Womens duplicity

[Anonymous 54]

Should the yankee that found Lees’ battle plans have not read them?

This is war.

If a relationship resembles war,its over anyways.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Sparticus66 wrote:

I’m still angry about it two years later.

Initially, it would p~~~ me off, but I would hope with some time, I would be grateful and remember this as the learning lesson of a lifetime. I would keep it fresh and use it as a great frame of reference if I ever felt myself getting reeled in by any future sweethearts.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Only a f~~~ing fool would fully trust a women. You can never do it. Never. All cheating affairs are wrong. There is no defending them, but it is no indicator of a cheater. I have been cheated on by all types of girls in various different situations. AWALT.

Those of you harassing the guy for snooping, are bestowing upon a woman a privilege only a man is worthy of receiving and respecting.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

@Old Bill, do you signal your turns when you know for a fact nobody can see you? – Is that integrity or stupidity?
Do you make a full stop at a four way stop when you can see the road for miles and you’re the only car? – Is that integrity or stupidity?

I caught my wife cheating by logging onto her facebook. I’ve never done it before – I let her have password-protected phone with sms coming in every five minutes, I never snooped her emails or phone or facebook before (because I believed in blind trust and privacy and that snooping is bad). However, when I was out of the country for a month and I noticed restaurant charges on our credit card – the curiosity (/self preservation instinct) got the best of me, so I logged on to her FB and went through the messages.
And I did uncover some messages that were suspicious. That alone wasn’t the straw that broke the camel’s back – I got more solid evidence when I returned. And I had to kick her out and divorce her.
In retrospect – am I glad I logged onto her FB? F~~~ yeah! Better cut the bitch off sooner than later.

The way I think about it – it’s a good faith measure to respect her privacy when there is no reason to suspect her of cheating. But once there is a good reason – it’s foolish to continue to trust her, just as it’s foolish to stop at a 4-way stop in the middle of nowhere when nobody’s looking. It’s not integrity – it’s foolishness. Rules can serve a valid purpose, but they can also be an impediment in certain situations. There is nothing wrong in breaking rules when they don’t serve your purpose

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[narwhalParticipant]

Integrity doesn’t mean you do pointless activities. It means you hold to right choices and actions even though you know you aren’t likely to get exposed for it. It means you don’t lie, even when you know you can get away with it.

For the record, my integrity sucks, if I do say so myself. I explained more, but then I’d be in danger of raising my integrity level out of s~~~ty status.

As for your personal situation, that definitely sounds like just cause, as Old Bill already talked about.

Ok. Then do it.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Sparticus66 wrote:

You however are currently a White Knight on MGTOW. You ought to go back out there and do some more research with those women you are so keen to protect

I’ve never met you or Old Bill. Based on his history of “calling a spade a spade”, however, I would hardly consider him a White Knight. His other moniker is No Bulls~~~ Bill. He doesn’t give or take it.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

acting off integrity is only warranted when you’re dealing with a honorable person

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 12]

You simply cannot trust women. I have been with a number of prostitutes and other women who sell sexual services and so many of them have partners. Except in one case none of the partners knew what the woman did for a living.

Their excuses and justifications were pathetic, “I’m not doing anything that bad, I am helping people” said one masseuse while she stroked my c~~~ and then exposed her t~~~ and let me suck on them free of charge, she had a boyfriend who thought she only did straight massage. “Well, if he loves me” said a stripper while she opened her pussy wide for me as I fingered her, well he loved you he would want you to have some self respect.

The massage I got was from a woman who had a girlfriend, she was Bi but her girlfriend was Lesbian, she didn’t know her girlfriend was spending time getting groped by men and doing hand jobs all day. So at least they also deceive and f~~~ with each other I guess.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Question, did you enjoy the time with her?
If so, be happy, move on, forget.
I had a few bad endings in relationships. I dont care about those girls anymore (I think both are married with kids, cant be sure cus I did not follow up on them).

In terms of Trust, no, you cant trust anyone. Sorry mate, you cant even trust yourself, how the f~~~ do you expect to be able to trust someone else.

I learned long ago: Make sure people can trust you, never trust them.
Why? Because its such a rare commodity that you will make great profit from it (Thats how I got the girls I got back in the day).

Unfortunately you also need to be able to dodge bulls~~~ because more than one will try to take advantage of that.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I feel for you brother, you’ve learned a lesson it seems and got a good dose of reality from Old Bill. It obviously upset you, but come back and read this post in a week, I guarantee you’ll feel better about your situation.

Regarding the snooping, you’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t. If you didn’t snoop, you never would have found out she still had feelings for her ex. You would have been happy, but you wouldn’t have known the truth. Of course after snooping, you found the truth, and it made you unhappy. Basically, a relationship with a woman, any woman, is a no-win situation. I hate saying that, and I wish it wasn’t true but unfortunately it is.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Sparticus66 wrote:

I had an affair lasting years with a woman. It started when she was married

Can I trust any of these f~~~ers?

Not dating a woman who cheats on her husband would be a start.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

CatsPaw wrote:

Question, did you enjoy the time with her?
If so, be happy, move on, forget.

He sounds lucky not to have knocked her up, that could have destroyed his life.

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