What am I doing wrong?

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

I have been MGTOW now (a self identifying one anyway) for over 7 months now. And I am still experiencing red pill rage. I’ve heard numerous people say that it only lasts for 6 months max. I mean, I have accepted the fact that women are what they are and it’s just their nature to be that way. But it still hasn’t chilled me out.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Dude you’re human. And society is programmed to think a certain way. Sounds like you are doing what is best do you – which is all you should be doing. You don’t need to give up on pussy – s~~~ you’re a man. Just remain in control and keep seeing the clarity the red pill brings

[StanAndreasParticipant 160]

Is there another kind besides self-identifying?

I’m too new here to know what you are doing, to say what you’re doing wrong, but I’ll throw out some ideas for the sake of discussion. Have you looked at what events, situations, people, etc bring on an attack of RPR? Maybe you have good cause. I think if you identify the source(s), you can make a strategy for beating it. Cut out the people. Avoid the situations. Prepare mentally in advance of seeing the people or entering the situations, knowing that you can’t avoid it but bracing for the s~~~storm. Take some positive action to right the wrong. Embrace the rage, but find a healthy way to release it.

Safety rules: All guns are loaded. All knives are sharp. All stoves are hot. All women are like that.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

I think part of it is that deep down I am vengeful. Don’t get me wrong, I am a very peaceful person, but I secretly want to see women go down. I want them to pay for what they’ve done to me and my male friends. I know that MGTOW is growing by the day and something will eventually give, but I’m impatient.

[StanAndreasParticipant 160]

Brother, I think you need to let that go. It’s not within your power and it’s not your job to bring them down all on your own. Also, if you obsess about their evil and all the bad things they’ve done, you let them continue to have power over you. The best way to make them pay is to take away their power, beginning with their power over you. The best way to help your male friends is to show them the MGTOW path, so that they too can deplete the gynopower base.

Safety rules: All guns are loaded. All knives are sharp. All stoves are hot. All women are like that.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

You’re absolutely right.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

StanAndreas wrote:

Is there another kind besides self-identifying?

Embrace the rage, but find a healthy way to release it.

Exactly. Try and channel everything in life into a positive lesson, otherwise, what’s the point?

Maybe the lesson here is acceptance, or philosophy, or meditation. Perhaps it will help you to focus on your own ideas more, help you nail down your opinions and arguments.

I was watching some porn the other day, and it was doing nothing for me. I realised what was happening – the women were just not appealing because although physically attractive, the creature within was hard to ignore. I couldn’t just unlearn what I’ve learned. I think the rage will subside if you accept the knowledge as a gift that will keep you from harm more times than it will p~~~ you off.

Still reading and enjoying the 48 Laws of Power, it appeals to my Machiavellian sensibilities. The number one lesson for me at the moment is keep quiet and act dumb, revealing anything, sometimes even speaking at all, will put you at an immediate disadvantage. I don’t need huge amounts of validation for my ideas, I just need to act on my own wisdom, use it to my advantage and f~~~ everyone else. It seems cowardly not to stand up for your ideas, but prudence outweighs self righteousness every time. Hey, I didn’t invent the deception game, I just got dumped in it without choice, so I’ll play to the best of my abilities – the only logical choice. Ghost? Phantom Menace more like! 😉

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[TaxGuyParticipant]

MIKETOW: Your situation reminds me of a saying.

Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting it to kill the other person.

Put yourself in their shoes for a minute. Do you think they are sitting there wondering if you are angry? Thinking about how to atone for their sins? How to make it up to you? F~~~ no. They are thinking what shoes they want to wear, where to have lunch, and if they should maybe stop by the mall and get another push up bra and a lower neckline shirt to extract more resources from the next guy!

Just because someone says it takes 6 months doesn’t mean it takes 6 months. You’ll get there. I guess my one suggestion is to ignore the macro and focus on the micro. Don’t worry about what feminism is doing to society, worry about what you are doing for yourself. Focus on yourself and screw everything else.

I promise you, the feminists will still be there f~~~ing over society when the red pill rage subsides….

