Why do some men not understand that sex with a woman isn't that important to me?

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

Some guys will try to berate you if you tell them that sex with a broad who’s already been f~~~ed by 50 other guys isn’t that important to me. One of my co-workers was just getting on me about it. They put on the whole “alpha-dog” act and it’s really annoying and irritating. “Brah, what’s wrong with you brah? You NEED pussy, brah!” and so on. These are the type of guys who all try and “one-up” each other by bragging about how many sluts they’ve banged. I mean, I don’t have a total hatred of women, and if somehow a good one came my way I guess I might be open to something, but from what I’ve seen of them, they really aren’t worth any effort at all on my behalf. And I’m a nice looking dude so it’d probably be easier for me to do “pickups” or whatever, but I have no desire to do it. I like saving my money and being disease-free.

But why is it if you tell this stuff to other guys, they almost get angry at you? It’s as if they’re upset at me for “not playing the game” or some of the older guys with wives/kids already seem to take offense that I don’t want to go down the same path they did. “You HAVE to have kids! What’s wrong with you?” I don’t think some of these older guys realize how much things have changed. A lot of them say things like “Money isn’t important to women!” and things like that, which of course I find to be patently false.

[Anonymous 13]

They are far too deep in the program, they actually believe they ‘need’ pussy as opposed to want it.
It’s just programming, most of this world is asleep.

Some people will stay asleep from cradle to grave.

There’s no arguing with them, it’s about as useful as arguing with a woman. A pointless waste of energy.

We can’t save everyone.
Enjoy your ‘disease free’ freedom from the program.

[Anonymous 43]

dude I think sex is disgusting and should be avoided at all cost.

Diseases and everyone who has been there before you aside…have ya ever seen what comes out of there on a regular basis?

What ever happy feeling you get from sex lasts like 2 minutes, and then what? S~~~, I could take care of that myself, and never feel rejected, disappointed, embarrassed or divorce raped.

I used to play a game with the c~~~…whoever orgasms first loses. lol ever have a chick bounce on you for an hour? lol she would have like 12 orgasms in a row grinding away on me, sweating up a storm, t~~~ slapping everywhere and moaning and screaming. She wouldn’t even care about if I had a good time after the first 2 orgasms. It was all about her getting off. I hated every minute of it. I’d tell her to Keep going don’t stop more more harder faster more more and she would. Id get rug burn down there from her hair. I was her f~~~ing dildo at that point. I coulda substituted a toilet plunger, got up and watched tv or something else and she wouldn’t have missed me.

stay away from women, it aint worth it.

guys who brag on getting pussy are idiots.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

WOTGM wrote:

They put on the whole “alpha-dog” act and it’s really annoying and irritating. “Brah, what’s wrong with you brah? You NEED pussy, brah!” and so on.

“Because you believe that, you can have my share.”.

( They NEED you think “you NEED pussy brah”. )

WOTGM wrote:

These are the type of guys who all try and “one-up” each other by bragging about how many sluts they’ve banged.

Some people also have hot-dog eating contests. How many can you pound down before you puke? They may want to aim higher in life… and don’t forget to put the seat down when they’re done.

WOTGM wrote:

if somehow a good one came my way I guess I might be open to something, but from what I’ve seen of them, they really aren’t worth any effort at all on my behalf.

That’s a thought you can keep to yourself.
Because you know something they don’t.

They want you to “be interested”. As if 100% of the thirst should be ALL YOURS.
But guess what. Women are much too horny for that. They are even hornier than YOU!

So you leave it up to her to be interesting.
And then MAYBE if you like her….. she can have some dick.

It’s the slightest mental switch and it makes all the difference. It is very simple. They think and behave as if vagina is some kind of “prize”. But when you know that women are hornier than you, it’s game over for them and the “alpha dog” and they can’t get away with it anymore.

They have it all backwards.
All you need to do, is never reward a bitch with dick.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I’ve run into this same problem with my friends but it really does boil down to want vs need. They really do think they “need” it like a drug and if they go off of it something horrible will happen to them. I point out that I neither need nor want and they just don’t get it!

