What is a modern MGTOW monk and why does it appeal to some ?

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

I have a few questions for some of you here that I would like some light shed on, what is it to be a modern MGTOW monk ?, why did it appeal to you ?, and why do some advocate younger MGTOW to become monks ?

Seen the term before but there was no solid explanation besides completely avoiding women when possible, and living without expensive or nice things, cutting out tv, gaming, and living with less, making less money.

Can anyone give a better explanation of what it is in modern times ?

[SOLI2DEParticipant 745]

It varies as much as each man that goes his own way. You won’t find any hard definitions that encompass all ideas. Maybe a simple man choosing to go his own way and not bringing too much attention to himself. Maybe this man his content with himself, defines who he is by himself. Maybe that’s it

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[Ice-JiubParticipant 491]

I just avoid all risk of rape accusations, kids, relationships, potential divorce/common law rape, diseases, etc by not sticking my dick in any women. Simple as that. That’s what monk means to me, anyway.

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

So there are no guidelines or set rules, every man makes up his own definition as he sees it ?

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Freedom Not Slavery wrote:

So there are no guidelines or set rules, every man makes up his own definition as he sees it ?

Pretty much. Some men define monk as nofap or sexual intercourse of any kind, abstaining from any and all relationships, being alone, you name it. I think those are general rules but outside of that it’s what you want it to mean.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[Anonymous 18]

MGTOW by definition lays out monk path to the destination of self actualization and solitude.

Men, even myself and brothers here, are ex- addicts whether through friction or addiction to validation and gynocentric lies.

Combine that with men (and women) jumping on MGTOW bandwagon to get clicks and hits to muddy the waters.

MGTOW is fractioned into pump and dump, married MGTOWs (no such thing), etc.

If there were options to have a balance with women/relationship and male dignity to coexist with female hypergamy sanctioned by society MGTOW wouldn’t have come to fruition.

MGTOW is monk. There are no babes at the end of your long journey to validate you.

You validate yourself.

Pussy addiction/validation is deeply engrained in men here and everywhere.

It’s not popular idea but MGTOW isn’t pump or dump or f~~~ing sluts on weekends.

It’s ultimate introspection and a sign of a warrior.

You fight your battles of inner urges, social cues and pressures or shaming language.

It’s not for the masses.

Yours sincerely,

Former mangina,
JoanassBerg.

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

I see, well iLearn that is different and while I do think each makes his own way some men want children for their own reasons, to pass on what they have learned, to be a better man then their father, and raise a son or daughter to continue passing on what they believe.

At 29 theres no way in hell I would deny myself sex because that is what I enjoy, doesn’t mean I need to date or marry the woman but I can enjoy my life how I wish to live it. Isn’t “going your own way” the very foundation of MGTOW ?

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Some men define monk as nofap or sexual intercourse of any kind,

No masturbation? Who’s doing this? What’s the point of that?

[bladeParticipant]

You are fine luke skywalker . Somr bro’s pump and dump . Mgtow . If thats what ya want to do then thats your way . Ya a young bto . Some of us older guys have experienced the dark side of the force woman and system . I am monk . I don’t f~~~ . I don’t even perve . Woman are alien beings to me .

I like great white sharks they are amazing but be f~~~ed if i will swim with one .

Another example of monk . I don’t hate woman they just are . I have daughters like alot of guys on here . Hate is wasted energy . Hate consumes those that hold it . But i will admit i hate the f~~~ing corrupt system . Motherf~~~ers.

I like peace . Involving a woman in my life is just work drama anf trouble . I avoid interacting with them as much as possible . I have no intrest in them or there bulls~~~ .

Every guy who is monk will be different but monk don’t f~~~ woman

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

Sandals wrote:

ScarberianMGTOW wrote:

Some men define monk as nofap or sexual intercourse of any kind,

No masturbation? Who’s doing this? What’s the point of that?

I rarely wank . Probably once or twice a month .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

There is a bro on here who hasn’t wanked in nine years . I was shocked . Can’t remember his name . He hasn’t been on in a bit

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

The most important power women have over men is their sexuality, even the average MGTOW isn’t totally free as long as he feels the need to seek sexual gratification from women, but if a MGTOW goes Monk and has conquered their pussy cravings whether via mental discipline, Red Pill Revulsion or a very low to non-existent sex drive, he will be so much freer than even before.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

MGTOW monks start with 2d4 hitpoints at level 1 and gain 1d4 hit points at every level thereafter.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Sandals wrote:

ScarberianMGTOW wrote:

Some men define monk as nofap or sexual intercourse of any kind,

No masturbation? Who’s doing this? What’s the point of that?

