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Anonymous22I had such a thing in the supermarket two weeks ago. Was doing my groceries (never much, so I take a basket instead of a cart), loaded it and went to the checkout. I put my stuff on the counter (?) and waited for the person in front of me to pay and move out. Behind me, two middle-aged women joined the line. I felt their eyes piercing my back, heard them blowing out exeggerated huffs of annoyance because they weren’t helped immediately and I turned around to confirm my suspicions: yup, two short-haired, fat specimens.
We made eye contact, one of them drew my gaze to my groceries, then to her cart full of stuff and honestly seemed to expect me be chivalrous and let her go before me. I lifted an eyebrow, put my headset on again and turned around, which made the other huff in disgust. Didn’t give them any more attention and walked away.
Perfect. LMAO
These women don’t realize that you can’t take money out of a bank account that you never deposit money into.
They ASSume that they are entitled to respect, because of, well, pussy.
Respect has to be earned. If the first “da poor elderly woman” had been doing her job along with all of the other “da poor elderly women” then as another poster has already stated, women would keep each other in check. This would result in men respecting the lot of them.
She says, “I want the authority to effectively shame you, but not the responsibility of maintaining standards that men would give an eff about.”
Silence is often the best answer.
"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
Learn to be a smart ass.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
I had such a thing in the supermarket two weeks ago. Was doing my groceries (never much, so I take a basket instead of a cart), loaded it and went to the checkout. I put my stuff on the counter (?) and waited for the person in front of me to pay and move out. Behind me, two middle-aged women joined the line. I felt their eyes piercing my back, heard them blowing out exeggerated huffs of annoyance because they weren’t helped immediately and I turned around to confirm my suspicions: yup, two short-haired, fat specimens.
We made eye contact, one of them drew my gaze to my groceries, then to her cart full of stuff and honestly seemed to expect me be chivalrous and let her go before me. I lifted an eyebrow, put my headset on again and turned around, which made the other huff in disgust. Didn’t give them any more attention and walked away.
At the grocery store a couple months ago. I had a full cart. I look behind me and there’s a guy with about 5 things including a six pack of beer. So I told him to go in front of me. He says “No I’m fine.” I said “Seriously, go ahead. You’ve got beer to drink. I’ll still be loading my groceries when you are cracking your first beer. Just toast me when you open it.” He laughs and goes ahead of me and thanks me when he leaves. Behind him was a woman with a small load as well. I didn’t let her cut in. How many people am I supposed to let in front of me? Besides, there’s a 15 items or less isle a couple of cashiers away.
Must be the patriarchy…
Order the good wine
Thank you, guys for your support and responses.
Exactly, Nerevar, I have this silent exaggerated huffs, and nonverbal dissatisfactions like rolling eyes, and things like that, and don’t know what to respond, because if I will try to convince them, that their act is ridiculous, and I don’t owe them nothing, they will not understand that anyway. They will just say, that I imagined this and nothing really happened (and will turn situation, like I have imagined this, or staff like that).Because I had situation like this, back in my University days, when one fat and uninteresting girl, that I non directly rejected ( I didn’t know MGTOW, yet, so I had relationships, and was dating).
So I liked one girl, that had this ugly friend. And I started to hang around, girl I liked. And then, this ugly girl, started to more and more hit on me, especially when her friend, wasn’t around. And I analyzed this, and some other staff, and decided, that she is not suitable for me, because she may cheat, lie, deceive + she wasn’t looking good, and wasn’t my type. So I, started, to indirectly, let her know, that I am not interested in her. And after couple month, I gave up on the second one, because she was listening to the opinion of her “friend”, that I am not good for her, while, at the same time, when she wasn’t around, starting to bend over and show her ass, be more physical, smile, etc. Even then I understood, how friendship between women are total s~~~, and they may be friends, but only until some guy will come around.
But then, after, this UGLY started to do, some real s~~~. Every time, I was talking with my friends, or answering questions in the class, she started to do this huffs, roll eyes, and s~~~ like this ( the funny thing, that her friend, started to do the same thing). And was doing this, ALL THE TIME, when I was starting to say something.
I decided to don’t give a f~~~, and just ignore her, but analyzing this situation now, it would be much better to talk, or do something about this.
Because first times, when she just started to do this, it was funny for me, because I knew the whole situation, and what was going on, so I just or ignored, or simply laughed in response.
But she continued doing this, and I never though, that this would effect me in any way, but it did. She continued to do this, FOR 9 MONTH!!!!!!
