What a Lunch I Just Had!

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  • #902945
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    Hermit
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    My son plans on buying a place of his own very soon, but at the moment he’s still living with his mother. I went over there to have lunch and pick up a part for my lawnmower that my son ordered for me.

    The argument I witnessed between my son and my x took me back to a most miserable time when I was still married to her. The stupid remarks. The rolling of her eyes. The nagging. The childishness. It’s like I was watching myself fighting with my x. He was getting very aggravated over the exact same sh!t that used to cause me to become absolutely livid. Her behavior is so damn awful. She just kept nagging him and nagging him, making him feel like a piece of sh!t. I wanted so much to say something but I didn’t want to get in the middle of it.

    However, I couldn’t help it. I did get somewhat involved. At one point she looked at me as if I was supposed to side with her. My exact words were, “Don’t look at me….this is why I live alone so I don’t have to put up with this fuc.kin’ sh!t!”. I couldn’t just stand there and not defend my poor son. I looked at him and smiled and said, “I appreciate you…..thanks for getting this mower part for me.” I’m sure she’s not happy with me now, but who cares? I don’t live with the kunt anymore.

    I can kind of understand some of her frustration when my son says he’ll do something but it hasn’t gotten done for a month. Ok, but she doesn’t have to nag the poor kid to death. It’s a fuc.king light bulb that she can change herself. The way she talks to him, the same way she used to talk to me, it drives a man insane. Even if she has a point, she completely handles it in the worst way possible. She’s just a terrible person who is impossible to talk to about anything substantial. Once she gets started, she just keeps going and keeps bringing up sh!t and no matter what you say, she’ll keep fukking with you like she takes pleasure in making you angry, but then later she’ll b!tch because you got so angry.

    The last thing I said as I gave my son a hug before leaving, “There’s a light at the end of the tunnel….you’ll soon be moving out and you guys won’t have to deal with this anymore.” As I’m driving away I feel terrible for my son, but I’m also feeling great that I don’t live with that horrible woman anymore. I felt his frustration, because I dealt with it for over 20 years. There’s no reasoning with that woman. She’s right and you’re wrong and that’s that. She’s a perfect angel and you’re a bastard. No one can live with her, not even her own son.

    The next time I see him, I want to explain to him that even though he’s moving out and getting rid of one irritating woman, he’s still going to have another since he plans on getting married. “Yeah, but she’s different……”……….. I’m done trying to talk him out of getting married. It’s burn and learn time.

    Women are hateful, childish, self entitled, overly emotional and illogical. Living with a woman is misery. Living alone is beautiful. I can’t wait to get home after work today to my empty house, all alone and reflect on what I saw today and enjoy the peace and quiet that is my home. The only noises I hear at my house are the occasional rumble and horn from a distant train, the screech from a hawk, the snorting of a deer……pleasant sounds, not the irritating stupidity of a woman.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #902946
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    Colin Combover in a Coma
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    Get to the point, what did you have for lunch? Not what I have discussed in my last two poems I hope?

    “She’s just a terrible person”…..and yet you happily get a gobble off her.

    I can’t wait to be that fly on the wall on your judgment day.

    #902951
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    Gravel Pit
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    Women have been given way too much sway and power, its all gone to their head. I just stay the fvck away from them. Hopefully Ill be reborn in some other decade or century where women know how to keep their mouths shut and do what a man says.

    #902954
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    Colin Combover in a Coma
    Colin Combover in a Coma
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    5068

    Women have been given way too much sway and power, its all gone to their head. I just stay the fvck away from them. Hopefully Ill be reborn in some other decade or century where women know how to keep their mouths shut and do what a man says.

    Come join me when I regress back to the 8th century. Two Vikings repelling those cross bearing Anglo-saxons.

    #902960
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    Branched off
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    10933

    I think bitchy belittling and man shaming is the main way they can control a man’s actions. She is not sure how to get through to your son, so she just decides to make him feel small so he will comply. It works for a while usually but eventually a man says to himself “I don’t have to put up with this. I do not deserve it. What’s the worst she can do -get upset and man shame me? oh yeah she’s doing that already”

    A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

    #902970
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    Hermit
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    I think bitchy belittling and man shaming is the main way they can control a man’s actions. She is not sure how to get through to your son, so she just decides to make him feel small so he will comply. It works for a while usually but eventually a man says to himself “I don’t have to put up with this. I do not deserve it. What’s the worst she can do -get upset and man shame me? oh yeah she’s doing that already”

    Oh he’s definitely had enough and didn’t need me to stick up for him, but I still felt bad for him because of his frustration and I understood exactly how he felt. It took me way back and I got that sick feeling in my gut.