Its like they are hypnotized by the t~~~!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22594]

When people ask me why I do not date. I just reply it is not worth the drama. The conversation usually ends right there.

Show me a lady that is my age or a few years younger. I might consider dating her. But, all the women I have met in my age group are not ladies.

[ShiroeParticipant 139]

Greetings. I feel the same way you do. Probably to a more extreme perspective. I do not feel any inclination or desire to have sex with women anymore. The desire is completely gone. As is the desire to communicate or spend time with them. It is nonexistent. Like it never existed. It existed in the past but nowadays it just is completely detatched from me and my psychological being. I know the want the desire to have female company in my life existed long ago. as did the want for sex. now it is like I cut the needs and wants from my life and the wound closed and It is like they never existed. I feel no hate or malice. Not even anger. just indifference. I have no interest or want to be around them.

When a man looks inside himself and accepts he is no one. When he accepts he is nothing. Only then can he ascend to greatness

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Sex is crucially important to me. It’s so important, in fact, that you could show me a unicorn, my ideal woman, loyal, faithful, beautiful, kind, thoughtful, all that s~~~—but if you told me she would never have sex with me, I would want nothing to do with her.

The value of masturbation is sexual self-sufficiency. But it’s a substitute, kind of like eating bread while you wait for your steak dinner so you don’t go mad with hunger. I don’t know about you, but when I masturbate, I think about sex, not about masturbation. That shows me that jerking it really is just a substitute for the real thing.

Keymaster wrote:

They think and behave as if vagina is some kind of “prize”. But when you know that women are hornier than you, it’s game over for them and the “alpha dog” and they can’t get away with it anymore.

Women need sex just as much (if not more so) than men do. But that doesn’t mean men don’t need it.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[Anonymous 43]

women my age are grandmothers…who wants to date that? come over and watch my grandbaby with me? I’m only 47. S~~~.
I do know a woman from my high school class is a great grand mother right now. She had a kid in Jr hi at age 14, her daughter had a kid at age 15, and that child gave birth at age 16. How f~~~ed up is that?

f~~~ that noise

drama scale as measured in pins stuck through my doinkus

Woman = 100 pins
woman with a kid 200 + 200 per kid
Woman with kids and grand children = 2000 pins

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

But that doesn’t mean men don’t need it.

Are you sure it’s about the “SEX”??

Because if is that important to you, you can order it like Pizza right now. With any topping you want. Blonde. Brunette. Big t!ts. Cheerleader. Nurse. You name it, and she will deliver that pizza to your door exactly when you want, to give you exactly you want, exactly how you “need” it, and she’s not going home until you are satisfied.

How many girlfriends and wives are that interested in giving you what you “need” for all they expect you to invest in them?

So be honest. It’s not about the “sex”. You can get that right now, and so can any man who “needs” it.

Perhaps you have a “need” for female affection, companionship, and stimulating conversation?
Confuse “sex” with that to your own detriment.

But don’t tell me you “need” sex like it doesn’t spill out of every tap.

There is nothing you “need” from a woman that you already can’t get for yourself in abundance. From sex to stimulating conversation. If you want stimulating conversation, go talk to a man. And if you want a friend, get a dog.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

My take on this is that it is more ego validation than physical need.

Man can survive pretty well by himself. But only rare men can survive without female validation.

Once you take the red pill fully, even if ghosting women can somehow read that they are dealing with men that is outside of the matrix, thus not a puppet going through life pandering to the female whims. And they detest this realization. In a way sort like like how man looks back at passed investment opportnuties with regret, knowing they are gone foreever. Just how women will not get back awakened man who bathes in freedom.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[neverAgainParticipant 1662]

Biology… It’s in their DNA

All good things come to an end.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6419]

WOTGM wrote:

guys will try to berate you if you tell them that sex with a broad who’s already been

I hear you and agree 1000 percent.

Spending time in the microbiology lab growing lots of cultures .. this might begin to explain why I shy away from soiled and frequently used human spaces with arguably the same environment as a petri dish filled with agar in an incubator used to grow bacterial samples. And I’m not even including all the other non bacterial bugs & fishy smelling yeasts & creatures that are most likely hiding there. Everyone follows their own unique path. Don’t necessarily do as I do. Currently monk mode .. and no regrets.

