I was a perpetual nice guy all my life. When I was 30, I dated a chick, she moved in with me a short time later. She was doing nothing with her life, so I helped her get into nursing school. While there, she started slutting it up with her 45 year old married professor. She tried to get me to buy a car off of him and was going to use the money to start a love nest for the two of them and dump me. What she forgot was, she was dating a world class computer engineer with a digital toolkit that the NSA would be proud of. Long story short, I was able to put the story together through her various phone and computer logs. The night I confronted her, her eyes hit the floor and I knew. That night, any compassion for women in me died. That was the night when my eyes were opened and I started my journey that led me here.