    Anyway, he was telling her how the cow ate the cabbage. He was yelling at her, telling her not to treat him that way. I believe his exact words were, “You’re talking to me like I’m a piece of sh!t son and I’m not and I want it to stop!” The bad thing is, it was doing him no damn good because she doesn’t believe she said anything wrong at all. It’s all his fault and he has a bad temper and he doesn’t appreciate her…… It was my marriage all over again right in front of me. She never listened to me and she never listens to him. It’s everyone else’s fault, not hers. She never does or says anything wrong.

    I can’t wait to get him alone so I can tell him that I understand and he will be better off when he’s away from her.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #902974
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    Ogre
    Ogre
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    5863

    So you had a huge red pill for lunch. The difference between you and your son is that you used to fight to get into her vagina and he was forced out.

    No woman will be any different once she feels ownership of a man. Feel free to quote me and extrapolate when you speak to him next about his little unicorn cupcake.

    Your ex wasn’t always that way. She was sweet, like cupcake. She gave, like cupcake. You wouldn’t have married the harpy she is, and he shouldn’t let cupcake move into his place for the bitch she’ll become.

    He needs to here now great your ex was in the days before you married. Perspective is everything.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #902981
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    Anonymous
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    Women are hateful, childish, self entitled, overly emotional and illogical. Living with a woman is misery. Living alone is beautiful.

    Yes. But unfortunately one has to go through the experience of living with a women to appreciate being alone.

    #902982
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    He needs to here now great your ex was in the days before you married. Perspective is everything.

    If he was receptive to advice, this would be good. Unfortunately, he’s now too far gone. He thinks he’s “in love”. He thinks he and she have so much in common that it’s all going to be kittens and cotton candy, even though they already fight and she p~~~es him off.

    It saddens me, but he will have to learn the hard way like I did. I just hope his divorce goes as easy as mine did.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #902983
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    Women are hateful, childish, self entitled, overly emotional and illogical. Living with a woman is misery. Living alone is beautiful.

    Yes. But unfortunately one has to go through the experience of living with a women to appreciate being alone.

    Yeah, like most things in life, it isn’t fair, is it……..

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #902986
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    Daryll55
    Daryll55
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    It was my marriage all over again right in front of me. She never listened to me and she never listens to him. It’s everyone else’s fault, not hers. She never does or says anything wrong.

    AWALT.
    My Ex was the cop-out Queen. She could be caught red-handed and it was someone elses fault!

    Glad that crap is all BEHIND ME.

    Good to see you truly appreciate your “Freedom”

    Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

    #902987
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    It was my marriage all over again right in front of me. She never listened to me and she never listens to him. It’s everyone else’s fault, not hers. She never does or says anything wrong.

    AWALT. My Ex was the cop-out Queen. She could be caught red-handed and it was someone elses fault!
    Glad that crap is all BEHIND ME.
    Good to see you truly appreciate your “Freedom”

    I’ve greatly appreciated it for over seven years now and there will never come a time when I don’t. It sure does make feel terrible for my son though. Seeing him go through that frustrating s~~~ with his mom…….it’ll be just as bad when he goes through it with his future wife.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #902988
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    BrainPilot
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    There was a time when women reciprocated those service acts provided by men with visible respect. Those days are long over. What you and your son have is a woman who will disrespect and criticize men UNTIL they give her or do for her whatever she wants.

    And once she has gotten from men whatever it is she wants:

    Silence. Nothing. No response. No reciprocity.

    Because in her mind, it wasn’t a gift to reciprocated with respect. It was a debt you paid that you owed her. Your ex wouldn’t know how to respect a man even if she chose to do so. She would have to learn that from example, and there are none left. None in the media. None in her social circle. Likely none in her family. And certainly none in our government.

    She clings to this strategy as tenaciously as she does because

    1) it has worked for her, at least of of the time on some of the men (those of you trapped in a marriage or in a house with her) and
    2) she likely knows NO OTHER strategy.

    When your son moves out, he should leave a cat.

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #902990
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    Swimcat
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    She’ll die alone and burn in hell.

    #902993
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    Puffin Stuff
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    You should feel guilty that you created their relationship by knocking up his mom. It’s ultimately our fault for knocking up harpies. I blame myself for marrying my son’s mom and saddling him with her.

