Women checking you out, to see if you're checking them out?

[MadmanParticipant 772]

I got a haircut last night and the haircut lady hit on me. She was a super fat post waller and she told me I had beautiful eyes lol.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

AmongstMen wrote:

Talked about my recent experience in another thread. Female was staring me down in a convo she was in w/ 2 manginas. She then comes into the groupgroup room and continues looking toward my direction and matching my body language. I aint giving her the time of day. It’s annoying as heck, man. I agree with you.

There’s definitely been various instances I seen where chicks try to get their ego-boosts. In group settings, they’ll try to out-validate eachother. In casual settings, they’ll try to get individual validation from a particular individual (you) by getting in your general space and trying to bait you with their looks/sexual mannerisms.

I’d say there is a pendulum. Some do have their green lights on but others make a whole ego-construct out of it. I read a book called “games people play”. Excellent book.One section described “rapo” frames and its different levels. The higher the levels, the more of a rush they get out of rejecting males for the sake of it. So you’ll go as far as having females trying to bait you for validation only to become cold and start making you feel like a creep thethe moment you show interest. They’re purposefully pushing for a scenario where they can feel like a damsel in distress because it gives them a certain rush. It’s very obvious in club and party settings but they also do it in casual settings, too. They go beyond just “check me out” they take it as far as “check me out so I can reject you”.

Taken to the extreme, “regret” sex now becomes a false rape accusation. I started becoming aware of how it all went full circle when I went from PUA to MGTOW. It’s all one big game that’s basically Russian Roullette but with all bullets locked and loaded in the gun. Going back on topic, I have similar impressions/perceptions as you do, sir. I ‘d say there’s even more to it!

This is perhaps the best I’ve ever seen it be explained. I have experienced all of these. Very good job man.

[FaxmodemParticipant 1415]

I have noticed it, I live in a small town and there’s a shortage of single men. Plus I have a good paying job, and they know it, some how. But I keep a low profile when I am out in public. They try to flirt with me, but I don’t react to it. As I know there desperate, as I can smell it, they reek of desperation. I act like I don’t see it or notice it.

Us men didn't start the battle of the sexes, but we're clearly going to win it via the simple tactic of just leaving the battlefield in contempt."

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Women stare all the time,but they dont admit it when they get caught staring..If you ignore women,they are in panic mode,and try to do stupid things to get your attention..But if they failed again,they just labelled as you gay…

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Red_Pill_Soulja wrote:

Hello MGTOW brothers,

I noticed some women looking at me – but I don’t think they’re checking me out. I think they just want to see if I’m checking them out. Does anyone else feel this is the case?

Imo they look at me and think “There is a male, he should be checking me out.” and then they’ll sort of hang around my general area to see if I do. 90% of the time I don’t give them the satisfaction.

I do find it annoying however. I feel like a validation dispenser. It’s not like they are thinking:

“Oh RED_PILL_SOULJA is a good looking guy, should I go and talk to him?”

Instead they’re thinking:

“There is a man of breeding age, he should be checking me out because vagina, will he? I will stand near him until he does so I can feel good.”

Again, this is purely my impressions/feeling with no objective truth. I guess it feels somewhat real though.

What are your thoughts brothers?

Your personal experience is borne out by several studies with numerous examples of female behavior.
“Men are turned on by women. Women are turned on by turning on men.”
Of course they are mainly turned on by turning on rich or handsome guys and thugs. Anyone else they consider creeps.

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Oh most deff man. I don’t get out much but the gym, grocery store, and afternoon walks are chalk full of these types.

Stone cold ego bitch slap is all thy get. Its sometimes hard to keep from smiling as I watch their facial expression unfold. The look of defeat is utterly priceless.

Thinking of getting a body cam just to record it.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

The Laughing Man wrote:

Oh most deff man. I don’t get out much but the gym, grocery store, and afternoon walks are chalk full of these types.

Stone cold ego bitch slap is all thy get. Its sometimes hard to keep from smiling as I watch their facial expression unfold. The look of defeat is utterly priceless.

Thinking of getting a body cam just to record it.

Can you elaborate? What do you do besides ignoring them? Cheers

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

It’s as simple as that, you don’t do anything. There’s a expression that a woman has a rationalization hamster that spins there wild nonsensical logic. By ignoring them you send it spinning. By going about your business like they aren’t there you let them torment them selves with insecurity.

I usually have my sunglasses on so it makes it easier to read them for longer. For the gym good peripheral works like a charm. That and multiple mirrors.

When out for a walk it’s easy to seem them coming. At first they do a quick clothing fitment check. As yo get closer posture becomes more showy as they try their best to act neotenous with a smile. Sometimes they look around and as soon as you get close they act surprised you are right there. As soon as they realize I’m not looking at them the smile quickly turns to varying degrees of confused, depressed, and my fave, the oh whatevs.

They see a easy ego boast and when they don’t get it the hamster starts a spinnin.

At the gym there is a young pretty little thing who’s married to an older guy. You can tell she’s desperate for attention. This chick goes to the free weight section to do crazy overly sexualized aerobics when there is a open area twice the size at the entrance. Looks at the mirror to see who’s looking constantly. Checking clothing, constantly. She even lifts up her shirt to show a near 6 pack nice tone stomach to wipe off non existent sweat.

I’m not a jerk but my time and attention are of high value and frankly, I just don’t give a damn.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

Sometimes I see women, who are walking in front of me, looking behind them to see if I’m looking at their short shorts/yoga pants/mini skirt. Although my mind is naturally programmed to stare in lust at their bodies, sometimes I’m not looking directly at them— but I’ll see them turning around from the corner of my eye. Just like the book of Ecclesiastes says, all is vanity.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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