What exactly do women get from Abusive men???

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Smacktalk73 wrote:

Having had false “abuse” charges filed against me by my ex-wife, the day before she filed for divorce, I can say that the reports of women being “abused”‘ are over-counted by at least one.

At least one? Try again. It’s a daily occurrence.

“Hello Mrs. Bitch. I’m your attorney. So you wanna divorce. Excellent. Did he ever call you something other than your name? Did he ever raise his voice? Did he ever withhold money or credit cards from you? Did he ever play Santa and pose for a photo of his daughter sitting on his lap? GREAT!!! Then we can get him for domestic abuse.,, and probably child molestation. That will finish him off nicely, you’ll get everything and he will never see the kids again. Sign here please…….. OK…… very good. Now little Susie…. repeat after me….. “daddy touched me”…… atta girl. Here;s a lollipop. Good job. Ok then see you in court!”

It’s a goddam industry. And they can all go straight to hell.

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If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 29]

Angular wrote:

Ive always wondering on why abusive men seem to attract women

Abusive men is something of a novelty in a sense that it had emerged as human civilization got centralized and more metropolitan.
It is not something that is innate in men like the ability to be violent.. Those are very different things and should be defined as such.

Angular wrote:

I got my own theories on why they interest women and was wondering why they seem to keep women when its usually the abusive man who Benefit from the relationship in the material sense what do women get?
I am sure all of us men have heard/seem Women trying to convince themselves and their friends that somehow that abusive men is good for her. And it struck me as weird but just when you think you understand women they pull out another level of insanity.
how can this be explained???? do they just enjoy the thrill of hunt by trying to “change” men???

Women do not look for abusive men but they do look for violent/dominant males who can be providers, protectors and all other things described by others in regards to your post.
However, there is also a darker side to why women attach them selves to those types of men which for good reasons is not spoken about by women.
By proxy, they experience violence, dominance and wealth through those men. Yes, just another one of those little gems that t~~~’s don’t want you to know about.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Type A Stockholm syndrome!.

Plain and simple, they love it, and sometimes get off on either being “choked out”, “slapped in the face”, whipped or spanked hard during sex. Don’t get me wrong, a little rough sex ain’t that bad, this is not the type of sex I’m talking about, i mean really borderline psycho type sex. I come to find that more Women enjoy really messed up rough sex then Men do. For some idiotic reason, that’s how they get their jollys.

All of us here have known at least one, or two females in our lives that have been in an abusive relationship and wonder: “why is she still with him” often you’ll be faced with the stereotypical answer of

“But i love Him”

“He’s the father of my children”

“He only hits me, when He’s drunk”

“I couldn’t see myself with anyone else”

“Once you know Him, you’ll get to like Him”

I use to feel sorry for these females, then I realized one day, that they’re just as much to blame. Why?, because they continue to be in that toxic environment THEY choose to be in, no one is holding a gun to their head(sometimes) no is forcing them to stay. Besides, a Female who is attracted to the abuse or psychos, usually end up hurting a genuinely nice guy.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

The ability to repeat a vicious cycle that started when they were younger, perhaps. Dad beats the s~~~ out of her, molests her, etc., and despite the toxicity of her partners, for some psychological reason she gravitates towards the abusive relationship.

It’s a mental thing 99 times out of 100.

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[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I agree that there are practically “abused” women as that term can mean anything. It’s mostly ever even heard until legal actions like gaining child custody or getting a man kicked out of his own home are involved.

Telling your wife that you don’t have enough money in your checking account to buy something is financial abuse and is taken very seriously by the courts.

The thing I like the most is the much vaunted “Stockholm Syndrome” by which women theoretically cannot, not will not, but literally cannot leave an abusive man due to intensive brain washing that the abusive man performs on the woman.

One comment on this thread alluded to it when they said that can’t leave an abusive relationship. Of course they can. They are not slaves bound by chains.

I believe that in most of these cases the woman is the primary aggressor, the man is a totally mangina, alpha or not, and she stays for the emotional thrill of the constant fighting.

Until she wants custody of the kids or gets bored of him and wants him out of the picture.

Then she accuses him of abuse. Abuse allegations are simply a means to an end and not real. I have never met or even heard of an abused woman with a black eye although I have met many woman that claim abuse with an ax to grind.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

First off, the “physical abuse” card is way way overblown. How many times have you legitimately seen or “heard” of a woman being beaten. On top of that, was it abuse, the man fighting back from the psychotic woman, or just something she made up? A woman would lie to make herself look like the victim rather than to lose a divorce or look like a psycopath out of a relationship.

I disagree with all of those who said it’s because of their instinct to find a man that will protect them. The “scumbags” we are referring to here are not alpha males. They are generally skinny rednecks who are trying to overcompensate for a shortcoming in their life. Big t-shirt, tattoos, and baseball cap.

