Why women cheat — and what their husbands can do to prevent it

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Why women cheat — and what their husbands can do to prevent it

39% of women have admitted to physically cheating in their marriage.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA

http://www.businessinsider.com has become, manginaInsider.com

http://www.businessinsider.com/how-men-drive-women-cheat-can-prevent-husbands-wives-2016-2

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

Don’t marry them !
Problem solved.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

Don’t marry them !
Problem solved.

Sounds like the best, most foolproof way to avoid this s~~~.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

Don’t marry them !
Problem solved.

Yep.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Let me see if I’ve got this right. If I never commit to a woman ever again, then I can never be cheated on ever again. Is that sound logic?

Hey, that was a really easy solution. Next!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Once again we look to the man to change his behavior. And this will prevent his cumdumpster from opening her legs to other men how? As we all know her emotions, dissatisfaction, unhappiness, emotional detachment are all products of male neglect that (as the title suggests) “drives her to cheat”. The truth is her emotions are a moving target and nothing you do will change her mind from cheating on you once her hypergamy fuse is lit. This video is the embodiment of everything that’s wrong with female entitlement and should be used as required MGTOW classroom fodder to demonstrate how f~~~ed up magina logic can become, and how woman are actually taught that they are not accountable for their actions.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 43]

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

The main thing I realized after I married that hit me like a ton of bricks because I never thought it would be that way – something that demoralized me to the core – is the realization that she can do whatever the f~~~ she wants and you cannot do anything to prevent that or stop her from doing. It’s that feeling of hopelessness and loss of control that drove me to the darkest places. You basically become a victim of her judgement and decisions. And I hate being a victim. There is nothing that can stop a woman from cheating on you, especially with the hive and hollywood on her side encouraging her nature to blossom fully

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 18]

Why do whores marry in the first place – and what divorce courts can do to help prevent whores marrying

New law : if c~~~ count is more than 3. She shall remain unmarried. Or be eligible to marry divorced dads.

Of course men get carte blanche on f~~~ing however many women they can bed. Since it takes time, money, and confidence among other things. On his part.

Totally double standards. Totally justified.

[Anonymous 0]

Once a wife decides that she’s bored or unfulfilled or dissatisfied with her marriage, either she is going to cheat or she is going to take it out of YOUR hide with constant nagging and accusations and complaints that YOU’RE the cause of her problems.

Either way, you’re f~~~ed. And it’s a toss-up as to which alternative is worse.

The main point is this: It never occurs to women to take responsibility for their own happiness and work to improve their own lives or marriage. As far as they’re concerned, it’s up to MEN to keep them diverted and entertained and happy. Either their husband or a Chad on the side.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

women are pigs and dogs and no good. isn’t that what they say about men when they cheat? Don’t want a woman to cheat? Don’t commit to one.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Men aren’t “afraid of commitment”.

They just know women are incapable of keeping commitments.

This article proves it.

[Anonymous 0]

I hate mangina marriage advice, like the advice given in the video in the OP. The video says to treat the woman like an idiot. Sugar-coat everything for her, because she is too stupid and fragile to handle the truth. Call her multiple times during the day to romance her. And so on.

Right. That’s not going to happen.

Like the standard bulls~~~ advice that maginas give for when the wife has a problem. The mangina in the video says, “Don’t solve her problem for her, don’t give her advice, don’t point out that just maybe she was in the wrong and could have handled the situation better. Instead, just listen to her and try to put yourself in her shoes.”

Right. Again, that’s not going to happen. I’m not going to treat a woman like a blubbering two-year-old. If she has a problem, she needs to handle it like a grown adult. Solutions, not tears.

And if I’m working all day and she’s a stay-at-home wife or girlfriend, I’m not going to keep calling her all day long to tell her how beautiful she is. Instead, she had better be planning how she’s going to cook my favorite meal, meet me at the door naked, and give me a backrub. As far as I’m concerned, the non-earning partner has the most free time and energy available and can carry the burden on the courting front.

Mangina marriage advice that puts all the burden on men to make things right is bulls~~~. It infantilizes women, and it implies that men are always at fault and always have to carry the burden to make sure the marriage is perfect, no matter how lazy or stupid or childish the woman is.

Women cheat because they’re treated like irresponsible children throughout their life. So they ACT like irresponsible children.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

I hate mangina marriage advice,

Is there any marriage advice that isn’t mangina marriage advice?

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Anonymous wrote:

Once a wife decides that she’s bored or unfulfilled or dissatisfied with her marriage, either she is going to cheat or she is going to take it out of YOUR hide with constant nagging and accusations and complaints that YOU’RE the cause of her problems.

Either way, you’re f~~~ed. And it’s a toss-up as to which alternative is worse.

The main point is this: It never occurs to women to take responsibility for their own happiness and work to improve their own lives or marriage. As far as they’re concerned, it’s up to MEN to keep them diverted and entertained and happy. Either their husband or a Chad on the side.

Having been married and divorced, I would agree 100% with this. The easiest way to not get divorced is to not to get married in the first place, it is so obvious, yet most men fail to see this.

Marriage is just s~~~ test after s~~~ test and sooner or later you are going to fail one. The biggest mistake I made is to make my wife’s life too easy. I allowed her to stay at home for 6 years and bring up the children and made sure I was a good little husband and looked after the cars, did DIY, made sure she had no money worries and helped around the house.

