What about your sex life ?

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[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

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[Anonymous 7]

Christophe_1985 wrote:

I agree and I really would like to stop having sex thoughts and desire !

But it seems impossible to me !

Especially when I go to porn websites and I see all these guys having all they want with whores !

I only feel frustrated !

Things will get much better as long as you start thinking more about what you can now do for yourself.

It was always pussy, pussy, pussy with me. How do I get sex. How do I keep it around, etcetera. I was a PUSSY!

Two marriages with years combined equaling 27. All that time of in-house pussy, and it never amounted to me being happy. Sure, those few hours a week, if lucky, were nice, but after it is all said and done I had four people to go clean up after. I had multiple vehicles to maintain. There was always a need for me to spend extra cash, and so forth. The needs I had to cover without ever hearing her say “What can I do for you?”

Do you know how many dive trips I had to cancel or postpone due to her needing something? I missed a once in a lifetime trip to alpine climb a mountain range I saw in a movie when I was a kid. My best friend found another partner and is still poking me about that one.

The point being, start doing for yourself, and you will forget about the pussy until it is dancing in your face. Even then, after awhile, you will start to question what kind of drag to your life this naked pussy brings.

Three years now without even holding hands with a she devil – let alone f~~~ one.

Too much work for so little in return!

This year I’ve already done three dive trips, and two climbing trips. A friend just invited me to do a Baja run on dirt bikes in April. My year/life has no room for pussies anymore even though I still get hit on like a damn pinata at a little kids birthday party.

Oh yeah, I get to pick the color I want for the house. Floors are my decision also. No need to ask about getting another dog. I don’t ask permission on where or what to eat. So much is now up to you. No worries on how some bitch’s attitude on any given day will have to be weighed for an outcome you desire.

The f~~~ing relentless pursuit for pussy will make you miss the relentless march of time that passes for yourself.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Christophe_1985 wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

Monk mode is the wisest option.

I agree and I really would like to stop having sex thoughts and desire !

But it seems impossible to me !

Especially when I go to porn websites and I see all these guys having all they want with whores !

I only feel frustrated !

I have a gf that is NOT a live-in gf that I will ever marry. She is my age and knows this. She has a higher sex drive than me, though I will still hit it if she is horny and I am not in the mood. I am seldom AGAINST doing it, I just am not motivated generally to ask for it.

If I have no gf in the future at some point, I still have a fleshlight and that feels as good as or better than most pussy.

Had I not found TWO semi-decent gfs that were both willing to not cohabitate, I’d probably be full-on monk mode right now. I broke up with one early last year, so as to not cause WW3 or my nuts to get chopped off.

Also, for my piece of mind, I got a vasectomy last year, so there will be no birth control “accidents” (or accidental-on-purpose)

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

We’re all waiting for the sexbot revolution in the mean time there are plenty of toys/devices to keep you going. Fleshlight, autoblow2, RealDolls and ya prostitutes are an option though an illegal one.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Christophe_1985 wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

Monk mode is the wisest option.

I agree and I really would like to stop having sexual thoughts/desire!
But it seems impossible to me!
Especially when I go to porn web-sites and I see all these guys having all they want with whores!
I only feel frustrated!

I am a Monk Mode man, so sexual desires/thoughts are no longer an issue for me. It is not impossible to over-come your sexual desires/thoughts; you only cannot because you are still thinking in a Blue Pill way and you have not reached a point of Full Acceptance. Once you fully accept how bad/disgusting society/women are nowadays and that sex/women are not worth the costs/risks, you will find that your sexual desires will decline, over time. Remember that pornography is just staged acting with forced sex: it is not the way that sex really is with women; it is just fantasy; the women in pornography may be good-looking (and some of them are not-so good-looking either), but they are not really nice people; some women can be very good actresses. Once you see pornography for what it really is and women for what they really are, pornography becomes a disgusting turn-off.

[Branched offParticipant 10932]

Every man is unique.

Women seem fascinated by envying or despising the sex lives of others.

Don’t worry too much about other men’s sex lives unless they are your mates and they tell you they are worried.

You have your own unique libido level, your options for sex -wealth, looks, power. Your own history and fears. Your own desire or satiation with reproduction (which is really what it is all about). What is good for you is not good for all.

Just don’t pay more than you need to -money, stds, mental health, time and effort. Beyond that go your own way brother.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I don’t know if this happens with every MGTOW but for me I stopped giving a damn about it. Its a death trap and to be honest I find it gross. Why do I want to smell a woman’s ass and pussy in my face? Why do I even want to see a woman’s ass and pussy in the first place? Not to mention they stain everywhere when they are wet.

I know some MGTOWs still have sex, hell some are even married still. But to be safe than sorry I say monk mode is the best choice. You gain full control of yourself.

Plus the best thing about monk mode is seeing their reaction when you refuse them.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Sex is an addiction no different from meth. Been monk 25+ years and don’t regret a minute of my liberation.

