Women Attempting to Disqualify Men Even When a Man Isn't Interested

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Am I over analyzing these situations because I’m choking on red pills? What do you guys think?

We all know how women act, but it is so irrational and bat $hit crazy that it never ceases to amaze me. It’s gotten to the point where I have chosen to either limit the amount of times I go out to enjoy a drink OR only go to a place where I know it’s all male bartenders who I enjoy their company (total ball bu$ting and just good fun).

Went out for a drink. Bar is empty, except me and some girl who works their having a drink on the other side. Chick comes in, whom I’ve met several times, from just being in the neighborhood.

I turned to see who it was, as she sits two seats from me. She says –

“Oh, hi. I’m JUST hear to watch the game”, but it was in that *type* of tone…

Why do you feel the need to justify to me why you are here, and that it’s JUST to watch the game?

I’m not even interested in speaking to this person, yet she has to give me a justification as to why she is at the bar. She’s the type that flirts/talks to get drinks and $hit.

Some might think I’m over reading this situation, and perhaps I am; but I can’t think of a single time (yet imagine one) in which THAT would be the first thing I say to anyone when I sit down at the bar.

To me, this seems like confirmation (bias) about women’s behavior-

“I’m going to tell you I’m not sitting here to talk to you or be interested in you BEFORE I even sit down”.

I’m thinking – WTF? I don’t want to talk to you. I’m not interested, and if you are THAT concerned about it, don’t f~~~ing sit next to me.

Perhaps I’m jaded, but I just become so exhausted with females COMPLETE inability to deal: directly, rationally, and sensibly even in normal social settings.

Another girl came in with a guy and female friend while I was there. The chick was GLUED to her cell the entire time she was there (an hour) texting/etc. I heard her say – “I think he’s cute”. Her friend replied – “I think he’s ugly”. No doubt lining up co$k on tinder or the likes. Women are addicted to themselves, and even moreso all of the undeserving attention they get.

I’m so repulsed by it; I simply can’t stand it.

Resident cynic.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

When I go to a bar and a woman sits near me, I turn my back to her.

[Anonymous 42]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Why do you feel the need to justify to me why you are here, and that it’s JUST to watch the game?

All part of feeding a starving ego and and establishing a manipulating relations~~~ with every man that passes through her orbit.

Just sigh and laugh as it has no bearing or effect on you and how you play the game.

A man that thinks superior is superior and not susceptible to female subjugation.

We live in different worlds then them gentlemen, their game is over.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22523]

I’d walk away. Never know when she’s gonna knife you in the back.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22523]

The big problem today with the women: Vanity.

They think everything people do all around them, is all about them.

It’s why they can’t even take any form of criticism or instruction. They get all teenage bitchy girl tantrum-y s~~~ attitude and take everything as a personal insult.

It’s why you will never be equal to men, sweetie. Just your nature.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Remove me!Participant]

Next time you see her just tell her you’re just here to watch the game.

Just to keep everyone on the same page.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Why do you feel the need to justify to me why you are here, and that it’s JUST to watch the game?

All part of feeding a starving ego and and establishing a manipulating relations~~~ with every man that passes through her orbit.

Just sigh and laugh as it has no bearing or effect on you and how you play the game.

A man that thinks superior is superior and not susceptible to female subjugation.

We live in different worlds then them gentlemen, their game is over.

Very insightful Mgtower! Especially the bolded.

Regarding “the game” – it’s so true what everyone says, and I realized this over a decade ago, the only way to win the game is to not play.

But, this is precisely the aspect that is so insane:

Even when one is minding his own business, females take it upon themselves to ensure some form of a game is being played.

Just as in the example I gave.

<—-Minding own business…Female enters – “Oh, I’m JUST here to watch the game”. The implication is that somehow I’m of no interest to her. Fu$king females can’t HELP THEMSELVES make themselves the center of attention no matter what.

Insanity.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

The big problem today with the women: Vanity.

They think everything people do all around them, is all about them.

It’s why they can’t even take any form of criticism or instruction. They get all teenage bitchy girl tantrum-y s~~~ attitude and take everything as a personal insult.

It’s why you will never be equal to men, sweetie. Just your nature.

Very true, SAM!

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Remove me! wrote:

Next time you see her just tell her you’re just here to watch the game.

Just to keep everyone on the same page.

That’s funny and I probably will, if I see her again.

The irony here is that if a man DID say this to a woman, she would immediately read between the lines (having a life time worth of experience in catty passive aggressive language) and retort RIGHT back; but if a man retorted back, they would SURELY turn the tables and say something tantamount to –

“Wow you’re SENSITIVE/INSECURE/take things personally!” type $hite. We all know this, too well I’m sure.

