women are too picky

[SMADParticipant 651]

narwhal wrote:

Most of the time, I ignore it as I’m not interested.   The rare times that I am, I usually find something wrong rather quickly and lose interest.

Pretty much the same for me – I don’t particularly try too hard and I have received more messages then I have sent.  A bit of reversal – deny the woman haha.  On POF I haven’t “favored” anybody, and for a laugh on the “meet me” feature I just spam YES to every profile by repeatedly stabbing my left mouse button for a few minutes.  Then, depending on who likes me back, I can see who I would want to initiate first contact with, if I can really be that bothered.

I often get messages saying “Hey, I see you clicked yes on the meet me, so I thought I would introduce myself…” blah blah.

So yeah, a bit of a random tip for the daters – don’t even bother looking at the pictures or profiles, SPAM that “wink/ like/ YES” button (or whatever it is).  Okay so you might say “yes” to some ugly cave trolls, but guess what – you can ignore them 🙂  The ones that do return a “wink / like / YES” can then be judged and you might find a better “return” rate for your time.

 

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[VictorParticipant 124]

Messaged a woman the other day on a dating site.

She’d looked at my profile.  She’s late 30s, overweight, no children, never married.

I don’t place much emphasis on looks – any anyway, overweight women can lose weight.  The important thing is that she seemed ‘nice’ and we share a lot of interests and she seemed my ‘type’, at least intellectually.

So I message her and she’s online.  I sent a perfectly polite message suggesting we should chat.

No response.  Nothing.  It’s as if she’s dead.  I mean, WTF??  But that experience is typical for me.  I’m not the best-looking person, but I wouldn’t say I’m ugly either.  I’m just a normal-looking man.  I have my own business and a lot of hobbies and interests, some of which I shared with this woman.

Women are too picky???  Ya think…????!!?  I’m ready to give up.  I’m too shy to approach women in person and there aren’t any other avenues for me.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

A lot of wise words in this thread.

Personally, I gave up on online dating after meeting approx 15 women (over a 3 year period with months off at times) and talking to at least double that amount by phone. For at least half of that 3 yr period, I was just going through the motions more as some kind of social experiment than wanting to mess around with these women. I even tried women who were looking for marriage. My conclusion? They are bottom of the barrel crazy and liars,  the internet being the last resort for them. A place where they can better hide beyond a fake persona and try to paint and put into your mind a false picture of themselves before you meet them and the true them emerges.

From ‘good church girls’ that are actually total sluts (of other faiths too), to asking for dick pics but when being asked for pussy pics saying: ‘thats not what ladies do’ to respecting that I don’t want anymore kids to ‘I want your babies so f~~~ me raw and cum inside’ to saying they don’t need a father for their kids or someone for money (yeah right) to not looking anything like their online photos to thinking that with loads of kids (one had 6) they can still get any man they want, although they have a ‘bucket pussy’/have repeatedly head butted the ‘wall’ and are at the bottom of the barrel to ‘I’m not like other women, I’d never stop my kids fathers from seeing them’ only to find out they repeatedly use their kids as weapons against their ex’s.  Whether kidless or with kids the 30+ I spoke to all in 3 yrs all turned out to be liars and crazy.

So with all due respect I say f~~~ online dating. Besides women are not in short supply, men are so its them who should be getting 20+ emails a day from different women not the other way round and that isn’t happening in the online dating from what I know.

 

 

I don't need pussy

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Dating sites are loaded with fake profiles, generated by the site itself, in order to dupe singles to stay on there, keep paying money out of hopes that this time they will get lucky.  I call it “lottery tickets” because the mentality is similar to people who keep playing the lottery.  From experience, and research into it, I have seen this over and over and over.  Don’t go there.

Some articles on this:

http://www.hg.org/article.asp?id=31561

http://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2014/10/29/359901518/online-dating-site-used-fake-profiles-to-get-members-to-upgrade-service

Look at the business model of dating sites, to see why they suck.  If someone found someone through a dating site, then they stop using the site.  So, dating sites need people to keep signing up and staying on there, following delusional hope they can find someone.  If they worked too well, they would go out of business.

I really need to do a video on lottery ticket mentality as a manipulation tool used by society to create suckers.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

As for sites like pof.com, yes they have a lot of fake profiles (had one real life hook up off of there). Sites like eharmony I found a whole heap of real profiles on, despite being a site that is meant to represent a better quality of women they too have a lot of crazy on em though.

I don't need pussy

[BeerParticipant 11832]

The main problem I found with the girls I actually did meet off a website was that its just so easy for them to be a chameleon.  When your just chatting on line its easy for them to give you all the right answers and try to act like what they think you want…but once you meet they usually can’t hide the real them well for more than a couple dates.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

@beer, exactly!