    She was good in bed.

    #icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

    #903002
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    TaxGuy
    TaxGuy
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    He needs to here now great your ex was in the days before you married. Perspective is everything.

    If he was receptive to advice, this would be good. Unfortunately, he’s now too far gone. He thinks he’s “in love”. He thinks he and she have so much in common that it’s all going to be kittens and cotton candy, even though they already fight and she p~~~es him off.
    It saddens me, but he will have to learn the hard way like I did. I just hope his divorce goes as easy as mine did.

    Does your son know he’s marrying his mom? Because it sure sounds like it from here. It took me a long time to realize I recreated my parents’ relationship in my marriage. The main difference was the roles were reversed. My dad is the narc and my mom put up with his s~~~ all those years. My ex was the narc in our relationship.

    It’s a long hard road trying to get cupcake to give you what you didn’t get from one of your parents. And it almost never works. He won’t get from cupcake what he didn’t get from his mom if he marries the same personality.

    Order the good wine

    #903003
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    There was a time when women reciprocated those service acts provided by men with visible respect. Those days are long over. What you and your son have is a woman who will disrespect and criticize men UNTIL they give her or do for her whatever she wants.
    And once she has gotten from men whatever it is she wants:
    Silence. Nothing. No response. No reciprocity.
    Because in her mind, it wasn’t a gift to reciprocated with respect. It was a debt you paid that you owed her. Your ex wouldn’t know how to respect a man even if she chose to do so. She would have to learn that from example, and there are none left. None in the media. None in her social circle. Likely none in her family. And certainly none in our government.
    She clings to this strategy as tenaciously as she does because
    1) it has worked for her, at least of of the time on some of the men (those of you trapped in a marriage or in a house with her) and2) she likely knows NO OTHER strategy.
    When your son moves out, he should leave a cat.

    Actually, he says he’s taking the cat with him. She has an ugly little dog that she clings to though.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #903004
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    You should feel guilty that you created their relationship by knocking up his mom. It’s ultimately our fault for knocking up harpies. I blame myself for marrying my son’s mom and saddling him with her.
    She was good in bed.

    Sometimes I do.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #903019
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    Dark Kenshi
    Dark Kenshi
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    2132

    It is great to see that you are a good father, standing up for him when he needed.
    Too bad that he is not a great observer, though. But with time, he will realize that he is getting out of the pot to get into the prying pan, soon enough.

    And then he will remember those words you spoke during this lunch, Hermit. That kind of s~~~ tends to be ENGRAVED in our minds, and it comes back at full force, like a bitch, when we are knee deep into the same s~~~. It just takes time. Sometimes, a lot of time.
    Sure, his lil’cupcake will show her true colors with time, and he will realize that he has been played EXACTLY like you were, and that he is into the same place where you were some decades ago.

    We tend to marry someone alike our parents. May all the gods take care of your son, ’cause judging from your post, and this truth, he is going to need it.
    And be there for him when he fall from the horse. Many good man have been immolated by that situation.
    And I trust you that you will be there to pick up the pieces.

    Thank the gods for my father, he did the same for me, and I can only hope that I can repay him in some way, some time.

    "Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

    #903023
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    It is great to see that you are a good father, standing up for him when he needed.Too bad that he is not a great observer, though. But with time, he will realize that he is getting out of the pot to get into the prying pan, soon enough.
    And then he will remember those words you spoke during this lunch, Hermit. That kind of s~~~ tends to be ENGRAVED in our minds, and it comes back at full force, like a bitch, when we are knee deep into the same s~~~. It just takes time. Sometimes, a lot of time.Sure, his lil’cupcake will show her true colors with time, and he will realize that he has been played EXACTLY like you were, and that he is into the same place where you were some decades ago.
    We tend to marry someone alike our parents. May all the gods take care of your son, ’cause judging from your post, and this truth, he is going to need it.And be there for him when he fall from the horse. Many good man have been immolated by that situation.And I trust you that you will be there to pick up the pieces.
    Thank the gods for my father, he did the same for me, and I can only hope that I can repay him in some way, some time.

    I do wish he was more observant. I wish he could realize that if his own mother could treat him so badly, how much more so will it be with this girl? The anger and frustration he feels with his mother will most assuredly be greatly compounded with his wife.

    My dad was there for me as well. He helped me out with my new place when I moved, (got kicked out by my x), from my home. I hope my son comes to me and knows that I’ll be there for him when this kunt fukks him over.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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