Women checking you out, to see if you're checking them out?

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

Hello MGTOW brothers,

I noticed some women looking at me – but I don’t think they’re checking me out. I think they just want to see if I’m checking them out. Does anyone else feel this is the case?

Imo they look at me and think “There is a male, he should be checking me out.” and then they’ll sort of hang around my general area to see if I do. 90% of the time I don’t give them the satisfaction.

I do find it annoying however. I feel like a validation dispenser. It’s not like they are thinking:

“Oh RED_PILL_SOULJA is a good looking guy, should I go and talk to him?”

Instead they’re thinking:

“There is a man of breeding age, he should be checking me out because vagina, will he? I will stand near him until he does so I can feel good.”

Again, this is purely my impressions/feeling with no objective truth. I guess it feels somewhat real though.

What are your thoughts brothers?

[TuneoutParticipant]

Like dogs,the less attention you give them,the more they want.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[EndOfDatesParticipant 51]

Absolutely. They have to get that validation 24/7, every opportunity. I keep virtual blinders on, they are nothing. It has the added benefit of avoiding interaction – as we all know that is a one way street.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

so often, i see men checking out women, particularily young women…. i don’t see the other way around very often.

women like to check out fancy cars and big houses

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 1]

My opinion is that women will generally ignore any man they believe isn’t up to their standard.

They already believe their own hype.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

When I walk past women, I do my best to muster a nice silent but deadly fart, stop to give it enough time to rape their noses, then move on when they grimace from my special gift, giggling like a school boy.

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

Yes, this is definitely a thing, sad to say.

Had a funny moment the other day. I was on my bike, and I went past some middle-aged hoochie walking up my street dressed up so much she looked like a trannie. Well, I couldn’t help it, I gawked in horror.

BUT… I had my helmet on, so she could neither see my plain middle aged features nor the look of horror etched on them. All she saw was a (presumably young) guy on a sports bike with his head inclined toward her.

And this smile crept over her face as she obviously thought, “HE’S CHECKING ME OUT!!!”

Ummm, no. Couldn’t open that throttle far enough.

[Anonymous 5]

They have such high egos they always think that people are checking them out .there delusional they need to get over themselves I the grand scheme of things there not that special .

[HitmanParticipant]

Yes. It happens.
A lot.
Attention whores who are addicted to getting as much validation as possible.
Shallow egos.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Attention is a addiction. Just like meth. If they don’t get it they start to falter, then they turn vulnerable. That’s when you can get the most out of them.

If they don’t get attention:
Stable (not many) turns into unstable.
And unstable turns into crazy.

It’s not technically validation it’s a addiction!

Note: it’s like jack Kennedy, who needed drug shots so he can get a as he called it, a “edge.”

Same thing for women they need it to get the edge. Manipulate, sexualize themselves etc.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[AmongstMenParticipant 129]

Talked about my recent experience in another thread. Female was staring me down in a convo she was in w/ 2 manginas. She then comes into the groupgroup room and continues looking toward my direction and matching my body language. I aint giving her the time of day. It’s annoying as heck, man. I agree with you.

There’s definitely been various instances I seen where chicks try to get their ego-boosts. In group settings, they’ll try to out-validate eachother. In casual settings, they’ll try to get individual validation from a particular individual (you) by getting in your general space and trying to bait you with their looks/sexual mannerisms.

I’d say there is a pendulum. Some do have their green lights on but others make a whole ego-construct out of it. I read a book called “games people play”. Excellent book.One section described “rapo” frames and its different levels. The higher the levels, the more of a rush they get out of rejecting males for the sake of it. So you’ll go as far as having females trying to bait you for validation only to become cold and start making you feel like a creep thethe moment you show interest. They’re purposefully pushing for a scenario where they can feel like a damsel in distress because it gives them a certain rush. It’s very obvious in club and party settings but they also do it in casual settings, too. They go beyond just “check me out” they take it as far as “check me out so I can reject you”.

Taken to the extreme, “regret” sex now becomes a false rape accusation. I started becoming aware of how it all went full circle when I went from PUA to MGTOW. It’s all one big game that’s basically Russian Roullette but with all bullets locked and loaded in the gun. Going back on topic, I have similar impressions/perceptions as you do, sir. I ‘d say there’s even more to it!