FOR F~~~ING 9 MONTH!!! Almost a year, every time, I was talking about something, she was rolling eyes, and s~~~ like this. And the terrible thing about this, it’s that after month, of her doing this, I wasn’t really paying attention, and wasn’t aware, ( it may sound weird), of she doing this. I had some other problems, and I wasn’t registering every time she did this, but after 3 month, my self esteem, started to go down, AND I DIDN’T KNOW WHY!!!!
After 9 month of this s~~~, my self esteem, was low, then never before. This is some serious s~~~, guys!
And even now, after a couple of years, I don’t really feel, that I fully recovered from this situation (maybe 55- 60%, but I am on my way).
Before I was doing whatever I want, ( Not a good idea, but still, I could wear dirt clothing, or don’t shower for a couple days, when I was doing my projects, or studying something really interesting, and when people was asking me, why I do this or that,( especially girls; Guys usually don’t give a f~~~) I was just ignoring them, or laugh, and go away.
But now, some f~~~ing stupid, fat, grandma, with chicken hairstyle, can easily shame me, and I am f~~~ing thinking about this, why I hurt her feeling.
I will give everything, to get back this feeling of freedom, and NEVER again do this mistake, that I did. Although, because of this, I found MGTOW, and you guys, but I will not wish, even for this fat, peace of s~~~, to experience, what I experienced, these years: when you afraid to protect yourself, from everyone, because self esteem is low as f~~~, and whatever you do, you seek external validation ( which was NEVER a good idea).
But, now, that I aware of this, life is going on, and I am on my way, and will do everything to get my feeling of freedom and self worth back, and don’t ever, in my life, repeat this mistake. And thank you guys, a lot, for all your support. I really appreciate it!It’s all a big s~~~ test game to them!
Also very true. And there’s a whole predictable science behind this.
1. There’s her “s~~~-test”.
2. Then there is the response she is EXPECTING/WANTS.
3. There is also the response she DESERVES. (which may include no response at all)
4. And there is the GAME/PUA response which is intended to stimulate her for further interaction.S~~~ TEST: “Does my ass look fat in these pants?”
SHE EXPECTS/WANTS:
“No sweetie, your ass is the most perfect ass in the whole wide world!”(Her “pass”. Your automatic disqualification.)
GAME/PUA RESPONSE:
“Yes! Now get that fat ass over here before it hits the floor.”(Her “fail”. Your “pass”. Rewards her s~~~ test with attention and dick & encourages more s~~~ tests)
WHAT SHE DESERVES:
“Well I wasn’t going to say anything…..” (then exit)
“Never ask me that stupid question again.”
“I LIKE a girl with extra meat on her bones.”etc.
(Her “fail”. Your “pass”. Ends the interaction AND discourages more s~~~ tests.)
“You’re such a jerk!”.
WANTS: “Aw come on. How can I make it up to you?”.
PUA: “I knew there was a reason you liked me.”
DESERVES: “That’s never gonna get you laid.”
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Seeking truth, your last post revealed a lot about where you are coming from. You are an empathetic person. You gather a lot of information from how people around you are feeling and acting. It will take time and effort to dial their input down to zero.
Shutting out their praise, disdain, and even acknowledging them is going to be an important moment for you. Until you can not care about their opinion of you, concentrate on being a ghost. Be the man they saw but couldn’t touch. Nobody tries to shame a figment of their imagination.
Later you will learn to make THEM disappear. I’m a believer in the need to concentrate on yourself first.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
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I lifted an eyebrow, put my headset on again and turned around, which made the other huff in disgust. Didn’t give them any more attention and walked away.
Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging
Anonymous5Life is give or take if you get worried about what people think about you then your always on edge just remind yourself a person’s approval is as fickle as the wind.
Aesop. (Sixth century B.C.) Fables.
The Harvard Classics. 1909–14.The Man, the Boy, and the Donkey
A MAN and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?”
So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.”
So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself. But they hadn’t gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other: “Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along.”
Well, the Man didn’t know what to do, but at last he took his Boy up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to the town, and the passers-by began to jeer and point at them. The Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said: “Aren’t you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor Donkey of yours—you and your hulking son?”
The Man and Boy got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied the Donkey’s feet to it, and raised the pole and the Donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them till they came to Market Bridge, when the Donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the Boy to drop his end of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge, and his fore-feet being tied together he was drowned.
