Wow, this is for real?

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Remove me! wrote:

if I ever get remarried, it will be with an airtight prenup.

THERE’S.
NO.
SUCH.
THING.

Welcome to the forums. Pleasure to have you aboard. S M W.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Remove me! wrote:

You know how it goes. But why is it that when my wife left me to get a better life, I’m the one that is thriving and living a better life? Huh…

Men love solitude and woman fear it. So right out of the gate your on better footing. She will struggle to fill her life with worthless material goods and worthless men to find happiness. We all know you can’t find happiness in things or other people. You on the other hand will come home and be in heaven if no one is there to ruin it for you. Being sovereign is the greatest thing you gave up when you said, ‘I do”. Now you have it back. Are you going to give it up again?

If you need a prenup, then you are preparing for the marriage to fail. Why do it at all? You have just admitted this won’t last. Your logic is self-destructive. It’s like saying I’m going buy some tweezers before I throw myself on a cactus. You are already preparing for it to end badly.

Stop seeking female attention and stop using female attention as a metric of success and happiness. Try it for a year and see how you feel then.

Welcome

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Remove me! wrote:

This place is like the “Fight Club” except I don’t have to get punched in the face!

I got a little chuckle out of that. Welcome indeed JD. Thanks for the intro. We are absolutely ecstatic to have ya brother!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[NotaFoolParticipant 134]

Binary Logic wrote:

jd anderson2010 wrote:

This place is like the “Fight Club” except I don’t have to get punched in the face!

I got a little chuckle out of that. Welcome indeed JD. Thanks for the intro. We are absolutely ecstatic to have ya brother!

You got a chuckle out of that…but, like I said earlier.
We all got punched in the face to become members, just not by the other members, we got punched in the face by women to initiate us into this club.

" if women didn't exist , all the money in the world would have no meaning" Aristotle Onassis "Women are like Elephants, everyone wants to look at them but, nobody wants to have one" W.C. Fields

[Lone Wolf McQuadeParticipant 32]

Also a new guy to this. Didn’t even know forums existed that catered for us. Like you, stuck in the past: still have VHS, cassettes, vinyl and a ten year old Nokia.

[Anonymous 12]

Do I still date… Yes, but very little and I’m very picky. Plus, I refuse to have anymore children, and if I ever get remarried, it will be with an airtight prenup.

HALT THE MACHINERY!!!
WE HAVE A SMART ONE!!!!
NEO IS HERE!!!
HE WILL SHOW US THE WAY!!!

Prenup aint s~~~.
Once you marry, you become an ATM for the judge who needs to get paid, for the lawyers who need to get paid, for her fatass who needs to get paid…
Divorce is an industry, and you are nothing but a Fat, Dead Pig.
You were already Gutted once.
Go ahead do the smart thing and get gutted again.
Nothing but a Fat Dead Pig.
Like hundreds of Pigs get slaughtered Daily.
Just a Number, like the Poor souls in Auschwitz.
Just a Walking Dead Man.

DIVORCE CORP MOVIE

Go ahead, repeat your mistake.
Go ahead, take on the system.
Go ahead, get Rekt.

Where is Old Bill when we need him.

Here is a man who … might… have seen the light.
Not sure though, because his sayings make no sense at all.

because you end the Post with

“We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.”

And the answer… clearly is no.
But you did not close the door to marriage yet.

Go forth. Walk your path… and come back when you stand in front of the Judge … again.
Tell us it went better second time around.

*Ragequit*

[revistaParticipant 232]

Welcome brother very true.you do everything what you feel is right and get it thrown back at you.4 years since my ex pulled the pin.ive dated etc but not bothering now.and the ex has realised the grass isnt greener anymore and wants me back.so you might have that to come!all the best brother.

[OldBillParticipant]

Remove me! wrote:

… an airtight prenup.

Everyone has already hammered you on your childish belief in prenups, so I’ll give you something you can use to educate yourself instead.

Go to realworlddivorce DOT com, read the information there, and start beginning to understand how the real world works.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[NotaFoolParticipant 134]

He (JD Anderson OP) was so close to seeing the open door to being his own man going his own way until he made that “air tight prenump” remark. Then not only did his ex wife punch him in the face to become a member of this “fightclub” but, he just punched himself in the face to show him the road back to Hell.

Seriously, enough bashing the guy. We are here to help each other. We had some fun with it at the beginning of this thread. Now. JD is going to feel he isn’t welcome and he doesn’t deserve our help and invitations to be a better man. We can’t do this to other men. He said that ridiculous line because he truly feels that there is hope. That’s not such a bad thing. Is it? We all hope this ends someday. We all hope for the future of all men our sons nephews grandsons neighbor’s boys that someday it won’t be this way for them and they won’t need MGTOW to be heard and be with like minded people.
Don’t bash JD for what he felt, teach him why its wrong to feel that way with cold hard facts given to him as tools not given with a crack in the head and a kick in the ass. We’ll do that to him if he doesn’t learn this time.

