What Is Your Opinion On Dating?

[Darth SinParticipant 576]

Dating is a worthless, pointless and a useless endeavor.

Playing video games, chess, scrabble and sudoku is a much better way to spend my time.

[Jackson1888Participant 111]

 I have found that by and large women on the whole are just out of their goddamn minds.  They just literally think they are sitting on a pot of gold even though they have absolutely NOTHING to bring to the table.

 

I 100% agree. 100% of women are absolutely f~~~ing out of touch completely due to the programming via the media. It has completely destroyed their brains. And there is no “not all women are like that”. No I am saying that any female who is watching TV at all, or reading any type of media, any educational materials, radio ect…it doesn’t matter…it is literally all programming these f~~~ed up thoughts in their brains, deliberately and they are in a state of semi permanent hypnosis which makes me want to stay the f~~~ away from each and every one of them.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

hey Doingmyownthing. I’m just upfront with women. You’ll be surprised the response you get by being honest. Even if they say no they tend to still hang around. Also as a guy you have to have an edge and personality as well. You can’t be green. So if you’re sure of yourself women should gravitate to you.

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

I’ve dated too many girls that have started off with low self esteem and anxiety, you spend time with them and over a period of time they start to feel good aboit themselves and that’s when they suddenly cheat on you or break up with a guy that’s obviously better in every way than me.

It makes me feel like an utter tool, every time…

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[experiencedParticipant]

You are not an utter tool.  It’s their loss.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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Experienced:

 

It may be their loss but they don’t care.  If they did, they’d take dating seriously and be more careful in selecting the men they want to associate with, perhaps even adjusting their standards to more realistic levels.

[experiencedParticipant]

To 1/4th wave vertical : You’re correct.  They don’t care. But I’m a gonna qualify that with, “right now.”   The set up is garbage, but at least when they do care years from now, it will mostly hurt them, mostly. I blame this on the breakdown of the extended family vs seventy years ago.  Back then it might have been, “Martha, what the hell are you thinking….of becoming a nun?”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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Experienced:

 

In a lot of ways, things haven’t changed in the last 40 or so years.  I well remember similar attitudes while I was in high school in the late 1960s and early ’70s.  For example, many of the girls I knew simply wanted to graduate with as little effort as possible.  And why not–their looks and anatomy were viable currency for them and they could get pretty much whatever they wanted with it.  Usually, that amounted to Mr. Right Now.  The carousel was ridden a lot in those days.

 

Now, things have changed.  Mr. Right Now has often become Mr. No Longer Around.  That currency which served them so well in their youth has been devalued by age and negligence.  No doubt, my value to them has increased from next to nothing to the social equivalent of a blue chip stock’s market capitalization.

 

And why?  Simply because, rather than trying to be one of their carousel rides, I invested my time and effort into getting an education instead?  The fact that I will likely inherit my father’s estate?  I’m still considered eligible and available and they’re exhausted all other possibilities?

 

While I’d rather not hear from any of them any more, it would give me great pleasure to give them the brushoff, much like they did me in bygone times.

 

 

[TheOneWhoBeholdsWisdomParticipant 58]

I’ve only dated one girl. It was for five years of our lives. Even though she cheated, I did value the dating I’ve learned a great deal of experience from dating said person for five years. Will I date again? Na… I have bigger things to strive for honestly…

[USMC0331Participant 40]

I don’t use words like “date” any more. I don’t use words like girlfriend or boyfriend either. If I spend time with women then it is on my own terms now. I let them know up front I’m not interested in marriage, kids, or supporting them financially or otherwise. Of course some of them hear those things and mysteriously disappear, but I don’t care. I have never in my life been one of those people that feel then need to be in a relationship. I’ve always been perfectly fine with being single. I used to have this bad habit of letting friendships with women turn into relationships that I would later regret. Now that I’m in my 40’s I really don’t care to go around chasing women. I know they aren’t worth it. Since I got divorced years ago I keep my female friends at a certain distance so I don’t fall into any more traps.

[Joel75Participant 14]

My response is simple it is not worth the time or the money.  In the end all you are doing is paying for sex and trying to impress someone.  Plus are you not meeting the real person you are meeting their representative.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

If I’m that desperate to throw away my money, I’d put it in a pile and set fire to it.

