Wife called the police on me today

[Anonymous 42]

Rebalanced broke the spam filter!

[SteveParticipant 462]

Update – reason wife called the cops “because the health worker advised her to do it”.

So 1. She starts and escalates argument to shouting. I try and leave so the kid doesn’t have to hear it and SHE calls the police on ME?!

and 2. I work, she doesn’t, I pay tax, she doesn’t. My tax pays for health worker to advise my wife to get a police report on record about me?

F~~~ing in-sane.

 

 

 

[Anonymous 42]

The snake (social worker) combined with your wife’s misplaced loyalty has made another platform for the gynoverment to degrade and demote you to “underling”.

EVIL IN ACTION!

[Anonymous 4]

You know what you need to do man…Documenting, cameras hidden, whatever. START GETTING READY and Take the fight to her before she f~~~s you…Seriously.

[SteveParticipant 462]

Update 2 – cops no use. Family law is not criminal law. Which is fair enough, they shouldn’t have to deal with crazy. Only advice I got was call them if she starts disturbing the peace.

Health workers boss no use – apparently health services can discuss “a range of topics” with new mothers. Confidentiality about what was said blah blah blah. Hive mindset c~~~s pretending to be social workers.

I do have a plan though and will get busy setting up.

**hiding assets – anyone done this successfully? Gifting? Loans? Moving it overseas? I have £60,000 to get rid of in UK account PLUS house paid off before I met her – put in my sons name?**

I appreciate I’m probably going to get screwed but I’d prefer to go down fighting.

 

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Steve wrote:

**hiding assets – anyone done this successfully? Gifting? Loans? Moving it overseas? I have £60,000 to get rid of in UK account PLUS house paid off before I met her – put in my sons name?** I appreciate I’m probably going to get screwed but I’d prefer to go down fighting.

This has me curious as well, people who have done this, how do you do that?

I have RRSPs, TFSA, some investments, and liquid assets in a checking account. Let’s say I want to hide 1/2 of it, what do I do?

Edit:  I can provide an email if people do not want to post, but I’d still like to start putting some “just in case” money away in the event my relationship goes bad.  Not trying to hijackt the thread from OP though.

 

[MotivParticipant 441]

Anonymous wrote:

Progenitor wrote:

Can I ask her to leave the house? It’s in my name, I bought it before she even knew me. I want her to leave my son here but I know she won’t go without him. If she moves out and takes my son that looks bad for me?

Take legal advice about changing the locks while she is out and you have the kid. She has made a false allegation to the police so that’s harassment as she was the one shouting at you. That’s domestic abuse against you. I strongly recommend you contact a charity called Mankind Initiative for advice. http://www.mankind.org.uk/ Get some legal advice about getting a non molestation order. The police lie and will be captain save a hoe, make sure you record every conversation with them.

In the UK it is breaking the law to change the locks or lock your spouse out the house and you will get arrested for doing so.

Good luck with keeping your son.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[endgameBlocked 26]

That’s rough for your son. Be sure he understands why the argument started, as it’s not clear in your post. Explain your thinking to him honestly, so he knows. Future generations depend on this.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Police are white knights just like every other guy in authority, they will always assume you are in the wrong as a man, unless proven otherwise.

Someone I know was married to a mentally disturbed woman who regularly called the police on him, they were even at the point where they knew him and that he wasn’t the wrong party, but still suggested he be the one to leave the situation (leave the kids with a mentally deranged person).

The entire system was stacked against him, from the police, to social services (she hurt the kid, and tried to blame him for it) to counselling (she would go in first and lay traps, female social workers would attack him as soon as he came in for his turn), lawyers (they basically told him you’re f~~~ed, it’s only a matter of how much), court (they didn’t award him custody, even though she was clearly mentally incapable of supporting kids).  Clearly a cautionary tale.

Get out while you still can.  Calling the cops on you as a control measure is unforgivable, the relationship is over.

[SteveParticipant 462]

Thanks gents.

Plan underway.

I know I’m going to get f~~~ed over but if I can get joint custody as a minimum that would be a win.

I can’t find any decent ways to hide a big chunk of cash once it’s in the bank and has its own electronic record. I could take out £500 cash here and there but that’s a lot of weeks to get it all. Im thinking of buying another house in my sons name and using the UK money as a deposit.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

@Progenitor, hows things brother?

Noticed you haven’t been on here for a while.

Is it possible to put money in a bank that is outside of the jurisdiction of the UK? Or to buy gold or silver with some of the money? Countries such as Turkey and UAE are good for that.

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[SteveParticipant 462]

Rebalanced wrote:

@Progenitor, hows things brother?

Noticed you haven’t been on here for a while.

Thanks Rebalanced – s~~~ has been hitting the fan all this week and she’s been acting like a high and mighty c~~~ since the police visit. She STILL thinks its ok to dial 999 and has been threatening it like a new trick.

Well yesterday I came home after a couple of nights away for work and she started s~~~ testing again and getting all dominant and escalating. So I told her to make plans to move out.

Got home from work today and she’s gone (with my son). She’s took a fair bit of her clothes and my boys clothes and toys. No note, no phone call or email.

