Women more controlling and aggressive in Relationships than Men

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

I’m really sorry to hear that, Bee. I hope you find a solution that works for you and your daughter.

[AnthonyParticipant 241]

Bee wrote:

I have a story, from just an hour ago:
I spent most of the day buying supplies to tile the bathroom. Wife came home later, around 5:30. She informed me that she was not going to be cooking dinner. I heated leftover chicken wings. My daughter and I did not leave the kitchen clean to my wife’s satisfaction, and she lost her temper. She screamed at us for a while, hit our daughter on the top of her head while she cowered on the floor in the “tornado position” because she knew she was going to be hit. tipped over a chair, and flung the food she was reheating onto the table causing it to splatter around the entire kitchen.

I’ve informed her that hitting our child is not acceptable. I’ve also told her that the splattered food will stay that way until she cleaned it up. I’m trying to keep it together for my child.

Domestic violence takes many forms. It isn’t always as clearly defined as someone striking their partner. A lot of times it is manipulation, being a disciplinarian with children, going after pets, threats of leaving to get attention,

Update just now. She wanted our daughter to put away laundry. Daughter is slow to do it. Wife began loosing her temper again. She gathered up our daughter’s Christmas presents in a trash bag and threw them in the garage. She started screaming and started to throw some clothing into a travel bag as if to leave. I tried to stop her. I told her that she made her point and that it was time to stop. I got slapped in the face when blocking her way as she was leaving. She left anyway but without any change of clothes.

I don’t know that we will be staying together.

That’s f~~~ed up man. I wouldn’t tolerate that s~~~ for a second. Also, WHAT THE F~~~ ARE YOU DOING STILL MARRIED?! Seriously dude, come’on.

[HitmanParticipant]

Bee, you have to take control .
take photos of the mess she made
call the f~~~ing police if she hits you
don’t want to call the cops ? what are you teaching that child ?
the kid got hit and so did you ! 911.
lawyer up , to save your child and yourself ! an arrest for domestic violence is what that c~~~ DESERVES !
oh, your job is to save that kid ! tornado position ? F~~~ THAT .goddamn it , that kid KNOWS theyr’e gonna get hit by that C~~~ and gets ready ? what the f~~~ ? how do you let THAT happen to your child ?
PROTECT YOUR KID, ASK A LAWYER ABOUT DIVORCE AND CUSTODY ..or you will be an accomplice and the state might take your child .
foster homes probably not so good for the child ,.GET ON THIS .

[MemberParticipant 323]

Bee wrote:

I have a story, from just an hour

Domestic violence takes many forms. It isn’t always as clearly defined as someone striking their partner. A lot of times it is manipulation, being a disciplinarian with children, going after pets, threats of leaving to get attention,

Bee,

I think a lot of guys on this forum have seen this behavior firsthand. Sorry you have to deal with it but it is definitely not acceptable…..she will try to convince you otherwise but you know better. It seems to come back to the same old causes……………she is a woman and knows she can do pretty much anything with no consequences…..and two she knows that if you aren’t willing to put up with her s~~~ she can leave and find someone that will the next day. Sucks…..all I can say is do your best to get through it. You have a kid so divorce is not always the obvious choice but someday it can be given the right planning.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

I hope you’re videotaping that behavior man. You’re gonna need it as evidence at your divorce trial.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Bee, she sounds like a dangerous whack job, If she wants to leave, let her leave. Only a masochist would put up with this abuse to himself and his child. If you won’t do it for yourself, think of your daughter. Remember it’s better to come from a broken home than to live in one.

[Klaus WindamierParticipant 543]

Bee wrote:

I have a story, from just an hour ago:
I spent most of the day buying supplies to tile the bathroom. Wife came home later, around 5:30. She informed me that she was not going to be cooking dinner. I heated leftover chicken wings. My daughter and I did not leave the kitchen clean to my wife’s satisfaction, and she lost her temper. She screamed at us for a while, hit our daughter on the top of her head while she cowered on the floor in the “tornado position” because she knew she was going to be hit. tipped over a chair, and flung the food she was reheating onto the table causing it to splatter around the entire kitchen.

I’ve informed her that hitting our child is not acceptable. I’ve also told her that the splattered food will stay that way until she cleaned it up. I’m trying to keep it together for my child.

Domestic violence takes many forms. It isn’t always as clearly defined as someone striking their partner. A lot of times it is manipulation, being a disciplinarian with children, going after pets, threats of leaving to get attention,

Update just now. She wanted our daughter to put away laundry. Daughter is slow to do it. Wife began loosing her temper again. She gathered up our daughter’s Christmas presents in a trash bag and threw them in the garage. She started screaming and started to throw some clothing into a travel bag as if to leave. I tried to stop her. I told her that she made her point and that it was time to stop. I got slapped in the face when blocking her way as she was leaving. She left anyway but without any change of clothes.

I don’t know that we will be staying together.

The f~~~ did i just read?

This is absurd beyond absurd.

And that tornado position. That laugh my ass of LOL.

This just more proof that they are mostly an overgrown toddler.

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That hitting of the daughter’s head part, that’s unbelievable.

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Is this your story or you copy paste it?

