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One of my best mates got divorced last year after his wife cheated on him, and ever since he’s been spending whatever spare time he has on chasing pussy. We go way back so I tolerate his blue-pill madness but I have to say it’s beginning to get on my nerves. Another girl’s just dumped him, even though she was supposedly the girl of his dreams, and he’s now texting me while crying into his beer. When it’s going well with a girl I don’t hear much from him, other than the occasional text to say how in love he is with the new girl, and then it’s back to crying into his beer and texting me again.
It makes me think that maybe I’ve got a distorted view of what most men are like from MGTOW.com: we are a pretty self-sufficient lot here, and I know I’m a lot more self-sufficient than pretty much everyone I know in real life, but for every one of us lone wolves I think there are countless guys like this mate of mine who really just cannot stand solitude. I find it pathetic and tragic at the same time.
It makes me think of that guy who posts here occasionally (the one who claims to have married a unicorn raised by her grandmother) who said that he would rather put a bullet through his brain than be alone.
What’s so wrong with being alone?! Why can’t these guys get a grip?
I have some news: we are born alone and we die alone. Don’t rely on other people to give meaning to your life. This isn’t even particularly red pill, it’s just basic psychology.
Every day I’m grateful that I am not like all these co-dependent people who hate solitude and desperately want other people to make them happy. They’ll always be miserable: what a life.
What particularly annoys me about this guy is, despite all the time I’ve put into our friendship over the last year, helping him through the divorce (practically and emotionally), he can’t be bothered to make the time for us to meet up. He even admitted to me that he’d rather go bang this woman he was chasing after than come visit me. That was before she dumped his ass lol. So maybe I’ll get a visit now.
I know a lot of you guys don’t bother staying friends with blue-pill guys cos they’re just too annoying. I know how you feel. That said, as I say I go way back with this guy. And isn’t it worth having a few friends, even if aspects of them infuriate you? If I only had friends who were redpilled I would have approximately zero friends. So I’ll stick with my friends, even if they drive me mad me sometimes. I’ll keep dropping the red pill but I won’t expect any of them to understand my worldview.
There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.
I love it when they start telling you that you need a woman like the one they got. Lol, 2 months later they are crying again.
A good friend ghosted me last year, I thought maybe he was sick or something. Gave him a call, he is back with his Ex wife. She moved into his house. Lol. This guy gave me more red pills than this website. What a dumb ass. I just said to him, that’s cool man happy for ya. Haven’t talked to him in 3 months. No point getting involved with stupid.
Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.
You’re fine Lion. I’ve got old friends that I don’t stay in contact with regularly, but they can have the shirt off my back and I know they’d do the same. And they are pretty much blue pill, or maybe a tingle of purple.
That said, it’s ok to call him out on his s~~~ty behavior too. Hell, maybe if he’d tell a girl no once in a while it might help him keep one. He needs to tell one I’m going to see my friend this weekend, don’t try to come between us. You won’t like the outcome. Women want they can’t have and this guy is way too available.
Order the good wine
I just recently gave up on an old friend who I thought was at least purple pilled, but he showed me just how blue he was the last time we went out for drinks and wings. I posted a thread about it: Blue Pillers Never Listen
No big loss for me. Even though he was mostly a good guy and would probably help me out if I really needed him, he was weird and annoying. I can’t stand being around most married guys, or guys that make women such an important part of their life. I use women for sex once in a while, but if a friend wants to go fishing, or go to the shooting range, or just wants to hang out, the whores can wait.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
He is not your friend, you are just a tampon, you are worst than sim, you are kind of a gay simp.
Sorry, but it is the truth.
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
One of my best mates got divorced last year after his wife cheated on him, and ever since he’s been spending whatever spare time he has on chasing pussy. We go way back so I tolerate his blue-pill madness but I have to say it’s beginning to get on my nerves. Another girl’s just dumped him, even though she was supposedly the girl of his dreams, and he’s now texting me while crying into his beer. When it’s going well with a girl I don’t hear much from him, other than the occasional text to say how in love he is with the new girl, and then it’s back to crying into his beer and texting me again.
It makes me think that maybe I’ve got a distorted view of what most men are like from MGTOW.com: we are a pretty self-sufficient lot here, and I know I’m a lot more self-sufficient than pretty much everyone I know in real life, but for every one of us lone wolves I think there are countless guys like this mate of mine who really just cannot stand solitude. I find it pathetic and tragic at the same time.
It makes me think of that guy who posts here occasionally (the one who claims to have married a unicorn raised by her grandmother) who said that he would rather put a bullet through his brain than be alone.
What’s so wrong with being alone?! Why can’t these guys get a grip?
I have some news: we are born alone and we die alone. Don’t rely on other people to give meaning to your life. This isn’t even particularly red pill, it’s just basic psychology.