“That will teach you,” said an old man who had followed them:
“PLEASE ALL, AND YOU WILL PLEASE NONE.”
I decided to don’t give a f~~~, and just ignore her, but analyzing this situation now, it would be much better to talk, or do something about this.
Because first times, when she just started to do this, it was funny for me, because I knew the whole situation, and what was going on, so I just or ignored, or simply laughed in response.
But she continued doing this, and I never though, that this would effect me in any way, but it did. She continued to do this, FOR 9 MONTH!!!!!!
FOR F~~~ING 9 MONTH!!! Almost a year, every time, I was talking about something, she was rolling eyes, and s~~~ like this. And the terrible thing about this, it’s that after month, of her doing this, I wasn’t really paying attention, and wasn’t aware, ( it may sound weird), of she doing this. I had some other problems, and I wasn’t registering every time she did this, but after 3 month, my self esteem, started to go down, AND I DIDN’T KNOW WHY!!!!
After 9 month of this s~~~, my self esteem, was low, then never before. This is some serious s~~~, guys!
And even now, after a couple of years, I don’t really feel, that I fully recovered from this situation (maybe 55- 60%, but I am on my way).It may help you to know self esteem is as real as Santa Claus.
What is self esteem but some arrangement of electrochemical signal in the brain?
I can don a red suite, grab a bag of presents, rob a zoo for the reindeer, climb down chimney and some kids are going to believe I am Santa.
The adults does not believe I am Santa as they can rationalize how I get my appearance, some kids that believe I am Santa because they are invested in a fantasy they want to believe and ignore other rationalization. Santa is real because they choose to believe it.
Self esteem is just some word, a concept, some electrochemical signal that form that concept. We are to believe this imaginary ego can be hurt by people doing certain things, even if it is not logical at all. We are suppose to believe we have to feed it validation from other people to keep it healthy and growing. We are suppose to believe it can be hurt by the disapproval of someone else.
Even though it mean getting validation from other people hurt us physically or make us suffer a loss in real life. Like having a loss in time, resource, effort to buy gifts / repair electronic stuff / help in studies for the imaginary validation of a woman. We are suppose to believe our self esteem can be hurt by the disapproval of a woman planting a white feather of cowardice and go fight in wars where we can be hurt or dies in reality.
F~~~ this, why we should agree to trade for something imaginary with our better realities? I would throw whatever fantasy self esteem I have in the furnace and forge something stronger out of it. Certainly not a high upkeep fantasy pet that I need to feed it validation from other people and keep it from hurting by other people disapproval. The cost benefit ratio is too high to keep such pet.
Self esteem only exist if we believe it is true. In reality it is just some electrochemical signal in the brain wield as a weapon especially by women to gain something by giving nothing except meaningless words. If we refuse to let such electrochemical signal form in our brain, it is nothing by a fantasy.
There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.
Shaming… later we’ll see… “you voted for trump” shaming…
I’m seeing this a lot more lately.
“Swipe left if you support Trump.”
“I mute all Trump supporters.”Any woman who says these things is a woman I don’t want to know. They project their hatred onto us. It’s truly sickening.
@ Seeking Truth
Welcome and be at ease.
My opinion only.
There is something about you – well mannered – polite – well behaved.
I believe you have been raised well or this is something within you.
It’s not that you need approval – you have too much respect for others and too little for yourself.That’s impressive and I appreciate what you have. There is nothing wrong with you. You have unfortunately been taught to live in a world that does not exist.
This is also the problem – females see you as a pushover and someone they can bully. Believe me they know and they will keep at it to see how far they can go. One day they will get you – somehow. Because you tried to do the right thing.
Your struggle is not with females – it’s in your own mind – what you think is right and what is wrong. Trying to force yourself to be someone else is not good. Rather you have to accept to let go the things you have been taught about females and to understand the world we really live in.
This unlearning does not disrespect the person who taught you good qualities.
You need to learn new ways to defend yourself. Else you won’t do well.I hope you can accept this, and move on. We are here if you need us.
Peace.
Thank you, very much, Yumbo.
I had a lot of problems with my ego, so I am trying to press it, but more and more, I see that not everyone worth good attitudes, toward them.
A lot of people, actually, like when you hurt their feelings, and act rude toward them, but it doesn’t mean, that I would do that, just to please them, but although, it is necessary to know this, identify this kind of people, and avoid them.
If they are ok, to try to hurt you, with no real reason, than you have to just walk away, and this is what I’m trying to do and learn now.- AuthorPosts
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