Women Attempting to Disqualify Men Even When a Man Isn't Interested

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

Because she’s NOT there to watch the game. She’s there looking for an alpha wallet to snag. For whatever reason, you didn’t fit her criteria, so she had to declare her “rejection” right off the bat. (See what I did there? Was it baseball?)

If she were really just there to watch the game, she wouldn’t make a big deal out of it. It’s because flirting is on HER mind that she assumes it must be on yours. Women always project their thoughts onto men around them.

The bold is very succinct and true. I’ve seen this broad around town several times over the past couple of years. She’s attractive (for her age…mid 30’s, hitting the wall) but complains about her job or job insecurity. She gets flirty with guys, trying to get free drinks. She acts so loopy/crazy. I would say she’s possibly popping pills, but with women’s behavior as it is today, she might just be another crazy chick.

Anyway, I NEVER feed women attention let alone free drinks; so ya, this is a possibility.

The modern social dynamic between men and women has become so mind-numbingly insane, that this is now the norm. A chick waltzes in and while I’m minding my own business she has to assert and reassure herself that –

“I’m just here to watch the game”.

It’s like – “Fu$K off”. I didn’t ask and don’t care. Mind you’re own business, as am I. I simply can’t stand the INSTANT that they walk into the room, everything has to be about them.

It’s a reverse pick up (for whatever her psychological ploy was) – “I’m NOT here for you!”. Well, no-one asked $unt!. Go sit by yourself and do you’re own $hit.

Females NEVER go to bars by themselves to enjoy a game or a drink. NEVER! I live in an urban area, and spent virtually every night going out for almost two years….Females can NOT go out alone and enjoy themselves. If they are out alone, there is something else going on. My initial thought is that they are a pro (hooker), we have them downtown in my area late at night; if not a “pro” than a semi-pro: i.e. basically all women today, but more serious about it than the typical Tinderella/fu$kbook slut.

Women are incapable of enjoying themselves out alone. It’s not in their nature. They are entirely uncomftarabue with it. I’ve had exe’s tell me precisely this – “How can you go somewhere by yourself? I can’t imagine doing that!”

Resident cynic.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

MGTOWmonkey aka No More F~~~s To Give wrote:

You should have never looked at her when she came in. Remember women are so full of themselves they think just by a man looking their way he wants her. Just practice being more stoic and use your peripheral vision to spot people. I can spot many women now without even looking at them or them thinking I am.

I understand and agree with the sentiment/spirit of your post, and in general I apply this as well; but if the situation is so dire that I can’t even look over my shoulder when out in public, than I might as well become a hermit of Howard Hughes proportions.

I’m not saying don’t look over your shoulders, what I mean is if a person enters to your far right you should be able to see them while slightly glancing right. If it’s a buddy you know turn around and acknowledge him, if it’s a c~~~ just look back forward like you never saw her.

*Taps on shoulder* “I’m only here to watch the game”

“I never noticed you were her nor do I care” *proceeds to watch game*

MGTOW is also about disqualifying f~~~ery especially self centered c~~~s.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I’ve been put in a similar situation, and considered the following responses:

her: I’m just here to watch the game
Me: I don’t remember asking

Her: I’m just here to watch the game
Me: Me too. If you’d stop talking, I could listen to it as well

Her: I’m just here to watch the game
Me: I’m just here to watch the game… with someone else… And you’re in her seat

Her: I’m just here to watch the game
Me: Maybe you should sit over there, closer to the TV, where you can see it better

Her: I’m just here to watch the game
Me: I’m just here to watch the game in peace. What do I have to do for that to happen?

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[bstoffParticipant 4865]

If a guy came in saying the same thing, I would have probably just shrugged and ignored him.
She shouldn’t be treated any differently.
You don’t owe her a reaction at all, even though she might have been seeking one.

[ghostParticipant]

Hi Gambit

Gambit deletes text.

Not even worth taking it any further.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Am I over analyzing these situations because I’m choking on red pills?

NO.

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Perhaps I’m jaded,

NO. You’re just correct.