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

I hope you’re videotaping that behavior man. You’re gonna need it as evidence at your divorce trial.

@Bee- Until she’s gone, or you and the kid are you may need body cameras. The mobius is very small and relatively cheap. Ultra Pro X sells cameras that can be set on motion detection mode, find a little hidey hole when you feel like something is going to go down and place it there. It will only record when movement activates it. The action cam 5 is only 55 dollars right now,and it’s a similar form and size to a gopro. About the size of a pack of cigarettes.

At the very least, next time she gets aggressive pull out your phone and start recording. She’ll either realize that you’ll proof or totally flip s~~~ because she feels justified in her actions, and you are daring to challenge her.

My previous advice was to start making a plan. You may have to execute without that plan now.

Your child was the reason for staying, she’s the one you were trying to protect.

OP- good info, but I think most of our members who have read the introductions forum already knew this.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[BeeParticipant 700]

This happened just last night, Christmas Eve. I was reading on this forum as this occurred. I set down the laptop a while and came back to it. It is not copy and pasted, it is typical behavior of my wife when she looses her temper. The fight started over some dirty dishes in the kitchen. She felt we (daughter and I) don’t clean up after ourselves enough, that she has asked us to clean up repeatedly, and she was sick of it.

She left last night. I think she had a couple changes of clothes. As of right now, Christmas morning, I have neither seen nor heard from her. Her phone is turned off. We may not see her again this weekend.

She talks of divorce at times. Sometimes threatening and sometimes just in a casual way. I am starting to think there is another man.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

I’m sorry Bee, but you just might be right about there being someone else. I mean, it’s Christmas! Who just ups and leaves on Christmas?? Without a change of clothes??

My advice is install a keyboard logger on your wife’s computer, and find out what the password is, however sneaky you have to be to do that (spy camera). Then find out what sites she’s visited, tap her emails. In fact, there’s software that can tap cellphones and copy all contacts, messages and even record conversations in real time, all for between $40 and $70. Get it. I’m sorry to plant more suspicion, but at least my ex was up front about being on a dating site and going on dates with other men.

To my way of thinking, no one in their right mind would cause such an almighty scene on Christmas Eve, and then storm out with barely the clothes on their backs, EXCEPT if they had it already planned. It is my suspicion that she already planned to be somewhere else, because with women today, if they got mad and had no plans, YOU would be the one finding some motel to stay in for Christmas. She has to have planned this one, and already have thought of where she wanted to be, and all she had to do was cause the scene to make it happen. Classic Machiavellian scheming, which all women are inherently good at.

You MUST protect yourself and your daughter here. Get that tracking software, install cameras without her knowing, get your savings to a safe place (i.e. buy physical metals that can’t be traced and give them to your parents), and consult a lawyer. I’ve been here, and even though I had NEVER EVER even got angry in 10 years of marriage, I got charged with assault, had the police called on me every week for being “aggressive”, and got banned from my own home and kids at Christmas and New Year, without any recourse. I haven’t seen either of my kids since 2008.

You have to think like you’re at war now, even if you would dearly love it to be otherwise. Protect yourself and your daughter.

[BubParticipant 1405]

Bee wrote:

Update just now. She wanted our daughter to put away laundry. Daughter is slow to do it. Wife began loosing her temper again. She gathered up our daughter’s Christmas presents in a trash bag and threw them in the garage. She started screaming and started to throw some clothing into a travel bag as if to leave. I tried to stop her. I told her that she made her point and that it was time to stop. I got slapped in the face when blocking her way as she was leaving. She left anyway but without any change of clothes.

I don’t know that we will be staying together.

So sorry to hear this, especially on Christmas Eve.

Time to change the locks and put the rest of her sh*t on the front porch, but put a bow on it for the b*tch.

Good luck man….

Just rolling down the road

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Bee wrote:

I have a story, from just an hour ago:
I spent most of the day buying supplies to tile the bathroom. Wife came home later, around 5:30. She informed me that she was not going to be cooking dinner. I heated leftover chicken wings. My daughter and I did not leave the kitchen clean to my wife’s satisfaction, and she lost her temper. She screamed at us for a while, hit our daughter on the top of her head while she cowered on the floor in the “tornado position” because she knew she was going to be hit. tipped over a chair, and flung the food she was reheating onto the table causing it to splatter around the entire kitchen.

I’ve informed her that hitting our child is not acceptable. I’ve also told her that the splattered food will stay that way until she cleaned it up. I’m trying to keep it together for my child.

Domestic violence takes many forms. It isn’t always as clearly defined as someone striking their partner. A lot of times it is manipulation, being a disciplinarian with children, going after pets, threats of leaving to get attention,

Update just now. She wanted our daughter to put away laundry. Daughter is slow to do it. Wife began loosing her temper again. She gathered up our daughter’s Christmas presents in a trash bag and threw them in the garage. She started screaming and started to throw some clothing into a travel bag as if to leave. I tried to stop her. I told her that she made her point and that it was time to stop. I got slapped in the face when blocking her way as she was leaving. She left anyway but without any change of clothes.

I don’t know that we will be staying together.

I don’t know about you, but if some bitch (male or female), hit my kids- it’s F~~~ING ON.

are you a chia pet in man drag

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