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Entirely your choice who you spend your time on, and it’s not in my.place to advise. You’re responsible, if you’re going to hang with a blue piller then accept the associated frustration.
That’s about the best thing that could be said regarding this matter.
Personally, I don’t bother spending time with people who don’t accept reality.
I won’t go that far myself. If I did, I wouldn’t have any friends at all. The inability to accept reality covers just about everyone that I’ve ever known…
I just think they’re too blinded by society to see the reality. “…….I just haven’t found the right one yet……….”
I have one buddy who’s always complaining to me about his FIFTH wife. But he tells me that he understands ‘AWALT’. He admits that they’re all the same.
Figure that one out…
Entirely your choice who you spend your time on, and it’s not in my.place to advise. You’re responsible, if you’re going to hang with a blue piller then accept the associated frustration.
That’s about the best thing that could be said regarding this matter.
Personally, I don’t bother spending time with people who don’t accept reality.
I won’t go that far myself. If I did, I wouldn’t have any friends at all. The inability to accept reality covers just about everyone that I’ve ever known…
And? I dont have “friends” that is bulls~~~.
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
I have a very good Blue Pill friend. He is a TradCon; still married. He is a good guy; but he is so deep in; its like being too close to the event horizon of a black hole: he will never escape.
Only if his wife initiates a divorce. Whatever his wife says: he does. Whatever she wants, she gets.
If he wants to do something, or go somewhere he has to ask permission from his wife.
She owns him. And if she divorces him she can ask for lifetime alimony.
He is completely f~~~ed.What I found really sad was for a little while some years ago, he kept going on and on about how wonderful it was being married; and I could see that it was all a lie and he was just trying to feel better about himself and his situation.
So…I just keep silent on things….he shakes his head in wonder when I ride up on a new motorcycle or when I tell him of what I did that day.
I only very occasionally hear him express what he would do if he wasn’t marriedIf he wants to do something, or go somewhere he has to ask permission from his wife.
This s~~~ has always p~~~ed me off. Even in the beginning of the marriage, I never asked my wife permission for anything. I never understood why any man would live that way. That just can’t be an acceptable existence for any man. Why? Death would be preferable to being owned by someone like that.
When I was old enough, I got a job and moved out of my parents house and got my own place to live. It was nice not having to live under someone’s rule for the first time in my life. When I got married, it was like reverting back, with someone trying to act like my mother, trying to tell me what I could and couldn’t do. F~~~ that s~~~. I’m a grown man. I do what I want. I live as I please. Obviously one of the main reasons I am no longer married.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Friendship is supposed to be a mutually beneficial experience. If you get nothing from it, just a drain, then cut him lose. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t help a friend through a bad time, or that it’s always supposed be a party. However, if you find yourself thinking you’d rather be anyplace less than with this guy, than leave.
Really, that’s not just friendships, it’s life. People spend so much time doing what they’re supposed to do, and what people will be impressed with that end up living miserable lives, being alone in a room full of people.
For the most part, I don’t get involved in people’s lives very much, and don’t involve them in mine. I hang out with people to enjoy the time. It’s not that I wouldn’t enjoy deep meaningful conversations and relationships, it’s just that they always end up feeling one sided and more of a burden than anything else.
Ok. Then do it.
I just think they’re too blinded by society to see the reality. “…….I just haven’t found the right one yet……….”
I have one buddy who’s always complaining to me about his FIFTH wife. But he tells me that he understands ‘AWALT’. He admits that they’re all the same.
Figure that one out…Didn’t it take Tom Leykis 4 wives to figure this crap out? And he’s a very smart guy.. Lol!
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Didn’t it take Tom Leykis 4 wives to figure this crap out? And he’s a very smart guy.. Lol!
But this guy claims that he knew all along what women are really like. And I believe him by the stories that he tells about his previous marriages. He says that he has it figured out but he keeps getting married. It’s a real mystery. There’s something psychological going on inside of his head that I can’t seem to figure out.
It’s like someone who’s continuously bashing themselves in the face with a hammer and then complaining that it hurts. What would be the explanation for that sort of behaviour???
Didn’t it take Tom Leykis 4 wives to figure this crap out? And he’s a very smart guy.. Lol!
But this guy claims that he knew all along what women are really like. And I believe him by the stories that he tells about his previous marriages. He says that he has it figured out but he keeps getting married. It’s a real mystery. There’s something psychological going on inside of his head that I can’t seem to figure out.
It’s like someone who’s continuously bashing themselves in the face with a hammer and then complaining that it hurts. What would be the explanation for that sort of behaviour???It is status, money, fame, power, pussy.
Is all the same.
Men with success with no pussy around doesnt sound right, sinse pussy had some value, but now, well let say pussy is like investing on Venezuela.