" if women didn't exist , all the money in the world would have no meaning" Aristotle Onassis "Women are like Elephants, everyone wants to look at them but, nobody wants to have one" W.C. Fields

[1MGTOWSpectator 301]

Welcome on board sir!

Remove me! wrote:

I was done giving her MORE stuff. I became an ATM.

I believe EVERY woman is like that. Old or young. When I was in my early teens I was with a girl (we didn’t even had a relationship, just liked each other) and she wanted me to buy here things. I’ve spent lots of money on her. So turns out if you have money, you have women.

[Remove me!Participant]

Very good point about the prenup. I’ve only dated on girl in the last 4 1/2 years, and that was last year and for only 6 months. She wanted kids, so I ended it. But if I accidentally find someone who I could see marrying (though not likely), I won’t have any kids and legally protect myself if she hits her head and goes crazy and wants a divorce. Then she can just leave. But I’m definitely NOT looking nor dating. Why waste my money on feeding two people when I can get twice the steak!

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Remove me!Participant]

You’re right, but I’ve seen a guy get married and divorced three times before he turned 30! I can never see myself married again, but am I leaving the door open? I hope not. But I really need a wife like I need a hemorrhoid. Vasectomy and casual dating WHEN I HAVE THE TIME is the way I’m going. One small red flag, and I’m out!

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Welcome! And you hit the nail on the head, never ignore the red flags again. Keep a very close eye on them for the first 3 months, they will always reveal their crazy if it is within them. But they are masters of deception and false advertising, often we have to watch closely for the signs.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 12]

That’s not such a bad thing. Is it? We all hope this ends someday. We all hope for the future of all men our sons nephews grandsons neighbor’s boys that someday it won’t be this way for them and they won’t need MGTOW to be heard and be with like minded people.

Don’t bash JD for what he felt, teach him why its wrong to feel that way with cold hard facts given to him as tools not given with a crack in the head and a kick in the ass. We’ll do that to him if he doesn’t learn this time.

i strongly disagree here.
at 15 i knew girls sucked because i was not good enough for them.
at 20 i knew girls sucked because the only ones interested in me might be labeled “trailer park trash”
at 28 i was through with them.

An observing man does not need the label MGTOW, does he.
he does not need the concept, the grouphugs, the idea.
he does not even need to get his ass kicked.

Anderson has the experience, has the intellect, he HAS BEEN THERE.
he has, or had hope.
That hope must be crushed, removed, for clarity to set in.

At the same time, as a personal explanation maybe, i cannot compute how getting an assraping motivates any man to… “try again”.
And his assraping was so hard, it even affects his relationship to his daughter!
Or even consider, think about, let the possibility be, that he ever drops the pants again, marries again, jumps into the meatgrinder again.

Even if he does everything right (again?) he can still end up in jail for life.

Cannot compute.
as i said…
ragequit.

He has got to do his thing, and he will.
I just have to take my own advice and stop caring – and i should also shut the f~~~ up while i am at it.

[NotaFoolParticipant 134]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s not such a bad thing. Is it? We all hope this ends someday. We all hope for the future of all men our sons nephews grandsons neighbor’s boys that someday it won’t be this way for them and they won’t need MGTOW to be heard and be with like minded people.

Don’t bash JD for what he felt, teach him why its wrong to feel that way with cold hard facts given to him as tools not given with a crack in the head and a kick in the ass. We’ll do that to him if he doesn’t learn this time.

i strongly disagree here.
at 15 i knew girls sucked because i was not good enough for them.
at 20 i knew girls sucked because the only ones interested in me might be labeled “trailer park trash”
at 28 i was through with them.

An observing man does not need the label MGTOW, does he.
he does not need the concept, the grouphugs, the idea.
he does not even need to get his ass kicked.

Anderson has the experience, has the intellect, he HAS BEEN THERE.
he has, or had hope.
That hope must be crushed, removed, for clarity to set in.

At the same time, as a personal explanation maybe, i cannot compute how getting an assraping motivates any man to… “try again”.
And his assraping was so hard, it even affects his relationship to his daughter!
Or even consider, think about, let the possibility be, that he ever drops the pants again, marries again, jumps into the meatgrinder again.

Even if he does everything right (again?) he can still end up in jail for life.

Cannot compute.
as i said…
ragequit.

He has got to do his thing, and he will.
I just have to take my own advice and stop caring – and i should also shut the f~~~ up while i am at it.

