What Is Your MGTOW Way?

[Anonymous 6]

MGTOW men are a diverse group. We live practically around the entire globe. I have counted seven different nationalities represented here. There are probably more too. (By this I mean men who are actually living in countries other that the USA and are native to those lands. If I counted countries foreign to Texas, well the number goes up exponentially!) Needless to say that several different racial groups are represented here too. I’ve seen stuff posted by gay members in the past as well, so there’s that angle as well. All of this show the universality of the MGTOM mentality, taking back one’s sovereignty and staying away from the gynocentric BS that permeates everything these days.

With all of the above mentioned stuff in the mix, MGTOW is going to take a myriad of forms. I think that we all agree that marriage is antithetical to MGTOW, as is cohabitation. Although there are some of you who may disagree with that. And that’s why I’ve started this thread, to see what form MGTOW has taken in your life. I myself stay away from marriage, cohabitation, traditional dating (although I’m still open to having a love interest perhaps).

So how does this work for you?

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Full monk mode, avoiding gynocentric culture at every opportunity.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Mutineer wrote:

Full monk mode, avoiding gynocentric culture at every opportunity.

Add no f~~~s given full speed.
Improving my selft and paving my road to a early retirement in Caribbean.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 43]

the only way.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Pretty much the opposite of the way any feminist would like me to live. YES!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6414]

Ghosting .. therefore, monk mode works best here+keeping a daily work schedule+outdoor activities like making firewood and piling it+ hobbies include amateur radio even though I have no external television hook-up+keeping an open mind to new tech advance on horizon such as holograms in residence. Interact with females .. as needed .. for my work requirement and/or daily tasks however, *keep things benign and never deviate *approach them as I would a red-flagged isolation ward where the female psychiatric inmates have been diagnosed as manic and prone to treachery .. it works for me. Life is good. Also, don’t really mind cooking and baking any longer as things have become easier with practice and time. It wasn’t easy at first .. however my kitchen is now a female no-go zone with the exception of future invited guest who will have designation as Bot.
I don’t consider myself nerdy as such .. however I freely admit that a collection of good quality, well written sci-fi video dvd and blu-ray discs .. and books .. which I view and read fairly regularly .. has helped me along my path .. not so much as a substitute for relationship risks in real world, but more as a learning device to allow me to remember to concentrate on what ‘might be’ and more than likely .. ‘will be .. on the horizon.’

[HermitParticipant 1121]

I live in two worlds. Professional and personal. In my professional world I work with many women, including my boss. I am professional and cordial at all times and I do my job well. The women in my office like to get involved in outside professional organizations, so they happy because I volunteer to stay behind and “hold the fort”.

Then I go home to my personal world. It is women-free except for my eleven year old lab mix. I watch very little television as most of it is a waste of time. My television is mostly for movies or goofing off on my XBox. I read extensively over a variety of subjects and fiction. My music is all purely instrumental, from classical to ambient. My personal world is quiet as I severed most of my relationships following my divorce and never made new ones. Perhaps in time. Women are not welcome in my personal world as they bring in strife and conflict. My personal world is my sanctuary that I am still in the process of building. It’s a process I am enjoying.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

My life, my choice, my priorities…For my betterment…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

My life is based on doing stuff to make myself more comfortable in my environment. I work because it’s the best way to make money to live my life. Actually, it’s the best OPTION I have right now. If I knew about a better way to make money, I’d quit my job. When I go to work: I do my job efficiently, avoid gossip/political discussions, treat my co-workers with respect, and get the hell out of there when my shift ends.

The stress that I deal with is: my job, paying bills, running errands, and cleaning my apartment. I see no reason to do anything to add to that stress, such as: joining an organization, having a nagging wife, and having noisy kids. I’m grabbing as much free time as I can get.

I’m still interested in dating, although I haven’t dated in several years. I’m not totally against the idea of having a live-in girlfriend—I just won’t do it in the United States. If I get an apartment in a foreign country that is “man-friendly,” I might shack up with a girlfriend/friend with benefits. I will tell the women I’m dating that I just want a lover–not a wife. I will get a vasectomy, so there’s no child support bulls~~~ to deal with. If the relationship goes sour, I’ll just pay the last month’s rent, and go back to my country. I won’t get married or have kids.

