Why do some men not understand that sex with a woman isn't that important to me?

[experiencedParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

Some guys will try to berate you if you tell them that sex with a broad who’s already been f~~~ed by 50 other guys isn’t that important to me. One of my co-workers was just getting on me about it. They put on the whole “alpha-dog” act and it’s really annoying and irritating.

Then they need to work the “toilet” equation:

Suppose they f~~~ 100 laydeez – flip it – odds are – each of those laydeez have f~~~ed 100 others. No one thinks, “I’d like to f~~~ this public toilet bowl”, but essentially, that is what they are doing nowadays.

This one’s disease protected:

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"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

Keymaster wrote:

“I don’t care if I ever get laid again” is better than any bulls~~~ PUA opinion opener.

The key thing is that “I don’t care if I ever get laid again” vibe has to be real, otherwise women will see through that s~~~ as just another PUA tactic.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[TuneoutParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

They put on the whole “alpha-dog” act and it’s really annoying and irritating. “Brah, what’s wrong with you brah? You NEED pussy, brah!” and so on.

F~~~ing Simps,in a way they’re more annoying than Manginas.

Keymaster wrote:

Because if is that important to you, you can order it like Pizza right now. With any topping you want. Blonde. Brunette. Big t!ts. Cheerleader. Nurse. You name it, and she will deliver that pizza to your door exactly when you want, to give you exactly you want, exactly how you “need” it, and she’s not going home until you are satisfied.

Oh f~~~ yeah! I couldn’t have phrased it better Key.

Rockmaninoff wrote:

The value of masturbation is sexual self-sufficiency. But it’s a substitute, kind of like eating bread while you wait for your steak dinner so you don’t go mad with hunger. I don’t know about you, but when I masturbate, I think about sex, not about masturbation. That shows me that jerking it really is just a substitute for the real thing.

I’ve always found my hand and a bit of lotion better than any pussy but now and then miss the feeling of T n A and yeah even the convo of a real chick.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

PistolPete wrote:

The KM and old sage are right on! We really don’t “need” sex but every element of the mass media and pop culture tell you 24/7 that you do—now why would that be?

Answer: they are part of the process to institutionalize female dominion through offering/withholding sex. When you realize you don’t need sex their power and control vanishes…and they know it.

Because its the only way they can sell c~~~s for profit.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Artboy99Participant 369]

Last gal I f~~~ed at camp was screaming like a whore, I am doggy styling her…rubber on..then it happened…the waft of dead clam sperm cum dumpster. Turned me off for good.

Gal drives hours to find me.

Grossed me out.

Unc~~~ed and not going back.

My fleshlight gets nuked with soap, thrn alcohol,then a VERY hot water heating.

LOVE the healthy purity of that device.

Dating site are now like wanted posters.

Umm, yeah that is just gross.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

There is a very strong sense of self in the human male and female.
We believe, that we are the actors of our own actions and decisions.
No true. 95% of all things we will ever do in our live has been initiated by our subconscious mind.

The main problem is that most people believe that it is “them”, thus, they never go back and analyze the mistakes they made, and if they do, they think of “how do I avoid that mistake” instead of “why did I want to do that”.

Your greatest enemy is within you. Its the same guy that tells you having a beer and a smoke is “better/more pleasure” than making a few squats.
Its the same guy that tells you “you will have fun with that girl, she is great for you”.
This guys goal is simple: Grow up, reproduce and die. Key note on that last part btw, yes it is actually there.

So, why most men dont understand why others can live without sex? Its like asking why the people who were on the titanic didn’t get on the safe boats sooner: Most of them were clueless about what was happening until they had to pay the price for their ignorance.

[NotHavinIt75Participant 39]

Let me just start by saying that I understand it 100%.

Sex is not important to me (anymore) either.

Why do I feel this way?

Well, I suppose a lot of it has to do with aging and maturing and coming to grips with the fact that all of the work, time, and money that you have to spend for a mere 5-10 minutes of pleasure is simply just not worth it.

Another reason for me is that it always complicates things. It also aids in setting expectations for the woman in that most of them feel that once they’ve given you their most precious asset, you are always going to be at their beck and call.

I think another huge factor in my disinterest in pursuing sex is that when I was in my younger days I was a decent looking guy and I got a lot of pussy. I was also in the military and was able to bang quiff from all over the world. Now, I know that sounds like bragging, but trust me, it’s not. It’s simply the truth, and it’s a truth that led to me to a very important revelation: No matter where a woman is from, inherently, they are all the same. They all have the same desire for emotional and financial security, and will use their pussy as a means to obtain that security EVERY time.

I’m sure another reason I could care less about getting laid anymore is the fact that I’m diabetic and it probably f~~~ed with my testosterone levels somewhere along the line, but I’ve come to accept it as a blessing rather than a curse.

As far as the “pussy worshipping” asswipes that try and make other men feel “less than” because they don’t care about sex, don’t even sweat them because deep down inside all of that bravado is simply covering up their many insecurities.

If you don't want to do something, then DON'T!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

NotHavinIt75 wrote:

Well, I suppose a lot of it has to do with aging and maturing and coming to grips with the fact that all of the work, time, and money that you have to spend for a mere 5-10 minutes of pleasure is simply just not worth it.

Once I got to this point sex became unimportant to me. This led to sexual self-mastery and I can not over state how important this is to have prosperity and peace of mind.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[narwhalParticipant]

In general, I think it’s rather fascinating how people care about the opinions of others when it concerns their lifestyle. People want validation that their actions and thoughts are correct. They want to liked and possibly even idolized. Without this, they are forced to seriously question their actions and make moral judgments on themselves. Along the same lines, they also need a way to claim victimhood, as if the natural consequences of their actions aren’t natural at all, they are just a victim of society.

So the PUA/blue pill needs you to agree with his lifestyle. The gay man needs you to support his sexuality, or allow him to play the victim at your hand. The gay marriage debate was never really about legality, but winner over societies’ view on homosexuality. LGBTQ bathrooms has nothing to do with where you pee.

So if someone asks why you aren’t blue pill, or whatever, never give them anything but indifference. They are just as happy with your support or ‘hatred’ of their way of life.

Ok. Then do it.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

WOTGM wrote:

But why is it if you tell this stuff to other guys, they almost get angry at you? It’s as if they’re upset at me for “not playing the game”

If you spent your entire life savings and focused all your efforts on lets say a Beanie Baby collection, and then some guy was like wtf you do that for Beanie Babies are pointless…that’s about what those blue pill suckers feel when your just like *shrug* I can do without pussy its not that great.

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