Watching a trainwreck

[Truth-seeking-missileParticipant 97]

Hi all, I am posting this as a way to vent or just do a general crazy check. For some background, my brother slightly younger went thru a bad breakup last year. His long time gf cheated and ran off with a car he bought her. I’ve been subtly dropping red pills and he seems to be pretty agreeable to it. However, the thing I can’t seem to understand he is hanging out with a different old gf who called the cops on him for DV which he luckily got out of due to witnesses. I worry a lot about him but he says its under control. He tells me they are not dating and not having sex but she is just coming around. I feel uneasy being around her because I already know what’s she capable of as evidenced by her old behavior. How can I illustrate this to my brother. I feel like this situation is a goddamn time bomb. Thoughts? Experiences? Thanks in advance my other brothers.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Unfortunately, your brother hasn’t experienced enough pain to face reality and take the red pill. Take care of yourself, and be available if/when he’s ready. If you haven’t posted an intro, please do so.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[BubParticipant 1410]

“One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.”

Just rolling down the road

[JVBParticipant]

That’s all you can do bro. You sound like a good brother. Continue to be so. As JB mentioned that day will come.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 1]

It is sad, but your Brother is headed for a disaster. There is nothing you can do to help him. You may want to consider distancing yourself from this disaster because you don’t want to get caught up in this train wreck either.

[Branched offParticipant 10967]

That sounds like a bad situation your brother is in. I am sorry. You have done just about as much as you can. All you can do is be there for him and keep reminding him subtly that he is wasting his time and taking a big risk having this bad news ex around.

If he is not having sex with her what is doing for him? How exactly is she helping him move on? Is she actually a dangerous parasite? If he is having sex with her then he is crazy as she will probably end up putting him in jail for something he never did.

Don’t however overdo it. If he starts to argue his case just say “Ok that is how you see it. I won’t quarrel over it” Don’t give him someone to try to prove wrong, just keep whispering the seed of truth in his ear. One day it may fall on fertile ground.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[TicParticipant 4329]

JB Books wrote:

Unfortunately, your brother hasn’t experienced enough pain to face reality and take the red pill. Take care of yourself, and be available if/when he’s ready. If you haven’t posted an intro, please do so.

Which is crazy because that’s a whole lot of red pills. He must have high c~~~ tolerance. Well, my mom used to say ” your head has to hit a hard rock so that you learn your lesson”.

Let him learn on his own. There is absolutely no other way. If you push too hard, ‘he ll initially resent you.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Two thoughts:

Blood is thicker than water, and bro’s before ho’s.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

You can expose a Man to the Red Pill, but YOU can’t make him assimilate it.

Your brother says that they’re just hanging out or whatever, and they probably are just hanging out, but with women and blue pill programming it doesn’t take much for one thing to lead to the next.

The blue pill is still strong with your brother because he doesn’t see the obvious red flags of befriending some old Ho that already tried to get him incarcerated.

All you can do is continue to drop Red Pills, but ALL THE REST IS UP TO HIM.

You CAN’T BE Your Brother’s Keeper…..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

It is sad, but your Brother is headed for a disaster. There is nothing you can do to help him. You may want to consider distancing yourself from this disaster because you don’t want to get caught up in this train wreck either.

THIS^^^

Some men are beyond help no matter how much “pain” they endured in the past. You need to keep your distance. Women will target a man’s friends and relations as well. You don’t need that kind of liability…

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Bub wrote:

“One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.”

Aye Aye Sir! 100% Compliance

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22543]

Some guys like being blue pillers.

Some blue pill guys also after many, many, many hard expensive lessons, figure out the reality of their situation and become awake and say, no more, not for me.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

Hi all, I am posting this as a way to vent or just do a general crazy check. For some background, my brother slightly younger went thru a bad breakup last year. His long time gf cheated and ran off with a car he bought her. I’ve been subtly dropping red pills and he seems to be pretty agreeable to it. However, the thing I can’t seem to understand he is hanging out with a different old gf who called the cops on him for DV which he luckily got out of due to witnesses. I worry a lot about him but he says its under control. He tells me they are not dating and not having sex but she is just coming around. I feel uneasy being around her because I already know what’s she capable of as evidenced by her old behavior. How can I illustrate this to my brother. I feel like this situation is a goddamn time bomb. Thoughts? Experiences? Thanks in advance my other brothers.

Truth, there is one thing YOU need to learn. That lesson being, you cannot fix stupid. If you try to fix stupid, stupid is going to drag you down with him.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

Ranger One wrote:

Blood is thicker than water, and bro’s before ho’s.

From personal experience, every single man whom spoke of that rule broke that rule within a week of uttering that rule.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I don’t know, it’s your brother. I’d make him really explain to me what’s worth it to hang out with this chick. Make him do a cost/benefit analysis. The potential is ending up in jail. She’s already tried it once and lied about it. That’s not one strike, that’s two. Ask him what his breaking point will be. Does he have to go to jail before he extracts her permanently from his life? Does he want to marry her? If not then she’s holding him back from finding his true love (I know, but he’s blue pill). What if he misses out on meeting the love of his life because he’s hanging out with her. Would that be worth it?

You’re either moving forward in life or backward. Hanging out with her is moving backward and it’s keeping him from living the best life he can.

That’s a tough spot to be in. Good luck.

Order the good wine

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Do you still have a copy of that DV?

Maybe show it to him, and remember hin that next time that she tries to pull that move, there could be no witnesses around, and he will spend a season in jail… If that does not Wake him up, then nothing will, only prison.

And if that is the case, let it happen, just put some distance from the situation first, to make sure that you will not be dragged down with them. And be there for him. You seem like a good brother. Keep being like that.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[Daryll55Participant 2953]

I’ll offer a different approach because you really seem to care about yer BRO.
First the facts:
He’s hangin’ with an old GF — BAD NEWS
He knows what she is capable of (That DV issue) — BAD VNEWS
WHY is he hangin’ with this female? (you need to find that out)
He’s blue-pill….. he’s in denial over her and won’t listen. So he’s either not trusting your judgement, is extremely stupid, or cares to live life a little “wild” (knowing her demeanor yet still being around like an arsonist after a set fire.)

ONE thing left: If you know someone in a similar situation as him, let him see up close how they are going thru hell. That might wake him up.
Otherwise just leave him be, give him space, and be there for him when the S**T hits the fan.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[MonkParticipant 17026]

Truth-seeking-missile wrote:

How can I illustrate this to my brother. I feel like this situation is a goddamn time bomb. Thoughts?

He’s on a suicide mission and you can’t stop him. If he survives his next encounter with THE ONE PHONE CALL, you might help to pick up the pieces if you feel so inclined.

In the meantime, keep away, because now that she is in resource acquisition mode, she may lash out at anyone she sees as a threat – YOU for instance.

[Anonymous 18]

Sex while in blue pill mindset is like drunk driving.

You can’t stop the person from drinking or driving.

Call yourself a cab and sit this one aside.

Having a brother that is your true blood going through the cuckery is a painful process. But men who abandon self-preservation for good sex can’t be reasoned with.

It’s not your battle.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Oh they are not having sex? Yea… And I’m REALLY SANTA CLAUS. Carnage is St. Nick. And I have some land on Mars to sell ya. GOOD PRICE TOO!.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

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