[Anonymous 11]

I remember first catching on to that stunt back in my hard core blue pill days back twenty years ago. You ignore her then she shows interest. The second you show any interest she checks out of there.

Later you learn she’s getting drilled by some Chad(s), or has a hypergamy prospect she’s working.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

When I walk past women, I do my best to muster a nice silent but deadly fart, stop to give it enough time to rape their noses, then move on when they grimace from my special gift, giggling like a school boy.

Yes! This is fantastic fun! Better yet, get yourself a pack of fart bombs, size of a suppository, glass and wrapped in gauze. Walk by a group of bitches, crush underfoot and watch from distance. I have no idea why men get bored.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Exactly the case. It’s attention whoring. They want to know that men find them attractive, not like it’s gonna go anywhere, but they want to know. It’s like asking someone their opinion, and then when they go to answer you put in earplugs.

It’s attention whoring. The same principle as girls posting skanky pictures online. They’re not going to f~~~ the 516 guys that liked her photo, she might not f~~~ a single one, but she NEEDS the attention.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Chaff/Flare wrote:

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

When I walk past women, I do my best to muster a nice silent but deadly fart, stop to give it enough time to rape their noses, then move on when they grimace from my special gift, giggling like a school boy.

Yes! This is fantastic fun! Better yet, get yourself a pack of fart bombs, size of a suppository, glass and wrapped in gauze. Walk by a group of bitches, crush underfoot and watch from distance. I have no idea why men get bored.

Haha ohhh the things ive done with my mates involving stink bombs. Letting some off in a packed Saturday afternoon cinema as well as a green smoke bomb…we almost choked to death on our laughter. Good times!

[EinherjarParticipant 608]

Good post Red Pill Soulja, and as I see it, your observation is spot on! It servers as a good testimony of how different the two genders look upon each other. One thing of which we all most likely can agree upon, is that we find women attractive more often than they do towards us.

A man walking down the street on any given day might spot a number of attractive girls on his journey. Yet he will rarily be given the same gesture in return. We are air to them, or at best an obstacle blocking the vision behind us. The only way of catching a womans eye (if you would want such a thing) is to dress successfully, and even then it is not guaranteed.

It is as the topic name so rightly states, that women only wants to be wanted by men, even though she does not recognize them for more than a couple of eyes. This is also the reason why so many women choose to dress so sexually, meaning clothes that does not work in keeping their private parts, well private. The lust for validation as a sexual object is almost palpable.

And I can tesitfy to this fenonomen myself. Every time I visit the gym, I usually tend to warm up at the treadmills. And what happens next is the same every time, with very few exceptions. As I am doing my running at the treadmills, all new arriving females tend to always chose the treadmills in front of me. Even though there is a lot of vacant machines both next to me and behind. And all of them wear clothes which are so thin that a layer of paint would cover more. And there they are, right in front of me shaking their close to naked body , disrupting my concentration and thus my workout. And they always keep an eye on me, to see if I look … to see if I check them out. All in the name of validation.

A validation I am all too happy to starve them from:)

The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle (384 - 322 BC)

[RennieParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

They have such high egos they always think that people are checking them out .there delusional they need to get over themselves I the grand scheme of things there not that special .

That happened to me when I was going home on the local commuter train months ago. Some ~30 yo asian woman had taken a seat across from me. She stayed there almost the whole time and I never looked at her either. The train was now running along the lake and I turned my head to look across the coach to the opposite windows. Not long after that the woman got up and moved to another seat. At no point did I look directly at her.

Delusional, dumb t~~~.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

The Wall Of Silence destroys those attention starved trollops every time!

LOL!

[BoarParticipant]

I have noticed the prettier the gurl, the more likely they are to notice not getting attention. They almost seem puzzled and try to hang around and catch your eye.

Total validation whore…..

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I’ve seen it most of my life. Little teenage sluts eyeb~~~~ turning sideways and backward in their eye sockets- trying to see if I’m looking but they do it while trying not to move their head. They want that validation so badly. It’s how they gauge how much of a being a bitch they can get away with.

The older women, 30s and up not as much.

That’s my experience at least.

#MANOUT

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