My goals: buy some land, build a house, and set up a retirement pension (with some careful investments) so I don’t have to work anymore. When I have enough money to live my life, I will: travel, hike in the mountains, play my guitar in my own music studio, go to the beach, drive to national parks, go to fun events (movies, concerts), visit friends/family, grill some steaks in my backyard, sip lemonade, watch the clouds go by, etc.

I want to create a fun, carefree lifestyle for myself and not spend too much time interacting with my insane society. When I interact with most people, it’s for getting business done. My social interactions will be limited to people who treat me with respect. I don’t have time to argue/fight with people. If any situation becomes too annoying for me, I’m walking away.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3791]

All very good responses.

It’s quite similar on my part: living simply and debt-free, enjoying my hobbies, as little stress as possible. Travelling, enjoying music, good food, learning things that interest me.

That’s about it.

[MACHOParticipant]

Full monk mode for over 10 years. My signature says it all!

Mutineer wrote:

Full monk mode, avoiding gynocentric culture at every opportunity.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[ghostParticipant]

MACHO wrote:

Full monk mode for over 10 years.

That’s quite impressive. I am currently looking forward to my one year anniversary.

[Anonymous 5]

Just starting out in life. Going to college this year to get my degree in finance. I want to become a high end banker, buy nice cars, and work on them myself.

I’m going to get my hunting license, and hunt some fresh meat during the hunting season. When I buy my condo, I’ll have a whole room just to put my books. Knowledge is power. Eat healthy, go to the gym, travel alot, sleep good, and f~~~ good.

I’m not against having a girlfriend. But, no long term relationships, those are a waste of time and resources.
I don’t want kids, no wife, and will not cohabit with a woman, EVER. I will not finance a woman. If we’re in a relationship, we’re going half on EVERYTHING!

This is probably much it. I’m going my own way, I’ll do whatever makes me happy. NFG about what society think of me.

[AttonParticipant]

I work to entirely isolate myself from the family law act of 1975 and any form of legal abuse or slavery. I’m a monk and I also donate to this site as a member. I abstain from voting in any Australian election or on any issue as I have not and will not register to vote. The Australian people are foolish small minded bigots who base their opinions on stereotypes and fear eg rape culture, the wage gap and the so called epidemic of domestic violence.
I wholeheartedly reject neo liberalism or neo conservatism which are the two dominate political philosophy’s within Australia. Both are in my view gynocentic and anti male, thus I don’t vote and avoid taxes where legal. Spending that money on the advancement of men’s civil and human rights and the platforms that enable their advocacy. Is in my view the ultimate form of political advocacy. Other than that I have sworn to advance my skill and ability for my interests and the good of man.
Or so help me god.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Branched offParticipant 10980]

This is a good question because I think we are a diverse group at different places in our lives and with diverse pasts, we are going to be coming at this from different angles and with different destinations. I think it is a strength of MGTOW, we are a natural ecology, not a monoculture.

Western culture is broken, hence I am a MGHOW. The system allows the worst of female nature to dictate to the better parts of male nature. Women have many weaknesses and bad tendencies. They also have natural virtues. When men and women work together they can cancel each other’s weaknesses and support each other’s strengths. This is impossible these days under western laws and social conditioning. The worst of female nature has freedom to rule and men have to protect themselves and walk away.

In another age I could have been a content patriarch but that is not practical these days. I am not going to stand out as a traditionalist against the flow of history because I have studied enough history to know that the current never flows backwards, only on to new things. One must be part of the current not an island that will be torn away by it. The current will be men turning away from traditional relationships with women until the system crumbles. So this is what I do.

I am against marriage (obviously) and also against pandering to spoilt women. This means I am against casual sex. Slags must be courted and why waste the resources (financial and energy) that you could be spending on yourself and your children on going out courting slags with whom you would never dream of reproducing. Its not actually natural when you think about it, its the twisting of a natural desire. You are not treating yourself well be being a chad, you are masturbating your ego and the slags’ egos and is that actually any use to anyone? You deserve better.

