Well, I think I am screwed

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  • #678447
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    OldBill pretty much nailed it, but I will definitely agree the most important thing you can do is control the anger. I say this as a guy who couldn’t do it myself. It only made things worse. Good luck brother, and vent anytime.

    The answer, is no.

    #678477
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    OldBill
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    Jesus, I didn’t even think about that….

    That’s why we’re here, brother.

    Collectively, we’ve either seen or been damaged by every trick women have in their evil little playbook. If you post about some puzzling behavior or a baffling s~~~ test, there’s a great chance some brother here will say “I’ve seen that before…” and post their hard earned advice.

    You ex is attacking you. It’s only a matter of time before your girlfriend shows her solidarity to the Hive and piles on.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #678479
    Badger
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    I hope that any man contemplating marriage reads this and realizes what can and most likely will happen to him if they do.

    #678505
    Narwhal
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    Ah, so I’m guessing that your ex didn’t start claiming child abuse until after GF got in the picture? Your little boy came back to mommy talking about how great GF is….and mommy CANNOT have that.

    I would bet money that Mom is afraid she’s going to lose control of the child. She’s remarried now, so if she can just get you out of the picture, and the competition mommy out of the way, then she have the perfect life she always wanted.

    I would say that if you manage to purge the GF, you kill two birds with one stone. I doubt it though, the seed has already been planted. It can’t hurt though, and she be not quite as urgent to push you out of the picture. Follow your lawyer’s advice. Don’t make this easy for her.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #678538
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    Anonymous
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    Did not think about that…

    Then Think ten times worse of them, and you might scratch the surface.
    King Air´s can operate on one engine alone in case of need.
    Do you have a spare life?

    #678579

    It’s standard operating procedure for women to accuse their ex of enough crimes to get him three life sentences. Then they’ll try to get you to accept a plea bargain, and, in many cases, your own lawyer will recommend you do so. I would strongly advise against this. If you’re not guilty, say so. In civil court they have to prove you’re guilty.

    Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

    #678836
    DorkShit
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    As a man, we are the problem. We all are guilty.

    If you are not found guilty this time you will the next time.

    Your son is not your son anymore.

    The reality is a harsh reality. One allegation. If not this one then the next one.

    You can not negotiate with someone that wants to murder you and has the weapon loaded and is pulling the trigger.

    You can fight but you will not win.

    One allegation by any woman anytime any place.

    It ain’t just you. It’s all men. Wake up. Watch the news.

    When you interact with a woman watch out. When you procreate with one you have entered the world of crazy. One crazy and you die. Period.

    You are an unfit man. You are an unfit father. As are all of us that are trying to talk sense into men.

    Gentlemen, it is game over. Our children are not ours.

    Peace brothers

    #678853
    Ghost
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    Gentlemen, it is game over. Our children are not ours.

    Sorry, but I am not going to agree with this defeatist mentality.

    Why are you trying to give men more anxiety than they already have? You should encourage them to maintain their faith and fight back against any wrongdoing or false accusations.

    I am sure you mean well, but I just don’t think this is going to help a bunch of the men here who have been worried because of what they are seeing on the news.

    We need to stand our ground and fight back. My ancestors did not die for me to lay the f~~~ down. I will continue to encourage men here to keep their dick up.

    #679008
    Anonymousyam
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    Long story short, I am being falsely accused of child abuse. It’s a ploy to carve me out of my kids’ life.

    That is the bitches plan to begin with as it helps in divorce to make the claim.

    It does not matter if you win or lose you will spend possibly hundreds of thousands or even a few million dollars to fight the claim over many years so if you lose you have just wasted so much goddamn money and if you win who again knows what the f~~~ will happen to you. In the end you might just waste a few hundred grand and get supervised visitation with your kids once a month.

    In the end it is just one big s~~~ test against you and to win at this s~~~ test (it might be too late for you i do not know) is to state to your ex that you could not give a f~~~ about seeing your kids or what happens to them as women prey on your attachment to the kids to manipulate you. It is getting you hooked on a drug then taking it away from you and you must realize that.

    You must become content with the reality being you might never see your kids again and even thou while it will hurt for a while you just stop giving a f~~~ and get on with your personal mission (living life how you want to.

    And as a final thing (just my opinion) is that you should not care about the charges unless they risk imprisoning you. If these charges will throw you in prison then fight them to the death.

    We spent 3 hours in court to have a 6-minute say where the commissioner said “everything continues as it is”

    You just wasted 3 hours of your life to be f~~~ed over in 6. You could have been doing something better for yourself in that 3 hour time.

    anyway. I worry about what harm is being to him while he’s away from me, what’s being told to him, is she brainwashing him, etc.

    Kids are the biggest ones open to brainwashing thereby it is far likely to be happening and you must accept it (it is not that you enjoy it or would like it but rather it is happening and the system gives you no choice to stop it).

    The thing however is the hope that one day your kid will see through the brainwashing over time and continue onto his own personal mission in life as he gets older. Hopefully he will see that his mom is a worthless c~~~ however he now has his plans and his s~~~ he needs to get done thereby living the life to the best of his ability (the bulls~~~ he went through made him stronger).

    Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

    #679316
    Beast05
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    You are far from screwed. My ex tried to do the same thing to me but I beat her to the punch. She told me that her attorney told her to make that type of accusation. I immediately called the sheriffs office and told them that I might be falsely accused of child abuse. It worked.

    When you get this behind you, please file charges for false reporting on your STBX. Even if it doesn’t go anywhere, a police report will help you in divorce.

    #687983
    Fixthem_flythem
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    Update: Went and saw the county head shrinker the other week. Guess who is TOTALLY NORMAL? This will be added to the evidence pile along with other things corroborating my side of the story.

    FWIW, we are already divorced, have been for over a year. We live in separate houses in different counties. She’s remarried, I am not. Most everyone I have talk to including Law Enforcement and a former CPS friend of mine said they wouldn’t touch this complaint with a 10 foot pole.

    Assuming this whole thing goes away, I have been advised to seek a couple courses of action against her. Since I had to take the day off from work, I figure I might as well spend it at the court house carrying out said advice.

    If it floats, flies, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent....

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