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[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Carnage wrote:

Don’t marry.

Doctor recommendations.

HaHa, from now on I just will say,” sorry, can’t get married, doctors orders”.

[bstoffParticipant 4922]

Red-pill you brother-in-law before s~~~ gets out of hand and tell him you don’t want his wife to take away his freedom and independence.
Be the example of what a free man looks like.
It might at least make him aware of things that are going on so he can resist or work around the inevitable bulls~~~ she is going to dump on him.
If you’re bold you can let him know you will be there for him when the relations~~~ falls apart.

[JVBParticipant]

Give it a few short years bro. All of them will want your life. This they will admit in jest yet mean 100%

Peace is > piece.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

I’m in a similar position – I have a niece and nephew through my sister. Wait until your late 30s – you will appreciate your freedom. When you feel like playing father for the day you can. A few hours later, you can’t wait to leave.

As a youngish professional, with no debts and a paid off house, I have the ability to do what I want, when I want. Beside work obligations I am free and would not change that for the world.

I use the rent it is cheaper then owning it mentality with relationships. I like to casually date but my ejection handle is on a hair trigger. When you don’t pussy pander and you truly do not give a f~~~ sex falls from the sky with late 20 somethings.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Thanks for the replies fellas, was feeling down yesterday and needed to get that out. I’m not going to let my brother be taken out of my life and I’ve told him before that he’ll always have a place to stay if he needs it.

My desire for my freedom and own life is much stronger than any feelings towards having a wife and family.

Hope you all have a great weekend, I know I will

[CaregiverParticipant 101]

Samsquanch wrote:

What p~~~ed me off most though, is that I thought:
“Everyone else is moving on in their lives, having kids, starting families etc. I feel left behind.” Even though I know damn well I don’t want kids or a wife.

We all have felt similar emotions. I remember when I applied to several universities after high school. I was rejected by every single college, while my friends got into their favorite schools. I felt so depressed for about 2-3 weeks. I felt inferior to my friends. Nevertheless, I snapped out of it, and created a plan. I attended a community college and then transferred to a top school in San Diego, California. I ended up saving thousands of dollars as well.

The point is to figure out a plan.

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