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[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Hi guys, I wanted to talk to you about something whack that just happened to me these past few days.

I have this pretty cool friend of sorts whom I talk to at times. About 3 days ago he said that he met a girl for me to date. I actually haven’t told him about my MGTOW stance as he is in a rather vulnerable situation with his ex-partner and the very well known s~~~ storm of child custody stories we very well know. Anyway he said he thought she was perfect for me because she was nice and all this gibberish. When I asked for a picture I got a very unlikable surprise. Not only is she highly unattractive, but she’s a single mother and is rather ill. Nevertheless my friend told me that I should T least befriend her even if I want nothing to do with her at all. Being the nice sucker I am due to my staunch observance of the Golden Rule (which you may or may not agree with, but that’s a topic for another time) I reluctantly agreed. As I spoke to her, she gave suggestions that she was into me (gave me her phone number which I didn’t ask for), plus she ended the conversation by saying that she waned to know me better.

What I want to know is this. Did I inadvertently act blue pill-like by accepting to talk to her a bit (even just as friends), and do you actually think my pal just pulled a rather sleazy trick and decided to get me to talk to her so she would withdraw attention from him and focus it on me? Finally, what the hell can I do to cut this short without making it obvious, if possible? I very steadfastly welcome any suggestions and/or observances any of you guys may have. Thanks bros.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

I don’t know what your “friend’s” motivation was, but I would say he played a sleazy trick on you by goading you into meeting a clearly desperate woman.
Lose her number if you haven’t already and don’t bother showing up around her anymore.
If I were you, I would also reconsider whether this friend is worth having in your life.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

crushhighlander wrote:

When I asked for a picture I got a very unlikable surprise. Not only is she highly unattractive, but she’s a single mother and is rather ill.

DO NOT play this game Brother.

Your ‘friend of sorts‘ is trying to drag you down into circumstances similar to his own.

Why would you date someone that’s unnattractive?
Why would you date a SINGLE MOTHER?
Why would you date someone who is ‘rather ill’?
WHY would you date at all?

I don’t mean to sound like an ass, but getting involved with this will only bring you down.

There is NO WIN situation here for you.

Just ‘lose’ her number, you don’t have to explain yourself!

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

crushhighlander wrote:

Nevertheless my friend told me that I should T least befriend her even if I want nothing to do with her at all.

Don’t let other people tell you what to do, even me.

If you’re going MGTOW, make your own decisions.

befriend her even if I want nothing to do with her at all

This is GARBAGE. You will gain nothing from this. She will gain an orbiter to unload her truck of emotional baggage.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

There is no benefit to anyone in continuing any contact (you or her).

Your friend dropped you in the s~~~ on this one, but it was easily avoided and you should have declined immediately.

Even with the best of intentions, there is no up side to putting yourself in a situation with a woman who wants your resources.

As often stated here, “NO” is the answer to nearly everything.

Do you want to go on a date with a needy single mother?
No

Are you interested in me?
No

Can I have your phone number?
No

Do you want to get to know me better and give me all your resources?
No

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

@crushhighlander

You have the same flaw that I do. I cannot be rude. It is not in my DNA, unless someone is a total f~~~ing dumbass douchebag (in which case I can be violently rude).

I also cannot turn my back on someone. It is a f~~~ing curse. Most guys can walk away from an ugly bitch who is in need b/c … well she’s ugly and she’s in need.

You seem to have this trait that you’re shallow if you are rude to this bitch b/c she is ugly and in need. It’s difficult for you to be rude or off putting.

I don’t know what to tell ya. I find it best if I can just “avoid” or say no early on. Because if you get involved in any shape or form you feel a duty to help out somehow.

Go dark and don’t call or return calls. Tell your buddy you aren’t interested. Otherwise you will be on the hook to at least provide some sort of moral support or kindness to this frumpy mess.

GO DARK NOW

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Dude: Are you crazy?? And, although you allowed yourself to become a chump, let your buddy know you ain’t intetested in becoming a beta simp.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Anonymous 38]

There are friends and there are acquaintances. Doesn’t sound like this dude knows you very well.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

You should look into the mirror and ask yourself what’s wrong with yourself.

You seem to have no discrimination or willpower.

This “friend” is not your friend. He obviously does not have your wellbeing in mind at all. This should be blatantly obvious, unless you are retarded.

Why are you going on “dates”?
I don’t think you can answer that question.

Why are you hanging out with a random, sick, ugly, old single mum?
I don’t think you can answer that question either.

So you are basically just doing random s~~~ because people tell you to do them. Doing things and not knowing why is a sign of insanity.

Get your s~~~ together for f~~~ sake!!!!!!