Every day I’m grateful that I am not like all these co-dependent people who hate solitude and desperately want other people to make them happy. They’ll always be miserable: what a life.
What particularly annoys me about this guy is, despite all the time I’ve put into our friendship over the last year, helping him through the divorce (practically and emotionally), he can’t be bothered to make the time for us to meet up. He even admitted to me that he’d rather go bang this woman he was chasing after than come visit me. That was before she dumped his ass lol. So maybe I’ll get a visit now.
I know a lot of you guys don’t bother staying friends with blue-pill guys cos they’re just too annoying. I know how you feel. That said, as I say I go way back with this guy. And isn’t it worth having a few friends, even if aspects of them infuriate you? If I only had friends who were redpilled I would have approximately zero friends. So I’ll stick with my friends, even if they drive me mad me sometimes. I’ll keep dropping the red pill but I won’t expect any of them to understand my worldview.The guy isnt learning. Tell him to get his s~~~ together and wake up because you’re not going to be his emotional tampon either. You dont do it for women and you’re not about to be one for a guy friend who keeps doing the same stupid s~~~ expecting different results.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
Thanks a lot guys.
I love it when they start telling you that you need a woman like the one they got. Lol, 2 months later they are crying again.
A good friend ghosted me last year, I thought maybe he was sick or something. Gave him a call, he is back with his Ex wife. She moved into his house. Lol. This guy gave me more red pills than this website. What a dumb ass. I just said to him, that’s cool man happy for ya. Haven’t talked to him in 3 months. No point getting involved with stupid.Jesus, moving back in with the ex wife? Didn’t get f~~~ed badly in the ass enough the first time around huh?
I just recently gave up on an old friend who I thought was at least purple pilled, but he showed me just how blue he was the last time we went out for drinks and wings. I posted a thread about it: Blue Pillers Never Listen
No big loss for me. Even though he was mostly a good guy and would probably help me out if I really needed him, he was weird and annoying. I can’t stand being around most married guys, or guys that make women such an important part of their life. I use women for sex once in a while, but if a friend wants to go fishing, or go to the shooting range, or just wants to hang out, the whores can wait.Thanks, Hermit, I’d missed that thread. As people pointed out there, women don’t like us hanging around with their blue pillers much either. I’ve had that problem too. I’ve actually had one guy’s wife throw a tantrum when I showed up for drinks, and she ended up muscling in on the drinks and we ended up staying at their house, cos she was jealous of hubby going out. What the actual f~~~.
He is not your friend, you are just a tampon, you are worst than sim, you are kind of a gay simp.
Sorry, but it is the truth.You’re kind of right as always Carnage, although the Machiavellian part of me thinks I can probably get useful stuff out of him in the future. Not the best foundation for a friendship though.
The guy isnt learning. Tell him to get his s~~~ together and wake up because you’re not going to be his emotional tampon either. You dont do it for women and you’re not about to be one for a guy friend who keeps doing the same stupid s~~~ expecting different results.
If he keeps going on in the same way then I might well do yeah.
There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.
Thanks a lot guys.
I love it when they start telling you that you need a woman like the one they got. Lol, 2 months later they are crying again.A good friend ghosted me last year, I thought maybe he was sick or something. Gave him a call, he is back with his Ex wife. She moved into his house. Lol. This guy gave me more red pills than this website. What a dumb ass. I just said to him, that’s cool man happy for ya. Haven’t talked to him in 3 months. No point getting involved with stupid.
Jesus, moving back in with the ex wife? Didn’t get f~~~ed badly in the ass enough the first time around huh?
I just recently gave up on an old friend who I thought was at least purple pilled, but he showed me just how blue he was the last time we went out for drinks and wings. I posted a thread about it: Blue Pillers Never ListenNo big loss for me. Even though he was mostly a good guy and would probably help me out if I really needed him, he was weird and annoying. I can’t stand being around most married guys, or guys that make women such an important part of their life. I use women for sex once in a while, but if a friend wants to go fishing, or go to the shooting range, or just wants to hang out, the whores can wait.
Thanks, Hermit, I’d missed that thread. As people pointed out there, women don’t like us hanging around with their blue pillers much either. I’ve had that problem too. I’ve actually had one guy’s wife throw a tantrum when I showed up for drinks, and she ended up muscling in on the drinks and we ended up staying at their house, cos she was jealous of hubby going out. What the actual f~~~.
He is not your friend, you are just a tampon, you are worst than sim, you are kind of a gay simp.Sorry, but it is the truth.
You’re kind of right as always Carnage, although the Machiavellian part of me thinks I can probably get useful stuff out of him in the future. Not the best foundation for a friendship though.
