What Was The Catalyst That Made You Go Your Own Way?

[Anonymous 42]

What Was The Catalyst That Made You Go Your Own Way?

This is actually a great thread.

For me it was observation. Noticing women had impenetrable walls of bling ignorance, real stubborn brickheads that wouldn’t follow a shred of sane advice, these patterns each had a cost associated with it, I witnessed time and time again, men had a terrible price to pay when divorce rape descended upon them, one after another harnessed and enslaved.

Men loosing ownership of their children by the nullification and voiding of the sir name in title renders him lawfully swindled of his property (the children sir named his estate).

Marriage has been Null&VOID by default theft for more than 150 years and only gotten worse with each passing decade.

They robbed us of everything when it comes to a marriage contract. It’s immoral and unethical theft and nothing more.

As we say when the law’s been molested; “that don’t mean what it used to mean” it becomes reprobate like a skipping record with the same old message; STAY AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! STAY AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! STAY AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! STAY AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! STAY AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! …

[TomdickharryParticipant 6]

[The funny thing about MGTOW is that we are all labelled bigoted but we accept all – gay, black, white whatever. It would make the liberal’s head explode but we accept all]

I agree. Straight men are supposed to be pure evil, and white straight males the devil incarnate. But if a straight male does something right? Still acting on “patriarchal privilege”. Any man of any sexuality or race should be taken on their own merits – not skin color or genitals. The Left is freakin’ crazy

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

What made me go my own way was a process not a catalyst.

In the summer time of 2015 i found out red pill truths from sites like ROK and similar things and i realized that i was lied to first hand and that these sites contained the truths (simply things like women are attracted to assholes and stuff like that). I realized it was truth in my own first hand experience (going back to my state that i hid for years as religion tried to cloak my asshole nature).

In the fall of the same year i found mgtow and during the time i was purple pill but in the summer of that year i finally digested the red pill.

And finally now in this year i have reached my own point of self actualization and now have found the mission i will life to complete and my goal is to either finish it or die trying to.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Mainly women literally telling me that I did not deserve to be respected while also telling me that I should hold them in the highest regard.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I became suspicious as an adolescent the first time I heard that as a man, I was supposed to pay for everything on a date. I immediately asked “Why?”, and I never got a straight answer. I got the impression that it was because I had to be ‘nice’ to a woman. (Had to). To me, it seemed that I ‘had to’ be nicer to her than she ‘had to’ be to me.

Around the same time, I started to hear sisters and mother going off about ‘equality’ and about how a woman could do anything a man could do. I asked, “Why can’t they pay for their own dinner, then?”. But I never got a straight answer to that either. The women in my house just responded with, “Well, THAT’S different!”. But they could never elaborate an acceptable explanation. I asked my dad who basically said, “Don’t pay much attention to women when they babble on about things…”.

The more I saw, the more questions I had, and the more suspicious I became. What I heard from women and what I saw from women did not match. They still don’t match.

So, 40 years later, here I am.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[MenckenParticipant 693]

I never knew that I was already going my own way. I valued my hobbies to much and controlled my urges. Once I discovered MGTOW, it simply just reinforced my behavior.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

The foundation had always been there. Growing up with military parents, you move frequently and you don’t develope lifelong friendships. However, you do learn autonomy and how to be comfortable by yourself.

My reversion back to independence was caused by the STBxW’s constant forcing me to choose between her and my family. On top of that was her incessant criticism of me as a husband and a father. For some reason she wasn’t happy living in a nice home, weekly maid, I did all yard work, I did my own laundry, no demand for cooking meals, essentially bottomless bank account for whatever she wants to buy, and spend all my time when I’m not asleep or at work helping to raise our son. I’m also paying for her to go back to school and the necessary daycare and babysitting. Sounds barbaric doesn’t it?

After a while, you get fed up with the constant criticism. I didn’t want congratulations, just to not be constantly derided. So, the love gradually faded and my isolation increased. After reaching a breaking point, I realized that divorce was the only option as I didn’t want my child to grow up thinking this was what a normal and healthy relationship looked like.

Fear was the final hurdle to overcome. I know the stats on kids growing up without a dad, but I’m determined to be as big a part of our child’s life as possible. I also know the physical and mental anguish of divorcing and being a single parent. I’m confident I can handle that. Being a well paid professional has provided me with numerous horror stories of other folks getting screwed over in their divorce, some of whom have told me that they will have to work until they die, because they can’t afford the monthly payments without working. After talking with some co-workers, online searches, and consulting a lawyer, I was amazed to find out that I was actually in good shape.

Realizing I could weather the divorce emotionally, parentally, and financially gave me the courage to go my own way.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 1]

In one word D.I.V.O.R.C.E.

Never again will I pay for another man’s spawn, be treated like s~~~ in my own house, that I paid for.
I’m GMOW for the rest of my life, women bring nothing but expense and headaches.
All they have to offer in return at my age, is a worn out, many times used vagina, whilst all the time sizing up your assets.

[Mana KnightParticipant 333]

I got my first girlfriend at 25.
I became MGTOW 27.
One and done. Don’t need to do that again!

But I just was so miserable. I am too free spirited. The idea of settling down to a money draining tedious life of children and pointless socialising and fake drudgery was unbearable. Time out of creating stuff was hell to me. It seemed pointless. I am an actor/writer/director. If I spent a day not doing something to better myself in one of these or work on a related project, then I consider it a day wasted.

There are is more to it than just that. But it was the idea of loss of freedom and money hemorrhaging that caused me to not want it ever again.

Also, she made me depressed. She was not supportive or sympathetic and never EVER once said sorry for anything. Never. She was never in the wrong.

Just ugh. I cannot be bothered with that again.

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