Watching a trainwreck

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I think you already know that there isn’t much you can do except be there for him. I speak from experience on both sides. I’ve been in your brother’s shoes and I’ve been in yours.

He is getting his oxytocin fix from his ex GF and he’s too blind to see that she could easily attempt to ruin his life again. He’s lost.

Just keep feeding him red pills consistently but not to the point where he becomes resistant. Good luck.

#MANOUT

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

When trains come you get out the way! If those around don’t heed the warning pity them for being roadkill. SAVE YOURSELF!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

your brother doesn’t realize it, but he is communicating a message to this girl that is not going to serve his interests well. She tried to have him jailed. That act sends a message about her perception of his value, and his place relative to hers in their interactions together. She communicated a message with that act. When he continues to interact with her after that act, he is also communicating a message. Wether he intends to or not, the message he has communicated to her is that her behavior is acceptable. He has communicated to her that any of her bad behaviors up to and including having him jailed, is not grounds for him to abandon her. It is acceptable and agreeable to him.

Now, in reality, it may not actually acceptable and agreeable to him. But he has communicated to her that it is. Her future behavior is going to be based on her perceptions, not his. She perceives that he agrees with her assessment of his value and his place in the interactions between them.

With his behavior, he has communicated this to her wether he ever intended to or not.

If she succeeds in having him jailed, and he actually does abandon her for doing so, she will be surprised. And she should be, because he will have misled her about what is acceptable. Perhaps you can explain this to him: how this looks from HER perspective. (How HE HAS MADE THIS APPEAR TO HER)

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 3]

If people react comparing the past with the present then they are gullible. A woman just has to say she was wrong, she is sorry, do some hugging, kissing and everything is OK.
A man reacting to NOW is a puppet in the hands of cunning females.

But if a man reacts to the past as an example for future actions, he makes the intelligent choices.

Forgiveness of evil deeds is necessary for our peace of mind, but forgetting only brings more evil.

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