What exactly is ambition?

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

” You have no ambition”. Heard it from the ex several times over because she realized I wasn’t going to marry and move to where she wanted and have a kid or two with her when she treated me like s~~~ constantly.
But in a somewhat heated argument with my sister last night she told me that “my ex was right, I have no ambition”. My sister is the nicest woman I have ever known and she has since apologized for saying that, but I wonder, what is my purpose?
I try to help everyone I can, I have achieved more than most my age in less than 30 years of life… But what they’ve said is still on my mind. What’s on every other guys mind? Better job? Better pay? Better woman? Better life? Do what you want when you want? I’m already doing things when and how I want. What the hell makes me so incomplete in other peoples eyes?

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Workhard wrote:

What the hell makes me so incomplete in other peoples eyes?

Answer you are leading by example–challenging the pussy paradigm and making them think they have it wrong. The only way to validate their stupid mistakes is encourage you to follow suit. That is it in a nutshell the problem is with them–not you. Don’t be concerned about what they think of you…does their opinion of your life matter? NO, and HELL no its your life not theirs.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

This is just another shaming attempt on you. You are doing what they want you to do. If you are happy with how your life is going, that’s probably their triggering event to try to get you to do something different. Screw them. Keep doing you.

Order the good wine

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

The way I understood Ambition was selfDetermination to achieve a dream. I heard it a long time ago ,” you cant escape your purpouse “and if your doing something you hate you wont feel motivated to do it.Your only ambbitious doing what FUFILLS you.

The female version is, live like my slave–want that life– and give me everything.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Women feel like if you don’t have kids and a wife your a loser, right? Even women that aren’t interested in being that “wife”. Was at my part time job the other day and a woman over twice my age was giving me the “why don’t you have a girlfriend? speech”. Apparently in women’s eyes a man cannot be happy and successful without a woman in his life? Funny how two of the wealthiest men I know were never married and have no kids. They also seem happier than “family men”

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Another piece of advice I heard is a lot of people hate those who do what they want. There have been dozens of storied concepts illustrating powerful ,rich,ignorant,arrogant and pridefull people who hated the poorest,happiest, happy-go-lucky lucky types because they just couldnt expierience happiness.Aside from shaming I think its an attempt to make you miserable as people like your explaining hate seeing joy.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

When they(women) say ambition, they mean being a better provider, if you’re not in a relationship, you’re not providing for a woman and in their that’s bad because men get it in their heads that they don’t need to provide for women, that would be bad news for women.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

First point: Nothing is ever good enough for any women. Women will still nag if you become a millionaire. “If you had any ambition, then you would make 10 millions”

Second point: Of course you should not have any ambition to become someone’s slave and to feed and obey someone that treats you like s~~~. Sometimes it is GOOD to not have any ambition. Or is it good to be ambitious in jumping down the Golden Gate Bridge?

In the future, women looking for a man will run into a brick wall with their stupid and selfish behavior and unfulfillable demands.

Which man is going to want those nagging, ever-complaining and ever unsatisfied bitches anymore?

Bitches that try to tear down your self esteem and don’t bring anything to the table themselves.

Who cares what women want? We have “equality”! Why shouldn’t we want anything from them?
Who gives women the right to “want something” in the age of equality?

Anyway,

if you don’t want children, then women are obsolete. Taking all of their s~~~ 24/7 cannot be compensated by the best “f~~~” in the world.

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[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Keymaster and others on this forum have said it countless times: STOP LOOKING FOR VALIDATION FROM WOMEN, or anyone other than yourself, for that matter. If you are an honest and decent guy, to hell with what they think.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

I’m an honest decent guy in my own opinion, but ask a woman and who knows what the hell they’ll tell you. I don’t seek validation from women but I do sometimes entertain the idea of ” what would make me feel complete?” Haven’t came up with an answer yet.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Execration wrote:

Another piece of advice I heard is a lot of people hate those who do what they want. There have been dozens of storied concepts illustrating powerful ,rich,ignorant,arrogant and pridefull people who hated the poorest,happiest, happy-go-lucky lucky types because they just couldnt expierience happiness.Aside from shaming I think its an attempt to make you miserable as people like your explaining hate seeing joy.

You got that right, people hate you for being free and happy. There ist that saying “Misery loves company” and if you keep misery out of your life, then these people will not want to be your company. Ever heard the saying “It’s lonely at the top”?…

If you become really ambitious and your income explodes, then people will AGAIN turn away from you. And then you need the strength to bathe in thier rejection.

THEN they will say: “If you were less ambitious, then you would be a better father and … that’s why I’m LEAVING you…” And then you are going to give her half of your s~~~ and income as a punishment for being “so ambitious” and NEGLECTING her.