I disagree with you in your overall picture of how things should be just because you learned younger than most the way I did
Some men don’t learn until 30 or 40 or after they’ve been whipped and beaten mentally and then they still don’t learn.
I never said we should be having lavender tea and butter cookies and give group hugs and fondle anyone’s b~~~~. I was talking about giving a dude who signed up two days ago as far as I can tell I don’t even know his age. But when some of us do what dudes and bros do to each other to show we care by giving him some hard knocking teasing and f~~~ing with him because he made a really idiotic statement, he was getting the picture and a dude would have to have a block of Swiss cheese for a head not to get what we were doing and saying.
Then here come the guys who are still seeing hatred and they smell the blood in the water and the brotherhood that we are that is supposed to give the tools and the information suddenly becomes a frenzy of members that are p~~~ed off at women because they are still hurt turns on one of our own and the hammering continued well beyond what was necessary.
I’m glad he isn’t some pussy that never had some buddies bust his nuts before because he didn’t quit or get all butt hurt but, some day some man just might feel that MGTOW was his last hope for support and then he gets something like this and he’s already at his last handholding of sanity because his c~~~ wife took him to the cleaners etc and he’s got nothing to live for and his last hope is some support from dudes like us who have been through it and he doesn’t know that he’s being “jumped in” so he leaves and kills himself. Then what?
Are you gonna say he was a pussy and shouldn’t be a member anyway? Or f~~~ the loser he should have learned at 9 yrs old like I did when I got my ass kicked and lunch money taken everyday for a year by the girl next door to me that I had a crush on? You are a f~~~ing pathetic bitch of a loser. Lick your unhealed whipping wounds dude and let your love for the c~~~ who did it to you go and quit throwing your anger at your ex onto men in the group.
You need f~~~ing help bro. You also might try growing up and growing a couple b~~~~ because your ex c~~~ is still using them on her keychain.

" if women didn't exist , all the money in the world would have no meaning" Aristotle Onassis "Women are like Elephants, everyone wants to look at them but, nobody wants to have one" W.C. Fields

[Anonymous 12]

and then they still don’t learn.

And that, that is my personal issue with Anderson’s position and how he might think a prenup is of any use.
OldBill has pointed the Guy in the right direction, so thanks Old Bill.

…that are p~~~ed off at women because they are still hurt turns on one of our own and the hammering continued well beyond what was necessary.

Not p~~~ed off.
See above: holding on to old beliefs, and thinking a piece of paper protects him next time.
The rage is not against the system, the rage (if any) is against going back to the meatgrinder.

some man just might feel that MGTOW was his last hope for support and then he gets something like this and he’s already at his last handholding of sanity…and kills himself. Then what?

Then some random asshole like me is to blame.(human with dick… evil)
MGTOW IS EVIL.
MGTOW IS HATE SPEECH
(for the Nth time…)

–> as i said, next time i’ll just shut up.
maybe.
I’ll give it a try.
Some are not meant to be unplugged from the Matrix.

__________________________________________
Are you gonna say he was a pussy and shouldn’t be a member anyway? Or f~~~ the loser he should have learned at 9 yrs old like I did when I got my ass kicked and lunch money taken everyday for a year by the girl next door to me that I had a crush on? You are a f~~~ing pathetic bitch of a loser. Lick your unhealed whipping wounds dude and let your love for the c~~~ who did it to you go and quit throwing your anger at your ex onto men in the group.
You need f~~~ing help bro. You also might try growing up and growing a couple b~~~~ because your ex c~~~ is still using them on her keychain.
__________________________________________
Top Kek.
Stahp saying these things.
You are not a nice Mgtow.

I get your point, geddit.
my point is – once more – not when one learns but THAT one learns (at all)
and especially after being mauled by the system… just don’t do it.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, JD,
Beer’s in the fridge

[Anonymous 1]

The only airtight prenup is when the judge shoves it up your ass don’t do it.

Name me one man who said I wish I would’ve got married sooner?

[BoskParticipant 111]

Welcome !

FrostByte wrote:

Men love solitude and woman fear it. So right out of the gate your on better footing. She will struggle to fill her life with worthless material goods and worthless men to find happiness. We all know you can’t find happiness in things or other people. You on the other hand will come home and be in heaven if no one is there to ruin it for you. Being sovereign is the greatest thing you gave up when you said, ‘I do”. Now you have it back. Are you going to give it up again?

This is why Women were rejected by Buddha.
They cannot meditate/think properly.

Know Thyself and you will know the Universe and the Gods.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Welcome JD.

Thanks for sharing your story.

Really please rethink what you said about marriage. If you’re certain you don’t want any more children then why would you?

I still date too but my starting to rethink that (too).

I find this to be an incredibly supportive community, I hope you do too.

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