Really watch them. Everything about a woman’s M.O ( modus operandi / mode of operation ) is an attempt to falsely inflate her value and to try and make herself look “unattainable”. Even better if she can belittle a man in the process and make everything beneath her.

• “Oh no, he’s JUST a friend”.
• “I’m JUST here to lower myself for a while….”.

Even the expression on a VOGUE models face has no warm and inviting smile. She’s looking down her nose at the camera as if to say: “If you’re a woman, I know you want to BE me. If you’re a man, I know you want to be WITH me – and I disrespect you for it”.

That is the cartoon bubble floating over her head.
Every. Single. Time.

Women Attempting to Disqualify Men

Thats’ exactly what they do. Attempt to DIS-quality.

As men, we qualify things. We compare and contrast positive features and look for a solution and reason to say YES. A woman looks for a reason to say “no”. Women can’t even describe what their ideal man is! But she can tell you everything WRONG with you. She can tell you what she DOESN”T like. Doesn’t eat. Isn’t attracted to. She can give you a list of reasons NOT to go out with a guy.

• “He’s not ambitious enough”
• “He doesn’t really do it for me”.
• “He’s boring”

…. and everyone’s personal favorite . . .

• “He’s too nice”.

“Oh, hi. I’m JUST hear to watch the game”

“Yeah me too. So how about you JUST shut the f~~~ up.”

You don’t need to say it out loud either.

Most of the things women say don’t even deserve a response. Especially if it’s not compelling or a stupid thing like “Im just hear to breathe air”. I would not say anything to that, just look at her like she smells bad.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ghostParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

• “He’s not ambitious enough”
• “He doesn’t really do it for me”.
• “He’s boring”

I have been told I am too ambitious and too impulsive – pretty much the exact opposite of everything you just said. They keep changing what they want. They never want the same thing. They want the guy to adjust to however they are feeling.

F~~~ that noise.

[DocParticipant]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

MGTOWmonkey aka No More F~~~s To Give wrote:

You should have never looked at her when she came in. Remember women are so full of themselves they think just by a man looking their way he wants her. Just practice being more stoic and use your peripheral vision to spot people. I can spot many women now without even looking at them or them thinking I am.

I understand and agree with the sentiment/spirit of your post, and in general I apply this as well; but if the situation is so dire that I can’t even look over my shoulder when out in public, than I might as well become a hermit of Howard Hughes proportions.

I try my hardest to never look directly at women these days. You can sense their looking to see if you look tho. Ain’t happening. Looking validates an already grotesque ego. Can’t do it.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[JakeParticipant 909]

just say nothing to her

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

KM,

Such true words man. I initially read about this concept of women “disqualifying men” through one of you’re posts. It is so unequivocally true, it’s insane.

Even after – reading, comprehending, and digesting all of what we understand to be the true nature of women and the dynamic between the sexes, do you (and any others) STILL find yourselves asking –

“Why? WTF would a person act in such a way?”

I think this, self-reflective, introspective, philosophical line of thought, is predominantly a male attribute.

I studied Philosophy and I have a natural tendency to question everything.

It’s simply mind-boggling to me, the way females behave, on so many levels.

It truly boils down to: a narcissistic tendency to always place themselves as the center of attention, at any cost.

When I’m out in social settings in a pub I can sense it the moment females walk up to the bar. They turn EVERYTHING, every situation, every word, and every whim into some attention seeking ploy.

I was enjoying a bloody mary this morning and shooting the $Hit with a bartender I know. Older guy…Always ball busting, great laughs we were sharing. Two younger girls walk in. Girls scouring their eyes around…The one says –

“Can I have a bloody mary…EXTRA SPICY?”…Then giggles and repeats – “Extra SPICY! Teee-heee-heee!!”. <—-Turning a drink order into a sexual innuendo. It’s NEVER…FU$KING..ENDING.

What bothers me though, is even if you’re guys like us who aren’t PUA’s, who don’t engage in any ‘game’ and just want to mind one’s own business –

THEY…SIMPLY…WON’T…LET YOU.