 

 

I don't need pussy

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Thanks for all the responses everyone. The main reason I signed back up for online dating was to prove to people that I have bad luck with women and they don’t like me. I every time I say I am adopting on my own I am met with “you just have to try harder” or “you need to put yourself out there more”. I figure once I have more sent messages with no replies it will be easier to convince people. I can’t ask women in person because I have no chances too. At work many of the women are older or married. There are some teachers my age, but I am not actually a teacher, I am more of an assistant so I get paid less. The girls I see at gamestop or the comic book store usually have boyfriends or don’t want to date. The women I see at anime cons either have boyfriends, hate men, or are lesbians. There have been times I have had chances to start a conversation with a woman in public. One time I went to Best Buy because the previous night they announced a $40 sale on a bunch of 3DS games, but of course when I get there all those games are gone, basically meaning the sale was announced just to get people in the store. I saw a women there too who was also looking confused about how there were none of the 3DS games on sale and I thought about making a joke how we both fell for their attempt to lure us into the store, but I figured she would probably get mad I flirted with her and then go on twitter and say how she was harassed at Best Buy and I wasn’t going to be that guy lol.

I have had women actually message me and be interested though. One woman last year sent me a few messages last year although I didn’t find her too attractive. I told my self if she asks to meet then I will since she should take the first steps since she started contact. We never met which was fine because I didn’t see us working out anyway. Another woman sent me a message earlier this year and right away said she agreed with me on how I wanted a daughter before 30 and she said I was really cute. I wasn’t really attracted to her and she was bigger and taller then me it seemed. I don’t mind a woman with a few extra pounds, but I have a thing where I need to be able to pick the woman up easily and given her size it would have been difficult and based on her pictures it seemed like I would look smaller when standing next to her. Another big thing was that her profile said she was 25, but she did not look 25. I even showed her pictures to some women at work and all of them agreed she most likely wasn’t 25 lol. I felt kind of bad though because I scared her away on purpose. When she asked why I was on the site I said because I wanted back up if adopting didn’t work out lol. I know I shouldn’t feel bad because tons of women always reject me though, but it still felt mean lol.

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

Look at the business model of dating sites, to see why they suck. If someone found someone through a dating site, then they stop using the site. So, dating sites need people to keep signing up and staying on there, following delusional hope they can find someone. If they worked too well, they would go out of business.

I have been saying that for a while. That is why I will never pay for a dating site. If I ma not getting any dates on a free sites why waste the money every month on a paid site.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Don’t worry, them being picky, will eventually back fire.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

I have been fairly lucky using the on line (meeting) dating thingy. Although I have a girlfriend at this time, my profile was written in such a way that the gold diggers and f~~~ed up douchebags stay away. I, typically, let women contact me. I had initiated contact only once and, when I did, she turned out to be a disaster and I dumped her quickly.  Since I’ve discovered MGTOW and embrace the philosophy, I would have kicked her to the curb a lot sooner and not been as polite as I was when I did it. AND I have a whole new way of looking at my present relationship. Anyway…..the subject is women being too picky. Based on women that I know in my age group, I think that most women are selectively naive and think that they are as much (or should be as much) in demand as they were many, many moons ago. They’re delusional, in denial, and believe that the fault lies in unworthy men. The truth would be a bitter pill for them to swallow. It just can’t be them! F~~~ing lunatics. I marvel at the mental contortions they go through to avoid the truth as they talk about dealing with men or finding “a good man”. Just look inward, ladies. Men will not tolerate your s~~~ as they did when you were young and desirable, so you better bring something of attractive substance to the picnic. A few years ago and as a goof, I dated a woman that I never would have dated before. She was plain and chubby. BUT, she treated me like a king and f~~~ed/sucked like a porn star. She truly appreciated having me in her life and showed it constantly. Here’s why. She was one of the few woman of her age group that realized that she needed to up her game to keep a quality man in her life. She ruined me for all other women, bless her soul. If it wasn’t for her insane and unfounded jealousy of other females (it got tedious), we would still be together. Online dating is only a tool. Modify your profile so it works for you so you can get what you want out of it. We trudge on.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Women online are their for attention or to pinpoint their self worth among the male counterparts. These type of women will usually start dating, when their self worth declines.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 9]

Women online suck, and their profiles may not even be real. They’re probably created bots, and nothing replaces the aura encountered when seeing someone in person.

Nothing replaces interpersonal communication. That’s how you’re better able find out who you’re dealing with.

I’ve tried the online thing far too many times with the same results. It’s a serious waste of time and effort.

Find someone in person, or stay off the internet for relationship purposes. Most of the women on there are serial internet daters who jump from c~~~ to c~~~.

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