I can be abstinent for long times (sometimes years) until I see a reason to have sex -a woman I value being close to. I don’t go looking for them but they have turned up from time to time. Children have resulted from these relationships and I am grateful for them. Children are the way of nature and the way of winning natural selection. I would never tell a young man not to have children if he had the desire (if he has no desire for children then monk is preferable to part time Chad, a monk is sovereign in his life, a Chad is an actor playing a role). I would just tell him to plan ahead and protect himself as well as he can from the potential financial consequences of children. Its a risk but men are good at taking risks wisely. With a little forward planning much can be achieved. You want to take care of your children, you don’t want to end up taking care of an entitled lazy woman who cares nothing for you. Never place yourself in a position where you have given yourself to a woman. Never lose your head.

I can’t give myself to a woman because I am not going to be ruled by a woman -it is against nature for one that should be submissive for her own security in life to rule the one who should lead. If I were to give myself in love, the woman would have to give herself but she cannot do this because the law and the culture gives her the power to cancel that gift at any moment and without consequence. Women are known for wilful changes of mind and for always wanting more… Commitment on only one side is a fools’ bargain. So in the end I must walk my own path and protect myself as much as possible from the financial demands that women could place on me.

I am lucky in that I work only with men (but sometimes for women which is usually OK so long as one factors in changes of mind into a quote and never talks politics with them). In my spare time, when I am not with my children, I mostly hunt (except this morning the wind is too strong for the deer to be walking abroad and rain is coming and going and I will see if the computer will teach me anything instead). I like to study history, myth and literature, psychology and nature. I want to know the nature of things and people, why the world works as it does, why people hold the hopes they do. It is this study that has led me to conclude that in this present age men should go their own way for their own good and for the good of all mankind.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Anonymous 38]

I’m an extreme introvert and I do most stuff alone. I ghost all low-intelligent and loser ish people. I have had periods of monkhood but I have not designated myself a ‘monk’. I prefer to stay open to all that life brings. I choose not to shut out the possibility of suffering, I prefer to face it and learn how to navigate the minefield because it brings some warmth and joy to my life.
I learn about investing, my health and work towards a fulfilling career/owning my own business.

[ghostParticipant]

Branched off wrote:

It is this study that has led me to conclude that in this present age men should go their own way for their own good and for the good of all mankind.

You are a wise man, indeed.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

These days, I am unable to respond to the irrational chatter of women.

Thankfully, women’s lies, vile games, and manipulation no longer register in my mind.

My Give-a-damn got broken.

And the men who act like women, make no sense to me at all.

It is hard to take them seriously.

It is impossible for me to register their nonsense.

My mind immediately discards behavior/ ideas that represent “Woman’s Nature.”

All I hear and see are hens clucking.

Anonymous wrote:

I’ve seen stuff posted by gay members in the past as well, so there’s that angle as well. All of this show the universality of the MGTOM mentality, ………and staying away from the gynocentric BS that permeates everything these days.

Gays men should NOT be writing on MGTOWS.com, it is a Big Mistake to encourage them.

Natural Born MGTOWs are Heterosexual Men who have been immune to the charms of woman their whole lives. These men are rare. They represent the finest aspects of “Men’s Nature.”
Natural Born MGTOWsare the real “Unicorns.” They have magical lives and they have the brightest Souls .

Men on the MGTOW Road are Heterosexual men who are awake to “Women’s Nature” and consider their sovereignty as sacred. They refuse to be Slaves.

Many MGTOWs are former Blue Pill Slaves who are now living as free men, which is my situation. Guys like me know too much about life on the Plantation. And we will NEVER return there.

Especially in White Collar Jobs, Gay men are the natural allies of women and they have proven themselves to be just as vile.
Too many gay Men’s Souls that are similar to woman’s and they shares many common interests with women like schadenfreude and creating Troubles at work.

Here is a link that attempts to discuss why Gay men are the enemies of MGTOWs, and other Heterosexual Men:

/forums/topic/gays-are-untrustworthy-and-treacherous/

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 12]

i do it a bit like @funinthesun
Work to get Money.
Pay bills to be debt free and owe nobody anything.
Be active to make my home a good resting place, a Playground and a “Base of Operations”.

Slowly getting better smarter wiser stronger.

And not sharing with society. Leave me de fuG alone.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

When I first read about mgtow 2 years ago I thought it meant going monk or at the very least aspiring to go monk. This interested me because I’ve been monk since 2005.

I never raionalized red pill philosophy, instead I just walked away because romantic relationships seemed empty, pointless and a waste of time.

It is interesting to hear people rationalize what I’ve always known.

Monk

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