Monk

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Remember the Steely Dan song “Ricky dont loose that number?. Do the opposite.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

CombatRoll wrote:

@crushhighlander

You have the same flaw that I do. I cannot be rude. It is not in my DNA, unless someone is a total f~~~ing dumbass douchebag (in which case I can be violently rude).

I also cannot turn my back on someone.

That’s not just a “flaw” or a “trait”, you just have no self discipline.

I don’t know what the f~~~ is wrong with you people.

MGTOW is the easiest lifestyle imaginable. No requirements. Just don’t “date” or reproduce or marry or cohabitate.
There are literally an infinite amount of other things to do with your time.

The OP obviously knows about mgtow and still goes on “dates” with sick, ugly, single mums and has “friends” who want him to do the one thing (of literally countless other things) that he shouldn’t do.

He has to be a f~~~ing retard!
There is no way to sugar coat this.

Monk

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Meister wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

@crushhighlander

You have the same flaw that I do. I cannot be rude. It is not in my DNA, unless someone is a total f~~~ing dumbass douchebag (in which case I can be violently rude).

I also cannot turn my back on someone.

That’s not just a “flaw” or a “trait”, you just have no self discipline.

I don’t know what the f~~~ is wrong with you people.

MGTOW is the easiest lifestyle imaginable. No requirements. Just don’t “date” or reproduce or marry or cohabitate.
There are literally an infinite amount of other things to do with your time.

The OP obviously knows about mgtow and still goes on “dates” with sick, ugly, single mums and has “friends” who want him to do the one thing (of literally countless other things) that he shouldn’t do.

He has to be a f~~~ing retard!
There is no way to sugar coat this.

I think you are misunderstanding OP. He has no plans to date this bitch. He’s struggling with just totally dissing her as a human. He feels sorry for her plight. Its like driving by someone who has a flat. He can’t do it.

Maybe I’m wrong, but that is my interpretation.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

CombatRoll wrote:

Meister wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

@crushhighlander

You have the same flaw that I do. I cannot be rude. It is not in my DNA, unless someone is a total f~~~ing dumbass douchebag (in which case I can be violently rude).

I also cannot turn my back on someone.

That’s not just a “flaw” or a “trait”, you just have no self discipline.

I don’t know what the f~~~ is wrong with you people.

MGTOW is the easiest lifestyle imaginable. No requirements. Just don’t “date” or reproduce or marry or cohabitate.
There are literally an infinite amount of other things to do with your time.

The OP obviously knows about mgtow and still goes on “dates” with sick, ugly, single mums and has “friends” who want him to do the one thing (of literally countless other things) that he shouldn’t do.

He has to be a f~~~ing retard!
There is no way to sugar coat this.

I think you are misunderstanding OP. He has no plans to date this bitch. He’s struggling with just totally dissing her as a human. He feels sorry for her plight. Its like driving by someone who has a flat. He can’t do it.

Maybe I’m wrong, but that is my interpretation.

That makes no sense.

It’s hopeless.

For the record:
You people are doing this to yourself.
Play stupid games, win stupid prices.

Monk

[Anonymous 11]

Many times, it’s crueler to be kind.

OP, if you even speak to her, she’s going to push for more. How is that going to mesh with the Golden Rule?

[AussieParticipant 2509]

Being a good kind person is one thing but if you have no interest in this woman then why waste both your time and hers by even meeting and exchanging numbers? I agree it makes no sense at all.

" I feel threatened "

[Anonymous 12]

how is… wasting her hopes, dreams and time… being a good person?

If she is a single mother, she has her kid to look after.
That is her first purpose in life, the second one is to look after herself.

Unless these two subjects are 200% being taken care of… she has no business trying to catch some dick.

[bladeParticipant]

crushhighlander wrote:

When I asked for a picture I got a very unlikable surprise

Ok why go on

crushhighlander wrote:

Not only is she highly unattractive, but she’s a single mother and is rather ill.

Mmmm i know . anyway carry on

crushhighlander wrote:

As I spoke to her, she gave suggestions that she was into me (gave me her phone number which I didn’t ask for), plus she ended the conversation by saying that she waned to know me better.

I am not falling for this . You want to f~~~ her and ya asking the fellas .

Single mother and ill . Like giving a humanatarian f~~~ .

Yer go on bang her brains out . A very charitable f~~~ of you .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

Just an idea when ya taking it out .

Take it to a show ground and see if ya can knock down a hot dog stand and win a teddy .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Nothing wrong with social interaction, most of us need it. There are plenty of 5/10 weeminz working the registers at supermarkets. Hello, no discount card, I’ll pay cash… That sums it up for me and my interaction with them basically.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 54]

Beat the liveing f~~~ out of your ” freind”
Tell her, no thanks.

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