[ShiroeParticipant 139]

Freeman_K wrote:

. But only rare men can survive without female validation.

I do not agree with you that it takes a rare man to survive without female validation. I do it and have done it for years. Maybe i am one of the rare men and I do not see it but I strongly feel that every man has it in him he just needs to go about doing it right.What is the right way to do it? I can tell you how I do it but It is different inside every man. You see every man has different values, expectations,aspirations, goals and dreams. With that said there is no one size fits all blanket answer to the problem at hand. Sure there are guidelines and methods but for a man to truly not need it he needs to discover himself to a large degree. For how can one tackle a problem or achieve a goal if he does not understand it and himself and in this situation the enemy is himself. The enemy has always been himself. So in order to succede in his goal he must understand what makes him want sex or what ever inner battle he fights. once you understand the root of the problem you can the start destroying it from the roots up. That my friends is one of the first steps. where you go after that is your own road.
cheers

When a man looks inside himself and accepts he is no one. When he accepts he is nothing. Only then can he ascend to greatness

[ShiroeParticipant 139]

hmskl’d wrote:

. Monk mode .. and no regrets.

Monk mode is the way to go if you are serious enough and if it is the note that rings true.

When a man looks inside himself and accepts he is no one. When he accepts he is nothing. Only then can he ascend to greatness

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Shiroe wrote:

Maybe i am one of the rare men

That “need for female validation” (mentioned above) is purely socialized into men since the crib. Women actually speak and behave like their validation and approval should matter. It doesn’t. A man doesn’t need it for anything. Not even to get some trim – which is one thing a woman will never teach you.

Women NEED men to think their validation and approval matters. Let her know that it doesn’t , and that’s the moment she machine-gun hammers the panic button. She’ll say ANYTHING in that moment – including “what are you GAY??”

It takes a rare man to tell her to drop to her knees, take out her boobs open her mouth and find out, and then when she’s bobbing for birthmarks, it becomes clear he never needed her validation at all. She needed HIS.

Shiroe wrote:

Monk mode is the way to go

At least in attitude. When that is practiced, a man notices panties will fall off faster than she can drop a bunch of flowers. It’s truly remarkable. “I dont’ care if I ever get laid again” is better than any bulls~~~ PUA opinion opener.

Treat your time and attention like women treat sex.
And think of sex like a marachino cherry. Not air and water.
A take-it-or-leave-it attitude goes a LONG way.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 54]

Men measureing them selves by how much pussy they get is a f~~~ing joke.
What good does sex that you had do me??
Dont care, dont want to hear about it.

Sex is not important.Yes you may want it, but that doesnt make it important.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Men measureing them selves by how much pussy they get is a f~~~ing joke.

You said a mouthful.

I often have to stop from laughing when they use the term “success with women”. And the word “approach”, like a woman is a dentist’s chair or a lion’s cage.

Basic survival, sex and mating is the pinnacle of “success” for animals. It’s the best they are ever gonna do. But it’s not the pinnacle of success for men. So anyone who talks like it is can be pointed and laughed at…. because in their mind, the BEST you can do is squirt in a female?? “OMG YOU NEED THAT!!!!”

Taking a leak behind a tree is pretty satisfying too.
Sometimes I need that MORE.

Sure it’s not very “romantic” but that doesn’t exist anywhere except a woman’s imagination either.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[experiencedParticipant]

“Why do some men not understand that sex with a woman isn’t that important to me?”

They chose to not understand,

Because if they acknowledge that, they will lose their peer pressure powerbase over you.

Sex with a woman depends on a woman’s approval. Those men depend on wanting you to depend also. Notice the huge proportion of “adult diapers – ‘Depends'” here.
To keep s~~~ in.
Oh the irony.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

The KM and old sage are right on! We really don’t “need” sex but every element of the mass media and pop culture tell you 24/7 that you do—now why would that be?

Answer: they are part of the process to institutionalize female dominion through offering/withholding sex. When you realize you don’t need sex their power and control vanishes…and they know it.

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