They say no good deed goes unpunished and I actually did the complete opposite of what I should have done. She got bored and saw me as a doormat and lost any respect she had for me. It was obviously my fault she was unhappy so this gave her permission to go off and start f~~~ing guys she met through Facebook.

I seriously think the only way to stop a woman cheating is to be the most Alpha man alive and know how to pass each s~~~ test without even having to think about it. Unfortunately these men are never stupid enough to marry, so basically you are left with her eventually cheating or being stuck in a miserable never ending hell.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Having been married and divorced, I would agree 100% with this. The easiest way to not get divorced is to not to get married in the first place, it is so obvious, yet most men fail to see this.

Marriage is just s~~~ test after s~~~ test and sooner or later you are going to fail one. The biggest mistake I made is to make my wife’s life too easy. I allowed her to stay at work for 6 years and bring up the children and made sure I was a good little husband and looked after the cars, did DIY, made sure she had no money worries and helped around the house.

They say no good deed goes unpunished and I actually did the complete opposite of what I should have done. She got bored and saw me as a doormat and lost any respect she had for me. It was obviously my fault she was unhappy so this gave her permission to go off and start f~~~ing guys she met through Facebook.

I seriously think the only way to stop a woman cheating is to be the most Alpha man alive and know how to pass each s~~~ test without even having to think about it. Unfortunately these men are never stupid enough to marry, so basically you are left with her eventually cheating or being stuck in a miserable never ending hell.

My life right there.22 years in.D
Doing the alpha thing now for s~~~ tests .just lined up a NSA f~~~ buddy couple of nights ago.

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Hitman wrote:

Don’t marry them !
Problem solved.

Agreed. Women are not problems to be solved. They are problems to be avoided. Plain and SIMPle.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Anonymous 0]

sidecar wrote:

Is there any marriage advice that isn’t mangina marriage advice?

I know you’re just yanking my chain. And that’s a pretty good comeback. But I’ll answer seriously.

Whenever I see that advice about “Don’t solve her problem for her, just listen to her and try to put yourself in her shoes,” I instantly write off the advice as feminist/mangina advice. Ninety percent of relationship advice columns and books push that exact same advice, and it’s bulls~~~.

There ARE some books that don’t push that particular piece of advice. For example, “F*ck Feelings,” by Michael I. Bennett MD, and Sarah Bennett has a chapter on love and marriage, and it’s refreshingly no-nonsense. For example, it says about choosing a partner:

“Don’t let love, a desire to please, or an urge to prove yourself get in the way of your doing a good, businesslike, due-diligence evaluation of whether partnership would be in your interest, as well as whether your would-be partner is reliable and has the necessary qualities and values.”

It says that you should see your commitment “as a business; it has to make life better for both parties, in a way they both value, using practices they both approve of, and relying on qualities of discipline and reliability they both have.”

And when things go bad, it advises a quick exit: “Trying too hard to salvage it can make you forget your own strengths and what you stand for. Failing to accept broken love is what makes failure personal and interminable, rather than just a natural and painful mistake.”

The book has lots of good advice on how to handle disputes and how to decide when it’s time to cut and run. And there’s NOTHING about “listening to her and putting yourself in her shoes.”

Even Dr. Phil can press women to be more adult in their expectations of love and marriage. Dr. Phil McGraw wrote a best-seller called “Love Smart,” which gives women advice on how to land a man. It’s not your standard MGTOW fare. But in the chapter on communicating with men, he tells women: Don’t take things so personally, don’t assume it’s the man’s job to read your mind, don’t assume that the man should think/feel the same way as you do about things.

When the relationship starts falling apart, Dr. Phil puts the burden on the women to take the lead in improving it. For example:

–Don’t play head games or test your man or insist that the man read your mind.
–Identify exactly what you want in the relationship (more travel, more romance), and develop a game plan for initiating those things yourself and making them happen.
–If your needs aren’t getting met, tell your man what your needs are. Don’t insist that it’s his job to figure out by himself or from hints about what you need/want. Don’t complain about what you don’t want. Do ask, very specifically, for what you do want.
–Find out your man’s insecurities and provide for them.
–Develop a goal and a program for yourself for dealing with your weakest issues (initiating sex, for example), as well as a goal and a program for getting your strongest needs and highest priorities met (sitting down and discussing what you want from your husband).
–And so on.

And in the chapter on meeting men, he pushes women to approach guys, get the conversation going, etc.

Again, this isn’t standard MGTOW reading material, since most MGTOWs aren’t going to be marrying again. But this kind of relationship advice can be used in any kind of relationship: Family, friends, business, etc.

So I think it’s important to know that there are TWO kinds of relationship advice available to people:

1) Feminist/mangina relationship advice, where the man is ALWAYS in the wrong and the man ALWAYS has to do the work to make things perfect; versus

2) REAL relationship advice, where ANY interaction between two people (whether it’s business, friendship, family, love) is assumed to be an interaction between equals, and both parties are equally responsible for making it successful and productive for everyone involved.

Okay, I’ll get off my soapbox now. 🙂

[Anonymous 16]

I dont have a partner… no fear of cheating 🙂
I aint even gonna read it, why wold i have to be all the time walking over egg shells soo she dont cheat on me? Men thats psichological war fare.
Aint gonna live like that, no sir.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

never go to marriage counselling

the counselor will always cater to the wife because that’s how she gets repeat customers.

never get married

the divorce lawyer/court will always cater to the wife because that’s how they gets repeat customers.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

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