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
Entirely your choice who you spend your time on, and it’s not in my.place to advise. You’re responsible, if you’re going to hang with a blue piller then accept the associated frustration.
That’s about the best thing that could be said regarding this matter.
Personally, I don’t bother spending time with people who don’t accept reality.
I won’t go that far myself. If I did, I wouldn’t have any friends at all. The inability to accept reality covers just about everyone that I’ve ever known…
I’d rather be friendless than hang around people who are unable to accept reality. That is why I have no friends and is why I don’t have regrets in that regard. I only regret that people don’t accept reality.
Most people in society are brainwashed tools, so my basic philosophy is “f~~~ society”. I used to regret living in a time when I knew that society was likely to collapse. Now I accept it, and almost look forward to it. I look forward to the chaos and watching the snowflakes melt and c~~~s get what they deserve. Chaos is a ladder.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Anonymous38Entirely your choice who you spend your time on, and it’s not in my.place to advise. You’re responsible, if you’re going to hang with a blue piller then accept the associated frustration.
That’s about the best thing that could be said regarding this matter.
Personally, I don’t bother spending time with people who don’t accept reality.
I won’t go that far myself. If I did, I wouldn’t have any friends at all. The inability to accept reality covers just about everyone that I’ve ever known…
The 5 or 6 friends I see semi regularly have a good grip on reality in general. We’d struggle to converse otherwise. Perhaps not be quite so aware of the reality of female nature as I am, granted. I red pill s~~~ test potential friends, if they fail then *poof*, lol. Unless I have something to gain by their association 🙂
Anonymous38Didn’t it take Tom Leykis 4 wives to figure this crap out? And he’s a very smart guy.. Lol!
But this guy claims that he knew all along what women are really like. And I believe him by the stories that he tells about his previous marriages. He says that he has it figured out but he keeps getting married. It’s a real mystery. There’s something psychological going on inside of his head that I can’t seem to figure out.
It’s like someone who’s continuously bashing themselves in the face with a hammer and then complaining that it hurts. What would be the explanation for that sort of behaviour???Honestly, I believe that men with money and power see less of a downside to having a woman. There’s far less potential for ruin than there is for your average man. You know you can keep a woman around for at least a while when you’re worth millions. Your average man is greatly hindered in his mission for success by having a typical woman. The rich man has already ‘made it’, so wants excitement, and to play, and like Nietzsche said, man loves danger and play, and woman is the most dangerous plaything of all. A smart average man knows he could wind up broke and ruined at 40/50 if he makes women his main focus.
When they take in some c~~~ with nothing. When they park their new BMW outside and let her rusty Mustang park in the garage. When they glorify worshipping her on social media. Then you slash his simp cuck ass online.
You wrote:
he can’t be bothered to make the time for us to meet up. He even admitted to me that he’d rather go bang this woman he was chasing after than come visit me. That was before she dumped his ass lol. So maybe I’ll get a visit now.
But you already answered your own question, with…
What’s so wrong with being alone?! Why can’t these guys get a grip?
Chasing blue-pillers is the same as chasing women. You are idolizing the friendship you used to have. You have changed – he has not. I would guess that everyone here has that same friend that we have pined for, but alas, he isn’t coming back. I know I do. It hurts, but you learn to live with it and bury the hurt. For some, it is our own father or brother.
Honestly, I believe that men with money and power see less of a downside to having a woman. There’s far less potential for ruin than there is for your average man. You know you can keep a woman around for at least a while when you’re worth millions. Your average man is greatly hindered in his mission for success by having a typical woman. The rich man has already ‘made it’, so wants excitement, and to play, and like Nietzsche said, man loves danger and play, and woman is the most dangerous plaything of all. A smart average man knows he could wind up broke and ruined at 40/50 if he makes women his main focus.
Are you guessing? Because I don’t think this is true at all. I think the story in this video is all too common:
This is all so much more complicated than it seems. And yet to us now its so simple when we understand the truth.
Like it or not, you can call it MGTOW. You can call it Lone Ranger. You can call our/your/there’s “Philosophy” or way of life (blue, red , purple, Black,) anything you like.
If you just drop a man for being annoying? Then he was only an associate. I learned this from a guy in art class back in High School. Is Name was Eddy.
You know what else he told me? People like to fish for Compliments.
If you know truly what a friendship is, this question would have never been asked or posted.
If I Secret Agent mgtow does he Believe in god? He would say yes. God sure is an annoying Fellow. Same with HarpoonsMan
God is F~~~ING annoying in my opinion. But then he gives up on a “Friend”? I call Bulls~~~ on the “Friend” moniker.My sisters friend, (odd, coming from her) said to my Ex, “The truth will set you free”. See, she would be called a whore. But I have a hard time doing that since she is honest about herself. She just loves sex. 1,2,3 guys at a time, whatever. She takes care of another mans kids, and then actually weirdly is a good “girlfriend”. (Again, I mean like, she is a whore, but then makes it up by being good to her stable man that she supports? Weird!)