Resident cynic.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

She’s just projecting her own behavior onto you.

Preemptively disqualifying a woman causes her to want to pursue you. So she’s trying to preemptively disqualify you in the belief that it will cause you to want to pursue her.

Just ignore it. They hate that. Or roll your eyes, laugh, and dismissively shake your head. They really hate that.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

sidecar wrote:

She’s just projecting her own behavior onto you.

Preemptively disqualifying a woman causes her to want to pursue you. So she’s trying to preemptively disqualify you in the belief that it will cause you to want to pursue her.

Just ignore it. They hate that. Or roll your eyes, laugh, and dismissively shake your head. They really hate that.

I always love your input sidecar. She made some small talk, then I took my drink to the patio until my friend came. Friend and I shared genuine, good, hearty laughs busting one another’s ball$, which is the only reason why I enjoy going out – having fun with good friends.

I just wish more of my friends were as red pilled as you guys on this site though.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 42]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Even when one is minding his own business, females take it upon themselves to ensure some form of a game is being played.

That sir is the behavior of panic and desperation. Placing themselves as high as they can on the SMV stock market, always bluffing for the highest possible value.

When you’re not looking you see all the defects they’re trying to hide to hold the highest possible value.

In reality she’s nothing but financial and legal trouble, they extract for a living and seek the highest possible payoff, in other words, Hypergamy.

[Anonymous 12]

Women, even fat ugly ones believe that the whole world want into their pussy. When you walk around with that attitude you are bound to make assumptions.

[Anonymous 18]

That’s when you go:

omg, that’s so creepy, i am not even like into you. ewwww.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

You should have never looked at her when she came in. Remember women are so full of themselves they think just by a man looking their way he wants her. Just practice being more stoic and use your peripheral vision to spot people. I can spot many women now without even looking at them or them thinking I am.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

You should have never looked at her when she came in. Remember women are so full of themselves they think just by a man looking their way he wants her. Just practice being more stoic and use your peripheral vision to spot people. I can spot many women now without even looking at them or them thinking I am.

I do this by default now. I can’t even stand it when I accidentally look at them because I know they believe that I want them. Nope!

#MANOUT

[Old BuckParticipant 3596]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

You should have never looked at her when she came in. Remember women are so full of themselves they think just by a man looking their way he wants her. Just practice being more stoic and use your peripheral vision to spot people. I can spot many women now without even looking at them or them thinking I am.

Absolutely perfect.

The few times I do go out to have a drink, its a sports bar. Lots of tvs, and few women.

When a lady sits close to scope me out, I ghost them, wont acknowlege they are there, and keep my focus to one of the screens, whether or not I am into that particular sport.

BUT, I am using my periferial vision for situational awareness. Sometimes the bitches get p~~~ed you dont pay any attention to them and they find some dumb white knite cuck to hassle you.

Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

I turned to see who it was, as she sits two seats from me. She says –

“Oh, hi. I’m JUST hear to watch the game”, but it was in that *type* of tone…

Why do you feel the need to justify to me why you are here, and that it’s JUST to watch the game?

Because she’s NOT there to watch the game. She’s there looking for an alpha wallet to snag. For whatever reason, you didn’t fit her criteria, so she had to declare her “rejection” right off the bat. (See what I did there? Was it baseball?)

If she were really just there to watch the game, she wouldn’t make a big deal out of it. It’s because flirting is on HER mind that she assumes it must be on yours. Women always project their thoughts onto men around them.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

That sir is the behavior of panic and desperation. Placing themselves as high as they can on the SMV stock market, always bluffing for the highest possible value.

That is spot on Mgtower!

It’s “pre-rejection” in a manner to escalate their own value, and devalue the other. It’s a form of turning the tables, when the table wasn’t even set.

I don’t “play games” and this is why I detest PUA’s. It’s pathetic, child-like, and so feminine in nature.

This is seriously the only thing women have down to a science – not only playing a ‘game’ of the sexes, but CREATING one, when it doesn’t even exist.

A guy can’t even sit at a bar enjoying his drink, minding his own business, without a female waltzing in and creating a situation in which she is THE prize. It’s as fabricated as it is false, but that is the one and only way in which they know how to relate to men.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

You should have never looked at her when she came in. Remember women are so full of themselves they think just by a man looking their way he wants her. Just practice being more stoic and use your peripheral vision to spot people. I can spot many women now without even looking at them or them thinking I am.

I understand and agree with the sentiment/spirit of your post, and in general I apply this as well; but if the situation is so dire that I can’t even look over my shoulder when out in public, than I might as well become a hermit of Howard Hughes proportions.

Resident cynic.

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