Why I have NEVER married (and never will)

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Why you have NEVER married (and never will)?
Because you are smart and wise.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[BDParticipant 1146]

Great share Keith, I have experienced a lot of the same antics from the girlfriends and wives… actually I have even ditched out on attending weddings simple because I did not approve of the wedding, I mean if she has already been a monster before the wedding then what is going to be next? Then I watched my bro’s transform from alpha’s to manginas, beaten and destroyed…..  very sad…. I view weddings as funerals for my friends because it is never the same until they get divorced, yet still never the same because they are usually financially/emotionally ruined for a while….

They try to set me up with their baggage ridden agendas and I simple ask prior to any introduction, “If she is willing to pay her full share and never tell me what to do, then I may give her a chance, but nobody is ever going to tell me what to do”. This eliminates their trashy friends instantly. Their wives get very offended when I tell them that women do not tell me what to do, and sadly I’ll see my old buddy looking for the ghostly shadow of his nuts because he is already well versed in obeying her. This never seems to help the friendship but I shouldn’t have to sensor myself because of their enslavement process.

The fact that people grow at different rates is an important factor in any relations~~~… for example, let’s say that you work at Home Depot (not to say that it is a bad job, it’s just simply an example) and your hobbies include video games and jogging, and your gf/wife/hoe is going through law or med school… you are spending a majority of your time with the people at home depot and their values/lifestyles will eventually rub off on you, but when she finishes school and gets her first job say as a doctor or lawyer, she will be surrounded by a new crowd with a totally different dynamic and set of values, exotic sports cars, vacations, sail boats, lavish parties, vacation homes.. her lunches will include materialistic conversations with wealthier people…. and then their values will eventually rub off on her… and not long after she will be convinced that you do not fit into this lifestyle… heck, she might even have it planned that she uses you to get through school, I have seen this many times…. So yes, I view weddings as funerals….and I always warn a bro about paying for her school….

I found a great quote which brought me some thought…

‘You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.’ Jim Rohn

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

In the department I used to teach in, I was seen as, well, you know…..  Why?  Because I never married, I wasn’t dating anyone, and I wasn’t canoodling with anyone else, either.  I rarely talked about my private life because it was, frankly, nobody else’s business.  If I did, it was because I wanted to.

 

My last department head tried to “out” me by saying that there were rumours I didn’t “like” women.  At first, I thought it was because I probably said something uncharitable about them.  It wasn’t until years later that it occurred to me that he may have been wondering which way I swung.

 

He and the assistant department head were always looking for excuses to have be canned.  This was just one in a long line of them.  But, their badgering me might have been an indication of something else.  Maybe they were hoping that I’d come out of the closet (which would be hard as I was never in one in the first place) because they wanted in and there was only room for many in it.

 

Of course, they never considered that my being unemployed for several years might have had something to do with me being a confirmed bachelor or that I had to change jobs a lot and, therefore, had to move around quite a bit.  Never mind that I had a lot of education and I wasn’t going to chuck it all in order to bed some brainless floozie.  Nope.  According to my detractors, those were all stories I invented in order to throw the dogs off my scent.

 

And people wondered why I quit such a “good” job.

 

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

Women are probably the finest example of contents not matching the packaging.

No shoddy product from some third world s~~~hole can match up to the level of disconnection between the two (in bold) when it comes to women.

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

I am 33 now. When I was in my twenties, I was still thinking of getting married. When I was about 25, I went to see an astrologer. He told me I must get married after 30 or I will end up with a “shotgun marriage” with a wife and kid I don’t want. I took his advice and I was careful with the women I got to know in my twenties.

Now that I am in my thirties, the motivation to find a wife and have a bunch of babies seem to have faded away. I realised after so many years of being single, I don’t really care any more.

Looking back, I feel grateful for having a f~~~ing bitch as my stepmother. I saw how manipulative a woman can be. My own mother wasn’t an angel either. Same for my two sisters and all my female relatives. I guess it is almost impossible to find a woman to be happy with for a long time. It seems like you can be happy with women for a very short time only. After that honeymoon period is over, it all just goes to s~~~.

[VectorParticipant 178]

TheFreeManMGTOW wrote:

I guess it is almost impossible to find a woman to be happy with for a long time. It seems like you can be happy with women for a very short time only. After that honeymoon period is over, it all just goes to s~~~.

In the beginning the adrenalin is pumping through you.  You can’t wait to see her, and she can’t wait to see you.  You can’t wait to smell her, kiss her, f~~~ her, and what ever else you want to do with her.  You want to go on trips, and you enjoy the thrill of being around her.  She’s on her best behavior, always smiling, happy, and will do anything for you.  Once you bang her brains out in the beginning, she’s in your hand like putty.  Blowjobs are ALL the f~~~ing time.  She’s WAY more freaky, and will f~~~ you in a parking lot, phone booth, men’s bathroom etc.  She’ll cook you meals, do you favors, and satisfy your deepest sexual fantasies.

After about 6-8 months, things start to change.  She gets more comfortable, and you start to see her moody side.  Mood swings, pms, illogical arguing, bossy behavior, and signs of wanting control will follow.  If you continue past this point, things are still fresh enough for sex on demand, but you will start seeing signs of sex going down.  She won’t get as wet anymore, dirty talk through text messages will start diminishing, and she’ll start to eliminate blowjobs.  Having to demand a woman to suck your dick (or like most beta males do, ask for it) is pathetic.

After a year, things start to get boring, predictable, and sexless (unless you keep provoking it.)  At this point, you should just dump that bitch and find a new one.  Then you can go through those amazing emotions and dopamine enhanced thrill again.  The key is to stay in that phase 6-8 months, then dump them for a new one.  This way you’ll always be in the honeymoon phase.

[experiencedParticipant]

Eventually they all stage a coup.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

The thing is, I find it hard to motivate myself to find a woman to date. It seems like a lot of hard work.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

Vinnymgtow:

 

I agree.  I found that I was the one who bore all the costs and took all the risks only to be dumped by her for someone “better”.  I would have had a better chance at a return on my investment if I had gone out and bought lottery tickets.

 

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