They self devise and create a game, without your consent. They CREATE the illusion that they themselves are the prize, even though you aren’t even noticing or caring.

WTF has gotten into these women now days? I’m not saying “NAWALT”, but times have gotten worse, and it’s MUCH more acceptable and even a celebrated behavior by society for women to act this way.

Resident cynic.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

She was just trying to s~~~ test you, if she was being honest she need not have said anything. A chameleon trying to blend in.

If you want to really f~~~ with her you could turn around and say: ‘no thanks, I’ve got a gf’ and go back to what you were doing as if it was nothing. Though if you do you might encourage her to follow you around, so best just to do as KM says and look at her like she queefed.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

Anonymous wrote:

Women, even fat ugly ones believe that the whole world want into their pussy. When you walk around with that attitude you are bound to make assumptions.

That’s another side-effect of the “rape-culture” epidemic, women secretly want to believe that they are so f~~~ing desirable that they delude themselves into thinking that every man secretly wants to rape her.

Women are losing their minds worrying about “rape-culture” on one hand and the distressing fact that they themselves have never been raped, thus dealing with the horrifying reality that they’re not hot s~~~ after all.

No wonder they have jumped on the #metoo bandwagon as they seek validation for victim-hood status in the hopes that they can convince themselves they are still wanted by men.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

“Why? WTF would a person act in such a way?”

It’s not that hard to work out, actually. Like reverse engineering any black box, you have to work out the operating conditions and then determine the behavior from there.

1. Women cannot handle rejection. She pre-disqualified you to make sure you didn’t have a chance to reject her first. This says nothing about you, and everything about her.
2. Women assume everyone else thinks the way they do. She expected you to respond to her pre-disqualification the way she, herself would. And assumes that you did. Doubtless she believes you were devastated by her pre-disqualification the way she would have been and is a little puzzled that you didn’t pursue her to assuage the sting of rejection. But her ego won’t permit her to conclude that you aren’t actually interested in her, because women can’t handle rejection.

All this happens beneath the level of conscious thought in them. They aren’t even aware they are doing it.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Just as annoying is the assumption that we WANT any woman, and other people trying to set us up. I was out with a coworker and some friends last night and my coworker tried to introduce me to some random bar slut. It p~~~ed me off, i literally just turned away, i had no interest.

Then the rest of the night i was watching this other guy we were with strike out with her all night. He is a great guy, very successful, charming, etc. Him and his woman just split, she is already off f~~~ing drug addicted scumbags. Meanwhile this guy is being super awesome and yet the tatted up bar slut was showing basically no interest, other than the free prizes and entertainment he provided her with all night.

It was really sad to watch…but at the same time, it was for the best.

[BeachBumParticipant 813]

When an Ugly or a retard woman sits next to me at a bar, I completely ignore them, no eye contact at all…

Or better yet, I’ll stand up and move to another stool away from her/them when she starts gabbing or acting like the usual common retard woman.

I have NO shame anymore…f~~~ em…I’m gonna enjoy my beer no matter what!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

BeachBum wrote:

When an Ugly or a retard woman sits next to me at a bar, I completely ignore them, no eye contact at all…

Do the same when an attractive woman sits next to you.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

All great responses to Ancientwidom’s questions. I. however, have come to the conclusion that the less you say the better.
After a trial and error phase, I have decided that the best disarming phrase is just 3 words. Not too rude, not too arrogant, not too disrespectful, just perfectly sums up the importance level I assign to their drama.

I’m JUST here to watch the game

Good For You (and then looks away)

They have nothing else to come back with after that and you have relayed to her that you don’t give a f~~~ing s~~~ about the drama that she’s dragging with her.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Great thread – thanks for the many quality red pills in these posts!

[KimmurielParticipant 480]

Hahahaha! The self-fulfilling prophecy is ironic. You were enjoying yourself and she projected that bulls~~~ onto you. Good job of holding frame.

"You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

[Anonymous 2]

Attention whoring to get you to buy her drinks. Like you said, she has a reputation for trying to get men to pay for her. You were the only other one in there, so you were her only shot at a free ride on somebody else’s wallet.

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