The guy isnt learning. Tell him to get his s~~~ together and wake up because you’re not going to be his emotional tampon either. You dont do it for women and you’re not about to be one for a guy friend who keeps doing the same stupid s~~~ expecting different results.
If he keeps going on in the same way then I might well do yeah.
I mean its one thing to be there for a bud when hes down, but if he just wants a person to whine to and bitch and moan about women, when he keeps doing the same dumb s~~~, and instead of wanting to learn and grow as a guy, just keep doing the same s~~~ that isnt working and isnt going to work, then he needs to hang around with other guys who like to do what he does.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
I have found over the years that they organically abandon me. The women running their lives see to that.
Solitude and peace for the win.
ultimately – they must be abandoned. Either directly or by neglect.
Your blue-pilled buddy has his priority, and it ain’t you or even his own self-interest. I had a buddy who got married to a land whale and after she started popping out the rugrats, he ghosted me. I had said nothing to offend him, his old lady, or anything else about his choices. It’s unfortunate, but that’s just the way it goes. Give your buddy some space and if he’s interested in having a decent relationship with you, then it’ll happen. If not, then you’re you’re both moving on.
We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham
You are being a good friend lion. Keep dropping them pills, all you can do. One day he’s gonna need you.
Peace is > piece.
Anonymous38Entirely your choice who you spend your time on, and it’s not in my.place to advise. You’re responsible, if you’re going to hang with a blue piller then accept the associated frustration.
Personally, I don’t bother spending time with people who don’t accept reality. Old friend or not.
People change, friends come and go. You don’t owe a lifelong association to anybody just cos you went to kindergarten together or whatever. That’s the kind of thinking of clung to when I was a blue piller.
He’s on a kamikaze mission and you can’t stop him.
Worse than that, he’s evidently starting to impact on you. Every time he has a mental blowout, it’ll be worse than the last. You’ll end up being drawn in.
Ditch the idiot.
Entirely your choice who you spend your time on, and it’s not in my.place to advise. You’re responsible, if you’re going to hang with a blue piller then accept the associated frustration.
Personally, I don’t bother spending time with people who don’t accept reality. Old friend or not.
People change, friends come and go. You don’t owe a lifelong association to anybody just cos you went to kindergarten together or whatever. That’s the kind of thinking of clung to when I was a blue piller.Y
This guy gets itTo those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
All my buddies are married. A few of them on their second marriage. My best friend, who is on his second marriage plainly told me, “I wish I never did this s~~~ again.”
His first marriage he got out relatively unscathed. But this time around he’s a family man. Two kids and a mortgage. He’s got a lot more to loose and he knows it.
#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
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#VAGINAISWORTHLESS#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS
All my buddies are married. A few of them on their second marriage. My best friend, who is on his second marriage plainly told me, “I wish I never did this s~~~ again.”
His first marriage he got out relatively unscathed. But this time around he’s a family man. Two kids and a mortgage. He’s got a lot more to loose and he knows it.
#ICETHEMOUT#MANOUT#HIDEYOURWEALTH#VAGINAISWORTHLESSThat’s one thing I’ll never understand. After going through one marriage, why would anyone ever do it again? I learned my hard lesson the first time around.
The feeling I experiencing coming home to a house with no one there will never get old. I absolutely love it.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I know a lot of you guys don’t bother staying friends with blue-pill guys cos they’re just too annoying. I know how you feel. That said, as I say I go way back with this guy. And isn’t it worth having a few friends, even if aspects of them infuriate you? I
Yes, BP friends can be very annoying but I’ve never dumped a friend just for being BP. I will listen to their relationship woes but I won’t give any advice. They know that I’m MGTOW and they don’t listen to my advice anyway. If you decide too keep them as a friend you just have to accept that they are never going to change.
But I do make a point of keeping my distance from the woman. I have no desire to make myself a target ever again. That’s the real liability of BP friends…
That’s one thing I’ll never understand. After going through one marriage, why would anyone ever do it again? I learned my hard lesson the first time around.
I figure that some guys want to live in misery so that they have something to complain about. That’s as close as I can come to making any sense of it…
That’s one thing I’ll never understand. After going through one marriage, why would anyone ever do it again? I learned my hard lesson the first time around.
I figure that some guys want to live in misery so that they have something to complain about. That’s as close as I can come to making any sense of it…
I just think they’re too blinded by society to see the reality. “…….I just haven’t found the right one yet……….” “……….oh, she’s different from all the others………” “…….nope, she wasn’t the right one either, but there’s someone out there for everyone……” They just can’t see that AWALT. There may be differing levels, but all women are basically the same these days. The less I interact with women, the happier I am. Good thing about that is, the women I work with can see that in me and they mostly have been leaving me alone.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
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