Order the good wine

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

[Anonymous 42]

The anger will subside when you actually get positive tangible results! Your MGTOWness is still in the oven baking away! Be a patient man, wait to sit down and dine on the fruits of your declaration.
In the future when you see the mud traps you avoided, the misery bestowed on others, the destruction, and all the other deadly fruits of feminism, then, and only then, you’ll feel vindicated! And you didn’t have to hurt anyone!
It’s a higher plane of consciousness, it’s like stepping out of the toilet bowl of foul thinking, after a while you’ll see the porcelain container for exactly what it is; a breeding ground for feminist born illnesses!
It’s hard not to be p~~~ed when you’re all covered in s~~~!
When all the s~~~ finally washes clean from your soul (and it will), you’ll feel the peace and serenity your heart desperately desires, a spirit of peace will descend on you without your conscious knowledge. One day you’ll just know your thoughts and actions are the only thoughts and actions to maintain serenity. You will achieve sovereignty, where a man ought to be…

Everything in mass media goes against these principles!
Everything in marriage law goes against these principles!
Everything in a monolithic form of government goes against these principles!
Everything but “YOU” goes against these principles!
But don’t worry, we stand alone together, we’re brothers dwelling in the light of truth! The dismal darkness of feminism will surly consume them all!
Keep your torches burning brothers, it’s gonna be a long dark night….. MG-Torch!

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

I know, you guys are absolutely right. I’m really lucky to have you guys here. And by “self identifying MGTOW” I refer to the fact that I have only considered myself MGTOW for the past 7 months or so even though I have been single and celibate for years. It was the sporadic dating I did a number of months back and the time wasted doing it that made me look into MGTOW and realize that it is where I belong and is the truth.

[UntamedParticipant]

MIKETOW, Red Pill rage isn’t a science. There is no expiration date on it. For some guys it’s months, others years. Yes. It can be a long process depending on how deep your delusion ran and other factors. The important thing to remember in that state of rage is YOU, not where you’re going or the end results since that depends on your decisions and actions now, impacting the end result.
Impatience is born out of expectation and disappointment out of both. But how can you bet your wellbeing on the unknown? Know yourself and the ride will be more pleasant.
Forget about the payback. Vengeance is a poisonous dish for Man and the perview of God. He can do it so much better than you.
Take care of yourself and work out your rage for your own good. Eventually you won’t be taken by it because you owned it.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[StanAndreasParticipant 160]

MIKETOW wrote:

I know, you guys are absolutely right. I’m really lucky to have you guys here. And by “self identifying MGTOW” I refer to the fact that I have only considered myself MGTOW for the past 7 months or so even though I have been single and celibate for years. It was the sporadic dating I did a number of months back and the time wasted doing it that made me look into MGTOW and realize that it is where I belong and is the truth.

Just busting your b~~~~ a little. Self-identifying MGTOW seemed redundant to me. You is or you ain’t, and nobody can say but you. That’s kind of the beauty of the thing, IMO. 🙂

Safety rules: All guns are loaded. All knives are sharp. All stoves are hot. All women are like that.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

MIKETOW wrote:

I think part of it is that deep down I am vengeful. Don’t get me wrong, I am a very peaceful person, but I secretly want to see women go down. I want them to pay for what they’ve done to me and my male friends. I know that MGTOW is growing by the day and something will eventually give, but I’m impatient.

I have found that taking the measure of situation helps. In that, I looked at those that have harmed us MGTOW, and I realized that they have already destroyed themselves, through their immaturity and lack of accepting personal responsibility.

With us having the privilege of watching them self-destruct.

On the other hand, we MGTOW learn from our mistakes and we accept personal responsibly for our actions.

The realizations for those that hurt us caused my anger towards them to turn to pity. Though, I will not make excuses for them, I do pity them.

I hope such realizations help you, as well.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

It will go eventually. It’s a process. I was a complete asshole for ages. Then i got depressed for a while, but i had to deal with a death amongst that so i’m not sure how much of it was from grief or from digesting the red pill.

There is light at the end of the tunnel. I’d say that my interactions with women on a day to day basis are a lot better now than before i took the Red Pill. It’s like i’ve removed some heavy bricks from from my rucksack and i no longer care about pleasing women, either they like me or they don’t. It’s their choice.