[Christophe_1985Participant 72]

narwhal wrote:

Christophe_1985 wrote:

I agree and I really would like to stop having sex thoughts and desire !
But it seems impossible to me !
Especially when I go to porn websites and I see all these guys having all they want with whores !
I only feel frustrated !

Use your head. Porn is fantasy. Those guys you’re jealous of are not getting all they want from whores with no consequences. Really they aren’t even getting all they want. The sex stops when the camera is off. And those whores are so full of themselves their personalities are likely unbearable.

When it comes to women in real life, employ the same strategy. Use your head.

I am talking about amateur porn like ghettogaggers and this kind of stuff !

I bet all my life that these guys are really enjoying themselves with hundreds of whores, treating them as s~~~ !

IRL I have nothing anyway, I have a small job and I don’t earn enough for these bitches !

I wanted to have my b~~~~ ripped off since a long time !

[Christophe_1985Participant 72]

xanthine wrote:

You could always buy a sex doll too. Highly underrated option IMO. A decent sex doll is going to be more attractive than probably 90% of women, at least. Will never say no, cannot get pregnant, give you std’s, accuse you of rape or abuse, divorce you and take your house, kids, and money, or any of the other things disgusting western whores like to do.

To f~~~ plastic ?

Really ?

[Christophe_1985Participant 72]

KevinStyles wrote:

We’re all waiting for the sexbot revolution in the mean time there are plenty of toys/devices to keep you going. Fleshlight, autoblow2, RealDolls and ya prostitutes are an option though an illegal one.

Legal here in Switzerland but too expensive !

I prefer Thailand but also too expensive… 🙁 (travel expenses)

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Usually just go on OLD and find an FCD to entertain me. I’m 40 and my sex drive is higher now than it was 10 years ago. I wish there was a drug I can take to shut it down. It’s quite annoying. When it’s nice out and the FCD’s are wearing next to nothing, it can be trying. Hence I prefer the colder weather. Though, now, they are all wearing these yoga pants, which I cannot believe are legal. Some are so tight it leaves little to the imagination. So much for self-respect.

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Enough said

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[It’sallbsParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

Sex is an addiction no different from meth. Been monk 25+ years and don’t regret a minute of my liberation.

Actually it is different and I’ll explain why.

let’s take an alcohol addiction as an example.

Alcohol changes your mind and convinces your brain that your body needs alcohol to survive which is why withdrawal form alcohol is extremely dangerous and can kill you through heart attack or seizures.

Going cold turkey from TUNA won’t have physical symptoms and certainly won’t kill you.

Much of the sex addiction one notices today comes from social conditioning and a deliberate over sexualisation of society through film, education, music and advertising.

The dependence is pyschological not physical.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Christophe_1985Participant 72]

ForeverDone wrote:

Usually just go on OLD and find an FCD to entertain me. I’m 40 and my sex drive is higher now than it was 10 years ago. I wish there was a drug I can take to shut it down. It’s quite annoying. When it’s nice out and the FCD’s are wearing next to nothing, it can be trying. Hence I prefer the colder weather. Though, now, they are all wearing these yoga pants, which I cannot believe are legal. Some are so tight it leaves little to the imagination. So much for self-respect.

And after when you dare looking at these whores, they get angry… LOL

[Christophe_1985Participant 72]

Kaido wrote:

I don’t know if this happens with every MGTOW but for me I stopped giving a damn about it. Its a death trap and to be honest I find it gross. Why do I want to smell a woman’s ass and pussy in my face? Why do I even want to see a woman’s ass and pussy in the first place? Not to mention they stain everywhere when they are wet.

I know some MGTOWs still have sex, hell some are even married still. But to be safe than sorry I say monk mode is the best choice. You gain full control of yourself.

Plus the best thing about monk mode is seeing their reaction when you refuse them.

For that, it would mean that you can be attractive to some women…

I really would like not to think about sex anymore, but I just can’t !

Everytime I see a woman which I find attractive, I have sexual thoughts…

[Christophe_1985Participant 72]

PistolPete wrote:

Sex is an addiction no different from meth. Been monk 25+ years and don’t regret a minute of my liberation.

How did you achieve that ???

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Christophe_1985 wrote:

Hello everyone !

I was wondering, if you become MGTOW, it means that you have no sex life anymore ???

Or only with prostitutes ?

All the Best !

Christophe

When I read your title and post, I couldn’t help but think of that legendary quote from ‘The Room’.

To answer your question. Zero.

I used to be running around getting sex when/where I could. It cost me work-wise, financially, time-wise, and lost many friends as a result.

In hindsight, prostitution would have been a lot cheaper, and less hassle.

Since going MGTOW, I have no interest in a meathole. I would rather fap 2/3 times a week. In my opinion, any sexual interaction with a female is a liability, and just not worth the time/money/resources.

And btw… the most alone I ever felt, was when I was in a relationship.

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