Well, some of them have no sex drive anymore, some think it will make them a better man, the list goes on.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Freedom Not Slavery wrote:

I have a few questions for some of you here that I would like some light shed on, what is it to be a modern MGTOW monk ?

I don’t like the term “MGTOW Monk” because it’s the wrong impression and a backwards idea.

A man doesn’t need to “force” not having sex / relationships / cohabitation.
He just needs to NOT PURSUE those things.

Almost all of the time, sex is not going to happen unless you pursue it, purpose dates, interact with women on that kind of level etc. He doesn’t need to be a conscious effort to “go monk” because women don’t generally initiate it.

MGTOW is not the action of “going monk”.

It’s just the INACTION and unwillingness to participate for variety of reasons. Perhaps the most important is realizing “the juice ain’t worth the squeeze”.

Freedom Not Slavery wrote:

Seen the term before but there was no solid explanation

It’s a somewhat misleading expression, because “monks” are known to take a vow of celibacy. But a modern man doesn’t need do that. He just needs to NOT ask women out.

INACTION v.s a conscious action.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[WallyParticipant]

The term can have many meanings, perhaps generally avoiding sexual interaction with women. I would ask any woman nowadays for an STD test before having sex with her. Toss in the risk of rape accusations, pregnancy risk, and just general relationships crap, it’s not worth it. I would rather go for a walk with my dog with my time and spend my money on my hobbies.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 42]

Every one of those MGTOW has some kind of personality disorder, I should know, I’m fresh out of college and have my PHD in psychology, I was head of my class out of 35 women and 2 men that graduated. Men just don’t understand they’re happiest when they have a woman to guide him and correct his behavior along the way. The MGTOW are as if they have a wall built around them and won’t let women get close to them. Only more behavior modification to have them return to their original roles as workers for the family will suffice in order for society to survive, they need to be shammed for their frivolous and childish behavior. I also have a gender studies degree, men are dangerous rapists and need to be handled with an iron fist, look at the damage just one of them can do when he looses control of his aggression, they’re always triggering us women with their endless micro aggression, it’s like having to live with dangerous lions and bears, or lets just say ANIMALS! A woman should always play it safe by calling the police whenever a man steps the slightest bit out of line, regardless if he feels justified, that’s when they’re most dangerous!

Another woman, what does she want, sweet as ice cream at first then BAM! Knee to the back of the neck, guns aimed at your head, arms cuffed behind your back like some kind of hog-tied f~~~ing ANIMAL!

Seen it too many times, women calls the muscle to come in and completely devastate a man! I’m talking upside down 50ft. drop, head first into a judicial garbagecan made of concrete and steel with bars and cages just like A F~~~ING ZOO FOR ANIMALS!

WOMAN + MAN= Iron bars and steel cages for the man, ME! I’ll just keep avoiding women, their speed-dial-911 and their steel cages! A man could develop some kind of mental illness and personality disorders being treated like a F~~~ING ANIMAL!

I’ll just lay low, avoid them, keep to myself, do my own thing, live in freedom and avoid the steel cages, yes, that’s what I’ll do! I thought about it and that’s the most logical!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Going without sex isn’t so bad when you’re older, at least not for me it isn’t so bad. My last GF was such a psycho-c~~~ that any memory of her pretty much kills whatever sex drive that I might have left anyway.

I have a real risk aversion too! I want to reduce any possibility of a rape or a sexual assault charge. I once had a women, for absolutely no reason at all, hinted that she felt that I raped her. Morning after regret becomes rape I guess depending only on what side of the bed she gets up on the next morning.

F~~~ that!. Who needs that kinda liability in their life. It’s a “Sword of Damocles” kinda situation that I can certainly do without…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Freedom Not Slavery wrote:

At 29 theres no way in hell I would deny myself sex because that is what I enjoy, doesn’t mean I need to date or marry the woman but I can enjoy my life how I wish to live it.

When you’re young you’ve still got your whole life ahead of you. A false rape or assault charge can really f~~~ up the rest of your life. All it takes is her say-so and you’re f~~~ed! Your innocence isn’t even a factor with our f~~~ed-up justice system.

If you can live with that kinda liability then I say go for it. I know that I couldn’t…

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

Almost all of the time, sex is not going to happen unless you pursue it, purpose dates, interact with women on that kind of level etc.

That’s not been my experience. Pursuing sex and going on dates have always been irrelevant efforts at best and counterproductive at worst.

Interaction with women is a prerequisite for sex with women, obviously, but trying to interact with them on a sexual level only causes them to try to interact with you in a financial level, even if not monetarily (at first). But persist in indifferently interacting with them on any other level than sexual and they will try to make it sexual.

tl;dr: Indifference is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

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