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

It depends on the individual. For me it didn’t take long. When I found out about mgtow, I was with my ex gf. Everything I started reading and watching opened my eyes. I started to talk to her about it and of course she didn’t like it. That I was reading through the facade of female manipulation was scary to her. After she broke up with me, I was mad but i quickly looked to the positive. Try looking into the positives brother. It helps to know that you’re not waisting your time, money, and heart for someone that only wants you cuz your convenient

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

MIKETOW wrote:

I think part of it is that deep down I am vengeful. Don’t get me wrong, I am a very peaceful person, but I secretly want to see women go down. I want them to pay for what they’ve done to me and my male friends.

Yeah, I imagine we’ve all felt (and still feel) that way to some degree. Who here doesn’t feel at least a little bit of pleasure when they see a tumblerina social justice warrior get served or a professional victim feminist get shut down by the cops or a female go to jail for a crime for which most females escape justice?

Releasing the anger is part of the deal, yes, but most important is that we don’t act on it when we feel it. We’re not going out slapping women or trolling manginas or throwing blanket parties for white knights. We don’t get triggered and we’re not trying to change people… we may drop red pills where we feel they are needed but we don’t have an agenda and we’re not trying to vent our anger on the system that set us up for it.

Use that anger to better yourself… read, engage in projects, learn new skills, find your focus, grow and learn to be satisfied in yourself and the people who have proven they matter. The anger we feel is nothing more than the frustration of time, energy and passion falsely directed toward an impossible end… redirect those drives to something meaningful for yourself and the anger and frustration will disappear on their own.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

Feel happy we are all now wide awake.

Time to be thankful. Lets start there. Healing. It puts the fire out. Thank you to all our tollerant brothers and our patriarchy at mgtow.com.

Next….you know what I am going to say? Male space of learning and growth and feed your brain books. No c~~~s in your head, just the classics.

Then fire up hobbies and find a passionate interest.

Now do anti behavior.
Do the opposite of what you normally do which lands you in red pill rage.

Volunteer at the spca. Time to open your heart. Healing time.

Why hold women as evil if you do not plan on marriage or f~~~ing.

Accept women as they are.
Zero hate…..just zen. Peace. Seek it.

You know their ways. So stop mulling it over.

Get great at ghosting.

Tell us about your work type?
Shop or office?

Be kind to yourself.

Projects brother….get a list and get busy.

I also help a guy down on his luck.

Get a dog.

Give it time…

We all went through it and yes, there are red pill moments, but the traibrd mind does not let it get to rage.

Ha….let the women run the world. Good luck with that.

Our brothers will have great tips for us.

I’m currently helping run a liquor store but I’m in the process of trying to become an arborist. Nature, plants, animals, the cosmos (hence my avatar) and the Earth are kind of where my goal in life is aiming towards. I did a lot of volunteer work at the nearby state park as well as Americorps there. I also did volunteer work at an environmental center, as well as a temp job in the forest service and a number of months doing stormwater management. I’m still in the process of trying to find my niche.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Its takes time brother,I still choke on red pills and its been over a year since my awakening,but time has been working in my favor. I use to have social anxiety because my intuition would always tell me something was wrong as well as the people around just had a bad aura about them,I never agreed with their views especially the women. I considered seeing a Dr at one point but I waited it out because I felt all they would do is give me some downer pills and send me on my way,which could have me in worse shape. Fast Forward to now my anxiety has all but gone away because im at peace knowing that the way I was feeling was correct! With the help of this site,now I just accept people for the fools they really are and pity them especially white knights and mangina’s and because I took the responsibility to find answers and not fall in the gynocentric male disposability line,I have a sense of power that I never knew that comes with awakening/mgtow.It’s like knowing where all the gold is while everyone is stepping on each others toes trying to find it. So hang in there its tough to wake up to a harsh reality when you can just easily fall back asleep to a false dream. Rage on……

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 11]

You’re doing nothing wrong. It’s a natural process we all must pass through..

I’ve had rages run from 2 weeks to 2 years. The raging is now gone for me even for new situations. The important thing is be always continually reducing your rage.

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