Well, it's happening

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I became an uncle back in March. No kids of my own, and when I get to see the little guy it makes my day. He always cracks a huge smile when he sees me and it fills my soul. My sister and brother in law were the first in the family to have a kid. Not surprising that when my sister in law heard the announcement, she got pregnant shortly afterwards.

My brother in law and I would hang out a couple times a month. Drink, smoke, eat and have a good conversation with each other. Since the baby, naturally he doesn’t have much free time on his hands and we haven’t hung out since March. Which is fine, I know he has much more important things to do than kill brain cells with me.

I don’t have any friends outside of my family, haven’t really had a close one in 6+ years so it was nice to hang out with my brother in law. Just like with women, I’ve had too many s~~~ty experiences with past friends, who weren’t my friends at all.

My brother and I would do the same thing about once every month or two. Hang out, drink, smoke, good conversation.

Well today I ask my brother what he’s doing this weekend and if he wanted to hang out, buy some beer and smoke.

“Well the wife wants me to cut back on drinking and smoking for a while.”

Even though I knew this was coming, my heart still sunk after he said it. I know we can still hang out without the booze and drugs, but my sister in law knows my lifestyle, my view on women, what I’m all about. I figured my bro and me still had a few years before she started to drive the wedge between us.

What p~~~ed me off most though, is that I thought:
“Everyone else is moving on in their lives, having kids, starting families etc. I feel left behind.” Even though I know damn well I don’t want kids or a wife.

The mental programming that started when I was a kid is a motherf~~~er to overcome.

[Anonymous 13]

You won’t feel so left behind when one by one those friends and families’ marriages crumble and the man is invariably divorce raped, with little to no contact with his children that he still has to pay for.

As predictable as the sunrise.

You’re free of the s~~~ vortex.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Samsquanch wrote:

What p~~~ed me off most though, is that I thought:
“Everyone else is moving on in their lives, having kids, starting families etc. I feel left behind.” Even though I know damn well I don’t want kids or a wife.

The mental programming that started when I was a kid is a motherf~~~er to overcome.

I suspect that tendency is coded into humans from evolutionary biology. If conditions are prosperous enough for some to start having kids, others will join in. There are reasons why women’s periods get coordinated if they live in the same room. There are reasons why more girls are born than boys when there is greater deprivation, and why a thriving household is more likely to have boys. Reasons for all kinds of s~~~. Those reasons made sense to Mother Nature back when we were just animals scrapping along in the jungle or savannah but not much sense in modern times.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

This will only get worse as time goes on my brother packed up and moved away from us to a new province when is son was born I now only get to see him and my nephew on Skype once a month if I am lucky. Your own sister will view your lifestyle as a threat now and try to distance herself and her family from you just be ready for it. The best thing you can do is look out for yourself and help your nephew out if they still plan on sticking around your area.

[Anonymous 12]

You unplugged.

Anyone left behind in the matrix will sooner or later become a stranger to you, a distant memory of years past.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

If you’re that worried about it try meetup sites and look for stuff you’re interested in doing and join one of those meetups to make new friends. Unless you’re anti-social, that is. Sure there are women there but it’s something. Maybe you’ll find a fellow MGTOW or red-pilled dude.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Samsquanch wrote:

“Everyone else is moving on in their lives, having kids, starting families etc. I feel left behind.” Even though I know damn well I don’t want kids or a wife.

Wait until the divorces hit.

And they will.

You’re moving on in your life just like they are. And when you see your brother post-divorce you’ll be thankful your life moved in a different direction than his.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

You unplugged.

Anyone left behind in the matrix will sooner or later become a stranger to you, a distant memory of years past.

Most of the people I know are strangers at this point. I unfriended so many people on facebook and my list keeps getting shorter every week. I deleted instagram, I’m barely hanging on with twitter. I don’t go out much, don’t really have lengthy conversations with people I know in a public setting… I have maybe a couple people I talk to on the phone…

[WallyParticipant]

The feelings are tough to overcome, you think they are moving on but in reality you are ahead and they are moving backward. Your brother and brother in law are being reigned in, it’s textbook.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

The mental programming was hard for me to overcome too.

Until the only woman I ever loved started coming home with other guy’s loads running down her leg.

At that point:

DEPROGRAMMED

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Samsquanch wrote:

What p~~~ed me off most though, is that I thought:
“Everyone else is moving on in their lives, having kids, starting families etc. I feel left behind.” Even though I know damn well I don’t want kids or a wife.

This is a natural reaction. I have felt it. Everyone feels it; but, what we have to realize is that your brother or anyone on the other side of the fence, is thinking in jealousy –

“Damn, I wish I was single and could do whatever the f~~~ I wanted!”

Resident cynic.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Samsquanch wrote:

“Everyone else is moving on in their lives, having kids, starting families etc. I feel left behind.”

That is how I felt before MGTOW, but now I realize……..

Samsquanch wrote:

No kids of my own, and when I get to see the little guy it makes my day

^^^ That is the best part^^^ Spoil the kids and give them back to the parents!!!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I was a happy go lucky 30 year old single professional in LA and I dated up a storm with the “I want to land a man, late 20 something females”.

Everything was great, I was in a band, I was having a great time then…I got the baby rabies.

I got a terrible case because a woman I had lived with had a young daughter and I fell in love with her and when her mom left me I was heart broken.

So I wanted to find someone that I knew I’d stay together with and who I knew for at least a few years.

Four years later, at 37, my son was born.

What a f~~~ing disaster. His mom left when he was 9 months and I got 50/50 after 9 years of fighting and 300K in lawyers fees just on my side.

The divorce and custody fight severely affected my son who was pretty f~~~ed up from 14 until 18. We are just starting to rebuild a relationship.

Think about that carnage and what it will do to your children then stop being selfish and wanting to add to earths human burden. lol.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[X11Spectator 4520]

I used to feel bad about not having a social circle and never being invited to dinner parties etc. I worked on improving myself and now feel arrogant and superior to those same people.

[MonkParticipant 17038]

Samsquanch wrote:

My sister and brother in law were the first in the family to have a kid. Not surprising that when my sister in law heard the announcement, she got pregnant shortly afterwards.

Jealousy. ‘Look at meeee!’.

“Well the wife wants me to cut back on drinking and smoking for a while.”

She’s got her meal ticket, so now the screw begins to turn.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

As a doctor I’m happy he stops smoking. You should stop too.
Cut the drugs also.
And lower the drinking.
Don’t marry.

Doctor recommendations.
Hahahaha

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 18]

Hey man,

Just my 2 cents. The MGTOW path is harder. We can use euphemisms of blue pillers being delusional and all – but deep down we all know that blue pillers want to believe in the fantasies gynocentric society sells to trap them. The alternative is a tough road and at times painful for a man in his prime.

Just remember (thanks for Old Bill’s wisdom):

Pain of discipline >> pain of regret.

This is discipline. Keep at it.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Show me a happy man and I will show you a bachelor.

[BushidoParticipant 637]

Samsquanch wrote:

“Well the wife wants me to cut back on drinking and smoking for a while.”

On one hand, yes, there are certainly some benefits to cutting back on alcohol and tobacco. I personally use neither, but I let people live their own lives.

On the other hand, this is the first inch of female claws that will give unprecedented control over his life if he fails to see it…and it’s clearly too late.

Do what you can to stand by him and make DAMN SURE you are not taken out of his life. At the very least, offer him an escape valve from what’s coming.

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

[Anonymous 3]

Your not being left behind your ahead of the curve.
Your decisions are the future. MGTOW is the future

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