 

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

“dating” is a multi billion dollar industry that puts western pussy on a platinum pedestal.  after a couple years of doing it add up the thousands of dollars poured into ~15 minutes of fun is crazy.

After taking my ex out to lunch ,buying her something stupid, or spending half the day with her I was dumping about $75-100/f~~~ session. About $4,000/year minimum. Instead I use that money for lone vacations..

On a beach in Cambodia right now with no nagging or fem BS.

F~~~ dating..

 

 

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

 

Well there is the traditional courting method preached to the masses. Which involves spending large amounts of money and you begging for a dry handjob or there is the non conventional way less talked about. That’s to be the “Alpha” Which is a very broad word used by most who still have yet to comprehend it in the minds of women. When most men in fact are referring to the exciting guy who doesn’t give a f~~~ and because of being an asshole gets f~~~ed.

Females are like children in the sense they liked to be entertained. If your an entertaining guy naturally and do interesting things women will f~~~ you if you don’t put up with their bulls~~~. Simple as that really.

 

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

For f~~~s sake this woman has just made me angry!  I INSIST on 50/50.  

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

After I split with my wife, before the Red Pill kicked in I still thought I wanted to be in a relationship with someone.  I hit the dating websites hard and although I had no problem getting dates, it eventually dawned on me just how much money I was spending a month.  The cash spent/sex ratio was worse than if I had just paid for it by the hour.  Don’t underestimate how many women on these sites just see it as a way of getting a free night out.

Out of 30 odd dates I would say less than a handful ever offered to put their hand in their pocket.  This is a symptom of the i’m am entitled princess as I have a vagina syndrome that plagues the UK.  While I was still going through the final days of my Blue Pill existence I put up with this as I was still putting women on a pedestal.  Now I look back on the situation from a Red Pill point of view, I realise that very few of these women were actually bringing anything to the table.  The amount of times I would take a woman out for dinner and get an akward peck on the cheek for my trouble was ridiculous.

As the Red Pills started to have an effect I cared less and less about impressing these women and this actually worked in my favour.  I eventually ended up with a couple of women who were quite happy for me to go over for sex and for us to just order a takeaway.

Dating is a complete waste of time, it is what Blue Pill Beta’s do in the hope that the woman will eventually give in and have sex with him.   Personally I would only see a girl now if I knew with certainty she was DTF.

This is the subtle difference between Beta and Alpha behavior.  A Beta will go on a date in the hope that if he impresses her enough she might just let him have sex with her if he is really lucky.  An Alpha knows he is definitely going to get laid no matter what they do or where they go.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Keymaster wrote:

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I would imagine that most of us are not really interested in having any kind of serious relationship with a woman. Correct me if I am wrong,

Who would be interested a “serious” relationship??? I would only be interested in a FUN relationship. That’s what you tell these women looking for a “serious” relationship. I tell them exactly that , and that’s the only kind of relationship worth having. FUN – or none at all. Women are always looking for “serious” relationships and that f~~~ing sucks. They are a buzzkill. Be FUN or GET OUT. After you tell a woman that, they realize just how much of a f~~~ing drag they are to be around, and why men don’t want any part of it. Tell them this to their face! in front of other people. Yeah, serious relationships suck ass. I hope you find someone to be miserable and all serious with so you can get you insane fix for drama, complaining and arguing. You deserve each other. That gives these broads looking for a “serious relationship” something they will never forget.

Holy crap man. Every response from you is nothing short of pure GENIUS. Have you written any books on this subject matter, or can recommend me to any (I am not kidding)? I have had big problems with being the doormat in the past and I am still trying very hard to learn the ropes of all of this. Thanks!

[Schaefe89Participant 163]

fellas, if you wanna date the modern female be prepared for never ending games, teases and false hopes.  just try to have fun and don’t get too involved

[experiencedParticipant]

Opinion on Dating?? LMFAO

 

 

Next to dating I like “pin the tail on the alligator,” “smack the grizzly in the nose,” or “force the marble into the cobra’s mouth” best.  They’re equally invigorating and much less of a risk, all things considered.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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