Why are you not marrying, men?!? It is "beneficial" for you…

[Emperor HeracliusParticipant 317]

hellraider wrote:

I look at my father and he is a broken men.
All he has done all his life is work like a slave.
He has no hobbies, pastimes, nothing.
The only thing he sees on tv is the news ans once in a while a game of soccer, and even then my mother nags because she wants to see the soap opera.

You literally also just described my own father in that paragraph, and probably untold hundreds of thousands of other broken, defeated fathers….

"Admit no woman to the imperial councils. Be accessible to no one. Share with few your most intimate plans."

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

BEST REBUTTAL IN VIDEO: “Sure, if a man is married, he’ll work harder and make more, but he’ll also spend more. If I’m married and make $50K more but have to spend $75K more on wife, kids, etc, then I have LESS NET MONEY to spend on myself than when I was single and earned $50k less”

[BrutusParticipant 3]

Marriage is a form of slavery propagated by society.

[LowISOIsTheBestParticipant 11]

I would’ve been married before my 20s, if women weren’t so bitchy that a man couldn’t deal with them without a whip.

Being a role model is overrated! I’d much rather be hilariously edgy.

[Anonymous 1]

My father was killed by marriage. My mom demanded him to quit his job as a sailor when they had me, because she want him to be around. That made him a stay at home dad for years and when he managed to get a job, it wasn’t the job he passionate about (being at sea). For as long as I remember, he’s always a broken, incomplete man. Forced to be religious, forced to go to church when he wanted to watch soccer or boxing (sports on tv is the only thing that made him feel alive, come to think of it). He became very insecure, angry all the time, and suddenly fell ill and passed away.

So, don’t tell me marriage is beneficial. It’s a lie.

[PhDParticipant 6]

I don’t believe in marriage. Systems of power and control. So many of my friends just got married because it was expected of them. They didn’t give it a second thought. Whenever someone asked me when I was little do you wanna get married I used to say, yea, and I want lots of kids. F~~~ that ideology. Once I realised that marriage was an ideology of having someone to complete you in most of the cases, I decided that I didnt need to be completed by anyone. I am fully completed and I share my completeness with who I want in any given moment I choose to. I can love many people. Love takes many forms. It doesn’t need a legal certificate or a clingy partner.

[ValmontParticipant 2]

Great post. So very true.
Thanks

[Anonymous 1]

Marriage nearly got me locked away in Psych ward for years. Thank the lord the Head doctor was a man who had seen it all.
I managed to pay to support two step kids through University, from five years old to adult hood. I want a refund, I paid for years being slowly bled dry and when I finally say no to stepkids wanting me to fund their first homes ? one phone call and hello funny farm.Step kids are a massive money pit.
Do I see anything of them now ? of course not. Just grabbed the handouts with both hands.
Men need marriage like a hole in the head. It’s a no win deal from day one.

[JohanTheGhost26Participant 32]

“Married men work 400 more hours per year…”

Feed that machine, slaves! The single mothers need their welfare payments! Don’t you take one step off that plantation, or we’ll put the barrel of the State’s gun to your head.

My reasons for not marrying:

Seeing my father work himself practically to death while my mother made every excuse why she couldn’t help, turning him into a plow horse for the family until I started working too. When his businesses were hit hard by the economic recessions of 2000 and 2008, my resources were tapped into so the family could survive.
Out of all of my friends, only one couple has a successful marriage. Most of my friends are paired off into long term, non married relationships and no one in my immediate friends pool has kids, but some of the younger ones are around that 27-30 range, so that might not be ruled out yet. But none of them are particularly happy.
Seeing how men, especially married men, are portrayed in the media completely turns me off to ever being married
Seeing and reading about how destructive feminism, false rape and assault allegations and the injustice in the court system for men, I don’t even want get within 3 feet of a woman

Last, I want every woman who ever ignored me, snickered at me, abused me, abused my kindness, cheated on me, made fun of me, used me as an emotional tampon or manipulated me to know that they had their chance. That time is now over. They left me to die, but I woke up a monster. Now it’s my turn and I have zero remorse, compassion or empathy.

"A rattlesnake's skin is the same color as the leaves. Never forget that while walking through the woods."

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22545]

Just from a monetary aspect it should make guys really pause.

Single guy can work in a less strenuous job and keep all his money after expenses.

Married guy is pressured to continually earn more. Splits it between wife and kids. Net result is more pressure and less money for himself than if he was single. And pressure from wife to keep earning more. Or else.

Further the mangina prof guy says married guys work on average 400 hours more a year than single guys. He says this like it’s a good thing. He also says married men on average earn 20% more than single guys.

Two points about the above paragraph. One, try to sell me how working 400 more hours a year if I am married, for only 20% more money than if I stayed single, is such a great deal for me, considering I then split all that money I made between wifey (50%) and kids (25%). Sell me on how wonderful that is, plus that is 400 hours away from them, away from doing other things in MY life.
Second, this cuck professor does not realize that one of the many lame rationalization/excuses women throw out there for cheating on their husbands and/or divorccing their husbands, is “Well you were never HERE ANYMORE” / I’m Lonely / You are gone all the time!” Yeah, so while you are working more because wifey wnats you to make more money, you are gone more, which she then BLAMES YOU FOR – because women blame everyone else about their negative behaviors – her infidelity and wanting to divorce you.

How frigging beautiful, right?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[UniquecornParticipant 48]

DDJ wrote:

Annually, couples divorce at a rate of 40-50%. Over 70% of these divorces are initiated by women. Once a person divorces the first time…it increases their likelihood to divorce again. So knowing that single mothers are more likely to destroy their marriage to step-fathers…at these rates…why would anyone commit to a single mother…knowing she most likely f~~~ed up her first marriage.

Any man able to do even the most basic of cost-benefit analysis would never get married, based on those odds alone.

I made that same mistake twice…trust me…it wasn’t beneficial…and I won the kids in both divorces. Fortunately, neither woman had been married before…which made my life a little easier…but still a mistake.

Misandry today,

Divorce is more than 50 %, this figure is misleading as the government massage the figures to make marriage look more appealing than it is so more men take the plunge and get married…and guess who gets divorce raped.

The true divorce rate is 90%.

Here is a good explanation of how the figures are manipulated –

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