But she does have a point. Hell, I was the only man that turned her down IN HER LIFETIME. And not a bad looking lassie.
She makes no attempt to hide what she is from anyone. And therefore, she’s happy. Her boyfriends happy. It’s almost a Sugar Mama relationship in a way.
So ask yourself, if a woman can be honest about herself (to a point) then maybe it’s time to be honest. These men were never really that close friends, they were just associates.
Stating that his conduct that should not affect you is to much for you to deal with seem to be part of a larger issue. I’m no Einstein, but there sure seems to be something missing from this equation.
All of you seem to have clarity now? But it makes me wonder what kind of s~~~y person just dumps a dude when you know what he really needs is some tough love. TO Abandon a man that has a addiction that is similar to a drug like heroin, is about the same as Me saying to Gravel pit, Hey Here’s one more drink! Its just KAVA man! It’s not even Alcohol!
I may not be old and wise, but even I know that you don’t find friends just around the corner.
It’s none of my Business, but maybe the texting is not healthy. S~~~ changes when you make a phone call. The voice is a powerful weapon. Use it. It can transverse many things.
We can’t help those that fall into a spiders web if they keep crawling towards it. But when they are trapped, it’s almost impossible to get out. Don’t be the venom. There is enough there already.
Like it or not, those around us are helpless. Everything around them pushes them into this hole. You are but ONE voice where there are Millions telling, showing, manipulating and out right forcing their will on just one man trying to get out.
You go to work and do s~~~ you don’t like for money to by things that you wish you did not have to pay for. But you keep buying it anyways. Some of you drink knowing that it is bulls~~~. Some of us smoke knowing that we should quit.
Some of you and your friends are in the same damn boat that you may have been in.
I don’t agree with some of your conclusions, or actions you may take. But I won’t just walk up and leave or keep my mouth shut about. So maybe you should do the same. Like it or not, these men may have only one person to talk to and that may be solely you. If you did not have a place or a person that listened to you? Where would you be?
I have a much better solution.
Get some tabasco, some Maxi Pads, and tell him to wipe to use that instead of Kleenex to wipe his Tears away next time. Then maybe he will get the hint.
Like it or not, a man faces his problems head on. That’s what makes you grow as a person. Sure, they are not YOUR problems. Sure, they are not YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. But you do 100’s of things each day for other people and you don’t even think twice about it.
So why not do something that matters and treat him like the Bitch he is. If he walks away, then he was no friend in the first place. You can’t treat men with Velvet gloves. You need Boxing gloves to snap out of it.
ALL OF YOU have at one time (I have looked) agreed that Depression is a thing for men. And that no one cares, and there is no place to go. You Hypocrites!
You talk about how white guys or black guys have it bad and you just keep rolling each other in the dirt. Brother over brother, friend over friend. Keep Killing each other till the world ends.
The Biggest mistake people make is thinking the strong man was the one that learned to go on his own. This is not true of history, or men that have came before you that cemented the foundations of what you have the ability to do now and that is to walk away, and go YOU OWN WAY.
I’m not asking you to do s~~~. I’m just pointing out how some of you bastards just pat each other on the Back and follow the heard. Its just MY opinion.
Like it or not, your “friend” may indeed be a good man. But remember, there are RULES. Rules he has been taught from when he was a child , and now as an adult. You don’t steal, but you can. You don’t Rape or Murder, but you can. And you don’t LIE, even if you can.
Today, I could of walked out of a store with a free Item. Sure it was only $6.00, but I CHOOSE not to STEAL. I could of got away with it, and no one would have been the wiser. Its when no one is looking is when you prove your worth as man. Like it or not, you are who you are due to all the men that followed the same unwritten rule of the past of honor, courage and commitment to his country, and his fellow man.
To simply state that he is annoying being the reason for end a friendship is so FEMALE, I’m about to prescribe you Birth control pills.
I’m not saying put your life on hold. I’m saying deal with this like MEN. Whatever that definition means to you, it sure as hell does not mean abandoning a good loyal friend. THE KEY WORD BEING LOYAL.
Face it gentleman, you are already doing the most Noble thing a man could ever do, and that is by setting the example for men everywhere.
Why put yourself as low to act like a woman does?
If you want to be selfish, then admit it. Admit it to your “friends”, but maybe try admitting to yourself first.
I have no shame in saying you ARE my friends. You ARE my new family. I take pride in knowing that I am amongst those that have a greater purpose in life then being someone’s slave. Under their Boot, a Minion of the system that persecutes men.
Going your own way does not mean to sever your ties with your fellow man. It means to break the chains that hold you back from your full potential as living breathing instrument of your own mastery and creation.
