It’s silly to spend the majority of your life beholden to women/children when the chances are greatly against you that they will be preset, and you will be aware of their presence, when you go.

Regarding being alone in a chronic care situation, if you live in Canada/US/most of Europe, the hospital has a legal obligation to make sure you get home safely. If you cannot treat yourself when at home, they cannot discharge you until they have somewhere safe were you can go. Granted, it might be a government subsidized group/rehab home, and The accomidations will not be nice, but it will meet minimum standards.

While we are on the topic of fallacy, believing that having children is a legacy is a misnomer. Anyone past 1-2 generations after you will not remember you. Take those resources and enjoy life!

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Regarding treatment without a family member present, they will still treat you, but your discharge will be prolonged. I suspect they did outpatient surgery on your foot or expected quick discharge after you recovered. You can’t drive for a period of time after surgery due to the various anesthesia and sedative meds used. They will push hard for you to have a friend or reactive there to take you home. The reason is because most insurances won’t reimburse the hospital for an inpatient stay for what should have been an outpatient procedure.

I see this frequently in the ER. The patient does not need to be admitted, but is not safe for discharge on their own. I call case management and the social worker and admit. Many times I call up family and give them a frank guilt trip. “So you’re saying that you can’t spend a few days taking care of the person who cared for, fed, raised, and wiped your butt for years?” Usually works.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 38]

Going your own way has its price. I reckoned I will just die when I’m ready, and until then I’ll just fight to stay alive on my own or with help from others if I can find it.

[iMickey503Participant 12466]

Hold the F~~~ on. Do you SERIOUSLY think that you are not going to be around men that give a s~~~ in the future?
That will not do.

If Veterans can make organizations that drive men to and from appointments. I think we men can handle this.

This is one of the reasons why I think that MGTOW.com is going to be bigger than most men can imagine. I don’t see men in the future being left like this. And I don’t think I can see men left hanging like this. I know its out of the scope of MGTOW. But I can’t swallow that we won’t be there for another MGTOW man.

Case in Point. There is a Buy Nothing group my sister is apart of on Fakebook. People in a VERY small local community help each other out. Lord knows if there is a man here in PDX that needs a hand and I got time money and gas to do it I will. I don’t see myself in the future being without these things.

Now to simply drive a person to an appointment and back? How hard can that be? It sucks that you don’t have family. But that has been the norm for a while now in the west. So if there is anything that needs to change, this does.

If anyone needs a hand in PDX, I should be good to help out other MGTOW.com Members here in PDX.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[iMickey503Participant 12466]

Anonymous wrote:

Going your own way has its price. I reckoned I will just die when I’m ready, and until then I’ll just fight to stay alive on my own or with help from others if I can find it.

RObots or PEOPLE. You are not going to die alone. F~~~ THAT>

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[iMickey503Participant 12466]

The Black Scorpion wrote:

Perhaps the Rent-A-Friend industry in Japan will expand world-wide so us loners can have some one to depend upon if and when we truly need the help of another like being attended to at hospital or bailed out of jail.

Makes sense to me. I like the idea of paying up front for help in times of need with no strings attached.

Kind of like an insurance policy.

This may be the saddest part of modern society. Rent a FRIEND? Seems like a WOMAN’S CUCK idea.

IF you can get help from a stranger to jump your car, or help you with your Oil change? Why is it so hard to have good people in your life that care?

Maybe its my Military background, or how my culture is. But this just seems so backwards of western society.

Whats the point of working hard all your life, then having it the end days be like this?

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[iMickey503Participant 12466]

Rhino wrote:

In Canada we have community care organizations that do all sort of things for those who are sick or elderly. You still have to pay for their services but it is worth it and they do a great job. When I got seriously ill and had to go to the hospital many times I had no one to drive me and they had drivers that would take me to the hospital for treatment. If you need surgery they would leave you at the hospital if you had to stay for any length of time and you can arrange it so they come pick you up after.

I tried to look up to see if there was anything like that in the U.S. and some cities have something like this while the majority don’t. Most of the workers in Canada do this on a voluntary basis so not sure how profitable it can be if someone was to start a for profit community care service in your area. Try to look into this and see if your area has something like this for you.

If there is one goal for me, the DAV and the VA is going to be the GOTO for taking care of men in their old age.

I hope that its one of the best selling points for Serving your country. Good will promotes more good will.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

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