I called my mother straight away and she’s staying there. F~~~ knows what she has planned next.

Just a massive relief not have to deal with her misery and fight starting at home.

I’ll go visit my son tomorrow and make sure he is ok. He’ll be fine though as my mother will be there.

Can’t wait to start my 2nd marriage for more of these lulz!!!

My spirits are strangly high, just trying to make sure my lad isn’t too affected and that I can still get to see him regularly.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

Sorry to hear that Progenitor, glad you have some peace at home and that your son is at your mothers though. Makes sense you feel high with her out of the way, enjoy!

The lulz tend to double 2nd time round with marriage so watch out

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[SteveParticipant 462]

Rebalanced wrote:

Sorry to hear that Progenitor, glad you have some peace at home and that your son is at your mothers though. Makes sense you feel high with her out of the way, enjoy!

The lulz tend to double 2nd time round with marriage so watch out

2nd marriage No. F~~~ing. Way. Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice… Somebody shoot me.

I didn’t have time to spring my plan on her so I’m going to be in for a kicking when it comes to the house and savings. But f~~~ it its only £££’s and I can make more.

How have you been getting on? Any progress? You were talking about throwing in the towel, can’t say I blame you.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

@ Progenitor, my thoughts exactly, I knew you was being sarcastic, glad you wont be making that same mistake again.

Can you not all of a sudden ‘incur’ some gambling debts to make some of that money disappear? I know someone who avoided having to pay 4 million through using that excuse (he even had casino print outs of all the money he’d allegedly spent).

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[RebalancedParticipant 346]

Thanks I’m still going through it, no contact still, have to meet with CAFCASS again soon. due in court in a month or so (I’m not going will let solicitor go though).

I expect I will throw the towel in fully at the next directions hearing, unless something major happens that goes in my (and my sons) favour.

Something to watch out for with your ex is the emotional harm to the child claim. Even when its the woman guilty of inflicting emotional harm, they are known to twist it back round and make it the mans fault.

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[SteveParticipant 462]

Rebalanced wrote:

@ Progenitor, my thoughts exactly, I knew you was being sarcastic, glad you wont be making that same mistake again.

Can you not all of a sudden ‘incur’ some gambling debts to make some of that money disappear? I know someone who avoided having to pay 4 million through using that excuse (he even had casino print outs of all the money he’d allegedly spent).

I’ve got a senior ex cop mate who I’m running different things past. He’s heard the gambling debts one before but says that if you want to win custody (even joint) then probably best not have a gambling problem!

He did say reporting money as missing presumed stolen could be an option. Take out 30k and leave it in an unlocked car far far away from CCTV. Can’t prove it hasn’t been stolen or lost but if it gets as far as a judge he’ll just laugh at it and make you pay up half anyway.

I might go out and buy myself a nice car. I’ve never wanted a flashy car but why the f~~~ not? I mean I saved that money long long long before she even finished school. It’s still an asset but it will have depreciated and I can settle half of the car less depreciation in cash to her later on.

[SteveParticipant 462]

Rebalanced wrote:

Thanks I’m still going through it, no contact still, have to meet with CAFCASS again soon. due in court in a month or so (I’m not going will let solicitor go though).

I expect I will throw the towel in fully at the next directions hearing, unless something major happens that goes in my (and my sons) favour.

Something to watch out for with your ex is the emotional harm to the child claim. Even when its the woman guilty of inflicting emotional harm, they are known to twist it back round and make it the mans fault.

Good luck with it all man. It’s mind boggling to hear your situation.

Emotional harm? Caused by the separation? She’s the only one who did the shouting at home, it’s even recorded on the 999 call silly cow.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

Thanks man, you too.

Yeah its bs about emotional harm, good that you can easily disprove it too. Goes back to the teachings of Jorge Corsi (convicted nonce whose teachings are still largely followed by this system) that men are always the ones at fault in domestic disputes.

I don't need pussy

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Steve wrote:

Rebalanced wrote:

@Progenitor, hows things brother?

Noticed you haven’t been on here for a while.

Thanks Rebalanced – s~~~ has been hitting the fan all this week and she’s been acting like a high and mighty c~~~ since the police visit. She STILL thinks its ok to dial 999 and has been threatening it like a new trick.

Well yesterday I came home after a couple of nights away for work and she started s~~~ testing again and getting all dominant and escalating. So I told her to make plans to move out.

Got home from work today and she’s gone (with my son). She’s took a fair bit of her clothes and my boys clothes and toys. No note, no phone call or email.

I called my mother straight away and she’s staying there. F~~~ knows what she has planned next.

Just a massive relief not have to deal with her misery and fight starting at home.

I’ll go visit my son tomorrow and make sure he is ok. He’ll be fine though as my mother will be there.

Can’t wait to start my 2nd marriage for more of these lulz!!!

My spirits are strangly high, just trying to make sure my lad isn’t too affected and that I can still get to see him regularly.

It’s too bad you cant’ get a recording of her threatening to use 999 in a non-emergency situation? I’d pull out my phone and start recording any time she got like that. As others mentioned, she’s not hope, put cameras in the house and record everything.

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