What a Lunch I Just Had!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

It is essential that he knows you love him and find him a sane and special person in the world. He will need it when his girl starts to try to destroy him emotionally and mentally.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[EGParticipant 1853]

I’m so glad I never had this problem as a young man. Through the years I’d hear horror story after horror story from good guys about how f~~~ed-over they were by their ex wives. I was grateful. Not arrogant nor “proud”, but grateful this wasn’t ever going to be my problem. This is where I feel kinship with MGTOW: parallel paths. Life is better self-determined and lived on one’s own.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Hermit wrote:

I can kind of understand some of her frustration when my son says he’ll do something but it hasn’t gotten done for a month. Ok, but she doesn’t have to nag the poor kid to death.

That nagging is likely WHY he hasn’t gotten whatever it is done for a month.

Women have never figured out that nagging is actually a disincentive.

[HermitParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

Hermit wrote:

I can kind of understand some of her frustration when my son says he’ll do something but it hasn’t gotten done for a month. Ok, but she doesn’t have to nag the poor kid to death.

That nagging is likely WHY he hasn’t gotten whatever it is done for a month.
Women have never figured out that nagging is actually a disincentive.

That’s how I see it. The more someone bothers me about something, the longer it’s going to take.

I can’t stop saying this over and over, but I am so glad I live alone now.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Nagging is a negative one. Completing the task only ever gets you back to zero. Unless it’s a plus ten , never do what is asked.

Better yet just never deal with women.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[HermitParticipant]

Finally got to talk to my son last night. He felt better knowing that his mother, not him, is the one that is insane.

I’ve warned him all I can about the mistake he’s making getting married. He says I should feel confident that I’ve done all I can and if his marriage goes to sh!t, then it’s on him and not me. I told him that I’ve read countless stories just like his and they all go the same way, only with different levels of severity.

It’s his life to live his way. I’m not going to worry about it anymore. He asked me if I was coming to the wedding and I said that I hadn’t planned on it because I think it’s stupid, but if he really wanted me to be there, I’d force myself to go. So, I guess I have a damn wedding to attend in a year. The good thing is, a lot can happen in a year, so maybe she’ll turn before the wedding and he’ll see what she really is and it’ll all be over.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

At least he has a Dad who HE KNOWS he can talk to and that you have his back. That is a safety net in itself.
Sometimes, I see Men at the AA meetings who have been recovered many years but they are fretting hard over their college aged son/daughter who is clearly a total drunkard and needs to just stay dry.
And no one can help those people. Indeed, WE couldnt have been talked out of it either. We had to hit some bottoms.
But since he has a cool red pilled Dad, I think he will be alright.

[HermitParticipant]

Yeah, I made it clear to him last night that while I greatly disagree with his decision to get married, I love him and will be there for him if he needs me. Pretty sure we have a much better relationship than him and his mother.

When he called me last night the first thing he asked was “what’s goin’ on?”. I immediately told him how much I am enjoying the evening because I’m home alone and I don’t live with some woman who nags me and complains and…………… He laughed and told me that was good.

He’s doin’ pretty good, other than this marriage sh!t. He had a better start in life than I did. He’ll do well.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[MonkParticipant 16994]

Hermit wrote:

The good thing is, a lot can happen in a year, so maybe she’ll turn before the wedding and he’ll see what she really is and it’ll all be over.

Perhaps you could arrange for her to meet a better prospect.

Lateral thinking – work Briffaults Law to your advantage.

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