"Why haven't you Married?"

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

I know this is a frequent topic, but I couldn’t resist.

An acquaintance saw me the other day in the grocery store and told me her family friend had moved back in to the area, & she’s “the greatest, cutest, etc”. Bear in mind the acquaintance is a nice woman, faithfully married for decades. Meanwhile the “family friend” is 40 lbs overweight, has a 3 y/o girl, and wants someone, [anyone] to pump another kid in to her uterus. But, they all think the same way. She ended the sales pitch with “Why haven’t you married? Aren’t you afraid of dying alone?” [see Murph’s thread below ]
I was able to quote KeyMaster, and asked her “What for? Literally, what for?” Poor Pam. She had no response, whatsoever. I then, gently, took her through her line of reasoning that she was actually looking out for the “family friend’s” best interests, not mine. Now, I bear Pam no ill will, at all, however AWALT.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Gotta love that s~~~. Its funny how girls always want to set you up with their friends who have kids while you don’t have any and may not want any, but the majority of single childless women I know wouldn’t date a guy with kids for many of the same reasons we don’t want single moms…PLUS they also don’t like the fact some of the guys resources are already tapped by another woman.

[Anonymous 6]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

I was able to quote KeyMaster, and asked her “What for? Literally, what for?”

I get the same s~~~ sometimes at work too Solomon, borrowed KeyMaster’s line too (sorry KM I couldn’t resist) but it is a great question to throw right back at them, some of the blank speechless expressions I get are hilarious.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

“I then, gently, took her through her line of reasoning that she was actually looking out for the “family friend’s” best interests, not mine.”

How in the world did you make it through that conversation without constant, illogical interruptions to your explanation? No, seriously, how did you do that?

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Beer wrote:

Gotta love that s~~~. Its funny how girls always want to set you up with their friends who have kids while you don’t have any and may not want any, but the majority of single childless women I know wouldn’t date a guy with kids for many of the same reasons we don’t want single moms…PLUS they also don’t like the fact some of the guys resources are already tapped by another woman.

True. As a divorced father I have to say pickings are slim. I wouldn’t mind dating (no serious relationships though, no marriage, no cohabitation, no emotional investment), but there isn’t much interest in guys with kids. But I’ve broached this very issue on here and was advised by fellow MGTOW not to mess with single mothers. But in my experience even they don’t seem too interested in guys with kids. Probably for the best though. I do miss sex. And I would say I miss companionship but what I actually miss is the IDEA of companionship. The romantic ideal we were sold as kids of good faithful women who stand by you forever. Crock of s~~~.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Because I’m not crazy.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I hate when women do that match maker s~~~, every time they do it. It’s even more pathetic when they can’t even drum up an answer, or some fake reason for you to hook up with their girlfriends or whatever. Why have’t you married? Because I’ve seen married men, and how s~~~ty life becomes when you marry.

But like you said, KM said the best counter line. “What for?” And it totally ruins their train of thought. They try to put you on the spot, put you on the defensive, like you have to explain yourself. You can turn that s~~~ around with TWO WORDS. “What for?” Now she’s on the defensive, now she has to explain, and she can either admit there’s no good reason to marry or they can become hostile. Either way you win.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

I was able to quote KeyMaster, and asked her “What for? Literally, what for?” Poor Pam. She had no response, whatsoever.

Smiling and think that’s fantastic. But back to putting my serious face on….. it’s very revealing isn’t it.

• What have you NOT married….
• Why are you NOT on a Facebook…..
• Why are you NOT in a relationship…..

Asking “Why are you NOT” is the strangest way to phrase a question. It implies you SHOULD be as if everyone else does it, but 70% of American men -35 are NOT married. So you’re not exactly in a “minority” and women can stop asking that f~~~ing stupid question.

“Why are you NOT married?”.

“Wake up. This is 2016. Marriage is for gays”.

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But I like the asking her “what for?” angle better.
Make HER answer her own stupid questions.

Nicely Done SolWiz.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Jack Harper wrote:

what I actually miss is the IDEA of companionship.

This.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[WallyParticipant]

Way to go Dude! Thought of Keymasters words when I saw your topic. I love how people phrase the setup ” you would be good for my sister” or ” you would be good for my best friend” never ever indicating why I should date them or why they would be good for me. It’s always some thrice divorced women with two baby daddies. No f~~~ing thanks!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 2]

“Why haven’t you married?”

“For the same reason I don’t play Russian Roulette with five bullets in the chamber.”

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Why haven’t you married? Same reason jewelry stores don’t leave jewelry out after they close. Chances are you will lose.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

This is awesome. From my recent experiences, I can too confirm MGTOW education is paying off by leaps and bounds.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Just thumbs up.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Jack Harper wrote:

I do miss sex. And I would say I miss companionship but what I actually miss is the IDEA of companionship.

Snap out of it! Go to amazon and buy the book “The Manipulated Man” and read it.If you still feel the same way,send me your paypal and I will refund you the money.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Jack Harper wrote:

I miss companionship

By the way Dogs are great companions.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Jack Harper wrote:

I do miss sex. And I would say I miss companionship but what I actually miss is the IDEA of companionship.

Snap out of it! Go to amazon and buy the book “The Manipulated Man” and read it.If you still feel the same way,send me your paypal and I will refund you the money.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Keymaster wrote:

Wake up. This is 2016. Marriage is for gays”

Literally it is…Any straight male doing it now is just crazy

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Mr. Man wrote:

How in the world did you make it through that conversation without constant, illogical interruptions to your explanation? No, seriously, how did you do that?

As mentioned, though Pam is AWALT, she is at the less offensive end of the spectrum. She listened, and saw my point. It’s, very likely, why she’s remained married for decades.

Keymaster wrote:

• Why are you NOT on a Facebook…..

Yeah. I forgot, she threw this one out in conversation as well. Bless her heart.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Beer wrote:

PLUS they also don’t like the fact some of the guys resources are already tapped by another woman.

They like it, MUCH LESS, when guys, with resources, are untapped by ANY woman.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

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