These men have been TRAINED and CONDITIONED to be weak. Yet you curse them, at the same time believing in your lord?
Speaks volumes about some people.
And to the Agnostics or atheists, for folks that run on facts, you sure seem to forget why they are indeed mentally ill.
WHo else is he going to call? The Jerk Off Line? 1800 cops at your door?
Listen you got a buddy your done dealing with, let me handle it. I do this s~~~ every f~~~ing day. From the kid at the gas station, to the man leaving the courthouse in tears knowing he won’t see his family again.
Some of you, I dare say need to screw your heads back on. That’s now how you treat a true friend. That is how you dispose of tampon. You flush it. Good job. Your on top of the pyramid. To bad for the cloudy judgement.
Atheist, Religious, whatever you are, YOU DO NOT DIE ALONE. You will figure that out when the time comes. So will they.
You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home
Anonymous38Honestly, I believe that men with money and power see less of a downside to having a woman. There’s far less potential for ruin than there is for your average man. You know you can keep a woman around for at least a while when you’re worth millions. Your average man is greatly hindered in his mission for success by having a typical woman. The rich man has already ‘made it’, so wants excitement, and to play, and like Nietzsche said, man loves danger and play, and woman is the most dangerous plaything of all. A smart average man knows he could wind up broke and ruined at 40/50 if he makes women his main focus.
Are you guessing? Because I don’t think this is true at all. I think the story in this video is all too common:
<iframe width=”500″ height=”281″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/xdYpU5bFbOM?feature=oembed” frameborder=”0″ allow=”accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture” allowfullscreen=””></iframe>Not guessing no. Because rich men ARE ruined by women, it doesn’t mean they have to be. Case in point, Elon Musk. Smart guy, wasn’t ruined by a divorce, maybe even he’s had a couple of divorces, I don’t recall.
My point anyway was not necessarily related to marriage, which is far greater risk. Also not just to the US, one of the countries that has alimony (most countries don’t). Also the Red pilled Ness of the guy in question is relevant. So your argument isn’t really refuting the point I was making.
So your argument isn’t really refuting the point I was making.
A daoist would have stopped before this statement. We are not in an argument.
Anonymous38Are you guessing? Because I don’t think this is true at all. I think the story in this video is all too common:
I mean not argument in the confrontational sense. You were making a point to the contrary which is an ‘argument’. I simply feel you broad brushed my point away with a slightly unrelated point of your own.
One of my best mates got divorced last year after his wife cheated on him, and ever since he’s been spending whatever spare time he has on chasing pussy. We go way back so I tolerate his blue-pill madness but I have to say it’s beginning to get on my nerves. Another girl’s just dumped him, even though she was supposedly the girl of his dreams, and he’s now texting me while crying into his beer. When it’s going well with a girl I don’t hear much from him, other than the occasional text to say how in love he is with the new girl, and then it’s back to crying into his beer and texting me again.
It makes me think that maybe I’ve got a distorted view of what most men are like from MGTOW.com: we are a pretty self-sufficient lot here, and I know I’m a lot more self-sufficient than pretty much everyone I know in real life, but for every one of us lone wolves I think there are countless guys like this mate of mine who really just cannot stand solitude. I find it pathetic and tragic at the same time.
It makes me think of that guy who posts here occasionally (the one who claims to have married a unicorn raised by her grandmother) who said that he would rather put a bullet through his brain than be alone.
What’s so wrong with being alone?! Why can’t these guys get a grip?
I have some news: we are born alone and we die alone. Don’t rely on other people to give meaning to your life. This isn’t even particularly red pill, it’s just basic psychology.
Every day I’m grateful that I am not like all these co-dependent people who hate solitude and desperately want other people to make them happy. They’ll always be miserable: what a life.
What particularly annoys me about this guy is, despite all the time I’ve put into our friendship over the last year, helping him through the divorce (practically and emotionally), he can’t be bothered to make the time for us to meet up. He even admitted to me that he’d rather go bang this woman he was chasing after than come visit me. That was before she dumped his ass lol. So maybe I’ll get a visit now.
I know a lot of you guys don’t bother staying friends with blue-pill guys cos they’re just too annoying. I know how you feel. That said, as I say I go way back with this guy. And isn’t it worth having a few friends, even if aspects of them infuriate you? If I only had friends who were redpilled I would have approximately zero friends. So I’ll stick with my friends, even if they drive me mad me sometimes. I’ll keep dropping the red pill but I won’t expect any of them to understand my worldview.Funny I have one exactly the same , he vanishes when in love , as an aside he is appalling with women he was sending money to a girl in Cebu after a holiday , went back to UK divorced his wife he ended up giving her way more than he had to , he felt guilty all conditioning , he also felt he was embarking on a great new life. He goes back to AC and after a week is dumped , since then he is always finding the one.
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