but no one ever backs me up or helps me.
That’s part of being a man. There is no “umbrella” above you when the s~~~ comes down.
You know what it’s like to be an “employee”. You go to work, you do your thing , you get paid and everything trickles DOWN to you. But when you’re the CEO, everyone is looking for something FROM you. Nobody gives you anything or props you up because you’re the apex. You’re THE back up for others, and you don’t get to expect back up. Nobody has your back, because you’re supposed to have theirs.
First rule of leadership — >> EVERYTHING is YOUR fault.
Including the actions of your subordinates.
So would you rather be the CEO…… or the subordinate?
If I could explain in some way what this f~~~ing c~~~ put me through, its like being psychologically waterboarded 24/7. It just never ended. Day after day after day after day after day after day.
Nobody can drive you crazy if you don’t give them the keys.
There was another/better way to handle all of this.
I have had EXACTLY the same kind of rage fest and have been brought to the boiling point. I once lived downstairs from a group of inconsiderate f~~~s who were bouncing a basketball upstairs. It was like being under a gymnasium floor. I lost my s~~~ so badly, I marched upstair and banged on their door with my fist as hard as I could without breaking it.
Dude was about 19-21 and opened the door with fire shooting out of his eyes, as if to say “who the f~~~ are you!”
“Oh I’m sorry. Was I making too much noise?”
And that was the end of that.
You can go to a limit, but destroying property to make a point is going too far. P~~~ them off more if you want. You can annoy the s~~~ out of someone by simply clicking a pen in a meeting. Find another way to make your point.
A woman is playing psychological warfare with you? Use her own weaponry against her and win. What you’re doing is fighting a ground battle with a fighter jet.
Men use fists, guns, bombs and knives to neutralize a threat.
Women use social manipulation, backstabbing and ostracizing from a group.
You don’t “fight” a woman and hurt her the same way you fight a man. It doesn’t do enough damage. You want to f~~~ with her head and destroy her from the INSIDE – which is how she “fights” with you. You will never get even (or win) with a woman by destroying property or going into a violent rage. She is not even trying to do that to you! She wants to make you go mental. So you use the same weaponry to defend yourself.
IGNORE.
Nothing is more devastating to her than being ignored. You don’t even need to do anything! She will drive herself right out of her f~~~ing mind. When you allow her to “drive you crazy”… she “wins”.
I will try other tactics next time, if theres anext time, just like you said.
I really did have a s~~~ load of steam to blow off tho, and i felt a good release after i walked off from smashing her window. I’d been pushed too far for too long.
I’ve just been told that its been 5 months that ive put up with that bitch. Thats 5 months of restraining myself, until i smashed her window.
How long would you guys of lasted out of curiosity? I know most of you wouldn’t have done what i did, butr how long until you either packed your s~~~ and bailed?
Dashing Young Dissident 3 years, 1 month ago.