When you look at the life of an “attractive woman,” men are falling head over heels for the chance to hear her fart through a walkie talkie. Some of these women get smart and find a rich guy. For the rest, they are “bored” with the general population of nice guys. Guys that want to take them to dinner, guys that want to hang out, guys that want to talk on the phone, guys who are just like the rst. They like that danger, confidence, and the overall feel of a polar opposite to themselves. It feels like strong masculinity.

This is just another piece of the puzzle why no educated man respects women. Not only do they date pieces of s~~~, and complain about “all men,” but they bold-face lie and say they want a nice guy. Where have all of the nice guys went? Where have all of the logical women went?

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

The human species has been around for about 2 million years. Human beings were hunter gatherers until around 5000 BC when writing and Agriculture was invented along with animal husbandry.
During those 2 million years the human beings that survived had a set of characteristics
physical and behavioral that ensured a greater chance of survival in a very harsh environment
filled not just with dangerous animals but also dangerous humans from other tribes as well as
murderous ones that belonged within a tribe.

Women always sought out an Alpha male to have children with.
However Alpha males hvae always been in short supply, even more so very successful ones.
So unless the woman was extremely hot, she had no chance for long term pair bonding,
her only chance at having children with the Alpha male’s characteristics was short term flings,
then finding herself a Beta male who was somewhat successful, to pass the child off as his,
and form a long term pair bond.
(Think about how this translates to modern society….)

Women would much rather have access to and share an Alpha male than to be stuck with a Beta male.
The only caveat is if the woman already has a child and she has pair bonded with the Beta male and is
at risk of losing her meal ticket. Cheating does that, and thus it’s very high risk behavior, though it does happen
quite frequently. I think paternity fraud rate is well over 15%, and not every fling results in a pregnancy…so you know
the rate of cheating is much higher.

These characteristics that an Alpha male has are no longer necessary for survival in today’s world with it’s modern technology
and specialization of occupations. However even knowing this: a woman is up against 2 million years of evolutionary psychology
hardwired into the limbic region of her brain.
An Alpha male makes her moist and turns her on. A Beta male who is a geek doesn’t make the cut.

Being ‘NICE’ is often equated with being WEAK. Women want to know that the man they are with
will protect them from other men as well as from themselves: because women know they can be very unreasonable
and make bad decisions.

In short they want an SOB who will say NO, and put them in their place, and dominate them. This is what they actually are looking for in a man, and they will tell all kinds of lies: like they want someone who is ‘nice’ and ‘sensitive’. But notice how they NEVER go out with such guys…the REASON why they do this is: (1.) they are lying to themselves and to others so they don’t look so ‘bad’, and (2.) it flushes out the guys who are nice.

Women are constantly being approached by guys. Women don’t have time to get to know each one, so they look for a way to seperate the wheat from the chaff.

And nice guys are the chaff.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I’m also confused. Maybe these women are insane. My mind is wired this way: if I could choose several women for a girlfriend, I’d choose one who would treat me with respect and do nice things for me instead of one that was verbally/physically abusive. It seems like the mind of the masochistic woman is wired the opposite way. I’ve noticed that many of these women will stay in the relationship until it gets completely out of control. ONLY THEN, do they wise up and have this epiphany: “Hey…I just realized my abusive boyfriend is never going to change. Maybe I should date a guy who is nice to me and has a sense of responsibility.” Many of these women are pretty, but by the time they decide to call it quits, they hit the wall. It’s like some kind of cosmic joke. These women don’t see any value in me, so they’re on my ignore list.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 5]

Something else to bitch about. C~~~s love complaining about men.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Angular wrote:

why abusive men seem to attract women I

Smacktalk73 wrote:

Having had false “abuse” charges filed against me by my ex-wife, the day before she filed for divorce, I can say that the reports of women being “abused”‘ are over-counted by at least one.

Look further into ANY woman’s claims. If a woman claims she was abused, WHAT’S THE REAL STORY?

Women are always innocent bystanders, like Bill Burr said, “It’s not like every beating just fell out of the f~~~ing sky” …. oh look there’s Baskin Robins, whack thud whack thud thud.

It is a red flag if a woman tells you that she was abused, and a good reason to end the conversation and put her on ghost duty.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[guiParticipant 825]

I really believe something in their brains makes them perceive jerks as way manlier to men that are nice to them. I agree with everyone that said they get an nice thrill from the situation and that they think they can change the guy so they stick around for the challenge. I never understood why they think and behave like that because when someone is a dick to me all I can think about is fighting back and/or avoiding contact at all costs. I guess they never bothered to fight that stupid instinct that makes you feel atracted to someone’s that is bad for you. I guess men do have it too because I think that is what makes manginas and other blue pill men stay at the feet of women that treat them like s~~~. Also, I think in many cases women could easily leave the situation if they really wanted too. They just don’t bother to make an small effort to walk away. I remember the many times my female “friends” loved to complain about their boyfriends just so they could be consoled by other men and recognizes as saints and all that dramatic stuff. But whenever it was really vital to them they were able to leave the situation very fast. I guess they like the attention they get from playing damsel in distress.

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