Once you see through women they become “bulls~~~ talking machines” to you. Whatever you do, it will be wrong and so just be yourself.

I invite you to further reading:

Women’s Rationalization Hamster: 10 Ways It Affects Women and Society

Gargamel’s 7-part MGTOW story introduction – as a work in progress

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[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Workhard wrote:

I don’t seek validation from women but I do sometimes entertain the idea of ” what would make me feel complete?” Haven’t came up with an answer yet.

The guys here will absolutely assure you won’t find or feel any completeness in any woman or any of their assessments, judgments, opinions, or validations of you.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

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[WorkhardParticipant 343]

I realize that women aren’t the answer, but what is life? Doing and being what and who you want without regret? I kinda feel like I’m punishing myself here. I have never had a woman take everything from me so therefore, I don’t appreciate my freedom as much as most of you guys.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Workhard wrote:

Women feel like if you don’t have kids and a wife your a loser, right? Even women that aren’t interested in being that “wife”. Was at my part time job the other day and a woman over twice my age was giving me the “why don’t you have a girlfriend? speech”. Apparently in women’s eyes a man cannot be happy and successful without a woman in his life? Funny how two of the wealthiest men I know were never married and have no kids. They also seem happier than “family men”

Psst… That’s the secret of MGTOW. Women are a liability that drains out all of your money and resources. But none of them will ever tell you. It’s like a “secret women’s society” aka as “the hive” that will not allow such opinions and views to surface and “float around”. If you really open your mouth and tell people that “best kept secret”, all women will exclude you from society and wish death upon you. Then you can be sure not to ever get a girlfriend…(At least where you live)

You must read the book “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Vilar…

Or hear it on YT:

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[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Workhard wrote:

I have never had a woman take everything from me so therefore, I don’t appreciate my freedom as much as most of you guys.

Most of us here are “damaged goods” and our advice is worth more than gold. Almost all men that find their way here say: “I wish I had known MGTOW 20 or so years ago”.

Read more of these forums here and then you WILL appreciate your freedom and never want to give it up. No matter what any woman says.

Always remember: Who is profiting from something THEY tell you to do?

Women do not give you advice that is in your best interest. It’s all about THEM. THEY want you to feed and entertain “somebody else’s spoiled brat daughter”.

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[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Thanks for the awesome replies guys, I guess I need a new hobby. It’s just the same ole’ stuff around here. Get a little bored at time.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Workhard wrote:

I realize that women aren’t the answer, but what is life? Doing and being what and who you want without regret? I kinda feel like I’m punishing myself here. I have never had a woman take everything from me so therefore, I don’t appreciate my freedom as much as most of you guys.

Contententmant and fufillment are different for everone.Until you do something where you feel like You’ve lost yourself or lose yourself within the moment, where everything but a single feeling that feels completely familiar and satisfying , becomes what you know as your true self, i say attempt to find your niche.

And let me tell you, when you find it nothing in the world compares. Its something that will cause an inner seriousness that drives, and is at the core compass of your motivation.You’ll realize what ambition is for yourself at that point.Sounds exciting, maybe its time to find out who you are and forget about everything else.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Yes, Vilar and these two, that may no any longer be free online:

Chinweizu
The Anatomy of Female Power: A Masculinist Dissection of Matriarchy. Was online at:
http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf

Lawrence Bostwick Shannon
The Predatory Female. A Field Guide to Dating and the Marriage-Divorce Industry. Was online at:
https://www.scribd.com/document/151933863/The-Predatory-Female

Amazon.com often has cheaper used copies of Vilar or Shannon. Walgreens sells Amazon gift cards one can use for purchases.

Workhard wrote:

I have never had a woman take everything from me so therefore, I don’t appreciate my freedom as much as most of you guys.

You don’t have to have had cancer to appreciate good health. I have also have not ever had a woman take everything from me, never been married, but understand these guys on this forum have and they are giving you free the wisdom learned from their bitter experiences.

Workhard wrote:

what is life?

That is a philosophical question that no one can answer for you. You have to decide what you are, what you can and want to do, and do it. When you get to be an old coot like me, you won’t then be sitting around regretting what you could have or should have done.

One of the prior posts I made was about the regrets people had: The person asking was surprised at the number of people who replied: NEVER MARRY.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Workhard wrote:

I guess I need a new hobby.

Turn your hobby into a profession…

I got so much validation from customers while my girlfriend c~~~s would just make fun of me…

… And then come back here when the gold diggers are suddenly all over you…

(When your “ambition” suddenly requires an expensive car…)

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